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Aladi Akoh (30), a Nigerian data engineer and YouTuber, moved to the US in 2018 after two visa denials. From three tries at a H-1B visa to dating, marriage, culture shocks and homesickness, she shares the highs and lows of her life abroad, and how she has learned to live fearlessly in the US.

Where do you currently live, and when did you leave Nigeria?

I live in the United States of America (US), and I left Nigeria in 2018.

What inspired you to leave?

I wanted to get a master’s degree abroad. I actually wanted to go to France at first. I did my bachelor’s degree in Benin Republic, and France felt like the natural destination for my master’s degree. That was where most of my coursemates were heading. So I applied to universities in France, but also to other countries, including the US.

I got an offer from the US for a Graduate Teaching Assistantship (GTA) with partial funding for my tuition and a stipend. I liked the offer, so I accepted it, and that was how I ended up in the US.

But it was not as easy as it sounds.

How so?

Well, first of all, I was denied a US visa twice, so it was on my third attempt that I got it. I went to do my master’s, and as I was concluding my studies, I had to find a job that would sponsor a H-1B visa so I could remain in the country.

As an international STEM student, I had three years after graduation to get the H-1B visa, which is gotten through a lottery system that happens once a year. I had between 2021 and 2024 to get the visa. I started working in March 2021, but my company missed the window to submit my name for the lottery that year.

They registered me in 2022. I was not selected. Then in 2023, which was my final year before my time would be up, they put my name in again for the lottery, and I was still not selected.

However, the US government flagged some fraudulent applications, which opened up some opportunities, so they had an unexpected lottery. That was how I got my H-1B visa.

Incredible. What do you do?

I work as a data engineer. I am also a YouTuber. I discuss issues about immigration and life as an international student on my YouTube channel, basically sharing lessons and tips I have learnt from my own migration journey.

What has your experience in the US been like?

It has been bittersweet, to be honest. It is nice here, but being away from home is difficult. You miss home, the food, your family’s support—everything.

One of the things I really like about living in the US is how you can plan your day and it goes exactly the way you planned it. You can set up routines because you know everything just works. You know the train will be on time, you know other people will be on time. So if I plan something, I know that it is going to be that way.

I also enjoy meeting people from different cultures. I think the US is one of the most diverse places in the world. You can meet people of every nationality. I have met people from countries that I did not even know existed until I met them.

When I was in school, we used to have something called International Student Nights, where we would all come and socialise and share food from our respective cultures. It was there I had Thai food for the first time.

Interesting. Have you seen a lot of the country?

I have lived in South Dakota and Utah. South Dakota was where I went to school, and I relocated to Utah for work. But I have been to other cities in the US too.

Do you have a favourite city in the US?

I like Los Angeles. I love the beach life there.

Let us talk about Nigeria. Do you visit?

Absolutely. I am actually planning a surprise visit to my family in Nigeria, so hopefully I will already be there before this comes out. I last visited in 2023.

Is there a possibility of moving back to Nigeria at some point?

I had plans to come back when I was single, but now I am married, it is a decision for two people. We will see.

What would have to change for you to come back?

Healthcare in Nigeria. I really worry about healthcare in Nigeria. I have an eye defect, and I was going to eye clinics in Nigeria as far back as I can remember. I got my first pair of glasses in JSS1. All that while, none of the doctors there was able to diagnose me properly.

The first test I went for when I came to the US, I was diagnosed and referred to a specialist. I had a procedure earlier this year to reduce my eye pressure because if the pressure kept rising, I could go blind.

It made me think about people in Nigeria you will hear who just went blind suddenly, and I wonder if it could be a similar situation to mine, but they never get properly diagnosed and treated. So healthcare is a really big thing for me.

What lessons has migration taught you?

It has taught me many lessons. I think the most important lesson is around fear. I have learnt that fear just holds you back. I feel like in the US, if you are fearless, you can do anything.

I have also learnt to be okay with being told “no.” Personally, I used to fear rejection. Like when I was applying to different schools, it was a friend that advised me to apply for funding. So I emailed the professor in my college and asked if they had funding for international students. That was how he told me about the graduate teaching assistantship. If I had not asked, I would not have received.

So a major lesson for me is to always ask for things, even if you think you might be rejected. Do not shut your mouth—always ask.

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There has been a lot of anti-immigrant sentiment in the West recently, especially in the US with Trump. Are you worried?

I think I have gotten to a point where I do not care anymore. I know some people have not gotten to the same place I have mentally because I have friends who are panicking. But I have told myself that my immigration status does not define me.

I was denied a US visa twice. It was on the third attempt that I got it. It also took three attempts to get my H-1B visa. I believe that if one path closes, you should go for the next path. So I think I am now numb to it all. I just take it one day at a time.

I remember when Trump made the announcement about H-1B being $100,000, I was out shopping and my husband texted me. I just texted him back that I would read it later and continued what I was doing. At this point, it feels like they say something new every day. So I have stopped caring. If they say we should go home, then fine.

What is your support system like in the US?

I have my husband and my amazing friends. Unfortunately, my friends live in different cities, but we are always talking on the phone. I also have my church as a source of support. I still communicate a lot with my family. We do family video calls, we have a group chat. Really, thank God for technology.

Congratulations on your marriage. But what was dating like in the US, especially compared to Nigeria?

In my opinion, Nigeria is the better place when it comes to dating. There are more organic and natural options in Nigeria. It was easier, to be honest. Men approach you in church, at work, everywhere. I think during my NYSC service year, that was when I got the most attention.

But I was not in the right headspace for that at the time. All my focus then was to travel out for my master’s degree. So I was not trying to tie myself down to anybody. I was not ready to be married, and I had really internalised that typical advice of not dating until you are ready to get married. I took it very seriously and I did not want to waste anyone’s time. So I did not really date intentionally until I was in the US.

And what was that like?

Well, I tried dating people on campus when I was in school. I had positive experiences, but nothing worked out. Then I tried dating apps.

I took it very seriously. My reasoning was that if it was a school I was applying to, I would take it seriously. So something as important as relationships and potentially marriage also needed to be taken seriously.

I paid for premium features on the apps so I had access to all the features. I set all my preferences. A number of the people I met through the apps did not turn into romantic relationships but actually good friends that I am still in touch with today.

I did meet one guy I dated, but it was not a good experience and I eventually got rid of all the dating apps.

What happened?

He cheated. After we started dating, he stayed on the apps. I found out because he was talking to a friend of one of my friends. It happened by accident. I showed her his picture and she was like, “Wait, I know this guy!”

Wow. So if you got off the apps, how did you meet your husband?

I went to a friend’s housewarming party and one of her friends approached me. She asked me if I was single and told me about her friend who was looking to date. She showed me his Instagram page.

I was reluctant because at the time I did not want any more relationship drama. But she still told him about me and he reached out to me on Instagram. And as they say, the rest is history. We got married about six months after we started chatting.

Wow. That quick?

I always had in mind what I wanted. And he checked most of the things on my list. When I talked to him, I was really attracted by his kindness and empathy. I also love how important family is to him because it is very important to me.

I felt at peace with him in a way I had not with all the other people I had dated. We share so many similarities so everything just felt natural. I did not have to explain myself too much—he just got me. So when he started talking about marriage, I did not feel any anxiety.

That is awesome. It seems you were both very intentional about marriage. So how are you finding married life?

It has been good. There are good days, and there are bad days. But overall, it has been good.

It is great having someone at home to welcome you after a long day. Someone to make you food, someone to calm you when you are angry, someone to just do life with.

That does sound great. What were the biggest culture shocks for you in the US?

Something I had to get used to here is calling everyone by their first name. You know how it is growing up in Nigeria, you call older people “uncle,” “auntie,” “sir,” or “ma.” I have gotten used to it now, but when I first came, it felt so strange having to call all these much older people by their first names.

Something I found very surprising was the rural areas in the US. The town I lived in during my master’s is a very rural town. I was shocked when I first arrived because it is so different from the areas of the US that are usually portrayed in the media.

But I have been to places like New York and Los Angeles so I understand the difference now. Those cities are usually the ones portrayed, but not all of the US looks like that.

I was also shocked by the amount of homelessness in the US. Then there is the food. They put too much salt and sugar in everything. I do not think I will ever completely get used to it.

Let us talk about highlights and lowlights. What has been your worst experience in the US and what has been your best experience?

My lowest point was when I was put on academic probation. I saw it coming. I knew there was a possibility it would happen because I took this four-credit course on robotics in my first semester and I knew nothing about robotics.

It was a rollercoaster of a class. The professor was really nice though. He supported me through it and everything, but eventually I was put on academic probation. Though I was expecting it, when I got the official letter, I shed tears.

Another low point was when I had to find a job. When I was about to conclude my master’s, I started feeling so stressed because you have to find a job or continue schooling. So if I could not get a job, I had to either go for a doctorate or go back home. Mentally, I knew I was not ready to do more years in school, so I just started preparing to go back to Nigeria. That was a really stressful time for me.

My best experiences were getting a job and then my H-1B visa. I got my job offer before my graduation and it felt so good. And after three tries, getting my work visa made me so happy. I think I called everybody in my life that day to share the news.

I really celebrated the work visa because it gave me the opportunity to travel back home to see my family.

That must have felt great. On a scale of one to ten, how happy would you say you are in the US, and why?

It is so hard to choose between seven and eight. Maybe I should go with seven point five. I would have said a nine or ten if we had our families here with us—my husband’s and mine.

I would love to have that support around us because I feel like life is more enjoyable with family around. But even just bringing them over to visit is so difficult with all the visa wahala.

I already talked about the food. I would love to have access to more diverse options, but that probably has to do with the city I live in. I also worry about the gun laws here. You hear the news of school shootings and you realise that it could be your own child. That scares me a lot. So these factors are why I cannot give it ten.

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For years, safari trips have been a staple activity for those looking to explore wildlife. Sarah, who works at an NGO in Lagos, decided she wanted to give it a try—but on her own terms. She wasn’t interested in an overly curated experience where a tour guide would dictate every step of her journey, from the airport pickup to the carefully selected sights. She wanted the freedom to explore at her own pace, make spontaneous decisions, and truly immerse herself in the adventure.

So, she went online, booked a hotel on Booking.com, packed her safari gear, and set off for Akagera National Park in Kigali, Rwanda. Without a tour guide to plan every detail, she relied on local advice, her instincts, and a bit of luck. The experience was both thrilling and unpredictable.

At one point, the tyre of her tour truck deflated in the middle of the park, leaving her momentarily stranded in the wilderness. But thanks to the kindness of fellow travellers, she was able to get back on track. Despite the challenges, she would wholeheartedly recommend this type of trip to anyone seeking a raw, unfiltered encounter with nature.

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As-Told-To Dennis

I decided to visit Rwanda in 2022 as part of my holiday travels. Working for a NGO and being a passionate wildlife enthusiast, I saw Akagera National Park as the perfect destination. I was going to be there for less than a week.

In Nigeria, we only see wildlife in documentaries, so this was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for me. Unlike most people, I decided to go on this safari without a travel guide. I wanted the raw, unfiltered experience of exploring nature on my own terms.

From the airport, I ordered an Uber to a hotel I had booked myself online. It was my driver who suggested Akagera National Park. He told me he could drive me there and I agreed.

This was my first time visiting Rwanda, and everything felt new and different. I got to meet people from various backgrounds and immerse myself in a completely different environment. One of the striking things about Rwanda was the respect for law and order—something that isn’t always common back home in Nigeria.

The entire experience was breathtaking. Seeing the Big Five—lion, cape buffalo, rhino, elephant, leopard—was surreal. These animals were massive, nothing like what I had imagined from watching them on TV. I saw them up close. When the lion came close to my jeep, I burst into tears. I was both scared and enthralled all at once. Witnessing such majestic creatures in their natural habitat was something I will never forget.

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However, not everything went smoothly. During our tour, our vehicle broke down, and though we had a spare tyre, it had no air in it. The terrain was rough—muddy and rocky—and we had no way to pump the tyre. There were zebras grazing nearby, and while we were assured it was safe, I still felt uneasy. Thankfully, another tour vehicle passed by and had an electric pump, which we used to inflate our tyres. That moment of uncertainty reminded me of the unpredictability of nature.

At one point, I was so shaken by the thought of encountering a lion up close that I told my group I was done with the trip. In the wild, you never know what you might come across next—lions, zebras, or even tigers roaming freely. It was both thrilling and terrifying.

Despite the challenges, I would absolutely recommend a safari trip to anyone who loves nature and wildlife. Exploring the wild comes with its own set of surprises, but it also offers the chance to support conservation efforts. There are so many endangered species in Nigeria, and it made me reflect on the importance of conservation projects.

The journey from Lagos to Kigali was a five-day adventure, though I did fall ill at some point. Still, it was a transformative experience—one that deepened my appreciation for wildlife and conservation. A safari trip is truly a gem, and I hope to return someday.

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Jimi (24) started guiding his relocation plans the moment his visa was approved. From failing to say goodbye to friends to reducing his movement because of “village people,” he didn’t take any chances. He shares how he’s gotten questions about his sexuality from a relative since he moved to the UK and how he plans to stay in the country permanently.

Where do you live and when did you leave Nigeria?

So I live in Cardiff, Wales, and I moved out of Nigeria in 2023.

Was there a particular reason why you wanted to japa?

Relocation has always been in the plan for me. My parents have always had it in mind that I’d move for my master’s after NYSC. I found out some years back that they had been saving up for it since I was young. It was a huge sacrifice, and I’m really grateful for that.

So was relocation something you wanted or was it a decision influenced by your parents?

I’ve always been indifferent about relocation, but I wouldn’t say my parents made that decision for me–I wanted to be in a place where I’d be able to succeed without feeling like the system was working against me, so when the opportunity came, I was like, “Why not?” Plus, it wasn’t like my life in Nigeria was anything spectacular. It was regular– I worked in an advertising agency and went out with friends from work every Friday. That pretty much sums up everything I was up to in Nigeria.

Let’s talk about the UK. How did that happen?

I left Nigeria through a student visa. So unlike several other people who moved through this route, I only applied to one school. I think one of the reasons why I chose that school was because I had a friend there and he was happy to hold my hands through the admission process. That’s very important because you need someone knowledgeable about admission-related stuff to walk you through the process. That’s how I got the admission and my visa.

When my visa got approved, my parents kinda sat me down and told me that I was no longer allowed to leave the house until it was time to leave the UK.

Why?

You know African parents and how they believe in village people. It was a struggle because even the few times that I tried to visit some friends, my dad would call me and ask for all the details.

My mom didn’t care as much, but I still had to sit at home. I don’t know if it was because my dad was projecting his fears, but I became extra careful myself. For instance, if I were on a bus, I’d pray for God to help me back in one piece. I didn’t want my parent’s fears to come true.

Did you get to say goodbye to your friends?

I said a few goodbyes, but you’d probably meet people who would tell you that I forgot to tell them about my relocation.

I left Nigeria without telling some people and that’s mostly because my parents were serious about me not sharing the news that they didn’t even tell some family members I was relocating until much later.

I didn’t see the need to drag it with them because they are my sponsors. When some people found out that I had relocated, they were upset;I’ve done my part by apologising, but I can’t exactly tell people how to react to my apology. Some have accepted the apology, others are still upset.

You seem to really hold your parents in high regard.

As I mentioned earlier, they were my sponsors. It wasn’t exactly like I had any choice. But now that I’m figuring out my life in the UK, I can confidently make bold decisions and stand by them.

Before my graduation in November, I locked my hair and pierced my ears. It was a spontaneous decision, but it’s something I’ve kinda always wanted to do. My parents were sort of disappointed when they saw me at my graduation–My dad even asked me to wear my graduation cap in all the pictures we were taking together because he didn’t want his friends in Nigeria to see my dreads.

My dad’s reaction wasn’t even the worst – a relative saw my new look and told my parents I was gay. I couldn’t even understand how he arrived at that conclusion, but I told my parents that they were stuck with the new look either way. I think they calmed down the next day after they watched me get baptised.

That’s interesting. Can you tell me more about that event?

I’ve always been a Christian, but I wasn’t born-again. Contrary to what my new look suggested, my relationship with God got better after I moved to the UK. The baptism was the day after my graduation, and I really wanted my parents to be there. They showed up and were proud of me. We haven’t really talked about the new look since then.

Love that. I know you mentioned that your parents are your primary sponsors but did you explore other funding options?

The school gave me a reasonable discount, but most of my funding came from my parents. Shout out to them for real because the exchange rate was already all over the place when they cleared my tuition.

Seeing how much they sacrificed to pull that off made me double up on studying. For the longest time, they were not doing what other people their age were doing. For instance, my dad delayed his plan of getting a nicer car for a while, and my mom made several sacrifices too.

Shoutout to your parents for real

The craziest part is that I can’t even say my parents were rich or had millions to spare. They were just financially responsible and cared about giving my siblings and me a soft landing. Being here without a scholarship or alternative funding would have been a nightmare without their help.

Earlier, you mentioned that you only applied to one university. What made you so confident that you were going to get in?

I did a lot of research before I chose that university. And as I mentioned earlier, I had a friend in the school who guided me through the application process.

Success can be replicated, so I always advise people to seek guidance from people who have gone through the same process. It also helped that I had faith and was confident that God was involved.

Remember how I said my parents didn’t tell some family members about my relocation until much later? My uncle was one of those relatives. One day, they called and decided to inform him that I was moving to the UK since he was there too. I wasn’t close to the uncle in question, but the craziest thing happened; It turns out the uncle was living very close to the school, so he offered to take me in. In my head, I was just like “What are the odds?” I just felt like that was God helping me out. I got a super soft landing – I didn’t have to worry about food or shelter.

Love that for you. What’s your advice for people who are planning to apply to graduate schools in the UK?

It might sound cliche, but your personal statement is super important. You should know how to tell your story better than anyone else. Another advice is to always ask questions. Keep sending emails to the school like you’re sending WhatsApp messages. You’re better off asking too many questions than making mistakes because you didn’t ask at all. You should also be intentional about your research because there are many schools that offer discounted school fees for first-class or second-class upper students.

Are you planning to stay in the UK?

Of course, I’m applying for a postgraduate work visa. My student visa is going to expire next month so I’m getting ready to apply for the other one. It’s almost 3000 pounds now.

I always advise new graduate students who plan to stay in the UK to start saving for this visa early. Aside from the money, you must also meet some criteria, such as having good grades and working for a maximum of 20 hours weekly. Some people don’t play by the 20-hour weekly rule, but I like to respect myself.

The application process is quite easy. You can complete the whole thing on your phone in 30 minutes. Your chances of getting the visa are also really high.

I hope it works out. Can you share what life in Cardiff looks like?

Cardiff is small. You can walk to almost every place you need to be. I’ve had time to fall in love with the city but it was rough at the beginning. I was the only black guy in my class when I was doing my master’s. I had to start hanging out with friends from other races. There was one time my white friends asked me to come to a party with them, and I thought it was a good opportunity to socialise until I realised what kind of party it was.

What kind of party?

It was a techno party—just noise and headaches. I really blamed myself for going in the first place. After that incident, I found a Christian community, and everything became better. I’ve made friends with Nigerians and other nationalities since then.

So no more techno parties?

God forbid!

LMAO. On a scale of one to ten, how happy are you with your life in the UK?

I’ll say 8.5. Things are getting better. I can now afford to satisfy my cravings and tick stuff off my bucket list.

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1. A Beef History of Okorocha and Ihedioha.

Politics in Imo State is starting to look a lot like my face when I woke up to work on this post: a hot mess.

At the centre of this mess arethe former governor of Imo State, Rochas Okorocha and the incumbent, Emeka Ihedioha.

Political drama? Featuring a past and present governor, in Nigeria? Why, I never would have guessed it.

Okay, what happened here?

It all started in 2018 when, perhaps dizzy from all the foreign nationals erected in Imo State, Governor Rochas Okorocha forgot he was in Nigeria — a democracy — and decided to impose a monarchy. In the elections held in the year of our Lord 2019, Okorocha tried to have his son-in-law, Uche Nwosu instated as governor of Imo State.

As we know, that didn’t pan out and gubernatorial victory eventually went to the PDP candidate, Emeka Ihedioha. Okorocha didn’t like that.

A ton of ugliness ensued: Okorocha alleged that Ihedioha wasn’t the real winner of the elections, and Ihedioha (allegedly) hit the man where it really hurt ⁠— his statues — just one day after resuming office. Have to love the priorities.

Now, while Ihedioha denied being behind the demolition of the Akachi statue, he didn’t miss the opportunity to point fingers at the unpaid workers responsible for erecting the statue, perhaps their anger at Okorocha led them to do it. Petty what?

Arrows have since flown, with the Ihedioha administration alleging that the past administration left no hand over note and therefore no instructions as to continuity. Ihedioha also threw shade at the ₦43.5 billion government house built by the Rochas administration, claiming it was “a decayed place”. According to Okorocha, the current governor claimed he governed from a bush bar in the government house and therefore has to operate his government from outside the house. Ihedioha even converted the Eastern Palm University owned by Okorocha, into an annex of the state university – IMSU. This guy?

Okorocha has accused the current governor of attempting to destroy his legacy and also being obsessed with him, here’s video to prove it. Okay Mariah.

More serious allegations of financial impropriety have been made, however, with the Ihedioha administration recently accusing Okorocha’s of leaving the state in ₦32 billion debt, as well as the former governor operating over 250 bank accounts while in office. Okorocha denies both claims.

Senator Rochas claims the Ihedioha administration spends over ₦2.8 billion on sanitation, and that the governor used his first three months in office to construct multiple homes and a hotel in Owerri and his hometown. Claims which were denied by the current governor and one-upped by the accusation that the Okorocha administration stole the sum of ₦1 trillion from the state treasury while in office.

On August 19th, the Ihedioha administration began a probe into the contracts awarded by past governors Udenwa(1999-2007), Ohakim (2007-2011) and Okorocha (2011-2019). What plays out should be interesting.

2. Uh-Oh, Dino Could Be A Senator No-Mo.

On August 23rd, an election tribunal sitting in Kogi State, declared the election of Dino Melaye, the declared winner of the 2019 Kogi West senatorial election, nullified. Mr Melaye’s victory was contested by his rival – APC’s Smart Adeyemi. The tribunal has ordered that fresh senatorial elections be carried out.

Melaye served as the Representative of the Kabba/Idimu Constituency for two terms, before being elected as a senator in 2015. This is his second term as senator.

So how is he taking it?

If you think he’s mulling about, then clearly you haven’t seen this Instagram post and caption from three days ago.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B1omIQAHz1e/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

He plans on appealing the tribunal’s decision and has this to say about his post in the National Assembly: “for my senate mandate, no shaking”. Ugh, his way with words ❤️.

It’s important to mention here that Melaye plans to contest the Kogi State gubernatorial elections holding on November 16th, if he wins the PDP primaries. He is also being prosecuted by the police for allegedly aiding violence in Kogi State and attempting to commit suicide. Just throwing that in.

3. Nigeria To The US: Someone Cannot Play With You?

In a little play I like to call: ‘When America Goes Low, Try To Go Lower, But Remember the Exchange Rate (working title), Nigeria has reduced visa fees for Americans applying to Nigeria, just one day after the US announced it would be increasing visa fees for Nigerians applying to the US. This proposed increase was essentially to punish Nigerians for making her citizens pay higher visa application fees, while Nigerians paid less when applying to America.

If this isn’t the meekest response to “keep that same energy” you’ve ever seen, then I don’t know what is. Someone, please ask this guy to give Nigerians a masterclass on Big D Energy.

Let’s Back It Up

Back in 2017, the US began imposing stricter non-immigrant visa reciprocity terms as part of a ridiculous “Muslim ban” led by the administration of big man, little hands – Donald Trump.

These ‘reciprocity terms’ are a bit of ‘gbas-gbos’ if you will.

It requires the equal treatment of American citizens and a foreign country’s nationals when it comes to non-immigrant visa applications, especially regarding validity periods and application fees. They also spell out consequences where the reciprocity doesn’t bang, consequences like the payment of a reciprocity fee, in addition to the visa application fees.

Now would you guess what country, until recently, thought it’d be a good idea to have higher visa fees than those charged by the US to her citizens? This same country had over 220,000 citizens spend ₦9.7 billion on non-immigrant American visas in 2017 alone? Just guess.

For the past 18 months, the US has been trying, to get Nigeria to adjust the visa fees imposed on Americans and finally had enough on August 27th, 2019. The country announced it would be imposing a non-refundable reciprocity fee, which Nigerians would pay in addition to visa application fees, but ONLY where the visa application was actually granted. The fees were to differ according to the type of visa applied for, but say you applied for a student, tourist or business visa, a non-refundable reciprocity fee of $110 (₦40,700) would have been paid in addition to the equally non-refundable ₦59,200 visa application fees, bringing the sum total to ₦99,900. The reciprocity fees were to ‘eliminate’ that cost difference between both country’s visa application processes and were to take effect from August 29th.

Now That You’re Up To Speed, Here’s What Happened Next.

Perhaps Nigeria was protesting the outrageous Muslim ban or the indignities Nigerians have to suffer for American visas by imposing higher fees, I don’t know; but whatever it was, the government decided going low is no way to work things out, the country is almost 60, back pain is real.

So on August 28th, the Nigerian Federal Government said: Lol, ᴡʜᴀᴛ ʜᴀᴘᴘᴇɴᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ᴛᴜʀɴɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴇ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ ᴄʜᴇᴇᴋ? and reduced the visa fees Americans had previously been subjected to.

Rauf Aregbesola, Nigeria’s (clueless) Minister of Interior blamed the tardiness on implementing lesser fees despite 18 months of discussions, on “delays due to transition processes in the Ministry at policy level.” Uhun, sure.

Now that the burden of reciprocity fees are out of the way, Nigerians can focus their energies on tackling the real demon, actually getting an American visa to begin with.

4.Buhari Takes Japan.

https://twitter.com/HelloMilez/status/1167280039446089728?s=19

Even though social media was filled with tales of our favourite travel vlogger — President Buhari, going to Japan to visit Prime Minister — Shinzo Abo who was away at the G-7 meeting, he was really there to attend the Tokyo International Conference on Africa Development alongside African leaders like the president of Benin Republic, Patrice Talon and South Africa, Cyril Ramaphosa. We’ll just pretend we didn’t notice Nigeria didn’t get an invite to the G-7 for our peace of mind, okay?

Also, the presidency wants you to know, there’s also no truth to the rumour that members of IPOB harassed the presidency. So there.

Did You Miss This?

1. This man allegedly stole from Nigeria in 1998, got caught and was allowed to keep a portion of his loot. He now heads the ministry with the third-highest budgetary spending for 2019. The big reveal here.

2. Anyone know where I can purchase just 1mg of the confidence of Nigerian Men? Here’s Adebayo Shittu, Nigeria’s former Minister of Communications who was caught with a fake NYSC certificate, admitting shock over not being re-appointed.

3. Even though countries like the US eradicated polio way back in 1979, our president is still using Nigeria’s polio eradication as a talking point for the country’s ‘improved healthcare’. Off that mic!

NOT.THE.NEWS.

1.Okay, maybe this is a little newsy. Wondering what the fuss about the parliamentary suspension in the UK is about? This could help.

2. A man walks off a boat, walks into a restaurant, orders the albatross soup, takes one bite and kills himself. Why did the man kill himself? If you can figure this riddle out, hats off to you becauseee.

3. The Many Lies of Carl Beech. Have you heard about this creep? Check this out.
I have survived 26 rotations around the sun. In that time, I have suffered through some of the worst Nigeria’s educational system has to offer and borne witness, first-hand, to the failings of the government to its people. If anyone knows a thing about disappointments and lemon conversions, it’s me. But for all of my resoluteness, nothing has quite prepared me for having the exit gates of Nigeria, repeatedly shut in my face through succinctly worded, visa rejection letters.

I felt the very first stirrings to leave the country in 2014. This was two years post-graduation. With a Business Management 2:1 in my bag, and a seal of determination yet to be tampered with by the Nigerian polity, I was certain the sky and gainful employment were well within my reach.

Spoiler — I was wrong.

When one year of belly-churning interview waiting rooms, online examinations, the occasional bottom-bare Skype interview and impersonal email rejections grew into two, it became imperative that I leave the country hell-bent on making me little more than an unemployment statistic. However, one afternoon’s gander at international tuition costs and accommodation fees, even at the ₦150 exchange rate, quickly convinced me to keep the fate in my job search and make things work regardless, intra-state.

In March of 2015, fortune, or what I imagined at the time to be fortune, finally smiled at me. I got selected to a graduate-trainee program at one of Nigeria’s leading banks. I was elated and convinced it was the start of something great in my life.

Spoiler – while, I wasn’t wrong, my aspirations were grossly overestimated.

Let me tell you a little something about my current role. Forget grand end of year bank parties and workers, advertised singing Christmas carols — when you are assigned to be a Customer Relations Officer at a Nigerian bank (my position for the past few years), here’s what you’re really signing up for: a 7 day work-week (weekend autonomy is forsaken for ATM duty and ad-hoc staff roles). Work hours that span between 7am and 7pm, together with the occasional dabble in street marketing to bring customers in. The bank also keeps an almost zero-tolerance stance on sick days, and if that isn’t enough, the good times are topped with a crippling uncertainty over the future, seeing as the promotion structure is restrictive at best and nebulous at worst.

All of this for the very beginnings of a six-figure salary. While the majority of my peers have begun the rites of marriage and starting families, both concepts are so foreign and far away from me as to be otherworldly.

For the past three years, this has been the summation of my work life and interactions. While I am ever grateful to not stare down the barrels of unemployment every morning; there’s nothing quite like living your life as a series of ‘justs’ to make you aware of how bleak Nigerian futures promise to be. “Just keep the job, who knows what God has planned for the future?” “Just marry now, money will come later”. “Just keep the faith, everything else will fall into place”. The uncertainty is exhausting. I’ve seen the job market, I know Nigeria’s economic projections, I have seen the future of Nigeria for me, and it holds no real promise. I want out.

On the advice of a mentor already settled in Canada, I resolved to apply for a student visa. My hopes lay in earning an MBA, with a subsequent work permit to begin the process of integrating legally into Canadian society. My jail-break from Nigeria was finally in motion.

Armed with a valid passport, my admission letter to a University in Ottawa, WAEC and NYSC certificates, a copy of my transcript and a Statement of Account I believed sufficient to encompass school fees and consequential costs, I made my first application to the Canadian embassy in April of 2018.

I won’t get into having to freeze my expenses for anything that wasn’t life-threateningly important to raise the necessary fees. Or having to ask my retired parents and working siblings to chip in when my frugality couldn’t suffice. I won’t even dwell on the fresh hell of retrieving my University transcript, only to be told I had an outstanding course by the school management, 6 years post-graduation; but I will speak a little on the non-refundable visa fees I have had to expend on this exit strategy of mine.

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At my last count, I have spent upwards of ₦200,000 on 4 non-refundable visa application fees. That’s a full month’s salary, plus substantial change, all to be told an unceremonious no. I concede it’s necessary to the process, but I imagine I am not alone in thinking a downward fare review would be invaluable to Nigerians, especially when the rate of denials is put into consideration.

When I got my first rejection letter from the Canadian embassy in June of 2018, about 8 weeks after applying; the most inconsequential things popped into mind within the first minute. First, that I wouldn’t be using the resignation letter already typed up and sitting in my drafts – just yet. And second, a wanton giggle at the memory of mouthing a strong “AMEN”, when the security guards at the visa application office, asked if I was headed to Canada.

Shortly after came the overwhelming feelings of despondency. Fears I had been grappling with reared their heads: would I never have the chance to leave the country? Was I fated to continue at this job forever? Seeing as previous attempts at finding new employment had proved abortive? What could my next steps be? I read through the reasons for the denial — an absence of strong ties to Nigeria, dismal travel history, the shortage of funds and the fear that I wouldn’t return to Nigeria if given the opportunity — so much, they just might be etched in my brain.

After permitting myself some time to sulk, I began to consider the appropriate courses of action to re-applying for a Canadian visa.

Per the rejection email — I couldn’t get married just yet to create strong ties. More funds could be pooled from family to suit their financial requirements, while there was nothing I could do to allay their fears of remaining in Canada.

I resolved to build a travel history, using money I would much rather have channeled towards my schooling, to better my chances.

I applied for a visiting visa to the US in July of 2018, together with a mammoth crowd of people looking for an out — whether temporary or permanent.

At precisely 9:15am, my interview began in full view of other Nigerians craning to hear what was asked, to better prepare themselves for their round. Following a series of questions, a blue parcel was slipped into my hands — my ₦76 000 application had been denied before 9:30 am.

Keeping with the denial streak, my visa application to the United Kingdom was also rejected in December of 2018. This was thankfully remedied by an approval to visit Dubai in the same month. By which time, through the help of family and more savings, a substantial increase had been made to my account balance.

Fast forward to February 14th 2019 when — bolstered by a swollen account balance, and some travel experience, I tried my hand and applied to the Canadian embassy to have another chance at a needed life change.

For the second time, I paid a non-refundable application fee to study in my chosen University, again I paid out ₦63,520 for the visa application fee. Gathered all the prerequisites, and made sure to keep a solemn nod when asked if by the security guards if I was headed to the Canadian and not the South African office.

With more hope than I should reasonably have allowed, I waited to hear back from the embassy. Going against my better judgement, I spent an unspeakable amount of time bingeing on YouTube videos of life in Ottawa and Ontario, planning for my life there. When I got the email, on April 13th 2019, requesting that I return to the embassy to retrieve my Passport, without an accompanying directive to proceed to medicals (as an approved application would have requested) I felt that same despondency attempt to rear its head; but I allowed no room for it.

Instead, I am choosing to focus on only the positives, viewing the rejections as an opportunity for some introspection and of course, a chance to raise more money.

Because, while the goal hasn’t been shifted, the goal post may have been subjected to some change.

These days, you can find me returning from a day’s work spent conversing strictly in English, to spend my time poring over IELTS practice materials. No, a sudden need to certify my ability to speak the English Language didn’t come over me; but I am setting my sights on Dublin, where I hope the luck of the Irish will favour a Nigerian just looking to lead a better life.

*This story was written on behalf of the protagonist. Some events have been modified to protect their identity.
Can we bend your ear for a minute? Have you nursed dreams of leaving the shores of the country to a place that ‘works’?

Perhaps the lure of fancy things like ‘stable electricity’ and ‘welfare programs’ has had you keeping long nights, studying for the IELTS, even though in your heart, you know Mrs. Ekanem knew what she was doing when she gave you that Best in English Language prize?

Maybe you’ve lost your weekends to language classes — slaving over French conjugations and trying to make sense of German capitalisations because you’re ready to risk it all for a chance at that Quebec stay or Merkel’s Germany?

Well, we’re going to go against the very essence of our beings and attempt to convince you to hold off on the classes and the grueling application procedures, to maybe give Nigeria a second chance. But we’re going to do it together, assessing the current systems in place to TRY TO UNDERSTAND IF YOUR REASONS FOR LEAVING ARE WORTHWHILE.

As it currently stands, the main reasons for Nigerian emigration stem from: the economy, security, better welfare, education and maybe tourism. We’ll attempt to break these down to understand if Nigeria’s situation is so bad, thousands and thousands of miles are necessary to keep you away:

Education

Now, we all know Nigerian employers let their bias for international degrees show and a UK Masters degree is essential to progress as a Yoruba demon, but can we try to help you see reason in not travelling?

So what if Nigerian Universities are under resourced and Nigerian lecturers prefer their notes antiquated? At the last count, two Nigerian Universities – Covenant and The University of Lagos made it to the top 700 in the world.

What was that? You deserve only the best and no one remembers number 2, let alone number 689?

Well, at least we tried, go on and fill out that visa form.

Economy

Because we are honestly kind people at heart, if you’re looking to leave because of Nigeria’s economy, we won’t try to stop you. Any escape from the poverty capital of the world, currently boasting a double-digit unemployment rate (23.1%) is a welcome relief. Go on with your bad self.

Better Welfare

Let’s see – are power, pliable roads, a sympathetic police force, running water, working emergency systems, sturdy bridges, reliable power supply and a welfare system for the poor that inalienable, that you have to leave the country to feel like a loved citizen?

Okay, so maybe we have no point with this one.

Security

Okay, it’s terrible that we have two known terrorist organisations currently ravaging the state, and it has happened more than once that school children were taken from their schools to fulfil a worrying agenda. Also, it maybe that your sons, brothers, nephews and maybe even you aren’t safe from trigger happy policemen.

…You know what, let us know how we can help you with that visa application form.

So, we’re admitting failure here. If you can escape, pick today to do so. Let no one try to put sand-sand in your garri. Unless of course, you have good reasons to stay, then please let us have them in the comments below.
The visa application struggle is very real with our not-so-much-loved Nigerian passport, and a lot of us have learned that the hard way. However, there are still a few countries that will have us with no hassle! Check out these African countries you can visit visa-free.

Thank God, sha. We never cast for here.
1. Cape Verde – West Africa

A former Portuguese colony, this beautiful island country is located on the West African coast. The official language is Portuguese, and the national language is Kriolu. Cape Verde has amazing weather and is a great choice for a visit.
2. The Comoro Islands – East Africa

Comoros is a constellation of islands off the south-east coast of Africa, east of Mozambique and north-west of Madagascar. Although The Comoro Islands is listed as visa-free for Nigerians, we still have to get visas on arrival. Life. There are lots of exciting touristy things you can do on the islands, so you should definitely check it out.
3. The Gambia – West Africa

Africa’s smallest country, The Gambia is absolutely beautiful and is known for its diverse ecosystems around the central Gambia River, abundant wildlife, beaches, and so much more. It has it all. Nigerians can visit The Gambia visa-free for up to 90 days.
4. Ghana – West Africa

As part of ECOWAS benefits, Nigerians can enter our sister country visa-free, but sometimes, visas may be given on arrival. Ghana is famous for its slave-trade historic artefacts, beautiful beaches and parks, and Shatta Wale lol. You should definitely visit.
5. Kenya – East Africa

Kenya is a beautiful country with incredible wildlife. Nigerians can visit for up to 90 days, visa-free. From fun rides through the safari to snorkelling, Kenya is one of Africa’s most impressive vacation locations.
6. Madagascar – East Africa

Madagascar is situated off the South East coast of Mozambique and is the world’s 4th largest island. Different species of palm trees surround the waters and you can go swimming or snorkelling in the Indian Ocean. In Madagascar, Nigerians receive visas on arrival.
7. Chad – Central Africa

Chad is located in the central African region and is home to a wide variety of wild animals. You can visit Chad visa-free and can pay a visit to the Zakouma National Park which has 44 species of large animals and many species of birds. There are also many interesting sandstone formations.
8. Mauritania – West Africa

Mauritania a beautiful desert country situated between Morocco, Mali, Algeria, Senegal, and the sweep of the Atlantic Ocean. On arrival, Nigerians can acquire a visa. You can cross the desert on a camel, or explore Chinguetti, an impressive “Old City”; a crumbling, sandstone village, with various antiquated mosques and a few libraries.
9. Mauritius – East Africa

Mauritius is a gorgeous island nation located along the coast of the Indian Ocean, off the southeast coast of Africa. Mauritius is an English/French-speaking country with a tropical climate, clear and warm sea waters and beaches. A perfect romantic getaway spot, you can go snorkelling, swimming or scuba-diving. For 90 days, Nigerians can visit Mauritius visa-free.
10. Seychelles – East Africa

Seychelles is located off the coast of East Africa in the Indian Ocean and is bordered by other islands like Zanzibar, Madagascar and Mauritius. The beautiful country of 115 islands boasts of a diverse blend of cultures and has some of the best beaches in the world. It offers Nigerians a visitor’s permit for one month.
Planning to travel somewhere stress-free? We’ve got you! See Henley and Partners Visa Restrictions Report for detailed information.
1. Kenya

You can get a Kenyan visa on arrival for 90 days.
2. Maldives

Your visa on arrival for 30 days.
3. Barbados

Barbados is visa-free for 6 months.
4. Seychelles

You’ll only need a visitor’s permit that lasts for a month.
5. Tanzania

Breeze in and get your visa on arrival.
6. Mali

Mali is visa free.
7. Mauritius

Stay visa-free for 90 days.
8. Fiji

You can stay visa-free for up to 4 months.
9. Dominica

Stay without a visa in Dominica for 21 days.
10. Sierra Leone

No visa needed.
11. Federated States of Micronesia

Visa free, but only for 30 days.
12. Burundi

You get a 30-day visa on arrival.

Where do you currently live, and when did you leave Nigeria?

What inspired you to leave?

How so?

Incredible. What do you do?

What has your experience in the US been like?

Interesting. Have you seen a lot of the country?

Do you have a favourite city in the US?

Let us talk about Nigeria. Do you visit?

Is there a possibility of moving back to Nigeria at some point?

What would have to change for you to come back?

What lessons has migration taught you?

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There has been a lot of anti-immigrant sentiment in the West recently, especially in the US with Trump. Are you worried?

What is your support system like in the US?

Congratulations on your marriage. But what was dating like in the US, especially compared to Nigeria?

And what was that like?

What happened?

Wow. So if you got off the apps, how did you meet your husband?

Wow. That quick?

That is awesome. It seems you were both very intentional about marriage. So how are you finding married life?

That does sound great. What were the biggest culture shocks for you in the US?

Let us talk about highlights and lowlights. What has been your worst experience in the US and what has been your best experience?

That must have felt great. On a scale of one to ten, how happy would you say you are in the US, and why?

As-Told-To Dennis

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Where do you live and when did you leave Nigeria?

Was there a particular reason why you wanted to japa?

So was relocation something you wanted or was it a decision influenced by your parents?

Let’s talk about the UK. How did that happen?

Why?

Did you get to say goodbye to your friends?

You seem to really hold your parents in high regard.

That’s interesting. Can you tell me more about that event?

Love that. I know you mentioned that your parents are your primary sponsors but did you explore other funding options?

Shoutout to your parents for real

Earlier, you mentioned that you only applied to one university. What made you so confident that you were going to get in?

Love that for you. What’s your advice for people who are planning to apply to graduate schools in the UK?

Are you planning to stay in the UK?

I hope it works out. Can you share what life in Cardiff looks like?

What kind of party?

So no more techno parties?

LMAO. On a scale of one to ten, how happy are you with your life in the UK?

1. A Beef History of Okorocha and Ihedioha.

2. Uh-Oh, Dino Could Be A Senator No-Mo.

3. Nigeria To The US: Someone Cannot Play With You?

Education

Economy

Better Welfare

Security

The visa application struggle is very real with our not-so-much-loved Nigerian passport, and a lot of us have learned that the hard way. However, there are still a few countries that will have us with no hassle! Check out these African countries you can visit visa-free.

1. Cape Verde – West Africa

2. The Comoro Islands – East Africa

3. The Gambia – West Africa

4. Ghana – West Africa

5. Kenya – East Africa

6. Madagascar – East Africa

7. Chad – Central Africa

8. Mauritania – West Africa

9. Mauritius – East Africa

10. Seychelles – East Africa

1. Kenya

2. Maldives

3. Barbados

4. Seychelles

5. Tanzania

6. Mali

7. Mauritius

8. Fiji

9. Dominica

10. Sierra Leone

11. Federated States of Micronesia

12. Burundi