From ballroom culture to the relationship between queerness and religion, these documentaries are giving us range!! Grab a seat, we’re learning about queer African stories today.

The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 27-year-old lesbian who describes herself as a pleaser. She talks about discovering her sexuality, sleeping with many women to make up for what she’s missed, and learning she has better sex when she’s not being touched.

Our official #Pride2022 playlist is here! The Nigerian girls that get it, get it. And the girls that don’t? Well, not everyone can be on the bad bitch roster.

Growing up in Nigeria as a queer person is not for the faint of heart. Here are ten funny memes every queer Nigerian will relate to.

The subject of today’s Man Like is acclaimed writer and LGBTQ+ activist, @Innanoshe. He talks about being labelled gay way before he knew what it meant, overcoming his childhood obsession with being liked, and his journey to self-acceptance.

If a femme queer woman has ever served you breakfast, you can relate.

If you’ve been thinking of fun activities for Pride Month, we’ve got recommendations for everyone.

Thinking of getting your first strap-on? Here’s everything you need to know before getting it.

If your favourite is Below Her Mouth, you might not make heaven.

“I hate the internal conflict that comes with the holiday. Why am I even celebrating? Do I agree with most of the teachings and doctrines? Am I still a Muslim? I’d also love to celebrate knowing that I am fully accepted, not tolerated, and loved by my family, regardless of my identity.”

If you are trying to be a good Trans/non-binary ally, you need to stop asking these eight questions.

Here’s how to be a good ally when your queer friend come’s out to you.

As a queer person, you can’t avoid these seven people on dating apps.

Masc women are the 9th wonder of the world. Read this article if you need proof.

If you start a speech with good morning bestie, you’ll get more people to listen. We promise.

every queer group chat has one of these people, which of them are you ?

Are you at a queer event if there isn’t a couple that makes you want to retire from being a hoe ?

“At that moment, I knew I couldn’t lie to her. I said yes but my voice was low. I told her I didn’t like men.”

In this article, Somto* talks about the issues she had with her mum as a child for being masculine presenting and coming out to her as an adult.

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Hadiza*, 35, and Zikora*, 40, dated for three years before they got married. In today’s #ZikokoLoveLife, they talk about being friends who travelled together for work, growing into a relationship and getting married despite living in Nigeria where same-sex marriage is illegal.

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In this story, a gay man who doesn’t like group sex goes for a threesome, but it ends up becoming a fivesome where things get out of hand.

*Osas (20) and *Seyi (21) started out very in love with each other. But things went downhill when someone cheated, and they opened their relationship. Today on Love Life, they discuss their break-up and its effect on their friendship.

Sex Life is an anonymous Zikoko weekly series that explores the pleasures, frustrations and excitement of sex in the lives of Nigerians. The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 26-year-old bisexual man who talks about being sexually abused as a kid and how that led his developing a sexual addiction and finding it hard to […]

TRIGGER WARNING: Abuse.  Editor’s note: In 2014, Ezinne* met Esther* and they dated for about three years before Esther got married. In this As Told To, Ezinne talks about the relationship they had and how they are both married to other people now.  When people can explain their childhood with one word, it’s always strange […]

As told to Mariam Oyin* reached out to me when I put a call out for women to tell me about the worst thing a friend has done to them. In her message, she said her best friend and girlfriend at the time outed her. I was curious about how that played out and I […]