• Part of having a healthy sexual life is getting to know and ultimately knowing your body. It’s also another way for women to close the orgasm gap. The experience helps you know whether or not engaging in sexual activity with a man or woman is worth the stress. At least that’s what these five women say learning their bodies did for them. 

    1. “I Started Exploring my Body During My Early Teenage Years”- Oluchi*, 24

    I started exploring my body during my early teenage years. I was reading an erotica, and I felt wet but didn’t know what to do about it or what was wrong. I was concerned. In the process of figuring out what was going on, I started touching myself, and it was a nice sensation. Did further research and I found a lot of answers on Healthline. I saw it was completely normal, and the rest is history. I always read erotica and then “explored myself”, but then on lazy days, I watched porn.

    Beyond erotica, other things that have also helped me become more familiar with my body are things like phone sex, watching people explore themselves, voyeurism and still erotica. Honestly, I don’t think much has changed about how I view myself; what matters to me is that I am satisfied. Masturbating didn’t even help me view myself better. But I think that’s because I have always been self-aware and confident. I believe my sexual life is my sexual life. It doesn’t necessarily influence my social, work or any other part of my life. I really like to compartmentalise that way.

    The only thing I’d say exploring pleasure and my body has really done for me is that I’m now a lot more accommodating. People like what they like, and I can’t judge them for it. Except if it’s vile.

    2. “I’ve Been Watching Porn Since a Very Young Age”- Mariam*, 23

    I’ve been watching porn since a very young age. Pretty early, haha, but that eventually led to some curiosity about my body and how to replicate the pleasure I saw the actors portray on screen. I’ve come a long way from my (personal) hairbrush and hands to a rose and a bullet. Other experiences that have helped me become more familiar with my body really just centre on sex and variations of it. I’d like to believe porn didn’t rot my brain. I also like to listen to what people have to say and hear about their experiences. Then I try them out on myself.

    Masturbation hasn’t necessarily improved my image of myself, but honestly, it’s a double-edged sword. Because porn was my first introduction to sex, it shaped what I subconsciously associate with desire. As a woman, I ought to have a beautiful, curvy, or slender body devoid of any body hair, as the more popular actors sometimes do. Being my very first introduction to sex negatively affected my perception of how my body should look and how I want my partner to desire me. Because if I’m not curvy and hairless, does that not mean I’m not deserving of sex and its pleasures?

    I would say things are much better now. Years and years of exploring my body has helped me understand what I enjoy in bed. I’d say it’s helped determine what I like and what I don’t like. I thought there was a “right” way to experience pleasure and that I just needed to replicate it. But I’ve come to learn that what works for others might not work for me. I’m different, so the way I experience and seek out pleasure will be different, too.

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    3. “Buy a Vibrator and Lube”- Abigail, 26

    The first time I tried exploring my body, I tried with a vibrator, and I was 23. I followed some online advice and bought a vibrator and lube. Since then, I’ve really just had a lot of make-out sessions and engaged in foreplay. But even those ones have helped me see how sensitive my body is to touch.

    I think generally, masturbating eased me into being sexually active. Because of how often I got into and how nice it felt, I no longer go scared or anxious about being sexually active. Also, it’s easy for me to give my partner directions and speak up on what makes me feel good or otherwise.

    My advice to women is always to explore their bodies. Get to know yourself. A lot of times, we tell women to get to know themselves and limit it to the emotional, mental or spiritual. But there’s nothing to be ashamed about when it comes to getting to know our bodies. It’s a natural aspect of life. Also, buy a vibrator and lube.

    4. “Toys are Great, But Nothing Really Gets Me Cracked Like My Fingers.”- Tosin*, 22

    I take exploring my body very personally because the first time my body was explored, it wasn’t with my consent. Surprisingly and unfortunately, I was young, but it still felt good. Growing up, the memory stuck with me, and I think I tried to replace it by having as many experiences as possible. So, I started exploring my body at about 14, and then had sex at like 19.

    Toys are great, but nothing really gets me cracked like my fingers. But honestly, to each their own. When I use my hands, I find that I’m able to really get in tune with myself, and that really helps with specificity when I’m telling people what I like. I guess in a way, getting into it with myself changed how I viewed and felt about my body. It gave me a sense of ownership in a way. Like, yes, this vessel actually belongs to me, and it is my responsibility to make her feel good. That sort of thing.

    5. “I’m Open to all Human and Legal Genres of Pornography”- Stella*, 24

    I’m currently 24, but I can’t remember when exactly it is I started exploring my body. But I know i started out humping pillows. It’s such an underrated experience. What I can also say is that I’ve had a good run and all my experiences have been great. Sometimes I do a bit too much with masturbation and sex, then I need to go on breaks because I realise it’s not hitting as well. But I think that’s something that happens to everyone.

    Aside from self-pleasure, one thing that’s helped me is saying yes to everything but also knowing my limits. It might not be the most prudent advice, but if I have great chemistry with someone, I am 100% going to explore it. It doesn’t happen often, but it happens enough for my body count to have gotten past 10. For me, exploration is all you need to know what you like. Whether it’s with someone or it’s alone.

    For people who are monogamous or in relationships, I’d advise planning things. A bit unethical, but adding to that, I’d also say read stuff and watch videos to see if you’re planning is something that genuinely turns you on. Honestly, even if it turns you on via video, it might not do the same thing in real life. I think that’s something I’ve started doing as well. I’m open to all human and legal genres of pornography, and I try to see if it’s something I’ll enjoy replicating. You find that it helps for great story times. 

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    HERtitude 2026 is happening this April, and the theme is Main Character Energy. Get your tickets here: hertitude.zikoko.com.

  • Nigerian Twitter is easily one of the funniest corners of the internet. And if you’ve been scrolling long enough, certain hit tweets live in your head rent-free.

    This quiz is for the real OGs. If you’ve truly paid your dues on the timeline, getting at least 9/13 shouldn’t stress you.

    If it does… well. 🌚

    Complete the tweet.

  • Detty December in Lagos usually follows a script.

    You know the type. Loud events. Celebrity lineups. Endless parties. Traffic that tests your patience.

    So when we heard about Techmas Village in Lekki Phase 1, we weren’t expecting it to compete with the chaos that is Detty December.

    Over two weeks, nearly 4,000 people visited Techmas Village by Enzo. Families, tourists, and fun seekers looking for different things to do in Lagos in December.

    At first glance, it was all about tech. Virtual reality arenas. Augmented challenges. Competitive games.

    But the real story wasn’t the gadgets, it was the parents getting unexpectedly competitive during Family-vs-Family games. The teenagers forgetting their phones. The laughter when someone failed spectacularly in VR.

    From December 25th through early January, the space felt less like an event and more like a community square.

    For visitors searching for family activities in Lagos during the festive season, Techmas Village offered something refreshingly participatory.

    Powered by NSIA Insurance, it didn’t try to outshine the city. It just gave people a place to gather.

    And with a larger Lekki Phase 1 space on the way, this Christmas experience in Lagos might quietly become a year-round staple.

    Not every Detty December memory needs a headline act.

    Sometimes it just needs somewhere to belong.

    Curious about what comes next, Enzo Reality continues to host immersive experiences and community-driven events in Lekki Phase 1. 

    Details on upcoming activities can be found at www.enzoreality.com , with regular updates shared across Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, and Facebook

    Visitors can also reach out directly via WhatsApp or find directions easily on Google Maps to plan their next visit.


  • GridLocked is a daily pop culture guessing game built for Nigerians. Every weekday by 9am, you’ll get six clues, sixty seconds, and an answer only a Nigerian would know.


    Today’s GridLocked is an actor.

    How many clues do you need to get it right? 👀

    Share your result when done, but don’t spoil the answer for others. (Missed the last GridLocked? Play it here.)

    9 March 2026

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    How to Play GridLocked

    • The Goal: Guess the answer for the day before time runs out. (The answer could be a Nigerian person, place, song, movie, or even slang.)
    • The Lock: You cannot type a guess until you have revealed at least one tile (clue).
    • The Reveal: Tap any tile to reveal a clue. Every clue describes the answer for the day. The fewer tiles you flip, the better.
    • The Clock: You have 60 seconds to guess right. The timer starts the moment you flip your first tile. (You get multiple guesses.)

    The GridLocked Squares: What Do They Mean?

    When the game ends, you see your guess count, total time spent, and the number of tiles flipped. The tiles are shown as white and purple squares.

    • ⬜ (White) = A tile you flipped
    • 🟪 (Purple) = A tile you left closed

    The fewer white tiles you have, the better your result.

    • Best Result = ⬜🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪 | Guesses: 1 (Only needed one clue and one guess to get it right)
  • Every week, Zikoko seeks to understand how people move the Naira in and out of their lives. Some stories will be struggle-ish, others will be bougie. All the time, it’ll be revealing.


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    Nairalife #363 bio

    When did you first realise the importance of money?

    I understood the concept of exchange before actually handling money.  In primary school, I loved drawing cartoon characters like Ben 10 and Naruto, and I was good at it. 

    I drew these characters on pieces of paper torn from my notebook. My mum, who was a headmistress, wasn’t particularly impressed that I tore my notebooks to draw.  So, as a workaround, I drew for classmates in exchange for extra sheets of paper. I was being paid, just not with money. 

    Watching how hard my mum worked also made me think about the importance of money.

    Tell me more 

    My mum was a single mum of two. My dad died pretty early; I don’t even remember much about him. So, it was up to my mum to provide for us. We weren’t financially stable, but I knew my mum worked hard to keep food on the table. We couldn’t always afford nice things, but she did her best to ensure we had the basics.

    What was the first thing you did to earn money?

    Still my drawing and art talent. I went to a secondary school attended by rich kids, and one day, when I was in JSS 2, a classmate approached me. He’d heard I could draw and needed help with his assignment. He paid me ₦200, which was enough for two doughnuts and a bottle of Coke. It was good money.

    After that, I had a relatively steady stream of people paying me at least ₦150 to do their assignments. I stopped in JSS 3 when a teacher noticed my drawing style in other students’ assignments and warned me not to do it anymore.

    I didn’t do anything else for money until uni. I entered uni in 2017 and was on a ₦10k/month allowance from my mum, which only covered food and transport, nothing extra. Even then, ₦10k didn’t last me until the end of the month. In the second semester, my uncle gave me a laptop, and I decided to learn design.

    How did you go about this?

    I knew a graphic designer from church, and with my mum’s consent, I spent my semester break learning CorelDRAW at his studio. It helped me learn how to digitally recreate the images I drew on paper. I also assisted the graphic designer with t-shirt prints, banner designs and the like.

    I learnt from him for two months until school resumed. In school, I kept designing and started posting my work on my WhatsApp status. Then a friend reached out one day, asking if I designed logos. I said “yes,” and she introduced me to a client. 

    I can’t forget that logo. It was for a finance-based business, and the logo featured a house with a chimney. Now that I think about it, we don’t have chimneys in Nigeria, so that was completely unnecessary.

    I’m screaming. How much did you make from that first gig?

    ₦2500. It was the biggest amount I could think of. Subsequently, I started receiving logo requests from fellow students who ran small businesses. I didn’t have a flat rate. Students don’t have money, and no one would’ve paid ₦2500. 

    So, I charged students between ₦1k and ₦1500 for logos and banners. Most of the time, I was only making an extra ₦3k or ₦4k a month, but it felt nice to add that to my pocket money. 

    This went on until COVID came. While people complained about being bored, all I did was eat, sleep and watch design tutorials. I was designing every single day. Before the school shutdown, I’d begun moving with a student club of developers and tech guys. I could tell these guys had more money than the average student, and I figured I could be like that if I improved my craft. The lockdown gave me the opportunity to fine-tune my skills. 

    Some time after the lockdown was lifted, I posted a test project I’d designed on Twitter. A marketing agency reached out to me and told me they liked my work. Then, they asked if I was open to a full-time role. 

    That’s how they offered me a job with a ₦60k/month salary. I was so excited that I called my mum immediately. Unfortunately, my excitement was short-lived.

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    Uh oh. What happened?

    They fired me after three months. I had a difficult time transitioning from freelancing to paid employment. I’m a perfectionist, and I take time because I need everything to look good. However, companies have deadlines, and after I delayed a few tasks, the agency ghosted me. They didn’t even give me clear communication; they just stopped paying my salary and didn’t respond to my questions. I got the message. 

    I was sad because I liked the job, but the experience helped me realise I wasn’t as good as I thought. There had been callbacks on a number of my designs, and it was pretty clear I still had some learning to do.  

    I lost the job in December 2020, and around the same time, a friend introduced me to someone who had opened a co-working space. The founder told me he needed a designer to create marketing materials, but didn’t have the money to pay. However, I would get free access to the co-working space (plus the WiFi) as long as I worked with him. 

    Did you accept?

    I did. It would give me the opportunity to work on my craft and potentially meet new people. This arrangement lasted two years, and during that time, the founder referred me to multiple clients. So, it was a win-win.

    Beyond the referrals, I was getting gigs from various sources. One time, I worked with a guy who had Fiverr and Upwork accounts and would outsource gigs to me. In 2021, I got my first foreign client on Twitter, who paid me $82 for a couple of gigs. He returned a few more times. 

    Throughout 2021, my monthly income from design ranged between ₦30k – ₦90k. It wasn’t stable, but I earned something every month. 

    2022 came with an eight-month ASUU strike and new opportunities. I landed a four-month internship at a design agency and participated in branding projects and training classes. They paid me a ₦100k/month stipend. 

    The experience and exposure I got from the internship gave me the morale to return to the founder of the co-working space to tell him I needed to start getting paid. 

    Get it! What did he say?

    He couldn’t create a budget for me at the workspace, so he transferred me to a fintech company that he was a part of. There, I got hired as a brand and product designer. My salary started at ₦80k/month, then jumped to ₦120k after the three-month probation. This was in 2023. 

    I was in 400 level at this point, juggling the fintech job, actively freelancing and taking occasional gigs from the design agency I interned at. The least amount I earned in a month was my ₦120k salary. With my other hustles, I was comfortably netting ₦200k – ₦500k in some months.  

    Not bad for a student. What were your spending habits like?

    Besides spending on the basic necessities, I was saving to buy a MacBook. In the design community, that laptop is like a badge of honour. It took me a full year to save over ₦1m to buy it.

    In 2024, I left the fintech because I was juggling bigger things — Fiverr. I had opened an account in January because a friend was opening his, and I thought it wouldn’t hurt to join him. That turned out to be the best decision I’ve made for my freelance journey. 

    I made $120 in the first month I joined Fiverr. By March, Fiverr and a few other freelance projects brought me ₦1.5m. The subsequent months were at least ₦700k. I also got another full-time role at a creative agency at some point in the year. They paid me ₦200k/month. 

    So, I was earning from two full-time jobs and a profitable freelance hustle. To put it simply, I was balling. 

    Love to see it

    The extra income made it easy for me to start thinking about investments. I began thinking of a future where I could afford not to work, and I knew investments could get me there. So, I started sending any spare cash to a real estate plan on an investment app.

    After leaving the fintech in November 2024, I took another part-time job with a returning UK-based client. He paid me $1000/month to work 40 hours a week. So, again, I was working two jobs and managing my freelancing business.

    Wasn’t that a lot to juggle? Also, you haven’t mentioned school in a while.

    See, greed is a very fascinating thing. I tried not to take on heavy freelance gigs, but I was still practically doing three different things at once. Who says no to money?

    As for school, I dropped out in my final year. I wasn’t doing very well, and the course wasn’t what I wanted to do. I even got an extra year. I just couldn’t engage with school anymore, so I finally quit in 2025. 

    I’m curious, how did your mum react to that?

    I kept it from her until I couldn’t anymore. My answers to her “What’s happening at school?” got sloppier, and I had to come clean. My mum doesn’t cry. I can count the number of times I’ve seen her cry. But the day I told her I dropped out, she completely broke down. 

    The thing is, my mum is an academic. She believes you need to go to school to get a good job and have a good life. She couldn’t believe I’d make such a decision after all her sacrifices. The issue shook our relationship, and it’s still shaky to this day. She doesn’t talk to me much anymore. I try to call her, but our conversations are always awkward. 

    Do you think it was worth it to drop out so close to the finish line, though?

    I don’t think staying around would’ve changed anything. I never cared for classes, and even as a final-year student, I still couldn’t answer basic questions about my course. 

    Besides, people around me were graduating and doing totally different things. You’d see someone who graduated with a nursing degree working as a product manager. Life isn’t black and white. If I can’t give my time to school, I might as well give it to design and build a stronger career. 

    It also helped that I was doing really well financially. I left the creative agency in 2025 to focus on the UK job and Fiverr. My monthly income was around $2000, which is almost ₦3m in naira. I was financially responsible for myself. I moved into a new apartment, set up a small workstation, bought an inverter to solve power issues and Starlink to avoid network wahala. The whole thing cost me about ₦3m, but it was definitely worth it for my productivity. 

    What does your monthly income look like these days?

    I’m still at the $2k mark, but this is entirely from the UK job (I got a raise in 2024). My Fiverr account was blocked in October, I suspect, due to a bad review left by a client. I haven’t been able to gain access since then. 

    The experience has driven me to put more effort into growing my personal brand, in case I lose another source of income. I still get occasional freelance gigs, but it’s not at the same level as I had with Fiverr. 

    In addition to building my personal brand, I’m very intentional about my investments. I live on 25% – 30% of my income; the rest goes into investments. A short-term goal I have, which I call my 401 (k), is to get to the point where my investments pay me at least ₦1m every month. 

    The investment app I use has a feature that gives users 25% of their total investment monthly if they have more than ₦5m in their accounts. I estimate I’ll need ₦40m in the account to get ₦1m monthly, and I plan to get there in 5 years. 

    My long-term goal is to save up to $1m or at least ₦1bn. If I invest that in different channels and earn around $15k monthly, I’ll never need to work again. 

    Those are big dreams. Let’s talk about the life your income affords you right now

    The life I live doesn’t match my income at all. I’m very frugal. Last year, I earned ₦40m in income and ₦2m in investment dividends. Yet, I live in a tiny self-contained apartment. I’m a big believer in staying as small as possible for as long as possible. 

    I spend 30% of my income now, and that’s only because of the new tax laws. I don’t want the government taxing me too much, so I registered an LLC early this year and now “pay” myself a ₦600k monthly salary. The rest of the money stays in investments. Even from that ₦600k, my usual monthly expense is just about ₦350k. The rest still goes to investments and other minor expenses. I live way below my means. I have a budget for everything.

    Walk me through what your monthly budget looks like

    Nairalife #363 expenses

    How about your investment portfolio?

    I have ₦1.2m in my emergency fund. I started investing in stocks in 2025, and currently have ₦8.6m there. Then another ₦20.4m in my real estate investment account  — that’s the one I’m trying to raise to ₦40m. 

    I also have another ₦360k in a separate account specifically for taxes. I calculate tax for whatever I earn and send it there, so I’m not surprised when the government starts asking for it. In total, my net worth is around ₦35m, which is still very far from ₦1bn.

    How would you describe your relationship with money?

    I’m very diligent with money. I’m diligent about how I make it, and for the past year, I’ve been diligent about paying myself first by investing in my future goals. One thing I’m still trying to learn is staying with my budget. 

    Sometimes, my actual monthly expenses reach ₦450k. Clearly, I still have some work to do with watching out for the small things that balloon into big expenses. Buying more protein shakes at the gym or spending a bit more on transport once or twice don’t sound like much, but those things that add up. 

    Is there an ideal amount of money you think you should be earning?

    For my perfect life, my dream income is $15k/month. However, I’m really happy with where I am. It’s a lot more than most people get. So I’m not complaining. I want more, as most people do, but I am also content. I’m not overspending, and I’m going slowly. Slow is good. Slow is fine.

    Is there anything you want right now but can’t afford?

    Maybe a relationship. I can afford it, to be honest, but I know love can be financial. I’m too frugal to spend on dates or anything like that right now.

    How would you rate your financial happiness on a scale of 1-10?

    9. I earn enough to create artificial scarcity. I earn almost ₦3m monthly but choose to live on just ₦600k. That’s an interesting place to be. 

    Curious, do you sometimes wish you’d completed school?

    I have no regrets. Of course, there’s the issue of the certificate, but I’m open to the idea of having my own business one day, and I can always go to business school. 


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  • Sunken Ships is a Zikoko weekly series that explores the how and why of the end of all relationships — familial, romantic or just good old friendships.


    For more than two decades, Ebuka* (29) was one of the most constant people in Ada’s* (28) life as they grew up in the same neighbourhood and shared the same tight-knit friend group. But in 2021, a disagreement about Ada’s relationship cracked the foundation of their friendship. 

    In this Sunken Ships, Ada shares the argument that revealed the gaps in her friendship with Ebuka, how they handled their disagreement and why she thinks they’re better off apart.

    How did your friendship with Ebuka begin?

    We’ve been friends since 2001. We grew up in the same neighbourhood with a tight-knit friend group. All our parents worked at the same place so we had a lot in common.

    How would you describe your friendship with him?

    It was great while it lasted. We went through every new phase of our lives together from primary school till after university. Our years of playing together and conversations grew a friendship that was full of honesty and support.

    When did you notice the cracks in your friendship?

    It was in 2021. I had just gotten back together with my long-time boyfriend after a six-month break, and Ebuka didn’t like that.

    Why was he against it?

    At the time, I wasn’t sure why. We had been dating since I was seventeen and he had even become good friends with Ebuka and the rest of our childhood friend group. We initially broke up because he was moving out of the country, but decided to try again when he realised he would be visiting home often. 

    Did you ask Ebuka why he disagreed with your decision?

    Yes, I did. He said that my boyfriend wasn’t good enough for me and that our relationship would probably not work out because of how long we’d been together. He said I’d be stupid if I actually rekindled my relationship with my boyfriend. That upset me, and we stopped speaking for a while.

    What happened after that fight?

    I reached out to him a few days later and asked him to accompany me on a walk to try and talk things through. I made it clear that I didn’t like the way he spoke about my relationship but I appreciated his honesty. I thought he was worried about me getting hurt, but his reaction made me angrier.

    How did he react?

    He was very cold. He didn’t even respond to me at all; he just turned around and walked back to his house. I kept asking where he was going, but he ignored me. I felt very disrespected.

    Did you try to speak with him after that?

    No, I was too angry but I tried to speak to our other friends about it because I found his behaviour odd.

    What did they have to say?

    One of them in particular Deola* was surprised. Apparently, he wasn’t as honest with me as I had thought.

    What did you discover?

    Apparently, Ebuka had feelings for me that he had kept secret for many years because I had been in a committed relationship since our late teens. According to Deola, he had come clean to her when I was newly single. To him, breaking up with my boyfriend finally gave him the chance to come clean about his feelings, but he was waiting for me to “heal” before he brought it up.

    How did that make you feel?

    I was shocked. He had never treated me differently from any of the other girls in our friend group. He had also dated many other women over the course of our friendship. I never imagined he saw me that way.

    What did you do after you found out?

    Nothing. I loved Ebuka as a brother and nothing more. Maybe if he had told me about his feelings, we would have been able to discuss the future of our friendship, but his sudden coldness and the way he disrespected me the last time we spoke made me keep to myself.

    Did you ever reach out to him after your last disagreement?

    No, but he reached out to me after a month or so. We had been seeing each other on the street when we went to work or ran errands, but we hadn’t said a word to each other. He called me one evening and, after saying hello, he asked, “Are you and that guy still together?” I said yes, and he hung up immediately. That was when I knew that my friendship with him was completely over. We haven’t spoken to each other since then.

    How has this affected your relationship with your mutual friends?

    It’s a bit awkward when we all hang out together, but it hasn’t affected my other friendships. I talk to the rest of the group normally. I just don’t speak with Ebuka anymore. 

    Did the end of your friendship with him make you sad?

    Yes, it did, but I was more upset that he would be so rude to me just because we weren’t on the same page about our feelings. I’m sure if the tables were turned, I would have treated him more kindly.

    Did you tell your boyfriend about what happened?

    Yes, I did. He tried to talk to Ebuka, but he also got ignored, so we’ve decided to move on.

    Do you think there’s a chance for you to reconcile with Ebuka if he asks for your forgiveness?

    I don’t think so. My boyfriend and I might get married in the near future. I don’t believe it’s wise to maintain a friendship with someone who doesn’t think highly of my relationship with my chosen partner. Maybe we’re better apart than as friends.

    getting into another serious relationship.


    *Names have been changed for anonymity.


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  • In July 2025, Zikoko released Season 1 of HER: The Docu-Series, a part of our ongoing #ShiftTheStory campaign to challenge gender norms. The series spotlights women’s journeys and expands what young women believe can be possible.

    Season 1 featured Ibukun “IBK” Akinola, who manages payments at PiggyVest; Nneka Esther, whose love of K-dramas led her to an unconventional career path; and Omotara Tomisin, who reminded us there’s no single “right” career route for women. We closed the season with Hassana Maina and the impactful work she does across communities in Northern Nigeria.

    Across four episodes, HER celebrated women who moved beyond circumstance, bet on what they loved, and built lives on their own terms. For Season 2, we’re bringing you even more stories of incredible women who have gone beyond marketing themselves and their skills and created brands with independent identities. 

    Here are three things to expect from the upcoming season. 

    1. Inspiration

    If you’ve ever felt the urge to change your life or finally start working on that business idea after watching something powerful, get ready to feel it even more with every episode this season. The women we’re bringing to your screens are women who refused to put conditions on their dreams and committed to seeing their visions through. Here’s our advice: dust off those planning journals. Revisit the ideas you tucked away. Give yourself permission to start again. One thing we know for sure is that these women will have you believing again. 

    2. A How-To Business Guide

    This season isn’t just packed with “aspire to perspire” quotes. Each episode has the story and process of some who have started and built some of your favourite brands. From Shop Bawsty, to Yerwa Secrets, Sweatbox and others. We’re showing you the blueprint of how to make it in different industries from women who’ve done it. 

    3. All About HER

    It’s 2026, and we’re still about #ShiftingTheStory. Which means amplifying women to support women, and amplifying women who support women. The women in season 2 of our docu-series didn’t just think of how to grow their economic power, but also how to impact the lives of other women. Either by providing services or scaling their chosen industries. It’s businesses made by women, for women. It’s businesses aimed at paving the way for models that mirror theirs. 

    Now that you know what you’re in for, what do we expect you to do? It’s simple. Spread the word. Set up a watch party with your girls, let them know that your faves are on Zikoko with tips on how to build the next best thing. Tell them HER 2 is coming to ZikokoMag on YouTube today, Saturday, March 7, 2026. Save the date!

    Watch the first trailer, featuring Affiong Williams and the story of how she built ReelFruit here!


    HERtitude 2026 is happening this April, and the theme is Main Character Energy. Get your tickets here: hertitude.zikoko.com.

  • Your phone is more than just a device. It’s your work hub, your planner, and your creative space. It’s basically everything you need, but unfortunately, not all phones can keep up with the pace of your daily hustle. 

    Take this quick quiz to see if your phone is truly keeping up, or if it’s time to upgrade to something that matches your energy and multi-hustling lifestyle. 

    Your hustle deserves a phone that can actually keep up.

    With powerful performance, fast charging, and long-lasting battery life, the Infinix NOTE 60 Series is built for people who do more every day.

  • In music, one great album can feel like lightning in a bottle. Two might prove that an artist wasn’t lucky the first time. But three excellent albums in a row? That’s a rare streak.

    For a Nigerian artist, achieving this means navigating a fickle market and a rapidly shifting sonic identity. Whether it’s the indigenous rap takeover of the early 2010s, the R&B-infused pop of the mid-2000s, or the modern global expansion of the late 2010s, these album runs represent the moments when these ten artists held the entire industry in a chokehold.

    These are the 10 Nigerian artists who delivered the most flawless three-project streaks in history.

    10. Olamide

    Run: Yahoo Boy No Laptop (YBNL) (2012) → Baddest Guy Ever Liveth (2013) → Street OT (2014)

    Between 2012 and 2014, Olamide was the undisputed voice of the streets. He won the Headies’ Album of the Year for all three of these consecutive projects, a feat that may never be repeated. Yahoo Boy No Laptop gave hits like “First of All” and stretched his impact beyond the underground. Baddest Guy Ever Liveth leaned fully into his braggadocious street persona, while Street OT delivered massive records like “Shakiti Bobo.” Together, these albums cemented Olamide’s influence on Nigerian street pop and rap.

    9. Wizkid

    Run: Superstar (2011) → Ayo (2014) → Sounds From the Other Side (2017)

    Wizkid’s run follows the evolution of a boy wonder into a global icon. Superstar (2011) is arguably one of the most influential debuts in Afrobeats history. The album produced generational hits like “Holla at Your Boy,” “Pakurumo” and “Tease Me.” His second album, Ayo (2014), features the timeless “Ojuelegba” and secures his status as a local legend. Sounds From The Other Side (2017) is Wizkid boldly experimenting with R&B, Caribbean and other international sounds, to lay the groundwork for the global “Made In Lagos” era that followed.

    8. Tiwa Savage

    Run: Once Upon a Time (2013) → R.E.D (2015) → Celia (2020)

    The African Number One Bad Girl built her legacy on this formidable three-album run. Tiwa Savage’s debut, Once Upon a Time, arrived in 2013 when Nigerian pop was still heavily male-dominated. It immediately establishes her as the country’s leading female pop star. It has hits like “Kele Kele Love,” “Love Me” and “Eminado.”

    She followed with R.E.D (2015), which is packed with commercial singles like “My Darlin” and “Standing Ovation.” Years later, Celia (2020) increased her global reach with collaborations with Sam Smith and Davido. The album also debuted on the Billboard World Albums chart and earned a spot on Time Magazine’s best albums of the year. Tiwa Savage remains one of the most internationally visible African pop stars of her generation.


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    7. M.I Abaga

    Run: Talk About It (2008) → MI2: The Movie (2010) → The Chairman (2014)

    M.I. Abaga’s albums feel like cinematic experiences; he knows how to curate music. Talk About It (2008) redefined Nigerian Hip-Hop. M.I 2: The Movie (2010) is a star-studded blockbuster that has a commercial edge Nigerian Hip-Hop needed at the time. The Chairman (2014), after a four-year wait, proved his lyrical and conceptual brilliance with songs like “Bad Belle”, “Human Being” and “Brother.” Again, he proved he could evolve with pop trends and still be light-years ahead of the competition.

    6. Asake

    Run: Mr. Money With The Vibe (2022) → Work of Art (2023) → Lungu Boy (2024)

    Few modern artists have dominated the Nigerian charts as quickly as Asake. His debut Mr. Money With The Vibe, broke multiple streaming records on Apple Music Nigeria and Spotify and had hits like “Joha,” “Terminator” and “Sungba.” He followed with Work of Art, which delivered the smash single “Lonely at the Top”, one of the longest-charting Nigerian songs on streaming platforms. His third album, Lungu Boy boosts his commercial momentum and global expansion.

    5. Burna Boy

    Run: Outside (2018) → African Giant (2019) → Twice As Tall (2020)

    This is Burna Boy’s “ascent to the throne” run. He went from a misunderstood genius to a global phenomenon in three steps. Outside (2018) gave us “Ye” and a new Afro-fusion blueprint; African Giant (2019) is a sprawling, Grammy-nominated masterpiece. Twice As Tall (2020) followed next and finally secured the Grammy. This run proves he’s exactly who he said he was: an African giant.


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    4. 9ice

    Run: Certificate (2006) → Gongo Aso (2008) → Tradition (2009)

    9ice’s run was legendary, one that many young people today will not understand. Certificate (2006) showed his potential as an indigenous powerhouse and pushed him into mainstream superstardom. Gongo Aso (2008) swept every award in sight when it came out. Tradition (2009) followed up with hits like “Gbamu Gbamu.” With these albums and their indigenous winning formula, 9ice owned the streets.

    3. P-Square

    Run: Get Squared (2005) → Game Over (2007) → Danger (2009)

    The Okoye twins’ released albums that felt like national events. Get Squared (2005) made them African superstars; Game Over (2007) became one of the best-selling African albums of all time with hits like “Do Me.” Danger (2009) proved they could easily maintain that white-hot momentum.

    2. Asa

    Run: Asa (2007) → Beautiful Imperfection (2010) → Bed of Stone (2014)

    Asa’s self-titled debut, Asa (2007), remains one of the most critically respected Nigerian albums ever. It’s a classic that introduced “Jailer.” Her second album, Beautiful Imperfection (2010), features a brighter, more upbeat, soulful production. It also  produced the widely loved single “Be My Man.” Her third album, Bed of Stone, continued her reputation for thoughtful songwriting and emotional depth. These albums cemented Asa as one of the most artistically consistent voices in modern Nigerian music.


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    1. 2Baba (FKA 2Face)

    Run: Face 2 Face (2004) → Grass 2 Grace (2006) → The Unstoppable (2008)

    2Baba’s first three solo projects provided the foundation for the contemporary Nigerian music industry. Face 2 Face (2004) gave us “African Queen,” one of the most important Afropop songs ever recorded, which helped introduce Nigerian pop to wider African and international audiences. Grass 2 Grace (2006), his sophomore, has big hits like “If Love is a Crime.”

    In 2008, he released The Unstoppable, an experimental project that continued his momentum, featuring songs such as “Enter the Place”. 


    ALSO READ: Why Are Nigerian Pop Albums So Forgettable These Days?


  • With the current state of Nigeria’s economy, it is almost impossible to survive with one source of income. Essentially, without a second hustle, it might be difficult to survive.

    If you are trying to not burn out,  the secret to surviving isn’t just working harder; it’s working smarter and having the right tools in your corner. That’s exactly where the Infinix Note 60 Pro, steps in to be the ultimate side-hustle companion.

    ​Here are five practical ways to manage your side gig without losing your mind, and how the right tech can make all the difference.

    ​1. Set Hard Boundaries for Notifications

    ​When you run a side hustle, your phone is constantly buzzing with emails, DMs, and client requests. Constantly unlocking your phone to check them can lead to the dreaded doomscroll, eating up your precious downtime.

    ​The Fix: Set strict “off-hours” for your business. To help you stay disciplined, the Infinix Note 60 Pro features a unique Rear Matrix Display. This allows you to glance at essential notifications, the time, or incoming calls on the back of your phone without ever unlocking the main screen. You stay informed without getting sucked into the digital vortex. 

    Multitask Without Slowdowns

    The Problem:
    Side hustlers rarely use one app at a time. You’re switching between Google Docs, Canva, WhatsApp, payment apps, email, and social platforms all at once. On weaker devices, this leads to lag, reloads, and frustration.

    The Fix:
    Powered by the Snapdragon 7s Gen 4 5G chipset, the NOTE 60 Pro is built for sustained, high-load multitasking. App switching is fluid, background apps stay active, and performance remains stable even during heavy usage.
    This means fewer interruptions, faster execution, and a smoother work rhythm, especially during peak hustle hours.

    2. Automate the Boring Stuff

    ​You are only one person, meaning your time is your most valuable asset. Spending hours drafting routine emails or organizing notes is a fast track to burnout.

    The Fix: The NOTE 60 Pro’s AI-powered productivity features are designed to offload repetitive thinking. AI writing assistance, smart text summarisation, and note organisation tools help you draft faster, organise better, and respond smarter—without starting from scratch every time.
    This is multitasking at a cognitive level, not just an app level.

    ​3. Create Content on Your Schedule

    ​If your side hustle involves social media management, selling products, or content creation, you probably don’t have the luxury of shooting in perfect daylight. Often, you are working on your business long after the sun goes down.

    ​The Fix: Don’t let poor lighting ruin your workflow. The Infinix Note 60 Pro is equipped with a Night Master Camera that captures crisp, vibrant, and professional-grade photos and videos even in low-light conditions. You can snap flawless product shots or record high-quality Reels from your living room at 10 PM.  

    ​4. Stop Relying on Power Supply 

    ​Nothing kills your momentum faster than your laptop or phone dying when you are working from a coffee shop or commuting. Battery anxiety is a real stressor when your business lives on your device.

    ​The Fix: Invest in tech that keeps up with your crazy hours. The Note 60 Pro is an absolute powerhouse, boasting a massive 6500mAh battery. It will easily last you through your day job and straight into your side hustle hours. And when you finally do need a top-up? The 90W fast charging gets you back to 100% in a flash, so you are never stuck hugging an outlet.  

    ​5. Schedule “Do Nothing” Time

    ​Finally, remember that rest is a productive business strategy. If you don’t schedule time to recharge your own batteries, your body will eventually force you to. Block out at least one day (or a few evenings) a week where you completely disconnect from the hustle.

    ​The Bottom Line

    Building an empire on the side is a marathon, not a sprint. By setting boundaries, automating tasks, and upgrading your daily driver to a productivity beast like the Infinix Note 60 Pro, you can build the business of your dreams without sacrificing your sanity.