Bode (62) and Ann (54) met on Instagram in 2017. On this week’s Love Life, they talk about getting together through DM poetry, supporting each other in the absence of their adult children and how their first marriages inspired their decision not to get married for now.

This #Valentine’s Day, here’s some free advice on how to love your partners intentionally from couples across generations. You might learn a thing or two.

For nine hours every day, 26-year-old Daisy* calls 180 loan defaulters to get them to pay up their debts. But when she’s overlooked for a promotion after two years, she starts doing the bare minimum while she figures out her next career move.

Growing up in the slums of Ikorodu, he had nothing. Chess gave him open opportunities for him. Now, he's introducing children in slum communities to give them a fighting chance. Man Like — Tunde Onakoya

As told to Mariam Emem* is a 40+ woman whose husband was cheating on her. The experience changed her perspective on life and she wanted to share her story with other women. Here’s what she told me:  My husband and I met in 1999. We dated for three years before getting married. We have three […]

In this article, 9 Nigerians talk about witnessing abuse in their parents marriage, and how they feel about it.

Chelle, 24, and Layide, 23 have been dating for seven months. Today on Love Life, they talk about striking a connection the moment they started talking, how their decision to stay friends changed and how long-distance affects their relationship.  What’s your earliest memory of each other? Layide: She was in a car, and I was […]

Sex Life is an anonymous Zikoko weekly series that explores the pleasures, frustrations and excitement of sex in the lives of Nigerians. The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 35-year-old woman who discovers she isn’t attracted to only men relatively late. She talks about finding out about her sexuality, how her husband helped her […]

A lot of people swear that Abuja has a lot of things going for it. I mean, it should — it’s the nation’s capital. That’s a decent claim to fame too. I was curious about how money moves in the city, so I asked 7 people living there to talk about their expenses. 1. Patrick, […]

For this week’s what she said, we talk to Uju Anya, a 44-year-old woman. She tells us about leaving Nigeria with her mum because of her abusive dad, discovering she is lesbian, not bisexual, and becoming an atheist. Let’s start from the beginning. Where did you grow up? I was born in the city of […]