Debo* was Bola’s* older cousin and closest friend. When Debo’s mum — Bola’s favourite aunt — died, they both had different responses to the loss, and their relationship never recovered from it. Here’s Bola’s story:
Sometimes, you’re the problem
Have you ever considered the fact that “truth or dare” is the perfect game for when you want to know someone’s true intentions? Try out these unconventional questions to really know who you’re dating and elevate date night.
Pick a day this week, and try one of these 9 virtual date ideas with a friend you haven’t seen in a while. Being in different countries or cities doesn’t mean you have to lose your friendship.
“For someone nick-named baby elephant as an overweight kid, I was quite a picky eater. But no one talks about how falling in love can change what we’re willing to eat.” Here, Ortega shares how loving Akinola* made her try shawarma, and maybe one day, amala.
The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 29-year-old man who’s spent most of his sexual life making up for not knowing women could have orgasms. He talks to us about researching how to be a better partner and how he thinks he’s all sexed out.
Either you keep the secret, or you tell your partner and let the relationship suffer the consequences
Alex* had bumped into Femi* at every summer lesson they attended. So, it was natural they became friends. From friends, they started dating. Now, they haven’t spoken in years. Here’s Alex’s story:
Tobi* loved their dad. They were the best of friends and did everything together. But things changed and they started to fight too much, until Tobi felt the only solution was to put as much distance between them as possible.
If you’ve never kissed anyone before, or you just want to be a better kisser, then these tips will change your life
What if we told you that you can find out if a man is good in bed just by looking at the type of underwear he wears?
In 2021, this 29-year-old freelance writer recovered from a gambling addiction with the help of his lover. One year later, how is he managing a long-distance relationship with a single mother on a ₦300k salary?
Stop fake-smiling. That birthday gift wasn’t really what you wanted. You may hesitate to call people out on getting you gifts you don’t want, but here are 10 things to do so you never receive a bad birthday gift again.
The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 31-year-old man battling a masturbation addiction. He talks about his journey from hating masturbation to doing it multiple times a day, discovering he had premature ejaculation and breaking his addiction.
Amaka* and Sade* were bunkmates, best friends and, to some people, sisters. Throughout their secondary school years, they took care of one another, but their friendship took a turn after graduation when Amaka* realised just how rich her friend was
“What will remain if you’re doing multiple ₦40k dates in a month? How much is my salary?”
Fiyin, 25, and Jide, 27, have been dating for three months. In #ZikokoLoveLife, they talk about meeting through a mutual friend, the fight that made them stop talking for six months and the journey to finding each other again.
How long are you allowed to go without talking to your partner before it becomes an issue? You’d be surprised at these answers.
Omotola* and Tunde* dated for four years. It was her first relationship and she considered him the love of her life. In this article, she talks about their relationship, how they transitioned to friends and why she can never talk to him again. Here’s her story:
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