The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 27-year-old lesbian who describes herself as a pleaser. She talks about discovering her sexuality, sleeping with many women to make up for what she’s missed, and learning she has better sex when she’s not being touched.

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Sex Life is an anonymous Zikoko weekly series that explores the pleasures, frustrations and excitement of sex in the lives of Nigerians. The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 20-year-old bisexual woman who talks about her initial struggle with the shame of masturbation, discovering her kinks and chasing sex fuelled by danger. What was […]

The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 20-year-old heterosexual woman who is finally enjoying good sex after a series of bad ones. She talks about what good sex has taught her, and how she is still on the journey to finding an orgasm.

Sex Life is an anonymous Zikoko weekly series that explores the pleasures, frustrations and excitement of sex in the lives of Nigerians. The subject of today’s Sex Life is a heterosexual 25-year-old man who became obsessed with penises when he realised his penis was small. He talks about how having a small penis affects his […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 43-year-old heterosexual man who had a three-year affair that ended his marriage.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 23-year-old heterosexual woman who used to enjoy public sex until she was harassed by the police.

Today’s Sex Life subject is a 30-year-old bisexual woman who, after being sexually assaulted, is reclaiming her power by dominating men.

The subject of today's Sex Life is a 32-year-old heterosexual woman who realised she only enjoys sex with people she's not supposed to sleep with — what she calls "forbidden sex".

Today’s subject is a 32-year-old heterosexual man who got married a few months ago. He talks about the loss of sexual excitement after getting married, his Madonna-whore complex and his disdain for open marriages.