12 Easy Ways To Know Your Partner No Longer Loves You

July 31, 2021

Love is not difficult; if your partner loves you, it is clear to see and know. But sometimes, you might be with someone who is showing signs that are very hard to read. You then spend the entire time wondering if they love you or not.

You don’t have to worry anymore. Here are 12 easy ways to know your partner no longer loves you.

1. If they sleep with their back turned to you.

They are already showing you their back. It’s time to start packing your load because that relationship is on its last bar. It won’t last another month.

2. If you tell them you have not eaten and they say, “Ehya, make sure you eat something oh.”

Of course, they no longer care if you die or live. They are over you. Think back to when you first met; did they not send you food, at the very least?

3. If you ask to come visit them and they say, “Come if you want.”

You don cast. Better break up before you find out that they are marrying someone who is not you.

4. If you ask to come visit them and they say, “Yes, you can come.”

Should you even have to ask? When the relationship started, were they not begging you to come and visit them? What changed?

5. If the number of sexual rounds reduce.

Of course, they can no longer stand you. They just want you to get up and leave their space.

6. If the number of sexual rounds increase.

Clearly, they want to enjoy what they can enjoy before they throw you out like trash. Do you want our advice? Deprive them of that enjoyment. Lock up and then break up.

7. If they don’t like you eating from their plate.

The both of you ordered rice and they still don’t want you to eat sixteen spoons from their rice? Omo, better break-up. There is nothing left for you in that relationship.

8. If they ask you to eat from their food.

They are indirectly calling you a longthroat. If I were you, I will not eat that food. It’s break-up straight.

9. If they fall asleep before you.

If this is not enough sign for you, then you need help.

10. If they fall asleep after you.

Are you a child that they have to put you to bed first? That person is infantlising you. Please leave. We want you to want better for yourself.

11. If they come back from an outing without buying you anything, just because you said you don’t want anything.

They couldn’t even make an effort?? Nah, that person no longer loves you.

12. If they come back from an outing and give you a gift even after you said you don’t want anything.

This person clearly doesn’t listen to you. Are you proud to be in a relationship where your words don’t count? You better leave. There is no more love in that relationship. It has dried up.

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