Be a Side Chick With a Difference by Following These 8 Rules

September 27, 2022

There are many side chicks in this world, but how many of them actually have the fear of God? If you want to stand out from the rest, you need to follow our advice to the end. 

Don’t drag attention with the main

The time you should see your partner should be times when the main chick has more important things to do. Don’t demand to meet on Valentine’s Day or Christmas. Know your place. 

Pray for the main chick

Keep the main not only in your thoughts but in your prayers too. At the end of the day, if she has money and is in good health, she’ll not demand your person’s attention so much. 

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Learn the main chick’s love language 

You need to learn her love language so you can help your partner love her better. You don’t want a situation where the main chick spends all their time upset and confused. No, you need her happy and feeling pleasant so she would have fewer reasons to be suspicious.

Help plan dates and surprises for the main chick

Sometimes, buy her gifts with your own money. Make sure she knows how much her (your) partner loves and appreciate her. 

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If there are children involved, volunteer to babysit 

If you babysit so the couple can spend time together on dates and activities, he’d remember why he has a side in the first place. 

Help her cheat 

She too might want a little something on the side. You’re not there to judge but instead to help her pull it off smoothly. Help create lies for her and to also keep her partner busy so she can meet her own side piece. 

Defend her

Make sure you create an environment where he doesn’t feel comfortable disrespecting her. Whenever he complains, try to make him see her side of things. Women should always stick together.

Don’t taunt her on social media 

Unnecessary provocation will do nothing but cause fights. The partner may be asked to choose a side and you may not be the chosen one. Just post your gifts and trips in peace. Leave her out of it. 

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