• Birthdays in Nigeria are never subtle affairs. But when the celebrant is Seyi Tinubu, the president, Bola Tinubu’s first son, birthday wishes become a full-blown performance.

    Tinubu, whose birthday is today, October 13, would not get the random “HBD, Boss!” messages flooding the timeline. Instead, we would see a digital parade of political hopefuls, social climbers, loyalists, and professional well-wishers all trying to outdo each other.

    From the poets writing 10-slide tributes to the subtle critics hiding shade under emojis, the internet becomes a theatre of aspiration and irony.

    Here are the 10 kinds of people who showed up online to wish Seyi Tinubu a happy birthday.

    1. The Loyal APC Soldiers

    These are the card-carrying members of Action Progressive Congress (APC), to which senior and junior Tinubu belong. About any elected official or important party member, get public wishes all the time. Now, imagine Seyi Tinubu, the party’s heir apparent and it’s a whole celebration.

    To spot these loyal APC soldiers isn’t hard. They plaster their Facebook and X pages with birthday wishes written in press release format, and fill them with endearments like: “The future of youth empowerment, the bridge between generations, etc.” You can almost hear the campaign jingle in their captions. They’re in the same group chat as those who say “Office of the First Son of the President.”

    2. Ronu People

    You’re likely to mistake this category for the one above, though they aren’t the same. Ronu people can belong to any political party, and are the self-appointed “defenders” of the Yoruba Nation.

    Their birthday message always starts with, “Happy birthday Oju Eko (meaning “Eyes of Lagos”). You’re a source of inspiration to us all.” If they’re trying to be posh, they’d say “Memento Vivre. Happy birthday to the King of Boys.” They don’t know Tinubu or have anything to do with him. They’re just happy to wish him a happy birthday because he’s a Yoruba son of an “Emilokan” President.

    When they’re not celebrating a “son of the soil,” they’re fighting over the right way to spell “Owambe.”


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    3. The Strategic Networkers

    These ones have never met Seyi Tinubu and don’t know him personally, but they have been “meaning to connect.” Their well-wishes rarely fall far from “Happy birthday, boss of bosses. A true inspiration. More wins, sir!” Every line is a networking pitch disguised as a prayer, hoping one of his people will see it and call them for a business meeting.

    Their profile bio reads something like, “Entrepreneur | Crypto | Logistics | God over Everything.”

    4. Motivational Speakers

    These ones won’t only wish Seyi Tinubu a happy birthday; they deliver a TED talk. They write things like, “Success isn’t by age, it’s by grace. Look at Seyi Tinubu, the definition of focus, discipline, consistency and divine alignment.”

    They use Tinubu’s birthday as an opportunity to remind us that we, too, can make it if we stay consistent — as if consistency alone can fund a Lekki apartment or automatically make Nigerian musicians give you shout-outs in their songs.

    If you scroll two tweets down the birthday wishes, the same person is complaining about NEPA and the new tax policy.

    5. The Influencers and Opportunists

    These ones smell “visibility” from a mile away. The second “Happy Birthday Seyi Tinubu” starts trending, they’re in the quotes with gratitude posts. You’d see tweets like “A visionary! A leader! A man of the people! God bless you abundantly, sir 🙏🏾💙 #STBDay”

    Some will even tag him: “@egbonseyitinubu, thank you for all you do for the youth. We see you, sir 👏🏾👏🏾🔥” They don’t know him personally, but they know engagement when they see it because if they don’t post, how will Tinubu remember them when he’s “empowering the youths and creatives” next?


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    6. The Local Government Loyalists

    These ones are the grassroots soldiers. You’ll find them in the trenches of the comments section, typing like their next appointment depends on it, because it actually might. They’ve probably only met Tinubu once, during a photo-op when he came to commission a borehole, but that one handshake is now their entire political CV.

    They’ll post a picture of him with captions like, “A leader with listening ears” and tag every political handle from @APCNigeria to @lagosstateofficeofsomething. By evening, they’ll be in a WhatsApp group shouting, “Have you people posted for Seyi? Don’t dull o, the Chief of Staff is watching.”

    7. Other Politicians Who Want to Decamp to APC

    These ones know that this is Nigeria, and power can be monarchical. So, they pitch their tent to an important government figure. Whether they’re old enough to be his father, they always start their posts with “My leader and brother, Seyi Tinubu…” like they’ve been friends since university. 

    Their captions are long enough to qualify as a manifesto, full of “renewed hope” and “youth empowerment,” even though the only empowerment they’ve ever given anyone was a few cups of rice during political campaigns.

    Their posts are usually to signal their transfer of allegiance, so that when you see them in agbada by the next press briefing, casually saying “We in APC…” you’re not too shocked.


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    8. The Content Farmers 

    They don’t follow him and don’t care about him. They want to go viral and only care about engagement. They will post: “Say what you want about Seyi Tinubu, but he’s doing something right.” 

    Then they go to bed, wake up and find their post has 500 comments arguing in the replies. Mission accomplished.

    9. Aspiring Lagos Big Boys

    These ones are dreaming of being at the top of the class system. They are the young guys who see Seyi Tinubu as the ultimate role model. Think private jets, Tesla and political access. Some have no clue what he is about and how he got his money, but they just want they may call his kind of  “doings.”

    On his birthday, they post things like, “One day, they’ll mention my name beside yours, boss 🙏🏾🔥.” Well, nothing to see here. Just people hoping their own “Seyi Tinubu Moment” starts before their rent expires.

    10. The Non-Well-Wishers

    These ones don’t say “Happy Birthday”, they drop thinkpieces. They see Seyi Tinubu’s birthday trend and suddenly turn into full-time political analysts. “In a country where the minimum wage is ₦30k, someone’s son is cutting cake in Dubai?” they’d tweet, unprovoked. Just long threads about nepotism, privilege, and “the real problem with Nigeria’s elite structure.”

    They won’t wish him well, and they side-eye every birthday post like, “So na our tax money dey celebrate too?” or “Is this leadership?” The closest to a birthday wish from them is a sarcastic “E go be.”


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  • After years of showing up for everyone, paying black tax and putting herself last, Motun* (30) decided to do something radical for her 30th birthday: choose herself. 

    In this story, she shares how she spent her entire savings over a weekend, and why she has no regrets.

    This is Motun’s story, as told to Boluwatife

    On the morning after my birthday weekend, I woke up in a fluffy white robe, body sore from dancing. The first thing I did was turn on my phone.

    The screen lit up, and my eye caught a debit alert from my bank. I’d gotten similar alerts all weekend and deliberately ignored them. But I couldn’t run away from reality anymore. 

    My account balance read ₦18,710. I was aggressively broke. 

    My heart sank. My body wanted to go into panic mode. But then I took a deep breath. I knew why I’d done it. I chose it, and I’d do it again.

    People say money can’t buy happiness, but I decided to buy my own happiness this year. I turned 30, and was sure I didn’t want to stick to my tradition of doing things lowkey. 

    Usually, the most I do for my birthday is buy a cake and take pictures with my family and friends. If I wanted to do more, I’d buy a pair of shoes I’d been eyeing for months. I always told myself I didn’t need to spend money to have a good time. There were more important things to spend on. 

    This year, I didn’t want “affordable” joy; I wanted the full experience, and that’s what I did during my birthday weekend. At the end, I spent just over ₦2 million. And no, I’m not rich; not even close. I’m just a brand manager earning ₦450k/month. But for once, I made myself the priority.

    Why? I was tired of performing survival and prioritising everyone except myself.

    I’m the first child of four, born and raised in a household where the idea of luxury was eating Mr Biggs’ meatpie and ice cream on birthdays. I started contributing to the family income right after NYSC in 2018. 

    While some people were building savings or buying new clothes to treat themselves, I was paying rent for my retired parents, covering hospital bills for my sister, who lives with sickle cell, and scraping every naira to survive.

    Every debit alert had a purpose. Once my salary hit, I had to sort out my family first before thinking of anything else. It wasn’t always easy, but I have to say I wasn’t obligated to play this role; it just felt like love. It didn’t make sense that my family should struggle when I was in a position to help. 

    I wasn’t carrying all the burdens alone. My immediate younger brother also pitched in when he could. If the economy had been better and my sister had been healthier, the financial burden wouldn’t have been that much. Perhaps I’d have been able to still have a life while assisting my family. Unfortunately, that’s what life threw at us.

    That said, I don’t regret any of it. Again, it’s my family, and I couldn’t abandon them. But somewhere along the line, I forgot what it meant to do something for myself. Not just keeping a ₦20k shoe or dress in my wishlist for months and using my birthday as the only reasonable excuse to buy it, but something radically joyful that didn’t serve anyone but me.

    One day in 2023, it really hit me that I needed to pay more attention to my needs. I spent weeks agonising over whether to drop ₦12k on photochromic glasses. 

    The constant headaches I got from working on my laptop were enough proof to buy them, but I still hesitated. 

    Around the same period, a family need came up and I sent ₦20k without thinking twice. I remember thinking, “I have to learn how to choose myself.”

    So, when I hit 30, it wasn’t just a birthday. It was a quiet rebellion.

    I saved for almost two years. When I intentionally started saving in 2023, the goal wasn’t to spend it all on my birthday. I just wanted to put something aside to call my own. So, even when the black tax requests piled in, I ensured they didn’t affect my ₦20k – ₦30k monthly savings.

    The idea to spend it all on my 30th birthday materialised early this year. By then, I had just about ₦500k in savings, but I unexpectedly got two freelance projects back-to-back that brought me about ₦1.5m. 

    I considered locking up the money somewhere in case of any family emergency, but someone posted their birthday celebration on Instagram, and the idea came to me: What better way to shake off the shackles of responsibility and force myself to live for me than doing something extremely crazy?

    So, I started planning. I didn’t tell anyone about my windfall to avoid the temptation of dipping into it to help them if they returned with a request. 

    I booked a photographer whose work I’d admired for the longest time. Dropping ₦350k for a birthday shoot caused me actual chest pain, but there was no going back. That same day, I bought a wig and closed my eyes as I pressed “send” on the ₦600k transaction. 

    My birthday was still a few months away, but I worried I’d talk myself into not spending the money if I let it sit in my account. So, I went all out. I got a new dress, had my makeup done and got the most stunning pictures I’ve ever seen in my life. I still look at those pictures occasionally to remind myself I’m a gorgeous babe. 

    When my birthday actually came, I booked a beachfront apartment for the weekend and hung out with my best friend. We got food, took pictures and videos, explored activities, curated a Spotify playlist and danced like we had no worries. 

    The final bill, including the pre-birthday shoot and expenses, was just over ₦2m. It would have been more, but my best friend shared some of the weekend getaway expenses (mostly the food). The whole affair seriously depleted my savings, but I regret nothing. 

    Okay, maybe I regretted it for about five minutes when I saw my account balance. But I enjoyed the experience. I wanted to spend money without doing mental maths or worrying about having enough left to survive or provide for my family.

    I gave to myself with the same intensity and intentionality I’ve given to everyone else for years.

    Somehow, I survived the remaining few days of that month with the ₦18,710 in my account before my salary came. Sure, I drank garri more than a few times, but I didn’t die. 

    Was the birthday splurge selfish or even foolish? Maybe. But I think I deserve to be selfish and foolish a few times in this adult life. I’ve always made sensible decisions and shown up for other people. It was the first time I showed up for myself.

    Would I do it again? Maybe not any time soon. My bank account deserves a sabbatical. For now, I’ll focus on getting more freelance projects and growing my account to the point where ₦2m no longer feels like big money. 

    However, I can say I’m no longer waiting for permission to live beautifully. After everything I’ve given to others, I deserve softness, too — not as a reward for hard work, but as my baseline.


    *Name has been changed for the sake of anonymity.


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  • No, you’re not self-involved for Googling “happy birthday wishes for myself.” Why wouldn’t you want to celebrate yourself on your special day? Whether you’re after the perfect message or just feeling thankful to see another year, that’s more than enough reason to show yourself some love.

    As Mide, 27, tells Zikoko, “If no one posts me, I’ll post myself. My birthday is my once-in-a-year opportunity to shine!”

    From funny captions to heartfelt birthday prayers, this list of 150+ birthday wishes for yourself has everything you need to celebrate your special day, whatever your vibe is.

    Simple Birthday Wishes for Myself 

    Sometimes, you don’t need a long or dramatic speech. A simple wish is more than enough to mark the day and speak gratitude into your new year.

    Whether you’re posting online or just taking a quiet moment for yourself, here are some simple birthday wishes for you that are perfect for marking the special day.

    • Happy birthday to me. Grateful for life and growth.
    • Cheers to another year of becoming who I’m meant to be.
    • It’s my birthday! May this year be kind and rewarding.
    • I’m older, wiser, and still fine. Happy birthday to me!
    • Here’s to a new year filled with love, laughter, and lessons.
    • Happy birthday to someone who deserves all the good things: me!
    • Blessings on blessings this new year. Happy birthday to me.
    • I’m +1! May this next chapter be my best one yet.
    • Just a soft reminder: I’m the gift. Happy birthday to me!
    • Today, I celebrate myself and the journey so far.
    • Another year, another reason to smile. Happy birthday!
    • It’s my day! Here’s to good health, calm days, and loud wins.
    • May my next 365 be softer, richer, and lighter.
    • One more year to try, grow, and thrive.
    • On this day, I’m thankful for the life I have and hopeful for what’s to come.
    • Today I’ll be treating myself like royalty.
    • Let’s get this birthday party started!
    • Bottoms up! Cheers to a new year.
    • It’s my birthday! Grateful for another blessed year.
    • I’m the star today, and it feels so good!

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    Funny Birthday Wishes for Myself

    For some, birthdays are for reflection. For others? It’s all about cruise and good vibes. As Tolu, 30, says, “If I don’t laugh on my birthday, then what did I really celebrate?”

     These funny birthday wishes are the perfect dose of humour for your special day.

    • My birthday goals: eat cake, live bold, and keep being the fabulous me.
    • Another year of fabulous me! Happy Birthday. To the world, you’re welcome!
    • I’m officially older but definitely not growing up. Happy Birthday to me!
    • Another year, still fabulous. Let my cake speak for itself!
    • It’s my day and time to eat cake and party! Happy Birthday to me.
    • Another year older and still no six-pack. Happy birthday, me!
    • Cake? Check. Vibes? Check. Adulting? Let’s skip that this year.
    • It’s my birthday and yes, I’m still not rich. Will try again next year!
    • Happy birthday to the one who never ages—me and my filters!
    • They say wisdom comes with age… guess I’m still waiting.
    • Dear self, please don’t do anything dramatic this year.
    • Still cute. Still chaotic. Still me. Happy birthday!
    • Birthdays are like software updates — unnecessary but inevitable.
    • I survived another year of adulting. I deserve two cakes!
    • Happy birthday to me — living proof that God has a sense of humour.
    • The only things getting LIT today are the candles on my cake!
    • I’ve decided this year I’m staying in my lane… unless there’s jollof.
    • Growing up is overrated. I’m choosing to stay forever young.
    • Another year of fake it till I make it. Let’s gooo!
    • Happy birthday to me, a person who is smart, good looking, and funny and reminds me a lot of myself.
    • Old enough to know better, young enough not to care.

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    Inspirational Birthday Wishes for Myself 

    Birthdays can also be a moment to look at how far you’ve come and hype yourself up for what’s ahead. As Nora, 28, says, “I may not be where I want to be yet, but on my birthday, I’m proud when I see how far I’ve come.”

    These inspirational birthday wishes for yourself are a perfect reminder that you’re not just getting older, but you’re getting closer to your goals.

    • On my birthday, I promise to embrace every moment with courage.
    • Grateful for the lessons and excited for what’s next. Happy birthday, self!
    • This year, I will become the best version of myself. Happy birthday to me!
    • This year, I rise. Higher, stronger, and more focused.
    • Today, I celebrate the courage to keep moving forward, even when the road is tough.
    • I am walking into this new year with purpose and boldness.
    • Happy birthday to the future success story that is me.
    • I’m growing into the version of myself I’ve always dreamed of.
    • Cheers to another chapter of chasing dreams and living fully.
    • Here’s to trusting the process and celebrating the progress.
    • May this new age come with clarity, confidence, and courage.
    • The best is yet to come, and I’m ready for it. Happy birthday to me.
    • I will do great things this year. Watch this space.
    • With each year, I get better. Stronger. Wiser. Happier.
    • Happy birthday to a work in progress and a masterpiece at the same time.
    • Another year to believe in myself, chase joy, and live loud.
    • Today, I choose growth over comfort. Let’s go!
    • Birthdays are milestones; I choose to make each one meaningful. Happy birthday to myself!
    • Happy birthday, me! I’ll keep learning, growing, and shining brighter every day.
    • Today, I choose to embrace the unknown and trust my journey. Happy birthday, me!
    • Every year, I grow a little stronger, a little wiser, and a lot braver. Happy birthday to me!

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    Emotional Birthday Wishes for Myself

    Your birthday can put you in your feelings, especially if you’ve had a rollercoaster year.

    Whether it’s been a tough year or you’re just grateful to be alive, these emotional birthday wishes for yourself are touching messages that will help express how you feel about your day. 

    • As I blow out the candles, I wish for endless growth, unshakable joy, and the courage to chase my dreams.
    • Here’s to embracing my flaws, celebrating my strengths, and loving myself unconditionally. Happy birthday to me!
    • I am proud of how far I’ve come and excited for where I’m heading. Happy birthday to the person I’m becoming.
    • I’ve survived things I never thought I could. Happy birthday to me.
    • This year taught me strength. May this new one bring softness.
    • I’m thankful for life, healing, and the quiet moments of peace.
    • Happy birthday to the person I’m becoming — slowly but surely.
    • I’m not perfect, but I’m still here. And that’s something.
    • Today, I honour my scars, my growth, and my resilience.
    • I’ve lost. I’ve learned. I’ve grown. And I’m still here.
    • I deserve this day, this joy, and every bit of love coming my way. Happy birthday to myself!
    • Life has tested me in countless ways, but here I stand, grateful and strong. Happy birthday, me.
    • I am enough, I am strong, and I am worthy of all the joy this world offers. Happy birthday to me!
    • This birthday means more than anyone could understand. Cheers to much more growth than I ever imagined.
    • Through the storms and sunshine, I’ve kept going. Happy birthday to me.
    • It’s my birthday! May this year be gentle on my heart and kind to my soul.
    • On this day, I remember every tear, and every triumph that brought me here. I’m proud of that.
    • Today, I breathe in grace and breathe out gratitude.
    • Here’s to healing, hoping, and holding on to joy.
    • Happy birthday to the me that kept pushing, even in silence.
    • If nothing else, I’ve got me — and that’s worth celebrating.
    • I’m my own best friend, my biggest cheerleader, and my constant companion. Happy birthday to me!

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    Birthday Prayers for Myself

    Your birthday is a chance to pause, reflect, and speak life into your next chapter. If you’re looking for birthday prayers for yourself that are simple yet heartfelt, this list of birthday messages for yourself will help you start your new year with faith and positive energy.

    • Dear God, thank You for another year. May this one be filled with peace, purpose, and endless grace.
    • As I step into this new age, may I grow in wisdom, strength, and kindness.
    • Lord, surround me with divine favour and open doors I didn’t even knock on.
    • Ya Allah, thank You for granting me life up to this moment. I pray that You bless my new age with peace, guidance, and barakah.
    • May this birthday bring clarity to my vision and courage to my steps.
    • I pray for health in my body, peace in my heart, and joy in my soul.
    • May I continue to rise, heal, and thrive through every season.
    • Alhamdulillah for another year of life. May I continue to grow in imaan, health, and happiness.
    • Heavenly Father, let this new year of mine be one of answered prayers and quiet victories.
    • O Allah, guide me on the straight path. Keep my heart steady, my faith strong, and my days full of light.
    • As I celebrate today, I pray for deeper love, louder laughter, and a heart that always finds peace.
    • Thank You, Lord, for sustaining me. May I walk into this next chapter with bold faith.
    • On my birthday, I ask for direction where I feel lost and strength where I feel weak.
    • May I never lack good friends, good health, or good news, even after this special day.
    • Bismillah as I begin this new chapter. May this year bring rizq in abundance and ease in every challenge.
    • This year, may my dreams align with God’s perfect plan for me.
    • I pray that every setback becomes a setup for something greater.
    • Ya Rabb, increase me in knowledge, keep me steadfast in my prayers, and shower me with Your mercy.
    • Lord, protect me from harm, and guide me into rooms meant for me.
    • May I always remember that I am chosen, loved, and destined for greatness.
    • O Allah, let my life be a reflection of Your mercy. Make me a source of light to those around me.

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    Birthday Captions for Social Media 

    Your birthday only comes once a year, so yes, the spotlight is all yours!

    Whether you want to be funny or sassy, these birthday captions for social media will help you announce your new age with whatever vibe you’re going for. 

    • Birthday glow: activated!
    • Officially older, slightly wiser, and still fine AF.
    • Another year around the sun, still shining.
    • Ageing like fine palm wine!
    • Birthday mood: God did.
    • New age. New blessings. Same me, but upgraded.
    • Just a reminder that I’m the gift. 
    • I was born for greatness. Today is just a reminder.
    • God’s favourite child just got older.
    • Born to stand out. Even on my birthday.
    • Feeling extra loved today. Thank you, God.
    • Happy birthday to the realest one I know: Me.
    • I didn’t wake up like this. I was born this amazing.
    • It’s my day! Cheers to me!
    • Here’s to another year of greatness!
    • Another year, another reason to shine.
    • Here’s to a new chapter in my epic story!
    • Happy Birthday to the star of the day: me!
    • Another trip around the sun—let’s celebrate!
    • Feeling blessed and ready for new adventures.
    • Birthday vibes: pure joy and endless gratitude.
    • A little older, a lot bolder. Happy Birthday to me!
    • A toast to the year ahead. May it be amazing!
    • Today, I’m my own biggest fan. Happy Birthday!

    Birthday Cake Inscription for Myself 

    Your cake is an important part of the celebration. Zinny, 27, tells Zikoko: “I think about my cake caption more than my outfit.”

    This list is for you if you want your birthday cake inscriptions to go beyond the usual and add a unique twist to your cake.

    • +1 and Glowing
    • Self-Love Looks Good on Me
    • 365 Days Finer
    • Cheers to another Year of Soft Living
    • Forever young, forever grateful.
    • Still That Girl™/ Guy™.
    • Level [Insert Age]: Unlocked.
    • New Year, Same Baddie.
    • Flourishing Since [Birth Year].
    • The Main Character’s Birthday
    • Living my best life.
    • Forever fabulous!
    • Older, wiser, better.
    • More Life, More Blessings
    • Happy Cake Day!
    • Born to Shine! 
    • Grateful and thriving!
    • Celebrating me today.
    • A toast to my journey!
    • Making every year count.
    • Another year of awesome.

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  • Finding the right birthday wishes for your dad is more than a nice gesture — it’s a chance to celebrate the man who’s been your biggest cheerleader and toughest teacher. His birthday isn’t just about marking another year, but about honouring everything he means to you.

    “Every year, I try to find the right words, but they never seem to be enough,” says Tunde, 29. “My dad is such an amazing person who deserves the whole world.” 

    Whether you’re sending a quick text, a heartfelt prayer, or a joke to make him laugh, this list of over 100 happy birthday wishes and blessings for your dad has something he’ll definitely appreciate.

    Short Birthday Wishes for Your Dad

    Sometimes, the simplest words are the most meaningful. These short birthday wishes for your dad are perfect for texts, cards, or quick social media captions to remind him how much he means to you.

    Here are some short and sweet birthday wishes to make his day.

    • Happy birthday, Daddy. Thanks for all that you do and all that you are
    • Happy birthday to my first best friend!
    • Happy birthday to my favourite person (don’t tell Mummy).
    • Shout-out to the first man I ever loved. Happy birthday, Dad.
    • I may be a little biased, but I have the best dad on the planet.
    • I’m super grateful to be your child. Happy birthday, Popsi!
    • Happy birthday to the world’s best dad!
    • Thanks for absolutely everything, Dad! Enjoy your day!
    • You are loved and appreciated. Happy birthday, Sir!
    • Happy birthday to the best dad in the universe!
    • Wishing the bravest man in the world a happy birthday.
    • Fathers are the best gift. Happy birthday!
    • Happy birthday to the best father ever!
    • Wishing you a day filled with as much love as you give to me!
    • Happy birthday, Daddy! You’re my greatest inspiration.
    • Thanks for all you do for me, Dad. Have an amazing birthday!
    • Happy birthday to the man who means the world to me.
    • Happy birthday to my role model!
    • Cheers to another year of being an amazing father!
    • I’m so glad that you’re my dad! Happy birthday!

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    Long Birthday Wishes for Your Dad

    If you want to give your father a little more than a brief “Happy Birthday,” these longer wishes should do the trick. Dipo, 57, says, “I really appreciate when my children send me expressive birthday messages. It means a lot to me.”

    These long and heartfelt birthday wishes for your dad will help you tell him everything he deserves to hear.

    • Happy birthday, Dad! Every year, I realise just how lucky I am to have a father like you. You have guided me with wisdom, protected me with strength, and loved me without limits. I hope today brings you even half the joy you’ve given me throughout my life. You deserve nothing but happiness, laughter, and love today and always.
    • Wishing the happiest birthday to the man who has always been my role model, my guide, and my hero. Daddy, your unwavering support and endless patience have shaped me into the person I am today. I hope this year rewards you for all the sacrifices you’ve made and fills your life with new adventures and sweet memories.
    • To my incredible Dad, happy birthday! I’ve watched you face life’s challenges with courage and heart, and it has taught me so much. Thank you for every lesson, every pep talk, and every silent support you’ve given me. May this year be your most joyful yet.
    • Happy birthday, Daddy! No matter how old I get, I’ll always be your little one who looks up to you. Your wisdom, your strength, and your laughter have made my world a better place. May your day be filled with endless smiles and unforgettable moments.
    • On your special day, I just want to remind you how much you mean to me, Dad. You’re not just my father, you’re my hero, my friend, and my biggest inspiration. Happy birthday to the man whose love has been my anchor through every storm.
    • Wishing you a birthday as legendary as you are, Dad! You’ve given me the kind of love and security that words can barely capture. I hope today brings you peace, joy, and the biggest cake we can find. Cheers to many more years of laughter and good health!
    • Happy birthday to the man whose heart is as big as his dreams! Dad, your life is a beautiful example of hard work, resilience, and kindness. May this year bring you new blessings, fresh adventures, and more happiness than you ever imagined.
    • Happy birthday, Sir! Thank you for all the life lessons you taught me, not just through words, but through your actions. You are the definition of what a great man should be, and I am forever proud to be your child. Have an amazing day!
    • Happy birthday, Dad! Today, we celebrate you. You’re a man who showed me what it means to love unconditionally, to work relentlessly, and to laugh wholeheartedly. I hope this year brings you all the things that make your heart smile.
    • Happy birthday to the first man I ever loved, respected, and admired. Daddy, your encouragement has been the foundation of my strength. I hope this year is filled with the happiness and success you deserve for being so amazing.
    • Wishing you a very happy birthday, Sir! You taught me the meaning of loyalty, honesty, and hard work, not through speeches but through the way you live. Thank you for being the greatest example I could ever have. Love you endlessly.
    • Happy birthday to my incredible father! You made our house a home and our lives rich with your laughter and love. May today and the year ahead be packed with everything that fills your heart with joy. You deserve it all and more.
    • Daddy, you have taught me the meaning of love and strength. I am grateful for all the time I spent with you. I hope you have a great day ahead. Happy Birthday, Dad!
    • Having you as my father is the biggest blessing of my life. I hope that your day is filled with happiness. Happy Birthday, Sir!
    • It is your day, it is time to celebrate you, your love, and your wisdom. Wishing you a very happy birthday, Sir! Thanks for who you are, and for holding this family together. I love and appreciate you.
    • I am so lucky to have you as my father. You have always been there for me through thick and thin, and I want you to know that I am grateful for it. Happy Birthday, Dad!
    • Dad, I have learned everything from you. How to be a good human, how to give importance to love and family, and how to work hard to reach my goals. I am so proud to be your child. Wishing you a happy birthday!
    • Happy birthday, Pops! Your patience, your sacrifices, and your endless love have shaped my world in ways you may never fully realise. On your special day, I just want to say: I see it all, I appreciate it all, and I love you more than words can say.
    • Dear Dad, on your birthday, I just want to celebrate you for being the wonderful man you are. You’re my greatest teacher, my most trusted advisor, and my forever protector. May your birthday be filled with every good thing life can offer.
    • Happy birthday to the man who raised me with love, guided me with wisdom, and supported me through everything. Daddy, your strength and compassion are unmatched. I hope your day is as incredible as you are.

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    Touching Birthday Wishes for Your Dad

    There’s something beautiful about taking a moment to express what your dad truly means to you. Ifeoma, 29, says, “I didn’t realise how much my dad had sacrificed for us until I became an adult. Now, his birthday is a chance for me to say thank you in the most meaningful way.”

    These touching birthday wishes for your dad are full of warmth, appreciation, and love. They are perfect for the man who helped shape your world.

    • Happy birthday to my superhero! Thank you for always believing in me when no one did, and thank you for encouraging me to chase my dreams. You are my rock, Dad.
    • On the occasion of your birthday, I want to tell you that you are an inspiration to me. I see you, and I am reminded of strength and resilience. Thank you for being the hero of my life.
    • Happy birthday, Dad. There’s no one else in the world who has loved me as fiercely, protected me as fearlessly, or believed in me as wholeheartedly as you have. I am who I am because of you, and I’m forever grateful.
    • Daddy you are the steady hand that guided me, the strong arms that caught me, and the kind heart that never gave up on me. On your birthday, I just want to say thank you for everything. I love you more than words can express.
    • Daddy, your love has been the bridge that carried me over every fear and failure. Thank you for holding my hand even when I thought I didn’t need it. Happy birthday, my guardian angel.
    • Happy birthday to the man whose quiet sacrifices have written the story of my life. I see you, I appreciate you, and I love you more than I can ever say.
    • Thanks, Dad, for being my role model, my go-to guy and our family’s rock. You’re a real-life superhero, and you deserve an awesome day.
    • You are my hero, my best friend, my mentor, you are my biggest source of strength. I hope that your birthday is filled with love. Happy birthday!
    • You have taught me the meaning of love and strength. I am grateful for all the time I spent with you.
    • Thank you for always believing in me when no one did, and thank you for encouraging me to chase my dreams. You are my rock, Dad. Happy birthday!
    • Thank you for being a shoulder I can always lean on no matter what. I love you so much. Happy birthday, Dad!
    • A father’s love is something that you can’t put into words. I hope you always know how much you mean to me. Happy birthday!
    • Today, I honour you, Dad. Not just for being my father, but for being my safe place, my protector, and my biggest cheerleader. I hope your birthday is filled with all the love you have so selflessly given.
    • Happy birthday, Dad. If I could give you even a fraction of the love you’ve given me, you’d feel cherished beyond words. Thank you for everything you are and everything you continue to be.
    • Dad, you have taught me the meaning of love and strength. I am grateful for all the time I spent with you. I hope you have a great day ahead. Happy Birthday, Dad!
    • Dad, you are the heart of our family, the soul of my childhood, and the wisdom of my future. Happy birthday to the man who has given me everything without ever asking for anything in return.
    • Every memory I have of you, Dad, is filled with warmth, strength, and love. You have been my biggest supporter and the safest place I know. Happy birthday to the man who made my world a beautiful place.
    • Happy birthday, Dad. Your love is the silent force that has always lifted me higher. Thank you for believing in me even when I doubted myself. I hope today and every day remind you of how deeply you are loved.
    • No gift can ever match the one you’ve given me: a lifetime of unconditional love and wisdom. Happy birthday, Dad. I carry your lessons and your love with me every day.
    • Happy birthday to the man whose love has been the foundation of my life. Dad, you are my hero, my first teacher, and my forever friend. Thank you for being my everything.

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    Funny Birthday Wishes for Your Dad

    Not every birthday message has to be deep or emotional — sometimes, making your dad laugh is the best gift of all.  Jim, 32, says, “My dad is always so serious, even on his birthday. If my birthday message doesn’t make him laugh, I feel like I’ve failed.”

    This list of funny birthday wishes is full of enough humour to make even the most serious dad have a good laugh.

    • Happy birthday, Dad! At your age, the candles cost more than the cake.
    • Happy birthday to the man who taught me everything (except how to act my age).
    • Happy birthday, Dad! Thanks for passing down your good looks…and your terrible dance moves.
    • Cheers to the guy who still thinks he’s 25 at heart, even though his knees are over 75.
    • Happy birthday to the man who gave me my sense of humor, and a bald head.
    • If you ever feel bad about getting older, just remember: you’re still younger than you’ll be next year!
    • Happy birthday to the man who always said “yes” when mum said “no.”
    • Pretty sure I’m your favourite child, but since it’s your special day, I won’t put you on the spot and make you say it out loud!
    • Happy birthday, Dad! Remember, age is just a number. In your case, a really huge one!
    • Daddy, in honour of your birthday today, here’s a throwback pic to prove you’ve always been cooler than me.
    • HBD Popsi. Nobody is better than a cool person raising the coolest person ever (That’s me.)
    • Happy birthday, Dad. Enjoy another 365 days of an all-expense paid trip around the sun!
    • Happy birthday to the person who is perfect in every way. Well, except your cooking. I love you anyway, Dad!
    • Happy birthday, Dad! I’d get you a gift, but you already have the best one…me!
    • I was trying to think of funny birthday wishes to send you, but I couldn’t come up with anything. Just pretend I wrote something hilarious. Happy birthday, Daddy!
    • Congrats, Dad! You’ve officially been alive longer than most of your jokes.
    • Happy birthday to the man who can fix anything — except his hairline.
    • Cheers to the only man I know who falls asleep on the couch but insists he’s still awake.
    • Wishing you a day filled with as much joy as you get from fixing something that wasn’t even broken.
    • Another year older and somehow still cooler than half the people I know. You’re a legend, Dad.

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    Birthday Prayers for Your Dad

    Your dad’s birthday is a great opportunity to speak blessings over his life.  Ahmed, 35, says, “My dad’s always been the prayer warrior of the house. He appreciates it  when we also pray for him.”

    These birthday prayers for your Dad are a beautiful way to celebrate his life.

    • May your life be filled with health, happiness and peace. Happy birthday, Dad!
    • May God continue to bless you with wisdom because He knows that I count on you for all your sage advice. Happy birthday, Daddy!
    • May God hold you in the palm of His hand today and always. Happy birthday, Sir!
    • I wish you more smiles than worries and more blessings than you can count this year. Happy birthday, Dad.
    • May life always be kind to you, and may love and family surround you. Happy birthday, Dad!
    • Happy birthday, Daddy! I pray that your heart remains light and your spirit stays youthful.
    • May all the seeds of kindness you have sown in others return to you a hundredfold. Happy birthday, Dad!
    • I pray that you live to see your children’s children and enjoy the fruits of your labour in health and peace.
    • May God’s unending mercy and favour rest upon you now and always. Amen.
    • Wishing you a birthday filled with the peace of Christ and the love of family.
    • Happy birthday, Sir. I pray that you continue to be a pillar of strength and a light in our lives through God’s grace.
    • May the Lord renew your strength like the eagle’s and bless you with wisdom and good health.
    • May Allah (SWT) bless you with a long life filled with barakah, good health, and unwavering faith
    • I pray Allah continues to guide and protect you, and grants you peace in your heart.
    • Ya Allah, on this special day, bless my father with joy in both this life and the hereafter. Ameen.
    • To the greatest dad in the world, may your birthday be as amazing as you are.
    • Happy Birthday to the man who’s always been there for me. Keep living a life of righteousness.
    • I pray that Allah grants you Jannah (Paradise) and rewards you abundantly for all the sacrifices you have made for us. Happy birthday, Daddy!
    • May God bless you with a day that is as incredible as the life you’ve led. Happy birthday Dad!
    • Happy birthday to the one who taught me to be strong and kind. May you always be surrounded by people and things that bring you joy.

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  • Your mum’s birthday is more than just another date on the calendar. It’s a chance to celebrate the woman who raised you, prayed for you, and probably threatened you more times than you can count. Finding the right birthday wishes for mum can be tough because how do you put into words everything she means to you?

    “My mum’s birthday is my chance to pause and show her how much she’s shaped who I am,” says Dayo, 27. “It’s when I make sure to tell her every year how much I love her.”

    Whether she prefers heartfelt prayers, a touch of humour, or long wishes, there’s a perfect message here to make her laugh, or cry happy tears. We’ve compiled over 100 happy birthday wishes and blessings for mum that’ll help you say everything she deserves to hear, and secure your spot as her favourite child.

    Short Birthday Wishes for Your Mum

    Sometimes, a few words are all it takes to make your mum feel appreciated.

    “I don’t like long stories on my birthday,” says Tope, 43, a mum of two. “One simple message is enough to make my day.”

    Here are some short and sweet birthday wishes for mum to make her day.

    • It’s my mum’s birthday! I wish you a day filled with as much love as you give to me!
    • Happy birthday, Mum! You’re my greatest inspiration.
    • Wishing you the best birthday ever because heaven knows you deserve it.
    • Happy birthday to a mum who’s forever young at heart
    • Thanks for all you do for me, Mum. Have an amazing birthday!
    • Happy birthday to the woman who means the absolute most to me.
    • Happy birthday to my role model and best friend! I love you so much.
    • Cheers to another year of being an amazing mum!
    • I’m so glad that you’re my mum! Happy birthday!
    • Happy birthday to my first best friend!
    • Happy birthday, Mum. Thanks for all that you do and all that you are.
    • I’m lucky to have a mum who’s also my best friend. Happy birthday!
    • Wishing a special day to the world’s best mum.
    • I owe everything to you, but for now, happy birthday!
    • I’m here to make sure that your birthday is as joyful as you are!
    • We celebrate you every day, but today we’re going to go ten times harder! Happy birthday, mummy!!!
    • Sending you a birthday wish wrapped with all my love.
    • I’m so lucky to call you my mum. Sending you all my love on this special day!
    • Wishing my kind, supportive, and one-of-a-kind mother a very happy birthday.
    • On this day, the kindest and most caring person was born. Happy birthday, Mum!

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    Long Birthday Wishes for Your Mum

    Some feelings just can’t fit into a short message, especially when it comes to your mum. A long birthday wish is the perfect way to remind her how much she means to you.

    These long and heartfelt birthday wishes for mum will help you say everything your mum deserves to hear. 

    • Happy birthday, Mum! You’ve been my biggest supporter, my most patient teacher, and my forever safe space. I hope this new year brings you joy that never runs dry and peace that flows like a river. You deserve all the love in the world today and always.
    • To the woman who carried me before the world even knew me — thank you for every sacrifice, every prayer, every hug, and every hard truth. I’m so proud to call you my mother. May your day be as lovely and extraordinary as you are.
    • Mummy, your strength, grace, and endless love have shaped the person I am today. I don’t say it enough, but I’m grateful for you every single day. Happy birthday to the one who does it all and makes it look effortless.
    • There’s no one like you, Ma. You love deeply, give selflessly, and forgive easily. I pray this new year rewards you with all the goodness you’ve poured into others. Happy birthday, my queen!
    • You’re not just my mother, you’re my best friend, my anchor, and my daily inspiration. Thank you for showing me what love, resilience, and strength look like. I celebrate you today and every day.
    • If I had to choose a lifetime again, I’d still pick you as my mother. You’re simply irreplaceable. Happy birthday to the one whose love raised a whole generation. I love you endlessly.
    • Mummy, you wear so many hats: nurturer, counsellor, cheerleader, warrior. And you wear them all with such grace. I hope today brings you all the joy you’ve given to everyone around you.
    • Every good part of me is because of you. Your discipline, your laughter, your unwavering support — all of it has shaped me. I’m blessed beyond measure to be your child. Happy birthday, Mum.
    • Happy birthday, Mummy. May this year be filled with little joys, answered prayers, and the kind of peace you’ve always wanted. You deserve nothing less.
    • You taught me to love fearlessly, speak honestly, and dream boldly. I carry your lessons with me everywhere I go. Thank you for everything, Ma. Happy birthday!
    • The world is brighter, softer, and kinder because you’re in it. Happy birthday to the woman whose love knows no bounds. May this new year treat you gently.
    • To my first friend, first teacher, and forever hero — happy birthday, Mum. You’ve given me more than I can ever repay, but I’ll spend my life trying.
    • I hope this day reminds you of how loved and valued you are. Your love is a light that never goes out, and I’m lucky to bask in it. Happy birthday, Mum.
    • On your special day, I just want to say thank you. For the times you stayed up late worrying, the meals you cooked with love, and the prayers you whispered on my behalf. You’re the real MVP.
    • You’ve held this family together with nothing but strength and grace. I hope today brings you the kind of peace and celebration you deserve. Happy birthday, Mum.
    • Happy birthday, my heart. You’ve given so much of yourself to us, and I hope today you get a fraction of that love back. You’re one of one, and I’m blessed to be your child.
    • You’ve always made birthdays special for us and today, it’s your turn. I hope your day is filled with cake, laughter, and all the things that make your soul happy. I love you much more than I can ever express.
    • Mum, no one loves like you do. You show up, hold space, and give without expecting anything in return. Today, we celebrate you and everything you stand for. Enjoy your day!
    • The older I get, the more I understand everything you sacrificed for me. Thank you for your quiet strength and loud love. Happy birthday, Mum.
    • Happy birthday, my queen. I wish you a birthday filled with sunshine, peace, and the joy of knowing you’ve raised kings and queens. You’re a living legend, Mummy!

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    Touching Birthday Wishes for Your Mum

    Sometimes, you want to go beyond the basic “Happy birthday, Mum” and say something that really touches her heart. 

    “My mum cried when she read my last birthday message,” Kemi, 29, tells Zikoko. “She said it made her feel truly loved and appreciated.”

    If you’re looking for words that will remind her just how much she means to you, these touching birthday wishes are exactly what you need.

    • Mummy, your love is the reason I believe in goodness. You’ve held me through every storm and celebrated me through every win. I hope today reminds you of just how deeply you are loved.
    • There’s no gift I could ever give that would measure up to all you’ve done for me. But today, I give you my heart in words: thank you mum, for everything. Happy birthday, Ma.
    • I’ve watched you give your all even when you had little. Your love is my greatest inheritance. May today bring you all the joy you’ve given me, and more.
    • Happy birthday, Mum. You’ve been the hands that lifted me, the voice that guided me, and the heart that never gave up on me. I’m forever grateful for you.
    • No matter how far I go, your love always brings me home. Thank you for being my forever safe space. Happy birthday, Mum.
    • Mummy, your strength has built bridges for me. Your sacrifices, though often silent, speak the loudest in my life. I celebrate you today and always.
    • You loved me through every version of myself, even when I didn’t deserve it. I hope this new year brings you peace, laughter, and rest. Happy birthday, my rock.
    • Every time I pray, I thank God for you. You are truly one of His best gifts to me. May He bless you today with everything your heart desires.
    • Momsi, I see you not just as a mother, but as a woman who gave her all. May this birthday remind you that you matter, deeply and endlessly.
    • Your love has covered me more times than I can count. Today, I cover you in celebration, gratitude, and prayers. Happy birthday, my angel in human form.
    • You’ve always shown up for birthdays, heartbreaks, and every ordinary day in between. I’m honoured to show up for you today. Happy birthday, Mum.
    • They say no one can replace a mother. But truthfully, no one could ever be you. You’re one of a kind. And I love you more than words can say.
    • You gave me the world, even when yours was falling apart. I hope today the world gives you a fraction of the love you’ve sown. Happy birthday, Mama.
    • I grew up watching you be everyone’s strength. I just want to be that for you today. Rest, laugh, and be celebrated. You deserve it all and more.
    • Some people have role models. I have you, Mum. You’ve taught me what it means to love, lead, and live with grace. I hope this year is good to you.
    • You’ve given me more than life — you’ve given me love, values, and wings. May this birthday be the start of your most joyful season yet.
    • No matter how old I get, I’ll always need your prayers, hugs, and  “Have you eaten?” calls. Happy birthday to my forever lifeline.
    • I’ve seen you put everyone before yourself. Today, it’s your turn. May joy surround you, love overwhelm you, and peace find you. Happy birthday, Mummy.
    • Thank you for fighting battles I never even knew existed, just to make my life easier. You’re a warrior in every sense of the word. I celebrate you today.
    • Happy birthday to the woman who can make a house feel like home with just her presence. I hope today you feel as seen and celebrated as you’ve always made others feel.
    • If I had a thousand tongues, I still couldn’t thank you enough. You’ve been my shield, my teacher, my comforter. May life be kind to you this year and always. Happy birthday!
    • Your love has healed, guided, and uplifted me. I carry your strength like armour. Wishing you a birthday as amazing as the life you’ve lived so far.

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    Funny Birthday Wishes for Your Mum

    Nigerian mums are unintentionally hilarious, so it’s only right we return the energy by giving them something to laugh about too.

    Chuka, 26, says, “I wrote my mum a funny birthday message last year. It was so satisfying to hear her laugh.”

    If your mum enjoys a good joke, these funny birthday wishes will definitely put a smile on her face.

    • On your birthday, Mum, I just want to remind you that you’re amazing, irreplaceable, and 100% responsible for how dramatic I turned out.
    • Mum, thanks for always being the drama queen of the house. Your birthday is the perfect excuse to act extra. Enjoy it!
    • Happy birthday to the woman who gave me life, and plenty of embarrassing baby pictures!
    • Mummy, you’re aging like fine wine — even though you don’t drink — and only getting better every year!
    • Happy birthday, mum! You’re the only person who makes multitasking look easy.
    • Thanks for always being my biggest fan, even though I’m not that cool. Happy birthday, mum!
    • Happy birthday! You’re the queen of our family and the doctor of the house.
    • Wishing the happiest birthday to the mum who does it all – and still has time to look fabulous.
    • Happy birthday, my melanin queen. Thank you for the good genes.
    • I’m pretty sure I’m the favourite child, but since it’s your special day, I won’t put you on the spot! Happy birthday, mum!
    • Happy birthday to the one who’s seen me at my best and my worst! Thanks for enduring plenty of “worst” days.
    • Whenever someone asks me how I turned out so gorgeous, I tell them, “I got it from my mama!” Happy birthday to the most fabulous woman I know.
    • You gave birth to the greatest gift you’ll ever receive. Me! Happy birthday, mum!
    • Happy birthday, Mummy. With all my drama as a teenager, it’s a miracle I didn’t send you to an early grave!
    • I know this card will end up in your drawer along with every other birthday card, Mother’s Day card, and scrap of paper I ever scribbled on. I love you for that.
    • I got you the best gift you could possibly receive: me! Happy birthday, mum.
    • You deserve the world, mum. Unfortunately, that wasn’t in the budget this year, so you must settle for this card.
    • I know you probably don’t know what a “baddie” is, but I’ve seen the pictures of you from the ‘80s up until this very day. Trust me, you’re a true baddie!
    • Happy birthday to my dear mother. Thanks for never leaving me in the market and running away. I know it must’ve been tempting at times.
    • I was trying to think of funny birthday wishes to send you, but I couldn’t come up with anything. Just pretend I wrote something hilarious. Happy birthday, mum!

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    Birthday Prayers for Your Mum

    Birthday prayers for your mum are a simple but powerful way to give back a little of the love your mum has always shown. 

    As Nike, 51, puts it: “I don’t ask for much, but when my children pray for me, I feel fulfilled. My spirit prays for them too.”

    These prayers will help you say what truly matters to her.

    • Mum, may this new year bring you peace, happiness, and everything your heart desires. You deserve nothing less.
    • May the Lord continue to strengthen you, Mummy. I pray this new year brings you peace that surpasses all understanding, joy that never runs dry, and rest from every battle you’ve fought for us.
    • God, thank you for blessing me with a mother like this. May her days be long, her health be strong, and her heart be light with laughter.
    • Mummy, as you’ve watered others with your love, advice, and prayers, may God water you richly this year. You deserve the very best, and I pray heaven delivers it.
    • May Allah (SWT) bless you with good health, long life, and continued joy. Happy birthday, dearest mum.
    • As you celebrate another year, may God’s grace surround you like a shield and His love uplift your spirit.
    • Momsi, I pray that this year brings new beginnings and answers to the silent prayers of your heart.
    • May your new age bring abundant rizq, barakah in all you do, and unshakable peace. Ameen.
    • Heavenly Father, thank You for my mother’s life. May you continue to protect her, bless her, and reward her sacrifices.
    • Ya Allah, grant my mum strength in her body, peace in her home, and light in her heart. Make her life easy and beautiful, Ameen.
    • Happy birthday to the one who taught me to be strong and kind. May you always be surrounded by people and things that bring you joy.
    • May God continue to crown you with honour, robe you in peace, and saturate your life with divine favour.
    • Mummy, I ask Allah to elevate you in rank, forgive your shortcomings, and make your path smooth in both worlds.
    • This year, may every day bring new blessings, answered prayers, and moments that make your heart full.
    • You’ve spent your life lighting the way for others. Now may life bring you light, warmth, and direction in return.
    • Heavenly Father, bless my mother richly. May her heart never grow weary, and her days never lack Your presence.
    • May the Almighty continue to preserve you, provide for you, and protect you in ways only He can.
    • Today and always, may your soul be nourished with gratitude, your body filled with health, and your life surrounded by love.
    • O Allah, just as my mum has always been a source of comfort and mercy to others, let her always find comfort and mercy in You. Ameen.
    • May joy be your portion, love be your inheritance, and peace follow you into every new chapter.
    • Lord, thank You for the gift of my mother. Let her years be long, her burdens be light, and her heart forever hopeful.

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  • What’s not to love about birthdays? It’s the one day you’re treated like royalty. You get special treatment, a lot of gifts, and of course, countless birthday prayers from those that care about you.

    *Rabi, 28, tells Zikoko that of all the birthday wishes she gets on her special day, birthday prayers are the ones that help her feel the most hopeful for the year ahead. “It shows that you have me and my well-being in mind,” she said.

    That’s why we’ve put together over 100 birthday prayers and blessings you can copy, tweak, and send. Whether you’re texting it, writing in a card, or posting on your WhatsApp status for your special day, the perfect birthday prayer is right here.

    Birthday Prayers for Yourself

    One of the most powerful things you can do on your birthday is bless yourself. It’s a way to honour how far you’ve come and speak life into the dreams you’re still holding onto.

    *Elija, 30, puts it perfectly: “Nothing beats praying for myself on my birthday. Who else knows what I need more than me? I like to write down a prayer just for me to crown the day.”

    If you can relate, here are some powerful birthday prayers for you.

    • Today’s celebration fills me with thanks. May I keep growing stronger, even when times are tough, and stay hopeful for the future.
    • I’m grateful for my health, wisdom, and the chance to do good. May I use my talents to spread kindness and joy.
    • Heavenly Father, help me see the beauty in every moment and appreciate the blessings that come my way.
    • Happy birthday to an amazing person: me! May this year be filled with love, laughter, and blessings.
    • On my birthday, I thank God for another year of life fully lived. May I gain wisdom and love as I grow and find my true purpose.
    • On this special day, I am thankful for all the good things from the past year. May the Lord keep protecting and guiding my path.
    • Thankful for my life, I pray for wisdom and courage. May God’s blessings help me make life better for myself and others.
    • On my birthday, I reflect on all the good times and lessons learned. May God’s goodness and love guide me this new year.
    • Ya Allah, thank You for bringing me to another year. I pray for good health, strong iman, and success in both dunya and akhirah.
    • On this birthday, I ask for Your mercy, guidance, and the ability to fulfill the purpose You created me for. Ameen.
    • Ya Rabb, write ease into my story, barakah in my efforts, and peace in my soul. Let this new age be filled with khayr.
    • I pray that this new year of life brings me closer to You, and that every test is met with sabr and every blessing with gratitude.
    • May Allah make me among those who are grateful, humble, and always content with His plans. Ameen.
    • This special day is a reminder of all the love and blessings I’ve received. May the coming year be full of new joys and success.
    • Happy birthday to a strong, resilient, and courageous person—me! May I continue to grow and thrive in the coming year.
    • May this new chapter be the one where I walk lighter, laugh harder, and love deeper. I deserve all the goodness life has to offer.
    • I pray for clarity, peace, and courage. This year, I want to bloom without fear and grow in places I never imagined.
    • On this birthday, I choose to release what no longer serves me and welcome everything that uplifts me. May my joy be full.
    • May I be surrounded by people who value me, opportunities that excite me, and moments that make my soul smile.
    • Here’s to more grace, more growth, and a gentler life. I pray that this year teaches me how to truly live, not just exist.

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    Romantic Birthday Prayers for Your Love

    There’s something extra special about getting a romantic birthday prayer from the person you love. “It shows I’m loved beyond the physical,” says Ella, 25. “Like, you’re not just concerned about buying me cake, but you’re also thinking about my spirit.”

    Aside from love messages or romantic birthday wishes for your girlfriend or boyfriend, here are some romantic birthday prayers to bless your partner’s new year and remind them how much they mean to you.

    • My love, having you in my life is a blessing I’m thankful for every day. On your birthday, I pray that everything good finds its way to you, just like you found your way to me.
    • May today be as beautiful and tender as your heart. May the love you give so freely to me return to you in endless waves this year and always.
    • On your birthday, I thank God for blessing me with the most amazing partner anyone could ask for. My prayer is that your special day is filled with joy, laughter, and unforgettable moments. Happy birthday, my baby.
    • My love for you grows deeper with each passing year. On your special day, I pray our bond continues to strengthen and that life keeps being kind to your heart. May joy, health, and endless love surround you now and always.
    • You make my heart skip a beat, but I’d never skip your birthday! Today, I pray that you continue to shine, grow, and thrive. You’re truly a blessing, and I’m so grateful to love and be loved by you.
    • Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of this incredible soul. As they celebrate another year, may Your grace go before them, may peace follow behind, and may our love grow even richer, deeper, and more joyful.
    • As you step into a new year, I pray your heart stays light, your dreams stay big, and your smile never fades. May our love grow stronger with every sunrise. Happy birthday, my heart.
    • On your birthday, I ask God to bless you with laughter that heals, peace that calms, and love that surrounds you, especially mine. You deserve every beautiful thing this life has to offer.
    • I pray that every day of this new year brings you closer to the dreams in your heart. May our love be a safe haven and a reflection of endless love.
    • Lord, as they grow another year older, may they grow even more in wisdom, strength, and favor. Let Your blessings overflow in every area of their life and ours together.
    • On your birthday, I thank God for blessing me with the gift of your presence in my life. My prayer for you is that you are always surrounded by love, laughter, and blessings beyond measure. Happy birthday, my love.
    • Lord, bless my partner with a heart that continues to seek You, and a life filled with the kind of love and peace only You can give. Let this new year be one of answered prayers and divine surprises.
    • I pray that every day of this new year brings you closer to the dreams God has placed in your heart. May our love be a safe haven and a reflection of God’s endless love.
    • Lord, as they grow another year older, may they grow even more in wisdom, strength, and favor. Let Your blessings overflow in every area of their life and ours.
    • Just as God’s stars light up the night sky, may His light continue to shine on you and guide your path. My love for you shines just as bright, today and always. Happy birthday, my dearest.
    • Ya Allah, thank You for blessing me with this love. On their special day, grant them a year filled with barakah, sakinah (tranquility), and all that brings joy to their heart.
    • May Allah (SWT) grant you peace in your heart, strength in your faith, and sweetness in our love. May this new year bring you closer to Him and closer to the joy you seek.
    • On this birthday, I pray Allah writes your name among those who will smile forever, in this life and the next. May He protect you, guide you, and bless our union.
    • Ya Rabb, reward their kindness, bless their efforts, and increase their rizq in every way. Let this new year be a testimony of Your mercy and favor in their life.
    • As you begin a new chapter, may Allah’s light surround you, His wisdom guide you, and His mercy never leave your side. May our love always be fulfilling and rooted in faith.

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    Best Birthday Prayers for a Friend

    Real friends don’t just dig up embarrassing throwbacks — they also say a little prayer. Of all the birthday messages for a friend, a heartfelt blessing says, “I’m rooting for you” the loudest.

    *Zainab, 27, agrees: “Getting a prayer from my best friend made me really happy. I appreciated it more than the jokes and vibes.”

    Whether it’s for your day-one bestie or that friend you’ve been meaning to reconnect with, here are some birthday prayers to make their day.

    • May this new age bring you closer to everything you’ve dreamed of. I pray for laughter that’s loud, peace that’s deep, and memories that last forever.
    • Happy birthday, bestie! I pray this year brings you answers where there’s been confusion, peace where there’s been chaos, and blessings that show up louder than your doubts.
    • May your new age come with fresh energy, soft wins, and the kind of joy that sticks. You deserve all the good things, and then some. Happy birthday!
    • On your special day, I pray that your heart stays light, your circle stays solid, and your dreams keep unfolding in beautiful ways. Cheers to more growth and glow!
    • As you celebrate today, I pray you feel deeply loved, seen, and celebrated. May this year surprise you with goodness and favor in ways you never expected.
    • I pray your path gets clearer, your bag gets heavier (amen), and your soul stays soft. Happy birthday to someone who deserves only the best.
    • May laughter never be far from your lips, may strength carry you through tough days, and may your wins this year make last year’s look like a warm-up. Happy birthday, Ore.
    • You’ve always shown up for others. This year, may life show up for you in unexpected, beautiful ways.
    • I pray this birthday marks the beginning of the best years of your life. May you grow in joy, confidence, and purpose.
    • May the kindness you give come back to you a hundredfold. I pray for fresh opportunities, more real friendships like ours, and new reasons to smile.
    • Here’s to a year of answered prayers and gentle moments. May your life bloom in ways you never imagined.
    • Heavenly Father, thank You for this amazing friend. May You bless them with wisdom, strength, and a heart that stays rooted in You this new year.
    • Lord, surround my friend with good people, open doors, and divine favor. Let this birthday be a reminder that their best days are still ahead.
    • I pray this new age draws them deeper into their purpose and closer to You. May they never lack joy, peace, or provision.
    • God, make this birthday the start of something fresh. May their faith never grow dim, and their heart always find rest in Your promises.
    • Dear Lord, give my friend a joyful heart and a year that is full of testimonies to Your goodness.
    • Ya Allah, bless my friend on their special day. May You grant them good health, halal sustenance, and peace in every area of their life.
    • I pray Allah (SWT) guides your steps, forgives your shortcomings, and fills this year with ease, mercy, and happiness. You deserve it all.
    • May this birthday be a doorway to barakah, protection from harm, and a deeper connection to your purpose and our friendship.
    • Ya Rabb, reward the goodness in my friend’s heart. Let this new age bring clarity, growth, and the companionship of people who uplift them.
    • On this birthday, may Allah’s Noor (light) shine upon you. May He grant you all that is best for you in this life and the next.

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    Meaningful Birthday Prayers for Family Members

    You might not be able to pray like your Nigerian mum (we know their prayers hit different), but your birthday blessings still mean something to your family. 

    *Mark, 23, says sending birthday prayers to her family helps her stay close, especially with relatives she doesn’t see often. “It reminds them that I still think of them, even if I’m not always around.”

    These birthday prayers cover everyone in your family (especially that generous uncle that always presses money). Don’t sleep on these prayers.

    • May this new age bring peace to your heart, strength to your steps, and moments that remind you how deeply loved you are.
    • Mum, I’m so grateful for you — the root that holds our family together. I pray your days ahead are rich with happiness, health, and everything that fills your soul.
    • Daddy, as you celebrate today, may life return all the love and care you’ve poured into this family. This year will be good to you.
    • I pray for ease in your work, depth in your relationships, and light in your spirit. Happy birthday to a truly special part of our family.
    • Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of my family. On this special day, may Your hand continue to rest on their lives and lead them into greater joy.
    • Lord, bless this birthday with fresh grace, divine protection, and the peace that passes all understanding. Strengthen their faith and renew their strength.
    • May the love of Christ dwell richly in your heart this new age. May every need be met and every burden lifted by His mighty hand.
    • Uncle, I pray you have a reason to rejoice every single day of this new year. Let your life be a reflection of God’s mercy and love.
    • I pray the Lord crowns your year with goodness, fills your home with laughter, and makes your path shine brighter with each passing day.
    • Ya Allah, bless my beloved family member with long life, strong iman, and hearts full of shukr. May every day of this new age draw them closer to You.
    • May Allah (SWT) protect you from harm, elevate your rank, and grant you rizq in all its forms—wealth, peace, and time with loved ones.
    • On your birthday, I pray that Allah writes ease in your story, surrounds you with love, and blesses you with sabr in every situation.
    • Ya Rabb, increase their days in goodness, surround them with sincere people, and make their journey through life smooth and meaningful.
    • May your life be filled with Allah’s mercy and your heart with gratitude. May He grant you both dunya and akhirah rewards.
    • Happy birthday to my partner in crime — my favorite sibling! I pray that this year brings you the wisdom to make better decisions, the courage to keep chasing your dreams, and the money to share with me.
    • To the one who knows all my secrets and still hasn’t sold me out — may your day be as sweet as the jokes we share and your year as blessed as our childhood memories.
    • Dad, on your birthday, I pray for God’s grace to continue shining on you, strength to keep being our backbone, and peace to enjoy all the fruits of your labor. I love you deeply.
    • Happy birthday, Mum — my first teacher. I pray this year grants you even more wisdom, joy, and serenity. May all the seeds you’ve sown in love and sacrifice come back to you multiplied.
    • Wishing you a fantastic birthday, Uncle! May God continue to bless and guide you. I pray that this year adds even more to the good that you’ve already done.
    • May you never lack, may you never fall, and may you never walk alone. Happy birthday to one of the best people in my life. I bless God for letting me be your family.
    • As you celebrate another year, I pray peace rests in your heart, love surrounds your home, and every step you take leads to greater testimonies. You’re deeply loved.

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    Professional Birthday Prayers for Colleagues and Bosses

    You might not have a close enough relationship to keep things casual, but professional birthday prayers can still be the perfect way to express your gratitude and well-wishes. 

    As *Omoye, 42, puts it: “A birthday prayer from a colleague is a reminder that I am seen, respected, and appreciated.”

    Whether it’s for a boss, colleague, or business partner, a well-written prayer can go a long way in maintaining a good work relationship

    • Happy birthday! Wishing you continued wisdom, strength, and clarity as you lead and impact lives. May this year bring you excellence in all things.
    • May the Almighty bless you with peace, purpose, and promotion in all that you do. Thanks for being a source of inspiration.
    • May God guide your steps and crown your efforts with favor this new year. Happy birthday.
    • Here’s to a year filled with clarity, elevation, and joyful surprises. You deserve every good thing.
    • Wishing you continued wisdom, strength, and excellence as you step into a new year. May your birthday be the beginning of greater accomplishments.
    • May this year reward your efforts with success and fulfillment. I pray your journey ahead is marked by purpose and prosperity.
    • On this special day, may you be blessed with health, peace, and an abundance of meaningful opportunities.
    • As you celebrate today, I pray that your personal and professional paths continue to align with grace and growth.
    • Wishing you a birthday filled with quiet joy and renewed strength. May this year bring clarity, confidence, and calm to all your pursuits.
    • I pray that each new age brings you closer to your goals and deeper into the purpose for which you were created. Happy birthday.
    • May you be granted wisdom for every decision, favor in every space, and peace in every season. Wishing you a blessed birthday.
    • On this occasion, may your dedication be rewarded with success, your leadership be enriched, and your efforts be fruitful.
    • May this new age bring you serenity in your private moments and satisfaction in your professional milestones.
    • As you mark another year, I pray you walk into a future bright with potential, purpose, and grace.
    • Wishing you divine strength to carry every responsibility and the discernment to seize every good opportunity. Happy birthday.
    • On your special day, I pray for your continued impact and influence. May you lead with compassion and excel with integrity.
    • May your new year of life be blessed with meaningful relationships, sound health, and progressive achievements.
    • Happy birthday. May your presence continue to inspire, your efforts uplift others, and your journey be filled with purpose.
    • As you celebrate today, may you be surrounded by peace, uplifted by joy, and driven by excellence throughout the year.
    • May you continue to break new ground and set new standards. I wish you a birthday as exceptional as your contributions.
    • On your birthday, I pray you find rest in your efforts, reward in your work, and radiance in your journey.

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  • In Nigeria, birthdays are more than just personal annual milestones marked by cakes and heaping plates of rice. They are deeply cultural and often religious celebrations. Whether celebrated with a large party or a quiet gathering of friends, birthdays offer an opportunity to shower the celebrant with love, gifts, thoughtful birthday wishes, and heartfelt birthday messages.

    “A simple ‘Happy birthday!’ message is okay o, but when someone takes the time to send a thoughtful message, it feels different,” says Ibk, a 28-year-old lawyer from Lagos. “It reminds you that you’re special to them.” Christiana, a 23-year-old marketing intern in Lagos, agrees. “I love receiving really heartfelt birthday messages; they make me feel like the main character of my day.”

    In this article, we’ve compiled over 300 happy birthday wishes from real Nigerians, included a step-by-step guide on crafting your own heartfelt birthday wishes, and answered some of the most common questions Nigerians have about birthday wishes. Whether you need a message for a close friend, romantic partner, boss, colleague, or sibling, you’ll find the perfect words to celebrate their special day here.


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    300+ Birthday Wishes From Real Nigerians

    In this section, you’ll find birthday messages from real Nigerians that you can copy directly or use as inspiration for yours [a more detailed guide for crafting yours is at the end of this article]. From simple to heartfelt, here are 300+ birthday messages you can send to your friends, family, coworkers and lovers.

    Simple Birthday Wishes for Anyone

    Best for: General use, acquaintances, and when you need a quick but heartfelt message.

    If you’re ever in doubt when sending a birthday message, go the short-and-sweet route. Especially when you’re not very close to the person — like an acquaintance or a work colleague — a simple, well-meaning birthday wish should do the trick.

    “I prefer to send a short, to-the-point birthday message when it’s for someone I don’t know well,” says Tolu, 26. “It’s polite, and it won’t be as if you’re famzing them.”

    Check out these simple yet effective birthday messages to make your next birthday text the best.

    • Happy birthday! Wishing you the best the year has to offer.
    • Happy birthday, Daddy. I wish you a long and prosperous life
    • Wishing you many happy returns on this special day. Happy birthday!
    • Happy birthday, Chima. You’re such a superstar!
    • Happy birthday, Ma. May God sustain you in good health of mind and body.
    • Happy birthday! You’re amazing, and I’m beyond blessed to call you my friend.
    • Wishing you an amazing year ahead. Happy birthday.
    • Happy birthday to an amazing person. Have an amazing one!
    • Cheers on celebrating a new year. Happy birthday.
    • Sending you good wishes on your special day. Happy birthday.
    • Another year of greatness unlocked! Wishing you a year full of happiness and prosperity.
    • As you celebrate your new age, may God continue to bless and protect you.
    • Cheers to another trip around the sun! Wishing you a fantastic birthday celebration.
    • Wishing you a day as bright and beautiful as your smile. Happy birthday.
    • Wishing you a day as bright and beautiful as your smile. Happy birthday.
    • Cheers to more life and more blessings! Wishing you a fantastic birthday.
    • Happy birthday! May your year be filled with answered prayers and fulfilled dreams.
    • Here’s to a new chapter! Wishing you a year filled with open doors and endless opportunities.
    • Happy birthday! Wishing you a day as special as you are.
    • Happy birthday! May you continue to age gracefully.
    • Wishing you a Happy birthday. May God’s blessings overflow in your life this year.
    • Happy birthday, friend. May Almighty God bless your new age.

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    Romantic Birthday Wishes for Your Love

    Best for: Boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife.

    It’s expected that as someone’s significant other, your birthday message must leave everyone else’s in the dust. Sending a sweet birthday wish for your girlfriend or boyfriend at the stroke of midnight will earn you points like you wouldn’t believe.

    Tominsin, 28, says,” I look forward to my boyfriend’s wishes the most when my birthday comes around.”

    So you see you have to come correct? Don’t worry we’ve curated this lovely selection of romantically charged messages for your favourite person.

    • Happy birthday, my love! You make every day special, and today, I celebrate you with all my heart.
    • To the most amazing partner, your love makes my world brighter. Wishing you a birthday as beautiful as you.
    • My darling, you make my heart sing. Today is your birthday but you are God’s gift to us. I pray this year brings you opportunities you’ve only ever dreamed about.
    • Happy birthday to the bone of my bone, my reason for breathing, my favourite person! I pray God showers you with even more blessings.
    • Happy birthday, my love. May all the joy in the world be laid at your feet because you deserve it.
    • Cheers to another birthday, my baby. Everyday I thank God for putting you on this earth and allowing me to experience you.
    • Happy birthday to the beat of my heart. Your laughter is my favourite sound and I pray that this new age you’re entering is filled with laughter and joy for the entire year.
    • I remember when we met, and I knew instantly that you were special. Thank you for proving me right every single day with your amazing personality and immeasurable beauty. Happy birthday, my love.
    • Happy birthday to the one who hung the moon in my sky. Thank you, baby, for all the things you do for our little family. There is no greater joy than waking up each morning to see your face.
    • Happy birthday, my queen! I will count every speck of sand on all the beaches if it means you will be happy. I love seeing you smile, and I pray that God gives you uncountable reasons to smile as you grow older.
    •  Happy birthday, my husband. Holding your love in my heart is more precious than any gift I could ever give you. Still, I’m excited to shower you with all the gifts and love I can. Enjoy your special day!
    • Happy birthday, baby! I’m so proud of you and everything you have accomplished. I wish you even more success and happiness as you age gracefully.
    • Happy birthday, my darling. You look even more beautiful than you did the day we met. I pray that success continues to come easily to you. I’m so happy I get to do life with you.
    • You stole my heart but you can keep it — it’s safest with a soul like yours. I can’t wait to see the amazing things you accomplish in your new age. Happy birthday onyinye’m.
    • My love, I have tasted no other spirit as generous, wonderful and kind as yours. I’m grateful to God that I can stand by your side as you mark another trip around the sun. I will love you for as long as the earth spins. Happy birthday!
    • Happy birthday to the groundnut to my banana, the pepper to my pepper soup and my favourite partner in crime. I pray this new year takes you to new heights. I’ll be right beside you every step of the way.
    • On this special day, I want you to know how much you mean to me. You’re my everything, and I’m so grateful for you. I wouldn’t trade you for the world. Happy birthday, my love.
    • Happy birthday to the man who makes my heart soar above the clouds. I pray God’s strength never leaves your side. I love you forever.
    • Happy birthday! My admiration for you cannot be captured in words or in ink. Your beauty surpasses language, but I will keep trying to find the words to tell you just how much I love you.
    • Cheers to another spin around the sun! My darling, my love for you is boundless. I pray that God continues to protect you and shield you. May His blessings and my love be with you always.
    • Happy birthday, my love! I’m so grateful to have you as my wife. You are amazing, and I’m honoured to share this journey with you. On this special day, I want to remind you how much you mean to me. Your kindness, beauty, and love inspire me every day. Wishing you the very best, my dear!

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    Funny Birthday Wishes

    Best for: Friends, siblings, and anyone who loves humour.

    Don’t let your birthday message to a friend or others close to you be boring or dull. Add colour to your good wishes with humour and jokes. 

    “If you don’t troll your friends, who will? Besides, those birthday messages that make you laugh are the best, in my opinion,” says Kelvin, 22.

    Crack your friends’ ribs with these funny birthday messages.

    • Happy birthday! May your hairline stay intact, your bank account grow, and your problems disappear!
    • You’re not old, you’re just a classic! Wishing you a fantastic year ahead.
    • Happy birthday! May God make your life soft like today’s bread this year.
    • Those 30+ jokes are going to hit differently from now on, aren’t they? Happy birthday, old man 🤣.
    • Age is just a number, but in your case, it’s a very high one. Don’t worry, you’re like fine wine, better with time ❤️.
    • Happy birthday! May your days be as stress-free as a Lagos road during elections.
    • On your special day, I pray your blessings continue to swell like garri. Happy birthday!
    • Happy birthday! Don’t let anyone tell you you’re old o. You’re just well-seasoned, like party jollof.
    • Happy birthday! You’re officially becoming a “Big Aunty.” Embrace it!
    • Happy birthday, my guy, I hope you’re trying to get wiser as you’re getting older sha 😆.
    • Happy birthday, ore mi. You willingly eat semo so I pray that this year, God gives you good taste 🙄.
    • Happy birthday! May they give you jara every time you buy suya.
    • Happy womb escape, bro! Wishing you long life and prosperity.
    • Cheers to your new age! Here’s to more quick naps in the club at 2 AM.
    • Happy birthday, my G! Please, you’re not a vampire, so try and take more pictures this year, okay?
    • Happy birthday, my g. Pick any country in the world that you want, I’ll buy it for you 😆.
    • Welcome to your new age! May the food at the owambe never finish before you arrive!
    • Like a credit alert, you always bring a smile to my face. Wishing you a fantastic year filled with exploits.
    • Happy birthday to the most beautiful girl in the world! Beyonce and Rihanna dey learn work ♥️.
    • Happy birthday, chief. God go blow you breeze, He no go air you. Have a great one!

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    Heartfelt Birthday Wishes

    Best for: Close friends and loved ones.

    Nothing warms the heart like a heartfelt birthday message from someone who loves you. Dare, 25,  says,” One of my friends is so good at writing heart-squeezing birthday messages that when I’m down — even months after — I go back and reread them, and they make me feel better.”

    Bayo, 26, feels the same way about the messages from his grandma. “Though she passed away over a decade ago, I’ve kept all of my grandmother’s handwritten birthday notes to me, and I still read them every year,” he says.

    Your heartfelt message can be long or short, depending on how well you know the person and their personal preferences. A good heartfelt wish can warm the heart for a long time. Take a leaf from our book and use this to create the perfect heartfelt message for your loved ones.

    • Happy birthday! May this new year bring you closer to your dreams and fill your life with purpose and joy.
    • You have a heart of gold. Wishing you all the happiness in the world today!
    • Happy birthday, my mentor. Learning from you has been an amazing experience. May God bless you exceedingly this year.
    • You are such an incredible person. Wishing you an amazing birthday bursting with joy, love and happiness.
    • I’m so grateful to God for your existence. There has been no day that has passed that you haven’t put a smile on my face. I pray God fills your cup with joy all year. Happy birthday.
    • I appreciate everything you do for us and our family, bro. There aren’t enough thanks in the world to express the depth of my gratitude. I wish you the happiest birthday!
    • Wishing you a birthday as beautiful as your spirit. May this year bring you peace, love, and countless reasons to celebrate.
    • Happy birthday to the bravest, most resilient person I know. May the year unfold before you with ease.
    • Happy birthday! May laughter come easy to your lips, may sleep come easily to your eyes and may God continue to crown your efforts with glory.
    • Cheers to a new age! May God bless you, keep you and make his face shine upon you this year.
    • Happy birthday! Wishing you success that makes all the years of your hard work worth it! 
    • Happy birthday, big boy! I’m so proud of you and how much you’ve grown. I can’t wait to see what you do this year!
    • Happy birthday, my person! Ever since the first day we met, I knew our friendship was something special. I pray you continue to meet success at every point of your journey this year.
    • Happy birthday! You are such a blessing to our family! We wish you long life and prosperity.
    • On your special day, I pray that God blesses you with health, happiness, and all the desires of your heart.
    • Happy birthday! May your heart be filled with gratitude and your life with abundance. You deserve all the good things coming your way.
    • Happy birthday, my dear. Watching how hard you’ve worked to get to where you are is nothing short of inspiring! I’m wishing you the best of the year and those to come!
    • Happy birthday! May your heart be filled with joy and your life with endless blessings. You deserve all the happiness in the world.
    • Happy birthday! I love you so much! You always put a smile on my face, and I pray happiness is always within your reach this year.
    • Happy birthday, star girl. As you are a joy to those around you, I pray God also fills your life with boundless joy.
    • Happy birthday! May your day be as bright as your smile and as warm as your heart. You are a blessing to everyone around you.

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    Inspirational Birthday Wishes

    Best for: Friends, colleagues, mentors, and anyone needing encouragement.

    Birthday messages can also inspire someone who needs encouragement. They can keep you motivated and are perfect for cheering on a friend, colleague, or mentor to take on any challenges they face.
    “There are some birthday messages you receive that make you want to get right back to work because of how much the sender believes in you,” says Jola, 25.

    Use any of these messages to inspire and motivate someone close to you on their next birthday!

    • May your birthday mark the beginning of a fulfilling and successful year ahead!
    • Wishing you strength, wisdom, and all the blessings you deserve in this new chapter.
    • Happy birthday to the hardest worker I know! May all your efforts be crowned with success.
    • I admire your work ethic so much! Wishing you the creme de la creme of the year!
    • As you begin to see the fruits of your labour these past few years, I pray that your hard work continues to be rewarded.
    • Happy birthday! Your efforts will never go to waste, and I want you to know that the team appreciates you so much!
    • What would we have done if you weren’t there when times were tough? I shudder to think about it. I am grateful that we have you in our corner. Wishing you the happiest birthday!
    • Your work on the last project confirmed to me that you are destined to be a household name! Wishing you all the best on your birthday.
    • Happy birthday to the most amazing woman. There is nothing you can’t accomplish!
    • Happy birthday, dear! It’s so amazing that this isn’t even your final form! Wishing you a year filled with exploits and success.
    • Cheers on your special day! As you continue to push the standard with your amazing ideas, I pray God continues to bless you and take you higher.
    • Happy birthday to you. You are an inspiration to everyone around you, and I am so lucky to know you and learn from you. May the year be filled with joy and prosperity for you.
    • Wishing you a long happy life on your birthday. The world has been waiting for someone just like you to change it!
    • On your special day, remember that every challenge you’ve faced has made you stronger. Keep pushing forward — your best is yet to come!
    • Happy birthday, superstar! The sky isn’t your limit — it’s your starting point!
    • Happy birthday! Watching you face and defeat every obstacle in your path has been nothing short of inspirational. Wishing  you even more success this year.
    • Happy birthday and congratulations on yet another feather in your cap! May God continue to make exploits easy for you.
    • On your special day, I thank you for being an inspiration and a beacon of light to everyone around you. Happy birthday.
    • Cheers to a new age! May your work continue to place you on a global stage. I wish you success this year.
    • Happy birthday, boss. Your passion for what you do is nothing short of inspirational. I pray that God continues to bless you and your family this year.
    • Happy balloon day! May you continue to be celebrated by those around you.

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    Milestone Birthday Wishes (18, 21, 30, 40, 50, etc.)

    Best for: Celebrating major birthdays.

    Nigerians take milestone birthdays very seriously, so carefully crafting a birthday message they’ll love is of utmost importance. Landmark ages like 18, 21, 30, and 40 are the perfect opportunity to celebrate the life of the celebrant and how far they’ve come.

    “My 30th birthday was an eye-opening one,” says Dami, 31. ”The messages my friends sent me touched my heart and made turning thirty a little less scary for me.”

    Take a look at this selection of milestone birthday messages that are sure to put a smile on the face of anyone who receives them.

    • Happy birthday, sis! You’re finally an adult! May your eighteenth year be full of laughter and adventure.
    • As you step into the world of adulthood on your eighteenth birthday, I pray God gives you the wisdom to make the best choices.
    • Happy twentieth birthday! May this decade be full of discovery, growth, and unforgettable memories.
    • Cheers on turning 21! Now, you can drink alcohol in every country in the world!
    • Welcome to your thirtieth! May this decade be your best yet.
    • Welcome to a new decade! There is always time to accomplish something amazing. I pray your 30s bring you all the joy and success you desire.
    • Happy thirtieth birthday! This is going to be the beginning of an amazing era for an amazing person.
    • Happy thirtieth birthday, sis! I promise you the best is yet to come because you deserve it.
    • Happy 30th birthday! Welcome to the club where confidence meets wisdom. Your best years are just beginning!
    • Welcome to the fourth floor! May this new decade be filled with joy and happiness for you.
    • Happy fortieth birthday. May God continue to see you through every year of your life.
    • It is said that as wine ages, it becomes better. I wish you even better success and happiness on your fortieth birthday.
    • Happy birthday to an amazing mentor. You have used your forty years of life to inspire and motivate everyone around you. I pray God blesses and regards you.
    • Happy fiftieth! Wishing you even more joy, success, and wisdom in the years ahead.
    • Happy golden jubilee to the most amazing aunt there is! I pray you see another fifty years on this earth with us. I love you.
    • I wish you the best on your sixtieth birthday, sir. May God continue to bless and strengthen you as you grow older.
    • Happy seventieth birthday, Grandma! On your seventieth birthday, I pray God continues to bless you and be your shield.
    • On your seventieth birthday, I wish you the best of the year and the softest of landings.
    • Happy twentieth anniversary of your twentieth birthday! As you turn 80, I pray that your hands never weaken at work and your mind is always open to new creative ideas.
    • Happy eightieth birthday, grandma! Yours is a life well-lived, and I praise God for you. Here’s to even more years of love and laughter.

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    Birthday Wishes for Friends

    Best for: Close friendships, best friends, and people who have been there for you.

    A heartfelt birthday message to a friend can truly deepen your bond with them, especially if you gain a reputation for remembering birthdays. 

    “My best friend has sent me a birthday message every birthday at midnight for the last six years,” says Dami. 28. ”I wouldn’t trade her for the world.”

    Take a look at these messages and use one or two to delight your friends on their birthdays.

    • Happy birthday, bestie! Life wouldn’t be the same without you. I love you more than I can put into words.
    • Another year older, wiser, and still as amazing as ever. Wishing you all the best!
    • Happy birthday, bestie. Every version of the universe without you is a desolate, colourless place. I am so happy that we get to do life together.
    • Happy birthday to the piece that makes my life make sense. May this year be full of untold joy for you.
    • Happy birthday, my G! I see how hard you’ve been working, and I pray that God rewards every effort you have put into your work.
    • Cheers to the most amazing gal in the world. You are the five to my six, and I cannot wait to celebrate even more years with you.
    • Happy birthday, my darling friend. I am so lucky to know you, and I pray that God grants you all your heart’s desires.
    • Happy birthday to my BFF. No distance, no depth is wide or deep enough to separate us. Here’s to another amazing year.
    • All 30+ people stand up! That includes you now, o! It’s been so wonderful watching you grow into the amazing person you have become today. May God continue to bless you.
    • Happy birthday, ore mi! You are a star! And I pray that the whole world gets to see you shine this year.
    • Happy birthday to the absolute life of the party. I pray we share even more good times together.
    • Happy birthday, my G! Where the oblee dey happen? May joy never be far from your mouth and may God keep your heart soft.
    • From secondary school until now, you have been the best friend a girl could ever ask for. I pray that God surprises you with the amount of blessings you receive this year.
    • There is not a single person as unique and loveable as you are. On your birthday, I wish you the very best because no one is more deserving.
    • Happy birthday to the kindest of souls. I pray that people gather to celebrate with you this new year.
    • Happy birthday, my personal person! You are so important to me, and you deserve the world. May this year be full of ease and happiness for you, in Jesus’ name.
    • Felicitations to the baddest bih! May God bless you and keep you for me.
    • Special birthday wishes to the best friend a girl could ask for. I pray we spend more happy years together.
    • Happy birthday, my darling. You are proof that great things come in the craziest packages. Thank you for being the piece that completes me.
    • Happy birthday, bestie! Thank you for being my safe space, my happy place, and my everything. Love you forever!
    • Happy birthday to my favourite human! Your friendship is evidence of God’s love for me. May your path always be clear, and may good things come to you with ease.
    • Cheers to your new age, my dear friend! May this year overflow with success and happiness.
    • It’s my favourite day of the year: your birthday! I pray that God satisfies every need you have, grants you peace, and keeps you so we can celebrate even more years together.
    • Happy birthday to my bestie! You deserve everything good, and I pray God brings all of it and more to your doorstep this year.
    • Happy birthday to my partner in fun! May God bless you and keep you. I pray your cup overflows with joy this year. I love you!

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    Birthday Wishes for Family Members 

    Best for: Family members like parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, brothers and sisters

    Family is truly everything. They are the first people you socialise, fight and celebrate with. Sending a thoughtful message to your family members on their birthdays will keep that blood bond tight and put a well-deserved smile on their faces.

    “I’m not much of a birthday guy, but when my little sister sends me birthday messages, my day lights up,” says Tola. “I sacrificed a lot to provide for my family after my father passed, and it always feels really good to be appreciated.”

    Happy Birthday Wishes for Your Mum and Aunt

    • Happy birthday, Mum! Thank you for your endless love and sacrifices. I celebrate you today and always.
    • Happy birthday to the most extraordinary woman in my life. You’re indeed my greatest blessing and I’m grateful for the gift of you. Thank you for all the sacrifices you’ve made just to see a better version of us. May this milestone year bring you endless joy, good health and all the love you deserve.
    • Happy birthday, Mummy. Your resilience and tenacity make you the best role model I’ve ever had! I pray God continues to bless and keep you.
    • Happy birthday to the most amazing woman on earth! I love you so much, Aunty.
    • Happy birthday, Mum! I have never known a world without your gentle spirit and for that, I will always be grateful. Thank you for inspiring all of us.
    • Cheers on your special day, Mama! Your light shines on everything with a warm glow. I am so lucky to call you mother, and I’m wishing you the best day ever!
    • Happy birthday to an amazing aunt and an incredible woman! On your special day, I want to celebrate the love, care, and guidance you’ve brought into my life. May this year be filled with joy, laughter, and all your heart’s desires.

    Looking for more birthday messages for your mum? 100+ Birthday Wishes and Blessings for Mum


    Happy Birthday Wishes for Your Dad and Uncle

    • Happy birthday, Dad! Thank you for every sacrifice you’ve made for our family. I pray we make you proud and that God blesses you this year.
    • Special greetings to you on your birthday, Uncle. Thank you for being a rock and for the unforgettable memories.
    • Happy Golden Jubilee, Dad! It has been an honour to grow up with you. Thank you for being amazing.
    • Happy birthday to my favourite Uncle! You are a wonderful person and I pray God rewards all your actions.
    • Happy birthday to the best dad in the world. Words are not enough to express how much I love you.

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    Happy Birthday Wishes for Your Brother and Sister

    • Happy birthday, lil bro. I can’t believe it was just yesterday Mum brought a tiny bundle back from the hospital. I’m so proud of the young man you’re becoming. May God bless you for me.
    • Happy birthday to my favourite sister! I celebrate your amazing hard work as you clock a new age. God bless you.
    • To my amazing sister, Happy birthday! May this year bring you laughter, love, and all the success you desire.
    • Happy birthday, egbon mi. You are a big inspiration to me. I pray God continues to bless you and all you lay your hands on. Have an amazing day.
    • Happy birthday to the most beautiful troublemaker in the world! You are the best sister a person could ask for, and I’m so happy we are related. God bless you. Send me birthday outfit pics!

    Looking for more birthday messages for your sister? Check out these heartfelt options for your sister. 


    Happy Birthday Wishes for Your Niece and Nephew

    • Happy birthday to my favourite member of this family. Our world changed for the better when you were born, and I’m so happy with the person you’re becoming. Have a blessed year.
    • To my favourite niece, on her birthday, I wish you the best of the year and wisdom that surpasses all understanding.
    • Happy birthday, little tiger! You are made up of all the best parts of your parents. I pray that you become successful, strong and blessed. Have a lovely one.
    • Happy birthday, princess! You are the apple of all our eyes, and I pray you never forget how loved you are here. Have a wonderful birthday today!
    • Happy birthday, my dear. I love how much you have changed in these short few years. I pray for even more evolutions and greater happiness for you.
    • Happy birthday to my precious nephew. On your special day, I pray Almighty Allah continues to protect and guide you, bless you with great wisdom, knowledge and understanding from above.

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    Professional Birthday Wishes for Coworkers or Managers

    Best for: Workplace relationships and maintaining professional warmth.

    Whether you work a 9-to-5 or remotely, acknowledging and celebrating your colleagues’ birthdays is important. It not only opens the door to friendships you may not have discovered but also helps teams bond and work more seamlessly.

    “It’s nice to feel seen,” says Molayo, 25. “Sometimes, you can feel like a small cog in a really big machine. These birthday messages humanise us — that’s why I like them.”

    Here are some great options you can drop on that Slack thread or send to them directly:

    • Wishing you a fantastic birthday! May this year bring you new achievements and great success.
    • Happy birthday! Hope you have a wonderful day and a great year ahead.
    • Happy birthday! You’re an inspirational and exemplary leader. Enjoy your special day!
    • Happy birthday, you legend! Wishing you more promotions and accomplishments on your special day!
    • Happy birthday, you legend! Wishing you more promotions and accomplishments on your special day!
    • Happy cake day! Thank you for being a light at the office.
    • Happy birthday, Ma. You are an inspiration to every young woman working hard in this company. May God continue to bless you.
    • Happy birthday to an icon. The work you do here is very special, and we appreciate you.
    • Happy birthday, boos! Your clarity of vision is an inspiration to the whole team. Have a blessed day ahead.
    • Happy birthday to the most versatile worker on the team! We appreciate you.
    • Happy birthday to an excellent worker. I hope you have the best birthday ever and your zeal for excellence never diminishes.
    • Cheers to your new age. May God grant you even more wisdom and success.
    • Wishing you a birthday filled with celebration and a year full of success. Happy birthday!
    • Happy birthday! Thank you for your guidance and support. Enjoy your special day!
    • Hope your birthday is as rewarding as the effort you put into leading our team. You inspire me to be better at my work.
    • Happy birthday! Wishing you a day of relaxation and a year of great accomplishments.
    • Wishing you the best of the year and beyond! Happy birthday, dear.
    • Happy birthday, desk bestie! I pray that God blesses you exceedingly this year.
    • Happy birthday to the best colleague a girl could ask for. Wishing you the best possible year ahead. Lunch is on me today.
    • Happiest birthday wishes to a hardworking and kind soul. I pray success finds you as easily as you find solutions at work.
    • Congratulations on your new age! God bless you and promote you to positions you’ve only ever dreamed of.

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    Belated Birthday Wishes

    Best for: When you forgot to send a message on time but still want to acknowledge the day.

    Few things feel worse than forgetting the birthday of someone special to you. But no matter the reason, it’s never too late to reach out. That’s why we’ve curated a selection of thoughtful messages you can send to express your birthday wishes and make up for missing their big day.

    “I was working back-to-back shifts after long classes, and I forgot my older sister’s birthday,” says Busola, 24. “I felt so bad. Thankfully, she forgave me after I messaged her and explained myself.”

    • I may be late, but my wishes for you are still the same: happiness, success, and all the best! Happy birthday.
    • Happy belated birthday wishes. The day got away from me but the love I have for you never will. Hope your day was fantastic!
    • Happy belated birthday! Hope your special day was filled with joy.
    • I can’t believe I missed your birthday! Please, forgive me and know that I’m celebrating you today. Happy belated birthday, dear!
    • I’m so sorry I missed your special day! Nevertheless, I’m wishing you best of the year and more blessings! Happy belated birthday and lots of love. Hope it was amazing.
    • I’m late to the party, but my wishes for you are just as heartfelt. Happy belated birthday, my friend!
    • Belated birthday hugs and wishes coming your way! I hope your day was as special as you are.
    • I missed the date, but I refuse to miss the chance to tell you how much you mean to me. Happy belated birthday!
    • Sorry for the late wishes, but I hope your birthday was as incredible as you are. Happy belated birthday.
    • Sorry for the belated wishes, but I hope your birthday was filled with love and happiness. Happy belated birthday.
    • Happy belated birthday, Ma. May God bless you and always be with you.
    • Sending you the best belated birthday wishes a day after. This doesn’t mean you are any less special to me. I’m praying for all the happiness in the world to be delivered to you!
    • I missed your birthday, but I’m making up for it with extra love and prayers today. Happy belated birthday!
    • My deepest apologies for missing your birthday yesterday. There’s no valid excuse for not celebrating a star like you. I’m wishing you the coolest and most wonderful belated birthday.
    • Belated birthday wishes to the love of my life. I hope your day was as amazing as you always are.
    • I’m so sorry I’m late, but my heart is always with you. Happy belated birthday, my love!
    • So sorry I missed your big day, my dear! Happy birthday to you! May your heart always lead you to the right path. Remain blessed.
    • Belated birthday wishes to you, my dear friend. I hope your day was as wonderful as you make my life.

    We can’t overemphasize the importance of the right birthday messages. They not only light up the heart of the celebrant but also serve as a written testament that you care about them.

    Never feel stuck again! Use any of the messages in this article as inspiration to make someone’s birthday special and even more memorable.

    How to Write the Perfect Birthday Wish for a Nigerian

    If you want to skip copying one of the examples above and come up with your own sweet birthday message, this guide is for you. 

    Step 1: Start with a warm greeting

    Don’t just barge into their inbox with a generic birthday wish and an exclamation mark. Kick-off with a warm greeting and follow it up with a kind wish.

    “When I’m wishing an older person a Happy birthday, I make sure I start with a greeting before they say I’m rude or disrespectful,” says Moyin, 22.

    Example: 

    “Happy birthday, sir! May today be filled with happiness for you.”

    Step 2: Add a personal touch

    Is this someone you’ve known for a long time? Sprinkle in some good memories or a call back to the years you have shared with them for a personal touch.

    “I love weaving inside jokes into the birthday messages I send my friends,” says Amaka, 27. “It highlights how special our relationship is to me.”

    Example: 

    “Happy birthday, Chizzy! I can’t believe how grown up we are now. Here’s to more years celebrating together.”

    Step 3: Include a blessing or prayer

    A lot of Nigerians are deeply religious, so including a birthday prayer or blessing is a sure-fire way to warm their heart and let them know you wish them the  best on their special day.

    “You must never exclude God from anything, especially when it comes to the blessing of seeing another year,” says Iyabo, 56. ”If you love someone, you pray for them so God can keep them till another birthday.”

    Example: 

    “Happy birthday, gurl! May God bless you and shower you with endless blessings.”

    Step 4: Keep it light or add humour (Optional)

    If you’re writing a birthday message to a friend or someone you’re very close to, feel free to add some light banter. Weave in an inside joke or a funny one-liner to make the celebrant laugh out loud when they read it.

    “Me and my friends’ messages are full of constant back-and-forth banter,” says Feranmi, 19. ”Why won’t I include jokes in their birthday messages? It’s very important o.”

    Example: 

    “Happy birthday, my G! May the ATM never swallow your card, may they always have change for your 1k, and I pray your lane never has traffic. Have a good one!”

    Step 5: Close with love and warmth

    End your birthday message with a warm sign-off to add the perfect finishing touch.

    “I truly believe people can feel your sincerity through your texts, even when they can’t see you,” says Grace, 29.

    Example: 

    “Happy birthday, babe. You’re a star through and through. Wishing you the most perfect day ever because you deserve it!”

    A well-crafted birthday message should look like:

    Happy birthday, bestie! We’ve come a long way from being those tiny JSS 1 students, haven’t we? May today be as bright and joyful as your heart. Wishing you love, success, and many more amazing years ahead!

    7 Questions about Birthday Wishes Nigerians Have

    1. How can I send a birthday wish?

    You can send birthday wishes through various platforms. What truly matters is that the celebrant reads your message and feels your appreciation. 

    Share your wishes on platforms they use regularly, such as Instagram, Facebook, Slack (for coworkers), WhatsApp, Snapchat, or X. After all, there’s no point in sending a message on Snapchat if they only open it once a year during Detty December.

    For a thoughtful touch, consider delivering a handwritten letter or birthday card. The old-fashioned approach often earns many heartfelt “aww”s.

    2. How long should a birthday wish be?

    The length depends on your relationship with the celebrant. Short, sweet wishes are perfect for acquaintances or coworkers, maintaining a polite distance. However, if you send a one-liner to your partner, you might end up trending on Instablog — and deservedly so.

    Save longer, heartfelt messages for family, close friends, or significant others. That said, a meaningful message doesn’t need to read like a novel. You can express your feelings without making the message a chore to read.

    3. Who should you send a birthday wish to?

    There’s no rule limiting who deserves birthday messages. While it’s understandable to skip your enemies, you can still send warm wishes to internet friends and acquaintances.

    In Nigeria, it’s common to send heartfelt messages to family and friends, but acknowledging colleagues, mentors, managers, and bosses is also polite. Even a brief, cordial wish can brighten someone’s day.

    4. What if the person didn’t send me a birthday wish on my birthday?

    Not receiving a birthday wish from someone can sting, but it shouldn’t dictate your kindness. If you value the person, send your wishes anyway. They might have missed your birthday unintentionally. Besides, sending your wishes sets the tone for grace and goodwill

    5. What makes a birthday wish special?

    A truly special birthday wish highlights what you appreciate about the person, whether it’s their hard work, kindness, or your shared memories. Adding personal touches such as prayers, inside jokes, or unique well-wishes makes your message memorable and heartfelt.

    6. Should you send a birthday wish every year?

    Yes, o! Birthdays come once a year, and those closest to you — family, friends, and partners — will expect your wishes annually.

    For acquaintances or former coworkers, a birthday message is thoughtful but not required. Overwhelmed because they’re popular? Don’t stress. One sincere message is enough. Just don’t double-text them paragraphs in the name of birthday wishes.

    7. What should you avoid when sending a birthday wish?

    Even though most birthday wishes are appreciated, some blunders should be avoided at all costs:

    • Don’t lecture: It’s their birthday, not an evaluation session.
    • Avoid offensive jokes: Humour should be lighthearted, not hurtful. Never joke about sensitive topics like family losses.
    • No shouting in all caps: You’re not Odumodu, calm down.
    • Spell their name correctly: Nothing ruins a wish like “Happy Birthday, Chinamza” instead of “Chinasa.”
    • Put effort into it: “HBD, WULLP” won’t cut it. Use one of our simple birthday message templates instead.
    • Don’t compare their birthday to others: Let them enjoy their special moment without comparisons.

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    I love birthdays, but I hate that mine is in January. If people can change their names as often as they like, why can’t we change our birth dates too? 

    Stuck between December and February, January is the least exciting month of the year. Not only is it faced with so much negativity, it’s also been tagged the longest month of the year. Not because it has 31 days — after all, so does the beloved December — but because people suffer withdrawals from the holiday period, facing the consequences of all the financial decisions they made and switching back to modern slavery capitalism mode. 


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    Growing up, I didn’t really understand this. That’s why when anyone said, “You know how January is” instead of getting me gifts or even remembering my birthday, I attributed it to being a middle child. To help people “plan” better, I usually had to start announcing my birthday at the beginning of December. 

    This worked with my nuclear family because every birthday from my 10th was celebrated, even if it was only with home-baked cake and Bobo drink. I’d always wondered how different it’d be if I were born at a different time in the year, not so close to the start or end — June or July, preferably. Would I still need to put in so much effort to be celebrated? 


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    Now in my 20s, I’ve become less enthusiastic about my birthday with each passing year. Maybe it’s old age, or I’m just tired, or because I’ve joined the population of people awaiting January salary, but I don’t try to celebrate my birthday anymore. It’s just the one day I take off hating on January like the rest of the world. 

    I’ve gotten used to everyone complaining about being too broke in January to afford gifts or even go out. That’s why 2023 shocked me. Because for the first time, it seemed like everyone but me was excited about my birthday. They were so used to me planning my birthday weeks ahead, they were waiting excitedly for this year. 

    So even though I didn’t feel like doing anything, my sister kept insisting on a house party, which she went on to sponsor because, let’s be fucking for real, what money am I supposed to use? Not the salary from December that finished that same December. My friend even offered to plan while everyone outdid themselves with gifts. Now, I’m plagued with spending the rest of the year buying birthday presents for everyone — even those I’d typically not gift — because they got me something. 

    It’s been just a few days since my birthday, and people have already started talking about Valentine’s Day, which is in February, FGS. Guys, you had December to do all your “love” things. Can you all let January have it’s moment?


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  • Everybody knows that Nigerian women don’t play with their birthdays. They’re either going for the pomp of an engagement party or they’re switching off their phones till the day passes. Here are six ways Nigerian women celebrate their birthdays. 

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    1. Photoshoot 

    What’s a Nigerian woman’s birthday without a photoshoot? They start planning the photoshoot a year in advance so nothing can go wrong. These birthday pictures sometimes double as headshots for work. You know how versatile Nigerian women can be. 

    2. Dinner with friends 

    Nigerian women love an elaborate dinner with friends to celebrate their new age, one where they can invite all their friends and frenemies. Sometimes, their exes might even be there. Anything for the celebrant. 

    3. Date with partner 

    Nothing says, “I am loved,” like a picture of a Nigerian woman and her man’s legs or hands or back view — as long as his face doesn’t show. 

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    4. Clubbing games

    Another thing Nigerian women love is to feel like the center of attention; birthdays at the club are a perfect way to experience that. The hype man will focus on cheering her up, the DJ will focus on playing her favorite songs. 

    5. Games night

    Games night, especially with a bring your own bottle, is one of the best ways for Nigerian women to celebrate their birthdays. It saves money — no need to buy an expensive outfit or plan drinks for a crowd. Just dress up and show up. 

    6. Alone time 

    When all the plans fail, switch off your phone till the birthday is over. You can’t come and kill yourself. 

    RELATED: 8 Things Women Do When They’re Home Alone

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