The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 26-year-old heterosexual woman whose obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) has affected her ability to have sex, explore and maintain romantic relationships.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 27-year-old heterosexual man who has been polyamorous for about 2 years. He talks about dating multiple women at once, his insatiable sexual appetite and his adventurous streak. What was your first sexual experience? Does kissing count as a “sexual experience”? I suppose it should, right?  Yeah, I […]

Today’s Sex Life features a cam girl who has learned a lot about sex, her body and how to make money supporting clients during the coronavirus pandemic.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 31-year-old queer man living with HIV. He talks about how it affected his relationship and why he now chooses to disclose his status to potential sexual partners. What was your first sexual experience? I was in JSS 1 when it first happened. I had just gotten into […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 26-year-old woman who was having sex very actively before marriage. She’s been married for a year and has not had sex with her husband since their wedding.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 31-year-old heterosexual man who has slept with over 300 women. He talks about regretting the unbelievable number and the stories behind a lot of the encounters. What was your first sexual experience? I don’t know if this counts, but the maid used to make me sleep with […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a woman in her 40s who has been divorced three times. She talks about how not using protection and the lack of safe clinics for abortion in Nigeria affected her Sex Life.

The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 30-year-old bisexual woman who discovered BDSM in her early 20s and has vowed never to have any other kind of sex.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 28-year-old woman who mentally and physically prepared for her first sexual experience with her husband by reading books and using aphrodisiacs like Kayan Mata.


The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 26-year-old woman who waited till marriage to have sex for several reasons which include religion, her size and the fact that she was sexually abused by her aunty for years as a child.

Today’s subject is a 33-year-old gay man who didn’t have sex for years after getting kito-ed.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 40-year-old woman who didn’t have sex until she got married. She’s been with her husband for 20 years and has never enjoyed sex. Now she looks forward to divorcing him and exploring sex outside of marriage.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 28-year-old heterosexual man who spent the better part of his 20s travelling around Nigeria for sex. After being with about 60 women, he says he’s finally found peace in monogamy. What was your first sexual experience? The memory is pretty vague, but when I was younger, someone who […]

The subject of today’s sex life is a bisexual woman in her early 30’s who almost gave up on sex after being blackmailed with a sex tape.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 27-year-old heterosexual woman living with vaginismus, a condition that makes it impossible for her to have penetrative sex, undergo a gynaecological exam or even insert a tampon. What was your first sexual experience? I remember being molested when I was 5 years old. My parents weren’t living […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 24-year-old woman who prefers older men as sex partners because she doesn’t rate sex with men her age.  When did you have sex for the first time? I was 15 and it was with a guy in my secondary school. We did it at a birthday party. […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 33-year-old gay man, who started out dating only women until he was 20.

Today’s subject is a 24-year-old asexual young woman who only came to accept her asexuality recently.

Today’s subject is a 26-year-old heterosexual woman who originally planned to remain a virgin until marriage. Then she lost her leg to cancer and decided that life was too short to wait.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 23-year-old who genuinely enjoys sex. She’s gone from exploring sex with multiple partners to being in a committed relationship, to deciding to never have sex again after two pregnancy scares.

Today’s subject is a 32-year-old heterosexual man who got married a few months ago. He talks about the loss of sexual excitement after getting married, his Madonna-whore complex and his disdain for open marriages.

Today’s subject is a 24-year-old bisexual Muslim woman. She takes us from Paris to Lagos and Abuja, through her search for girls in a homophobic community and her experiences with boys who refuse to follow instructions. When did you first get curious about sex? The first memory that comes to mind right now is when […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 25-year-old heterosexual woman who recently discovered the joys of sex under the influence of marijuana, and now sober sex doesn’t cut it for her.  When did you have your first sexual experience? My first kiss was with a girl when I was about 12. In my head, […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 27-year-old man who had only ever had sex with women until last month. After unexpectedly making out with a guy at a party, he had his bisexual awakening, and now he feels like he just hit reset on his life.