In Nigeria being a single woman is very hard.
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One minute you are a baby girl living your life, the next minute everyone is asking you ‘when will you marry?’
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In fact once you hit a certain age everyone from your gateman to your boss at work is advising you to go to Shiloh
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It doesn’t matter who you are and what you’ve achieved. The only important question is ‘why are you single?’
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Before you know it all of your friends start to get married even the ones you thought were single pringles like you
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It doesn’t help that their married status seems to come with infinite wisdom and they take it upon themselves to cure the disease that is your singleness.
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Nowhere is safe. You go to church to worship your Lord God and Saviour, and some church aunty will ambush you about attending singles fellowship
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When you even try to date the men act like they are doing you a favour. “You don’t know you are old abi, I’m just trying to epp your life”
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You are 40 and living with your parents epp your own life first.
What of living alone as a single woman?
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Before you know it everyone is trying to hook you up, including your Aunty Yejide who has had 7 husbands
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You’ve not even found bae but everyone keeps asking you “children nko”?
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And it’s not even like you had a problem being single you were perfectly fine but now you can help but wonder…
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At the end of the day it’s your life don’t let anyone disturb your peace of mind
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So the next time someone should ask you when are you getting into a relationship, tell them…
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