Kola (29) and Peju (26) met through friends after the lockdown ended in 2020. On this week’s Love Life, they talk about slowly transitioning out of a situationship, lying to Peju’s parents about cohabitating and their shared phobia for formal commitment and parenting.

Ajoke, 28, & Solomon, 25, have been dating for three years. In today's #ZikokoLoveLife, they talk about being coursemates, becoming friends with benefits & being in a relationship where they’re both allowed to date & have sex with other people. Read here:

I like the idea of phone sex because I often find myself pitying long-distance couples. If you spend hours talking on the phone with your partner, have virtual dates and parties on Zoom, should phone sex seem that weird?

Cynthia*, 30, and Ezinne*, 29, have been dating for six months. In today’s #ZikokoLoveLife, they talk about getting in touch after reading each other’s stories on Zikoko and falling for each other despite being married. Read here

Cynthia, 26, and Tomiwa, 30, finally started dating after nine months of being in the talking stage. In today’s #ZikokoLoveLife, they talk meeting at work, considering getting in a relationship for the amount of time it takes some women to produce babies (nine months) and learning to understand each other better. Read here:

No child ever wants to visualise their parents as sexual beings, but what happens when you accidentally catch them having sex? These seven Nigerians share with us how they felt when they caught their parents having sex.  “They’ve unknowingly scarred me for life” It happened when I was 10 years old. I was watching this […]

It is only in Nollywood movies that they will pound you like yam and your make-up will still remain intact. Here are 9 unrealistic things you will encounter in Nollywood sex scenes

The subject of today’s What She Said is a 19-year-old who talks about various times she’s been assaulted, and how she feels liking sex invalidates her assault.

Navigating life as a woman in the world today is interesting. From Nigeria to Timbuktu, it’ll amaze you how similar all our experiences are. Every Wednesday, women the world over will share their experiences on everything from sex to politics right here. This is Zikoko’s What She Said. The subject of today’s What She Said is a 23-year-old […]

Chinasa, 26, and Ugo, 30, started having sex while they were in relationships with other people. Today on #LoveLife, they talk about coming together only to break-up, and the ways they have grown individually and as a couple.