None of these are substitutes for condoms.

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Sometimes you hit the gene lottery and look the same at 30+ as you did at 15. But most times, adulting for women comes with body changes. And that’s okay.

We look into allegation cases going back to 2005, to answer the question: what happens after a person is accused of sexual violence or misconduct in Nigeria? As we interrogate where various accused individuals are today, we discover a pattern that may enable such crimes.

The subject of this week’s What She Said is a 29-year-old woman who talks about how her fear of home invasions came to pass and why she thinks it was partly her fault.

The subject of this week’s What She Said is a 42-year-old Nigerian woman. She shares how being her parents’ least favourite child made her fail school, lose motivation to work and accept her husband’s infidelity as her fault. Trigger warning: This story touches on parental emotional abuse and self-hate

This Week's subject of #WhatSheSaid is a 29-year-old woman who has battled depression and suicidal thoughts since she was 14. She shares the origin of her mental illness and how falling out with her boss almost made her want to end it all.

Growing up religious, this 29-year-old Nigerian woman assumed she was straight, but several toxic relationships (and situation-ships) later, she’s exploring dating her gender. From the inconsistent cultist to the insecure dog beater, she shares the hetero-experiences that led her to this shift on this week’s What She Said.

Baddies in the house, we don’t know if you know, but it’s 2024 and the hair game has changed. Stay in the loop with the mother of all lists that we compiled just for you.

If there’s one thing Ebun* (24) is tired of, it’s being seen as an object for people’s fat fetish. She talks about growing up bigger than her mates and navigating situationships as a plus-size woman.