Listening to the everyday experiences of Nigerians who have stayed abroad is one of the highlights of my week, and this year, I got to hear some pretty amazing stories.
From jaw-dropping stories of grand-scale internet fraud to heartbreaking stories of family betrayal, these are the top 10 most-read Abroad Life stories of 2021.
When I first started texting the subject of this story, he said to me, “My experience in Malaysia will blow your mind”, and I replied, rather mundanely, “Sure”. By the time we met for this interview, I couldn’t contain my shock at the things he was telling me. I probably said “Whoa” and “Omo” more times than I can count. It’s a real jaw-dropper.
I was speaking with my friend about how writing Abroad Life has changed my perspective on emigrating, and he paused and said, “You should totally interview my dad!” I was excited because I love hearing older people tell me about their lives. They speak so freely. Like they’ve been waiting for someone to ask for their story.
His dad was no different. All I did was introduce myself, tell him about Abroad Life, and he was ready to tell me everything I wanted to know. He even dragged his wife into the conversation, asking her for specific information like dates and event details.
Interviewing someone who is telling you a heartbreaking story about their own life is hard sometimes. You don’t know if you should pause and allow them to process their emotions, or if you should ask more questions, or if you should just sit in silence as you hear their voice break because they’re holding back tears.
Speaking with this subject on Abroad Life, I did all of those things. But you know what made me happy in the end? The hope in her voice. She’s back in Nigeria now and excited about new possibilities. And that’s all that matters.
This story was personal for me because the subject is my friend. One day, I called him and said, “Let me do your Abroad Life.” He was reluctant at first, but we set up the call and started speaking and for a while, he just kept talking. He later told me it felt like a therapy session. I’m glad he could get it all off his chest.
I find it hilarious that the first time this story’s subject ever considered moving abroad was when he would be watching cartoons as a kid and NEPA would take light. Motivation can come from the strangest of places.
This story was a wild ride. This subject here had packed his boxes and was ready to leave because he was sure he wasn’t going to be denied a visa the third time. He was on his way to the airport when he opened his passport and saw his third rejection
A few years later, he was in the U.S. getting his master’s in an Ivy League school, but Canada still holds a special place in his heart.
For many people, when it comes to family, nothing is too much to do. The subject on this Abroad Life saw stripping as the only option to pay her sister’s rent and went for it. She loved it.
This story is an emotional rollercoaster, but I’m happy it ends on a high, happy note. It’s my favourite Abroad Life from this year. You should definitely read it.
The subject on this Abroad Life saw the opportunity to run away from a marriage she believes she shouldn’t have entered in the first place, left her kids with her sister and ran. She’s such a high-spirited person. She has energy for days!
This Abroad Life is much more than what the title says. If “Just do it” was a person, it would be the guy in the story. One day, I want to be like him.
Hey there! My name is David and I’m the writer of Abroad Life. If you’re a Nigerian and you live or have lived abroad, I would love to talk to you about what that experience feels like and feature you on Abroad Life. All you need to do is fill out this short form, and I’ll be in contact.