When Yemi* (41) and Joy* (43) started dating in 2015, they had no idea the other person was queer until they became best friends. On this week’s Love Life, they share how their relationship survived the discovery, why they decided to marry anyway and how they figured out the “having kids” part of being married.

Tolani (34) and Praise-el (33) have been married for almost a decade. On this week’s Love Life, they share how getting married five months after dating and helping each other scale the career ladder at blue chip companies are the secrets behind their relationship success.

Her first husband called her “The most beautiful girl in Nigeria”, love-bombing her before making her his third wife then only interacting with her for sex. She was 19; he was 39. By 22, she had two children she couldn’t tell her second husband about.  Now, she’s alone in Canada with her third and last child. Here’s what the 29-year-old said:

Today’s #ZikokoWhatSheSaid subject is Nkechi Ebie, a 50-year-old Nigerian woman. She tells us why 22 was the most interesting age of her life, why she avoided committed relationships for many years after university and the pregnancy scare that made her retire from her party days.

"I was abused as a child and that’s how I became exposed to pornography. I became addicted to it. Being exposed to porn like that made me curious about sex" 5 Religious Nigerian Women Talk About Struggling With Sexual Urges Read here:

Joshua and Opeyemi met in NYSC Camp, Taraba. For Love Life, they talk about battling addictions, speaking in tongues and learning each other’s love languages.

Here is a list of signs to watch out for in your relationship so it doesn't end in tears.

Some people hear a voice in their head when they think and some people just don’t. In the same way, some people need to listen to music when having sex and those who don’t. If you are part of the former and you’re a Nigerian, then you likely need a selection of Nigerian songs that […]

*Yinka, 31, and *Kayode, 32 have been acquaintances for 13 years, dated since 2019 and married in 2020. They talk about Kayode’s attachment to his former fiance of 8 years, Yinka’s need for setting boundaries and how they handle being married and living in different timezones.

"He ended up vomiting right on me."