Kola (29) and Peju (26) met through friends after the lockdown ended in 2020. On this week’s Love Life, they talk about slowly transitioning out of a situationship, lying to Peju’s parents about cohabitating and their shared phobia for formal commitment and parenting.

Ajoke, 28, & Solomon, 25, have been dating for three years. In today's #ZikokoLoveLife, they talk about being coursemates, becoming friends with benefits & being in a relationship where they’re both allowed to date & have sex with other people. Read here:

Today's subject for #ZikokoWhatSheSaid is a 24-year-old Nigerian woman who shares her unplanned transition to motherhood at 22. She talks about her parents keeping her away from boys, learning intimacy from Youtube and the hot sex that landed her in an unplanned version of the reality she wanted. 

Cynthia*, 30, and Ezinne*, 29, have been dating for six months. In today’s #ZikokoLoveLife, they talk about getting in touch after reading each other’s stories on Zikoko and falling for each other despite being married. Read here

NK*, 26, and Sarah*, 26 dated for two years. In today’s #ZikokoLoveLife, they talk about how wanting different things led to their breakup, transitioning to best friends and getting an apartment together. Read and listen:

Chinasa, 26, and Ugo, 30, started having sex while they were in relationships with other people. Today on #LoveLife, they talk about coming together only to break-up, and the ways they have grown individually and as a couple.

Imagine your parents finding out you are having sex. How would they react? I asked 7 Nigerian women about how their parents found out they were sexually active. Here’s what they had to say. Lexi, 22 I was 19. I came home from university for holiday. One morning, I was preparing to head to the […]

Farida*, 27, and Favour*, 28, went from cheating on their ex-partners with each other to eventually falling in love.

Mezie*, 32, and Oge*, 31, went from friends to lovers to friends who occasionally have sex.

As told to Desmond. A few weeks ago, I put up a link to my Outspoken chatbox when I was looking for men to anonymously interview for this story. A few days later, a woman sent a message via Outspoken telling me that she has a story that she thinks I’ll be interested in. She […]