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  • Table of contents

    Short & Simple Happy Father’s Day Message

    Long Father’s Day Message

    Emotional Father’s Day Wishes

    Funny Happy Father’s Day Message

    Father’s Day Prayers

    Romantic Father’s Day Message for your Husband

    Happy Father’s Day Message for Dad in Heaven

    Happy Father’s Day Message for Father-in-Law

    Father’s Day, celebrated on the third Sunday in June in Nigeria, is the perfect occasion to share a heartfelt Father’s Day message with the men who’ve shaped our lives. Whether you’re writing a Father’s Day message for your dad, husband, father-in-law, or someone who stepped into the role when it mattered most, every present father deserves to be recognised and celebrated.

    A father hugging adult children on Father's Day

    This collection of over 150 Happy Father’s Day messages covers it all, from funny messages that’ll make him laugh to heartfelt prayers for his well-being. Whatever your bond, you’ll find a Father’s Day message that captures your gratitude and honours the father figure in your life.

    Short & Simple Happy Father’s Day Message

    A short and simple Happy Father’s Day message can still show all the love and appreciation you feel. Whether you’re sending a quick text or jotting something down in a card, these messages are perfect for honouring your Dad without overthinking it.

    A young father holding up a card with a short Father's Day card
    • Happy Father’s Day, Daddy! You’re simply the best.
    • Thanks for everything, Dad. Hope you have a great Father’s Day!
    • Wishing you all the love and relaxation you deserve today. Happy Father’s Day!
    • You make fatherhood look easy. Happy Father’s Day, Popsy!
    • You’re my first hero and my forever role model. Happy Father’s Day!
    • Hope your Father’s Day is as amazing as you are.
    • To the man who always shows up, Happy Father’s Day.
    • Happy Father’s Day, Daddy! Thank you for your love, wisdom, and patience.
    • Happy Father’s Day, Dad! I love you so much.
    • Happy Father’s Day, Daddy! You’re appreciated today and every day.
    • Your strength and kindness inspire me. Happy Father’s Day!
    • Happy Father’s Day! You mean the world to me.
    • Cheers to you, Dad! Please, relax and enjoy today!
    • Wishing you a Father’s Day that’s full of love and happiness. You deserve it and more.
    • Thank you for always being my rock. Happy Father’s Day!
    • You’ve given me so much to be grateful for. Happy Father’s Day, Daddy!
    • You’re one of a kind, and I’m lucky to call you Dad. Happy Father’s Day!
    • Happy Father’s Day, Daddy. You deserve a BIG thank you for all you do.
    • Happy Father’s Day, Sir! Words can’t describe how grateful I am to call you my father. 

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    Long Father’s Day Message

    If you want to go beyond the usual “Happy Father’s Day” and truly express how much he means to you, a long Father’s Day message is the way to go. These heartfelt notes are perfect for telling your Dad, or any father figure in your life, how much he means to you

    A father reading out a long Father's Day message
    • To the man who raised me with strength and tenderness, Happy Father’s Day. Your words and your presence shaped me. I hope you feel the love today because you’ve given it in abundance.
    • You’ve always been my steady hand, my safe place, and my loudest cheerleader. On this special day, I just want to say thank you for being my father and my friend. Happy Father’s Day!
    • From childhood to adulthood, you’ve been there through every milestone. Your wisdom has guided me, your laughter has lifted me, and your belief in me has shaped my path. Happy Father’s Day to the man I’m proud to call my dad.
    • Daddy, you’ve been my compass, my support system, and my biggest role model. Your strength and kindness inspire me every day. Thank you for teaching me by example. Happy Father’s Day.
    • I may not always say it, but I am so grateful for all the ways you show up, for your patience, your advice, your quiet strength. You’ve given me more than I could ever repay. Happy Father’s Day!
    • Happy Father’s Day to the one who’s been my protector, my guide, and my hero. Your love has been the foundation of my confidence. Thank you for being everything I needed and more.
    • You’ve worked hard, sacrificed endlessly, and still managed to laugh and love with all your heart. I hope today you feel even a fraction of the gratitude I carry in mine. Happy Father’s Day.
    • To my dad, who never gave up on me, even when I didn’t believe in myself. You saw potential in me long before I did. I love you for that and so much more. Happy Father’s Day.
    • On this Father’s Day, I just want to remind you how deeply you are loved. Your wisdom, your jokes, and your quiet strength mean more to me than words can say. Thank you for being you.
    • Dad, your steady presence has been the anchor of my life. Through every storm and sunny day, you’ve been there. I don’t take that for granted. Happy Father’s Day!
    • They say a great dad is hard to find, but I was lucky enough to be raised by one. Thank you for shaping my world with patience, discipline, and so much love.
    • You didn’t just raise me, you moulded me. Your lessons live on in how I treat others, how I handle challenges, and how I love. Thank you for being an incredible father.
    • To my first teacher, biggest supporter, and quiet warrior, Happy Father’s Day. Your love has always been a soft place to land, especially when life feels the hardest.
    • I carry your lessons in everything I do. You’ve taught me what it means to be honest, loyal, and strong. I’ll never stop learning from the life you’ve lived. Happy Father’s Day, Dad.
    • Happy Father’s Day to the man who taught me to dream big, work hard, and never settle for less than I deserve. You’ve believed in me from the beginning, and that’s a gift I’ll never forget.
    • You’ve given me memories to treasure, stories to pass on, and love that never fades. Thank you for being my constant. I love you, Dad. Happy Father’s Day.
    • Your legacy is not just in what you’ve done, but in who you are—and who you’ve helped me become. Happy Father’s Day to a man whose impact is immeasurable.
    • There are so many reasons to celebrate you today. But more than anything, I just want to say thank you. Thank you for being my dad, in all the ways that matter. Happy Father’s Day.
    • Happy Father’s Day! May you be surrounded by love, laughter, and all the peace you give to others. You deserve every good thing this day brings.
    • Happy Father’s Day, Dad. I’ve watched you sacrifice, support, and love without ever asking for anything in return. Today, I hope you feel seen, valued, and celebrated. Thank you for everything you’ve poured into me.

    Emotional Father’s Day Wishes

    Fatherhood is a journey filled with sacrifices and unwavering love. These emotional Father’s Day wishes are crafted to speak from the heart and celebrate the deep bond shared with a father.

    A father hugging his son after receiving an emotional Father's Day message
    • Dad, you’ve been my rock through every season of life. I hope you know how much your love has meant to me, even when I couldn’t say it out loud. Happy Father’s Day!
    • Some of my best memories are quiet ones with you, sitting together, laughing at little things. Thank you for being my calm in the chaos. Happy Father’s Day, Dad.
    • No matter how old I get, a part of me will always need you. Your presence is comforting, your advice is priceless, and your love is everything. Happy Father’s Day.
    • You’ve shown me what it means to love without limits. Today, I just want to say thank you for all the things you’ve done and all the ways you’ve been there. I love you. 
    • Dad, I carry your strength in my heart and your wisdom in my choices. Your love shaped the best parts of me. Happy Father’s Day.
    • Growing up, I didn’t always understand your sacrifices. But now I see just how much you gave to make sure I had everything. I’m endlessly grateful. Happy Father’s Day.
    • You’ve always made space for me, even when life got busy, even when I messed up. That kind of love is rare, and I’m lucky to have it. Happy Father’s Day.
    • Your hugs still feel like home. Your voice still comforts me. And your love still holds me up. Happy Father’s Day to my forever hero.
    • Dad, you taught me more with your actions than words ever could. Thank you for leading with quiet strength and unwavering love. Happy Father’s Day.
    • You didn’t just give me life. You gave it direction, meaning, and purpose. I’m proud to be your child. Happy Father’s Day.
    • Sometimes I wish I had said “thank you” more often. So today, I’m saying it again and again, thank you for loving me like only you could. Happy Father’s Day.
    • Even on the days when we didn’t see eye to eye, I never doubted your love for me. That kind of constant is something I’ll always cherish. Happy Father’s Day.
    • You were the first man I ever looked up to, and no one has ever come close. Thank you for being the example I needed. Happy Father’s Day.
    • The older I get, the more I realise how rare and special it is to have a dad like you. Loving, kind, patient, and wise. Happy Father’s Day, with all my heart.
    • Your love has been my safety net, my launchpad, and my soft landing. I’m so thankful for you. Happy Father’s Day, Dad.
    • It’s hard to put into words just how much you mean to me. But today I’ll try: You are everything a father should be and more. Happy Father’s Day.
    • You were there when I took my first steps, and you’ve never stopped walking beside me since. Thank you for every silent support and loud cheer. Happy Father’s Day.
    • When I look back on my life, your love is the thread that runs through every good thing. I love you deeply, Dad. Happy Father’s Day!
    • Your strength carried our family. Your laughter lifted our spirits. And your love held us together. You are deeply appreciated. Happy Father’s Day.
    • No matter how far I go or what I achieve, I’ll always be your child, grateful, proud, and filled with love. Happy Father’s Day.

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    Funny Happy Father’s Day Message

    If your dad loves a good laugh, we’ve got the perfect options to get a chuckle out of him. These funny Happy Father’s Day messages bring the humour and are perfect for adding a lighthearted twist to the celebration.

    Family laughing together on Father's Day.
    • Thanks for always pretending to know how to fix things, even when we both knew we’d end up calling a professional. Happy Father’s Day!
    • Happy Father’s Day. Thanks for working hard to pay for the TV that raised me.
    • Dad, my aim in life is to be as funny as you think you are.
    • You deserve an award for surviving parenthood with me as your child. Happy Father’s Day, superhero!
    • Happy Father’s Day! You were right about everything… and I’ll never say that again out loud.
    • I got my sense of humour from you, so if you don’t laugh at this message, it’s your fault.
    • To the World’s best Dad, thanks for passing down your great looks. I hope I age even better than you. 
    • Happy Father’s Day! I was going to get you something nice, but then I remembered I’m your best gift.
    • Happy Father’s Day! You taught me the value of hard work, mostly by making me wash your cars. Love you plenty. 
    • Happy Father’s Day, Daddy! Thank you for always knowing the answer, even when you were completely making it up.
    • Thanks for being the kind of dad who’s impossible to shop for and impossible not to love. Happy Father’s Day!
    • You may not be perfect, but you’re the perfect dad for me, mostly because you’ve got no choice. Happy Father’s Day!
    • Thanks for all the times you “helped” me with homework by confusing me even more. Happy Father’s Day!
    • You gave me life, wisdom, and sarcasm. One out of three isn’t bad. Happy Father’s Day, legend!
    • Happy Father’s Day, with love from your favourite financial responsibility.
    • You always said ‘Because I said so’ and honestly? Fair enough.
    • You raised me with love, patience, and the phrase ‘Money doesn’t grow on trees.’ Happy Father’s Day, Popsy!
    • Happy Father’s Day to the man who gave me life and then made me cringe every time he danced in public.
    • Thanks for being my dad. And for not giving me a stressful, embarrassing name. I’m truly blessed.
    • You always say you don’t want anything for Father’s Day. So this is me delivering on that request.

    Father’s Day Prayers

    A father’s love is a blessing, and it’s only fitting to return that love with words of prayer. These Father’s Day prayers are thoughtful ways to ask for joy, health, and peace over the lives of fathers, grandfathers, and father figures everywhere.

    Family saying a prayer for their father.
    • May God bless you with strength, wisdom, and peace today and always. Happy Father’s Day, Dad.
    • Happy Father’s Day, Daddy! I thank God every day for the gift of you. May He continue to guide your steps and fill your heart with joy.
    • Heavenly Father, bless my dad with good health, happiness, and a heart full of faith. Happy Father’s Day!
    • As you have led our family with love and faith, may God pour out His blessings upon you in return. Happy Father’s Day!
    • On this Father’s Day, I pray that God surrounds you with grace and rewards all your sacrifices.
    • Lord, I lift my father up to you. May his days be long, his burdens light, and his heart at peace. Happy Father’s Day!
    • God’s love shines through you, Dad. May He continue to use you as a light in our lives. Happy Father’s Day!
    • Thank you, God, for a father who reflects Your patience, strength, and unconditional love. 
    • I pray your Father’s Day is filled with divine favour, restful joy, and the presence of God.
    • Happy Father’s Day, Dad! May your legacy of love be blessed by the Lord and passed on for generations to come. 
    • May Allah bless you with barakah in your health, your years, and your love. Happy Father’s Day, Baba.
    • Ya Allah, grant my father a long life filled with iman, ease, and Your never-ending mercy.
    • On this special day, I make dua that Allah forgives your shortcomings and multiplies your blessings.
    • May your heart always be guided by faith, and your hands rewarded for every sacrifice you’ve made.
    • Ya Rabb, reward my father for all his efforts, and protect him from harm in both this life and the next.
    • May Allah shower you with His rahma and grant you peace that lasts beyond this world.
    • I pray that every prayer you’ve made for your family is accepted. Ameen. Happy Father’s Day!
    • May your footsteps always follow the path of the Prophet (SAW), and your heart stay firm in belief.
    • May this day bring you closer to Allah and may He elevate your status in Jannah. Ameen.
    • Today, I pray that Allah grants you joy in your heart and tranquillity in your soul. 

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    Romantic Father’s Day Message for your Husband

    It’s a special day to celebrate the amazing man you’re building a life with. These Happy Father’s Day messages for your husband will celebrate his strength, love, and dedication as a father. 

    Father spending time playing with children.
    • Watching you love our family makes me fall in love with you all over again. Happy Father’s Day, babe.
    • You’re not just my partner, you’re an amazing father. Our kids are lucky to have you, and so am I.
    • You wear fatherhood with grace, strength, and patience. I’m so proud of the man you are.
    • Thank you for being a present, kind, and loving father. You make parenting look like poetry.
    • Happy Father’s Day to the man who makes our house feel like home and our family feel whole.
    • I always knew you’d be a great dad. But watching you in action? You’ve gone beyond my wildest dreams. Happy Father’s Day, my love!
    • You’re the best Dad ever. Our children have the best example of love, loyalty, and strength because they have you.
    • You make the hard days easier and the good days unforgettable. Thank you for being everything we need.
    • Happy Father’s Day, love. Every diaper, every lesson, every bedtime story — I see it all. And I love you more for it.
    • From partner to papa, you’ve handled every role with love. Happy Father’s Day, my heart.
    • Raising children with you is the greatest joy of my life. You were made for this.
    • You’re the calm in our storm, the fun in our chaos, and the heart of our family. Happy Father’s Day, babe.
    • Happy Father’s Day to the one who still manages to make me laugh, even on sleepless nights with the baby.
    • I pray our kids grow up to be just like you — kind, smart, and full of love.
    • You’re my partner in love, life, and parenting. Thank you for showing up every day.
    • Even when the kids are wild, you stay grounded. That’s your superpower. Happy Father’s Day!
    • I love you for being the kind of father who makes our children feel seen, heard, and loved.
    • Your love for our kids is the most beautiful thing I’ve ever witnessed. You’re the best Dad ever.
    • Happy Father’s Day! You’re not just their father, but their hero. And mine too.
    • To my husband and the best dad ever: You make life sweeter and our family stronger. Happy Father’s Day!

    Happy Father’s Day Message for Dad in Heaven

    Losing a father doesn’t mean he’s forgotten. These Happy Father’s Day messages for Dad in heaven will help you celebrate him with comforting words, honouring the love and legacy of a father who still holds a special place in your heart.

    Son holding up a balloon in honour of his father in heaven on Father's Day
    • Happy Father’s Day in heaven, Dad. I miss you every single day and carry your love with me always.
    • Even though you’re no longer here, your wisdom and love continue to guide me. Happy Father’s Day, Dad.
    • I smile through the tears today, knowing you’re watching over me. Happy Father’s Day in heaven.
    • You may be gone from sight, but never from my heart. I love you, Dad. Happy Father’s Day.
    • Thank you for everything you taught me, Dad. Your legacy lives on in all I do.
    • Happy Father’s Day, Daddy. I wish I could hug you one more time. I hope you’re resting peacefully.
    • Heaven gained the best father ever. I hope you’re smiling down on me today.
    • Missing your laughter, your stories, and your steady hand. Happy Father’s Day, Dad.
    • Not a day goes by without thinking of you. But today, I celebrate all the love you gave me.
    • Though my heart aches, I’m grateful for every moment we shared. Happy Father’s Day in heaven.
    • I light a candle today in your honour, Dad. You were my hero then, now, and always.
    • Your memory is my keepsake, Dad. I hold it close, especially today. Happy Father’s Day.
    • I feel your love in the quiet moments. You’re always near. Happy Father’s Day, Dad.
    • Today, I celebrate you, Dad, for the strength you gave me and the love you left behind.
    • Father’s Day isn’t the same without you, but I know you’d want me to smile and live fully.
    • I hope heaven has your favourite music, your favourite food, and lots of laughter today.
    • I miss our talks, your advice, and just knowing you were there. Happy Father’s Day, Dad.
    • You taught me how to love, how to fight, and how to live with integrity. Thank you, Dad.
    • Though the years pass, the pain of losing you never fully fades. I love you forever, Dad.
    • Happy Father’s Day in heaven, Daddy. Your love is the light that still shines in my life.

    Happy Father’s Day Message for Father-in-Law

    A great father-in-law deserves just as much love and recognition. These Happy Father’s Day messages for father-in-laws express appreciation, warmth, and the special connection that grows with family, by love, not just blood.

    A cheerful family gathered around the dinner table, with the father-in-law smiling proudly.
    • Happy Father’s Day to a father-in-law who feels more like a second dad. Thank you for your kindness and wisdom.
    • Wishing you a Father’s Day filled with love and joy. I’m so grateful to have you as part of my life.
    • You’ve welcomed me like your own, and I’ll never take that for granted. Happy Father’s Day, sir!
    • To the man who raised the love of my life — thank you, and Happy Father’s Day!
    • I appreciate your support, strength, and the calm presence you bring to our lives. Happy Father’s Day!
    • Thank you for setting such a strong example of what it means to be a good man and father. Happy Father’s Day.
    • You’re not just my father-in-law, you’re a blessing. Wishing you the happiest Father’s Day.
    • I’m lucky to have gained not just a partner, but also an incredible father-in-law. Enjoy your day!
    • You’ve given me guidance without judgment and love without limits. Happy Father’s Day!
    • You’ve made me feel like part of the family from day one. Thank you, and Happy Father’s Day!
    • Your generosity, patience, and wisdom inspire me. I hope today is as wonderful as you are.
    • You’re the silent strength behind our family, and I admire you deeply. Happy Father’s Day!
    • Thank you for always showing up with a smile, good advice, and a full heart. Enjoy your day!
    • It’s a joy and honour to celebrate you today. You’ve been more than an in-law — you’ve been a mentor.
    • Wishing you a peaceful and happy Father’s Day. Your presence is a gift to us all.
    • Thank you for raising an amazing child and being a guiding light in our lives. Happy Father’s Day!
    • I’ve learned so much just from watching how you lead and love. Enjoy your day, sir.
    • You’ve shown me that fatherhood is about more than blood — it’s about presence, care, and heart.
    • Your wisdom is always appreciated, and your warmth makes every family moment special.
    • Happy Father’s Day to the best father-in-law anyone could ask for. You’re truly one of a kind.

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    When was the first moment you realised your father wasn’t there?

    Gosh. That’s a tough one. 

    I grew into the realisation that I had a father but he was gone. At first, I didn’t understand what “gone” meant, but over time, I found out he’d died way before I can remember. I’m not sure there’s one specific moment when I was told. It’s just something I knew as I started becoming aware of what was going on around me as a child. But I didn’t feel like I was missing much because my mum was very present, and so were her sister and my grandparents. It was a strong family unit.

    Did you ever have to ask what happened to him?

    Yes, at different times. 

    The first time was in primary six — I remember because I was just about to graduate from primary school. I was nine or ten. My mum was showing me old pictures when we got to a selection of his pictures. I was in pretty much all of his pictures. He’d carry me in his arms whether it was at a wedding, in his studio, or on the road somewhere. I was always in his arms. 

    Usually, my mum would quickly hide or dodge anything that was remotely about him so I wouldn’t see. And I’d pretend not to notice. This time, I saw her hesitate, but she didn’t hide the pictures, so it was the perfect opportunity to ask, “What happened to him?” I still remember my small voice saying those words as we sat together in her bedroom, trying hard to be brave for whatever response I got.

    And what did she say?

    She said, “He loved God so much, he had to go be with him. But it was an accident”. She didn’t say anything else, and I was too scared to push. 

    But sometime in secondary school, I asked my grandma about the accident, and she said she didn’t want me thinking about that. She told me a bit about him, how much he loved me and was always happiest when he was with me. I know the stories were supposed to make me feel better, but I hated them. I hated that I had no memory of this man. 

    I’d look at his picture and couldn’t even imagine his voice, what he felt or behaved like. But there I was in his arms, smiling up at him and him smiling back at little me. I don’t remember that interaction. All I have is third-party information. It made me so angry.

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    Did your relationship with your mum help?

    My mum has always been there for me, but she’s even more affected by his death than I am. She knew him for years, and they’d only been married for about a year when he died. Sometimes, I think I have to put aside figuring out my own little grief to be a source of comfort to her. She never remarried, and she barely ever dates, so it’s just me and her against the world. We support each other.

    As a child, she did her best and sought help from her own family to take care of me, so where she struggled emotionally, they were there to make sure I was okay. I appreciate that she was that forward-thinking. She also used to ask me how I was doing all the time, almost too much. 

    Her care made me feel secure during my early years. So I’d say yes, my relationship with her helped.

    How did other people’s relationships with their fathers make you feel?

    Interestingly, most of my friends had terrible relationships with their fathers. One of them has a father who married another wife and treated her and her mum badly, another one’s mum never married her father so she’d only see him like once a year when he visited from the States, and one’s father has several wives and baby mamas. 

    So I guess I’m in perfect company. And I’ve been friends with these guys since secondary school.

    Is it something you ever discuss, how you all have absent fathers one way or the other?

    We almost never do. We focus on aspects of our lives that exist: our strong mothers, other healthy relationships we’ve managed to build, money, and so on. 

    So did you ever find out how he died?

    My mother told me after I graduated from college years ago. He was killed in a money-related fight, but the killer was never found despite years of investigation. I cried for days when she finally told me; it was like he’d just died. He looked like such a beautiful and gentle man in his photos. I couldn’t imagine him dying so violently.

    I can’t say how, sorry.

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    I understand

    And he left everything to me. He was a music producer and businessman, and he was pretty successful. He was smart enough to draw up a will years before he died, and he signed everything over to me. I live a very comfortable life today because of him. It’s so bittersweet because I never knew him, yet here I am, benefiting from him.

    Would you say you’re still affected by his death today?

    I can’t escape it. 

    He was popular. So when I go out, once people learn who I am, they feel the need to talk about him. They share how they knew him, what he was like, how amazing he was. But I never knew him, so it’s like, “How nice. Here’s another stranger who knows more about my father than I ever will”. People even feel the need to ask me what it’s like to have a father like him.

    Sigh. How do you get past that?

    I’ve become a lot more private in the last couple of years. I stay away from the Nigerian and Ghanaian social scene and focus on my work as an investor. My life is just me, my mum and my few friends now. 

    It’s hard not to think about my father at all since I help my mum manage his legacy, but I try not to. I also don’t look at his pictures anymore because I’m in 90% of them. They remind me of how much he wanted to be in my life but never got a chance to, and also, how much of his last years I spent in his company yet I don’t even remember. 

    It seems small, but every time I think about it, I can’t seem to process it without breaking down. My therapist says it’s a barrier in my psyche.

    I’m so sorry. Did you have a father figure growing up?

    Oh, my granddaddy was my father. He was everything, God rest his soul. He was such a steadying presence in my life. I’d say he’s the reason why I never had to miss my dad. He attended open days on my mum’s behalf a lot. He was so warm and would play with me when I was a child. All my friends loved him. 

    My grandmother too was something of a father figure to me because she was so firm — the disciplinarian of the house. These are my mum’s parents, by the way. My dad’s parents came and went too. I don’t think I missed much in the way of parenting.

    Would you say your feelings about your father affected your romantic relationships?

    In a way. I’m afraid to be vulnerable. My therapist links it to the fact that I can’t process my relationship with my father in a healthy way. 

    I’m way too guarded, so many of my relationships fizzle out after a while. I’m currently in one, and it’s already getting to the part where we have little to talk about. It’s been about eight months, but I can’t seem to open my heart beyond sex, romantic gestures and mundane conversations. Then again, is there supposed to be something more beyond that? Maybe I’m not the only problem.

    When did you realise you had to get therapy?

    While in college at SOAS. 

    I was so far away from my family and drowning in depression. I had no interest in studying the art history I’d got in for; no interest in anything at all, TBH. I had no idea what I was passionate about. It’ll break my mum’s heart, but I was drunk, high and in bed for most of my three years there. 

    Once I’d graduated and had to return to Accra, a friend of mine suggested a therapist. When I first met one sometime in 2014, I wasn’t really thinking about my dad. But he ended up coming up at the first session, as part of what makes me sad or angry.

    What’s one thing that gives you joy despite it all?

    How lucky I am to have a father who cares, even from the grave. 

    My mum always said he loved me so much while he was alive, she’s sure he’s watching over me as my guardian angel now; giving God a tough time every time I have the slightest inconvenience. 

    And she may be right because I’m living a good life.

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  • As people flooded social media with heartfelt personal stories on Father’s Day 2023….

    https://twitter.com/zikokomag/status/1670377622113603585?t=dey2wlrcImAy1-MvA3UnwA&s=19

    …eight Nigerian men share how they marked the special day.

    “I spent time gisting with him (my father)” — Ayodeji, 27, Lagos

    I visited my dad with fruits and spent time gisting with him — he always gives me the tea around stuff going on in the family, life advice and just general gist. I also spent a good part of the day on Twitter and Instagram, where I saw some people’s negative and positive experiences with their fathers. Reading the stories made me appreciate mine more and cherish the moments spent with him.

    “I celebrated at home” — Feyisayo, 40, Akure

    I’m an introvert, so I was indoors with my family after Sunday service. In the morning, my wife and children presented a gift to me and told me how much they appreciate me. That’s perfect for me.

    “My wife spoilt me with food” — Opeyemi, 32, Lagos

    I went to church. Then, my wife took me to get a burger. At home, she made white rice and turkey stew for me. Even though I thought I was just doing my thing, my family and friends said I’ve been killing it, and the kind words got me emotional.

    “I spent the day at work” — Ifeanyi, 37, Port Harcourt

    I was at work, where I posted my kids’ pictures on socials, like I do every Father’s Day. I got some lovely messages from friends and family too, and it felt awesome.

    “I spoke to my kid and had some wine” — Imoh Umoren, 40, Lagos

    I video-called my kid; I work in Nigeria, and he’s in the U.S. He wished me Happy Father’s Day. Then, I opened a bottle of wine because it’s not easy. My father died when I was a teenager, so I had no chance to buy him anything. The day made me a bit sober as I contemplated the efforts I’ve put into fatherhood.

    “It was a reassuring day of love for me” — Vikky, late 30s, Lagos

    Unfortunately, my wife and daughter travelled on the day, but we spent the whole time before the flight taking memorable pictures. My wife’s passion and vibe mean so much to me. She made sure to tell me she appreciates my effort, reassuring me of how much she loves and cares for me. It was awesome, special, and I felt like a baby.

    “I was in class for most of the day” — Femi, 29, Lagos

    I had to attend my postgraduate lectures that day. But there was a huge outpouring of love for my dad in the family group chat. It felt warm, and I’m glad. I think I might’ve underrated how much I love my dad.

    “I enjoy fatherhood now” — Nath, 26, Ogbomoso

    I tried to run away from fatherhood — I had my kid when I was still a child myself, and it was strange for me — but it’s a thing of joy now. There was little or no time for us because I just started uni. Now, we spend more time together, and I’m happy about it. We didn’t do anything special this Father’s Day, but seeing fathers get their annual flowers was great.

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  • African dads are known to put on a tough exterior but things can get overwhelming for those who are widowed especially on special occasions like Father’s Day in Nigeria.

    It’s a day that can quickly bring up mixed emotions, and we don’t want that especially if daddy has been nothing short of sweet and amazing. So, let’s talk about these heartwarming ways to celebrate your widowed dad on Father’s Day.

    Spend quality time

    Father’s Day in Nigeria: Do These Things to Ginger Your Widowed Dad

    If you’re looking to make the best of Father’s Day in Nigeria for your widowed dad, quality time should be at the top of your list. You’ll be surprised that daddy doesn’t even want fancy gifts or ‘paranra players’. Just show up and remind him that he’s not alone.

    Cook up something he loves

    Daddy has most likely missed the taste of your late mum’s food but you know who has the closest chance of teasing his taste buds again? You, yes you. Think of what he enjoys the most and stock his freezer with it. It could be afang soup, egusi or ewa adalu.

    Handmade cards

    Father’s Day in Nigeria: Do These Things to Ginger Your Widowed Dad

    It’s time to get creative with some DIY projects especially if daddy has grandkids. Enlist the help of the little ones to make customized cards and write personalized messages to him. This will for sure bring smiles to his face and remind him that he’s loved.

    Remind him that you love him

    Father’s Day in Nigeria: Do These Things to Ginger Your Widowed Dad

    If there’s a right time for him to be reminded about this vital piece of information, Father’s Day is just perfect. Either by text or calls, remind daddy that he’s the absolute love of your life. You’ll probably get a “thank you” or “you’re blessed” in response, sha.

    Plan a date

    Depending on if daddy is open to finding romantic love again, you can play the matchmaker. It makes him comfortable and clears the feeling of guilt he might have about being with someone else. However, we recommend keeping him in the loop.

    Create a customised playlist

    Father’s Day in Nigeria: Do These Things to Ginger Your Widowed Dad

    Music is powerful and helps people get through tough times. If you don’t already know, here’s another thoughtful way to celebrate your widowed dad during Father’s Day in Nigeria. If the loss is fairly recent, curate a list of songs he and your late mum loved. It will evoke a feeling of comfort and lift him whenever he listens to it.

    Go outside

    Father’s Day in Nigeria: Do These Things to Ginger Your Widowed Dad

    Outside is therapeutic and what better day to hit the streets with your old man than Father’s Day? Take daddy to your favourite spot, or his favourite spot. Could be Fela’s Shrine or a strip club, or even church fellowship. As long as he likes it there.  

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  • Father’s Day comes once a year. To celebrate 2023’s edition, seven Nigerian men talk to Zikoko about their ideal Father’s Day celebration.

    “All I do is put up pictures of my kids on socials” — Ifeanyi, 37, Benin

    Celebrating Father’s Day has always been something my wife and kids do for me rather than me doing anything for myself. They wish me Happy Father’s Day, and sometimes, get me gifts. All I really do is celebrate fatherhood by putting up pictures of my kids on some socials. That’s the ideal Father’s Day for me. It’s worth noting and celebrating the life of a father or man with responsibilities, and I appreciate it.

    “I’d likely be a father myself before I celebrate one” — Yinka, 30, Lagos

    I’ve never really cared about Father’s Day or how it’s celebrated. I was raised by a single mum; my dad wasn’t present at all. So it’s a normal day for me, especially since it doesn’t get a lot of buzz like Mother’s Day and special celebrations for women. If I ever consider celebrating, maybe I’d be a father myself first. But right now, it’s just another day for me.

    “Sometimes, I don’t want to be a father at all” — Vick, 23, Ilorin

    Let me begin by saying fathers are not celebrated well enough. Everybody knows, but we never complain. Just check how many songs we have for mothers and match it to the ones for fathers.

    I don’t have anything planned for my father on this less anticipated day. But God knows I’m trying my best to make it big and give this man the best life. He has dream cars, houses etc., but he prioritises my demands and works hard to meet my needs. I pray to God to spare his life so he can reap the fruit of his good labour. I think of him and cry sometimes. Being the head of a family isn’t always joyful. Sometimes, I don’t even want to be a father at all. It’s a lot.

    “It’s a mellow day for me” — Juwon, 34, Sagamu

    Oh, I miss my dad. It’ll be a mellow day as usual. I’ll write a song as I’ve done in the last three years, call his wife and relive great moments. God bless his soul.

    “Fathers shouldn’t be neglected in their old age” — Folasayo, 59, Ogbomoso

    A father should celebrate having kids and his ability to train them to be better people. It’s an important day, and it should be spent with family, love and gifts. Especially older fathers, they shouldn’t feel neglected in their old age.

    “I’d love to surprise my dad with a visit to the spa” — Maleek, 27, Ilorin

    I don’t really have anything planned, but here’s how my ideal father’s Day would look.

    My dad works really hard. Even when you tell him to take a day off, he’d start fixing broken stuff around the house. On Father’s Day, I’d love to surprise him with a visit to the spa. We’d both get a full body massage, relax in one of those hot rooms with thick, white towels around our waist, get haircuts and some facial treatments and get our feet and nails cleaned too. 

    Next up, we’d go for a medical consultation. He’ll get the best recommendations on natural supplements to boost his immunity and overall health. Then, we’ll go and buy some expensive native clothes. I know he likes lace materials a lot. We’ll get those and go over to the tailor’s shop. Finally, we’ll buy all sorts of chops and drinks to be enjoyed at home with everyone. 

    I’m one of four boys, so I know I might not have him for a full day. But that’s how I would love to spend Father’s Day with my dad.

    “If possible, I’d get him a gift” — Abisola, 32, Lagos

    We no really send Father’s Day, but I like the fact that we have a day that celebrates men who’re fathers. I think it makes a lot of sense. Regardless of the hard guy thing, I think we all want to be celebrated. Well, I’ll call my dad to wish him a Happy Father’s Day, post him on all socials and make him feel good about himself. If possible, I’d get him a gift.

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  • Yes, we know Father’s Day is over, but that doesn’t mean we have to stop  giving dads their flowers. Here are some of the Nollywood fatherhood characters that totally raised the not-so-high bar for us over the years. 

    Pete Edochie in Lionheart 

    Genevieve Nnaji was in her genius bag when she made Lionheart and cast Pete Edochie as her dad in the film. While he’d built a reputation for being a no nonsense village king over the years, Lionheart showed a softer side of Pete Edochie and we loved every minute of it. The scene where he tells Genevieve how much he loves her and respects the value she brings to his company remains unmatched. Girl dads >>>>

    Richard Mofe Damijo in Diamond Ring 

    In Diamond Ring, our favourite zaddy, Richard Mofe Damijo (RMD), plays a father whose son (Teju Babyface) steals a diamond ring from a dead Liz Benson covered in Calamine Lotion. To save his son’s life, RMD travels to the UK, transports a dead body and gets hit in the balls by some random chick. If this isn’t true fatherly love, I don’t know what it is. 

    Odogwu Michael Nonso in Just The Two Of Us

    A series that follows a man raising his daughter by himself after her mum leaves? Just the Two of Us was way ahead of its time. He patiently taught his daughter about life and she readily dragged him like small gen everytime he did something corny. Their relationship was so much fun to watch. 

    Olu Jacobs in Private Sin 

    In Private Sin, Olu Jacobs notices his son (RMD) is in an unhappy marriage with Genevieve Nnaji and does something extreme to scatter that marriage. To get his son to leave his manipulative wife, Olu Jacobs comes up with an elaborate plan where he helps him meet and fall in love with Stephanie Okerere’s character. The whole thing is a bit somehow,  but it’s the intention that counts, I guess…. 

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    Pete Edochie in every film where he tried to save his daughter from broke men

    We can’t believe there was a time we thought Pete Edochie was wicked every time he tried to stop his daughter from marrying a poor man. Back in the day, our naive asses believed love could conquer all things, including generational sapa. But with dollar rates and the rising cost of shawarma, we now know better. Looking at a film like My Love with Ramsey Noah and Chiege Alisigwe, we finally respect Pete’s decision. Please, marry rich to avoid sapa. 

    Kunle Bamtefa in Fuji House of Commotion 

    All hail the father of nations! Kunle Bamtefa’s character on Fuji House of Commotion had like four wives and one million children, but somehow, he made it work. Did they fight all the time? Yes. But this man always came through for his kids whenever they needed him — even if he couldn’t remember their names. Very bare minimum, but that’s what you get when the good dad trope is lacking on Nigerian TV. 

    Nobert Young in Family Circle and Edge of Paradise 

    Nobert Young was the quintessential DILF, back in the day — still is. On both Family Circle and Edge of Paradise, Nobert Young played a kind and loving dad who maintained an open relationship with his kids. His characters were more Phil Dunphy than your average Nigerian dad. Who wouldn’t want a fun dad like Phil? 

    Amaechi Muonagor in For Better or Worse

    In For Better or Worse, Genevieve Nnaji who played Amaechi Muonagor’s daughter showed him pepper. From her drug problem to getting deported back to Nigeria, this babe was bad vibes all through. But instead of saying, “Fuck them kids,”, Amaechi’s character stood by his daughter through and through. Can’t relate because no energy for stress please. 

  • Except for birthdays (and that’s if you actually remember), dads are like the sidekicks of the world that get only one day in a year to relish in their awesomeness. So don’t be a bum and forget to buy a Father’s Day gift this year. And rather than a last-minute text that reads like it’s addressed to someone you hate, here’s a list of gifts under ₦20k to get your dad.

    Restored pride and joy

    And it costs absolutely nothing. Fathers are always searching for pride and joy in their children. So you may as well find a way to wrap up all your achievements in a box and send it home. And if you don’t have any, borrow.

    Love notes

    Not every time “Love you, dad.” Give him his flowers and tell him exactly why you love him this year. He’ll still reply with “👍🏾”, but on the inside? He’ll be blushing dear.

    A ring with your mother’s name on it

    To remind him that your mother is the only woman he’s bound to for life. 

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    A tattoo of his name

    Preferably on your chest. Because what says I love you more than a tattoo of the man that gave you life.

    A brunch date for two

    When last did you offer your dad free food? All you do is go home to ransack his home every three market days. He too likes free food.

    All his money

    For all the extra books and classes you lied about paying for in school, at least put part of the money in an envelope and give your father back. Are you not tired of being a criminal?

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    Your certificate

    Even if you didn’t end up as the doctor he dreamed of, you need to remind him that you’re not a (total) failure. And you have a whole degree.

    Wine

    You better put that Fourth Street bottle down and move to the champagne section of the store. ₦15k for one day won’t kill you, hopefully.

    Grandchildren

    A surprise pregnancy can never go wrong. He’ll be either shocked or entirely speechless. Either way, he’ll know you’re serious about keeping his legacy alive.

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  • Let’s be honest — many people don’t even know it’s Father’s Day until it’s that day or a day before. More often than not, global attention focuses on all the Mother’s Days in the year, with little love for the men in our lives. To fix this, we spoke to different Nigerians about their relationship with their dads and the most important thing they’ve learnt from them. 

    If you haven’t bought your Father’s Day gift yet, please fix it ASAP!

    “My dad taught me how to accept friendship break-ups.”

     — Joyce 

    My dad and I have almost nothing in common. But despite the glaring differences between us, I’ve learnt a lot from him over the years. He used to tell me, “Ten friends can never be together for ten years”, and honestly, I didn’t get it at first. In my head, I believed that my friends would be in my life forever. However, the older I got, the more I understood what he was trying to say. While it’s true that ten friends might not end up being friends forever, it’s not the end of the world. So these days, I take every friendship loss in good stride — we had our good times and bounced. It’s life. 

    Fun fact, my dad also gave me my first sip of alcohol. He doesn’t know I’m a huge drinker now, but he unleashed a demon that day. 

    “My dad taught me it’s wicked to owe someone money and not pay it back.” 

    — Bertram 

    Even though my dad had about 16 children, he made sure he had a close relationship with all of us. One major lesson he passed down to us was learning how to live within our means. My dad hated owing people. He didn’t want to lay awake at night, scared that someone would start knocking on his door demanding their money. 

    He also taught me the importance of leaving a good legacy behind. Almost 20 years have passed since he died, but people still offer to help me whenever I introduce myself as his son.

    “My dad taught me not to limit myself because I’m a woman.” 

    — Chiazagom 

    My dad was special to me because he was my friend. Not everyone can say that their dad is their friend, but mine was. My dad taught me to dream big and not let society hold me back because I’m a woman. He was my life and my confidant, and losing him was the most painful thing ever. It hurts to speak of him in the past tense, but I know he’d want me to celebrate him. He deserves an award for overall best in fatherhood.

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    “My dad taught me the importance of sacrifice.” 

    — Rita 

    My dad grumbles all the time, but one thing about him, he will come through. He has a scar on his index finger from when he used it as a wedge between my teeth when I was convulsing as a child. I had been playing outside with my other siblings when it started. Typically, wooden spoons or other hard objects work to prevent the teeth from closing and cause a locked jaw, but without thinking, he used his fingers until we got to the hospital. 

    Many more things my dad has done for me bring tears to my eyes. But that moment was the definition of putting your loved one first for me. 

    “My dad taught me not to be fazed by money or the soft life.” 

    — Linda 

    I’m close to my dad, and he’s my favourite person after God. My dad likes to act like a tough guy, but he’s a big baby. I like to call him my sugar daddy because he spoils my siblings and me. He once took the family out to Radisson Blu for lunch, and I remember him telling us that he did all these things because he didn’t want one boy to come with a flashy lifestyle and take advantage of us. He said, “I’ll spoil my girls before any other man comes along.”

    Because of him, I’m content and can hold my head high because he has already treated me to the good life. 

    “My dad has shown me what it means to be a hero” 

    — Bolu

    My relationship with my dad has its ups and downs, but overall, I’ll say he’s a good man. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realised that he’s imperfect and human. But during this period, I’ve also seen him as a hero in my life. I especially like how he carried #EndSARS on his head in 2020. He was even present for the memorial march. Even though I feel like I’m not meeting his expectations because I’m more laid back about life than he is, I still love and respect him. He’s also not the type of parent to hold back an apology when he’s wrong, which is rare. 

    “My dad taught me the importance of valuing the people around me”

    — Ify

    My relationship with my dad has taken many forms. As a kid, before I recognised him as “my dad”, he was my best friend. As a teenager, he took the dad thing seriously, and now as an adult, I see him as a human with flaws who tries his hardest to do right by those he loves. 

    He’s taught me a lot but the best thing I’ll say I learnt from him is how to value people. It’s something he unconsciously taught me. As a kid, I noticed that he just somehow knew everyone. Everyone was his friend and I mean EVERYONE from “important people” right down to the security, the plumber, the mechanic, the people the world pretends not to see. He always treated everyone like family and they treated him/us like family too. He makes a conscious effort to make everyone feel seen and really in this stressful life, isn’t that all we ask for? 

    “My dad always showed up”

    — Peter

    During Jamb and post jamb, my dad followed me to the exam venues. When I was given Admission, he printed my Admission letters and important documents. Not only that, he joined all my school facebook groups just so I wouldn’t miss out on anything. He also did the same for my sisters. When I was in school, he was always calling to ask after my welfare. I found him overprotective, but I realised he just cared so much about my welfare.

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  • On most Father’s Days, we’re often drowned in the deluge of stories about fathers and their failings. For this year’s Father’s Day, I wanted people to talk about their favourite things about their fathers. I hope these stories warm your heart as much as they warmed mine.

    Dupe

    My favourite thing about my dad is that he’s always there to support me, even when I make mistakes. I recently had a revenge porn issue with my ex-boyfriend and my dad was super supportive. He had the guy picked up and dealt with and he didn’t judge me at all. He just listened and gave me advice. me. We might fall out sometimes but I’m always glad he’s my father.

    Damilola

    The relationship with my Dad isn’t so great because I’m not the ideal child. I’m always getting into trouble and most times, I disappoint him. Despite this, he’s always there for me, no matter what I’ve done. He shows up for me when I get in trouble, time and time again. He probably thinks I hate him or I’m spoilt but I really do love him and I hope I can get the opportunity to tell him how much he means to me. Our conversations these days are usually him complaining about something I’ve done but one day, I’ll be brave enough to tell him.

    Sonia

    My favourite thing about my dad is him calling him his little princess. I don’t let anyone call me a princess or anything, but I’m his princess, for real.

    Alma

    My dad just died in January. I think the most amazing thing about him was his big heart. He’d give everything to see the next person happy and strong. There’s this one time I was sick and I needed to be treated abroad. He was also pretty sick, but he gave up all the money just so I’d get treated by the best doctors. 

    Tola

    My dad is my best friend. As far back as nursery school, he’s always been involved in our lives. He’s not the conventional dad who just pays school fees and ghosts. He remembers and buys us gifts on our birthdays, checks in on our academics and even cooks for us. When I failed JAMB and GCE, he didn’t get mad or even tell me my result in order not to let it depress me. He’s very intentional about our lives and I couldn’t ask for a better father.

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    Rotimi

    My favourite thing about my dad is his huge sense of duty and responsibility. He is dependable, not just to his immediate family. He taught me that it’s very possible to be best friends with your wife even into old age. He’s the one that (still) shows up at the stepping down spots; if he was heading out in the evening, he would always ask her if she wanted to come along. I’ve never heard him yell at my mum or hurl an insult at her. A role model in that regard.

    Johnson

    My dad is an OG.  He knows what he wants and goes for it. We’ve not had the best relationship, which is mostly my fault, but I know I can always count on him.

    Betini

    It’s my dad’s sense of humour, for me. He can turn anything into a joke, no matter how bad it is.  He might shout at me and piss me off, but he breaks into a laugh right after and you’re thinking, “this man is not serious.” Even when you think you’re angry with him, you can’t stay mad for long because by the time he says something and starts laughing, you’ll not see the point of staying angry sef.

    Matthew

    My dad’s a lecturer in my department and the one thing I really like is his ability to balance his work-son relationship. He’s my gist partner when I want to talk about women despite being one of the strictest lecturers I know.

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  • Are you concerned about things to give your father on Father’s Day? We get it: that man is valuable and you don’t want to give him just anything. We’ve got you covered. Go through this list for a befitting gift that will make your father thank you forever.

    1. Unblock him from your social media pages first.

    How can you call somebody your father and still block him on social media? Unblock that poor man, let him see what he gave birth to and how that child is moving on Buhari’s internet.

    2. Remote.

    At least it will be with him and he won’t keep calling you to come get it for him.

    3. Glasses tracker.

    For the first time, he will know the exact location of his glasses and you will be allowed to rest, instead of participating in a daily search for glasses.

    4. Your degree certificate with first class.

    That’s the only reason why he will be proud of you. Anything else will simply not do.

    5. A refund of the school fees he paid.

    That man struggled to pay your school fees and give you quality education. The least you can do is refund that money so you can prove that you are a good investment.

    6. A degree in medicine, law, or engineering.

    Let that man be able to speak of you with pride. Let him be able to boast that he has a child that studied an OG course. That man doesn’t know who a content creator is and frankly, he does not even care.

    7. A new wife.

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    Your mother will probably kill you for this rubbish thought, but you never know until you try.

    8. Back scratcher.

    Make his life easier. He will thank you for it.

    9. An online course on how to pronounce WhatsApp.

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    Or are you not tired of hearing him say Wozzup, Wazzap, and the other things he says?

    10. This phone pouch.

    The prayers you will receive ehn. It will remain forever and ever.

    11. Show him that there are other stickers apart from thumbs up (👍)

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    You are probably going to regret it when he starts sending you unsolicited stickers, but the joy he will experience will count for something.

    12. Grandchildren.

    Of course we won’t pass up an opportunity to say this. Give that poor old man grandchildren so he can know that you are finally a responsible young man! And of course, if you have children, you too can be called a father and eligible for gifts when Father’s Day comes again next year.