“I was bored and wanted to go play Xbox”

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 24-year-old heterosexual man who recently discovered he is demisexual.

A lot of men were first introduced to sex via pornography. Many of the depictions are either unreal or downright painful. And sometimes, a failure to achieve some of these “sexual feats” leaves many men feeling inadequate. In a bid to make men’s sexual relationships more fulfilling, and by extension make sex enjoyable for their […]

“I’ve never enjoyed sex with a condom.”

The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 39-year-old heterosexual woman who just went through a divorce and recently discovered that she’s perimenopausal.

“I couldn’t get enough of her.”

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 34-year-old married man who went from racking up a body count of over 300 to having sex just once a week.

I risked my life for the dick. I knew I was dickmatised.

The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 30-year-old bisexual woman who didn’t start having sex until her late 20s. She talks about getting pregnant after her first sexual experience and how being a single mother has impacted her sex life.

Between 15 minutes and 4 hours.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 22-year-old trans woman who only began transitioning 5 months ago

“Since we got married, our sex life has definitely improved.”

The subject of this week’s sex life is a 23-year-old man who refused to accept his sexuality for years after discovering he’s bisexual. Now that he’s accepted it, he’s sleeping with older men and getting paid for it.  When did you have your first sexual experience?  When I was 16, I went to a strip […]

Contrary to what generic romantic comedies want us to believe, sex isn’t always sexy. Sometimes — more times than we’d like to admit — it’s awkward, messy and embarrassing. So, to make you feel a bit better about your own sexual fumbles, we decided to ask a bunch of Nigerians to share their most embarrassing […]

Today’s subject is a 30-year-old woman who discovered herself after opening her marriage.

For bisexual and pansexual people who are attracted to (and sleep with) both men and women, it’s expected that they’ve noticed core differences in the ways they approach sex. So, for Pride Month, we decided to ask a bunch of bisexual and pansexual Nigerians to share what it’s like sleeping with men and women. Here […]

The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 27-year-old lesbian who is exploring her sexuality in ways she’s never done before during a pandemic.

Threesomes rank very high on the list of many people’s biggest sexual fantasies. If sex with one person can be so great, it’s fair to assume that adding an extra body would only elevate the experience. So, we decided to ask Nigerians to send in their most memorable threesome stories. From getting ignored right in […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 31-year-old heterosexual woman who’s been cheating on her husband for the past year. She talks about their total lack of sexual chemistry and why she feels no guilt. What was your first sexual experience? Does masturbation count? It should, right? Yeah, it does.  Ok. I think I […]

Sometimes we just want fun, uncomplicated sex, and a one-night stand — hooking up with a hot stranger with the intent of never seeing them again — can be quite ideal for scratching that itch. So, we asked a bunch of Nigerians to share their most memorable one-night stand stories, ranging from the magical to […]

The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 25-year-old queer woman who was in a heterosexual relationship for almost 7 years and engaged to be married when she realised she was queer.

While most of us typically have sex in the bedroom — nothing wrong with wanting to be as comfortable as possible — it’s not always an option, especially when you’re caught up in the moment. So, out of curiosity, we asked a bunch Nigerians to tell us the strangest place they’ve ever had sex. From […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 27-year-old gay man who has been making porn for the past two years. He talks about earning six figures a month, navigating Nigeria’s homophobic laws and how the pandemic has affected his business.  What was your first sexual experience? I had my first real experience when I […]

Moving to a new country can be both exciting and terrifying. There are a ton of articles on the internet that tell you what to expect in terms of housing and getting work, but very few mention anything about the sexual culture shock you’re likely to experience. So, we decided to find out what that […]