The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 34-year-old married man who went from racking up a body count of over 300 to having sex just once a week.

The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 30-year-old bisexual woman who didn’t start having sex until her late 20s. She talks about getting pregnant after her first sexual experience and how being a single mother has impacted her sex life.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 22-year-old trans woman who only began transitioning 5 months ago

The subject of this week’s sex life is a 23-year-old man who refused to accept his sexuality for years after discovering he’s bisexual. Now that he’s accepted it, he’s sleeping with older men and getting paid for it.  When did you have your first sexual experience?  When I was 16, I went to a strip […]

Today’s subject is a 30-year-old woman who discovered herself after opening her marriage.

The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 27-year-old lesbian who is exploring her sexuality in ways she’s never done before during a pandemic.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 31-year-old heterosexual woman who’s been cheating on her husband for the past year. She talks about their total lack of sexual chemistry and why she feels no guilt. What was your first sexual experience? Does masturbation count? It should, right? Yeah, it does.  Ok. I think I […]

The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 25-year-old queer woman who was in a heterosexual relationship for almost 7 years and engaged to be married when she realised she was queer.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 27-year-old gay man who has been making porn for the past two years. He talks about earning six figures a month, navigating Nigeria’s homophobic laws and how the pandemic has affected his business.  What was your first sexual experience? I had my first real experience when I […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 26-year-old heterosexual woman whose obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) has affected her ability to have sex, explore and maintain romantic relationships.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 27-year-old heterosexual man who has been polyamorous for about 2 years. He talks about dating multiple women at once, his insatiable sexual appetite and his adventurous streak. What was your first sexual experience? Does kissing count as a “sexual experience”? I suppose it should, right?  Yeah, I […]

Today’s Sex Life features a cam girl who has learned a lot about sex, her body and how to make money supporting clients during the coronavirus pandemic.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 31-year-old queer man living with HIV. He talks about how it affected his relationship and why he now chooses to disclose his status to potential sexual partners. What was your first sexual experience? I was in JSS 1 when it first happened. I had just gotten into […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 26-year-old woman who was having sex very actively before marriage. She’s been married for a year and has not had sex with her husband since their wedding.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 31-year-old heterosexual man who has slept with over 300 women. He talks about regretting the unbelievable number and the stories behind a lot of the encounters. What was your first sexual experience? I don’t know if this counts, but the maid used to make me sleep with […]

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a woman in her 40s who has been divorced three times. She talks about how not using protection and the lack of safe clinics for abortion in Nigeria affected her Sex Life.

The subject of this week’s Sex Life is a 30-year-old bisexual woman who discovered BDSM in her early 20s and has vowed never to have any other kind of sex.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 28-year-old woman who mentally and physically prepared for her first sexual experience with her husband by reading books and using aphrodisiacs like Kayan Mata.


The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 26-year-old woman who waited till marriage to have sex for several reasons which include religion, her size and the fact that she was sexually abused by her aunty for years as a child.

Today’s subject is a 33-year-old gay man who didn’t have sex for years after getting kito-ed.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 40-year-old woman who didn’t have sex until she got married. She’s been with her husband for 20 years and has never enjoyed sex. Now she looks forward to divorcing him and exploring sex outside of marriage.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 28-year-old heterosexual man who spent the better part of his 20s travelling around Nigeria for sex. After being with about 60 women, he says he’s finally found peace in monogamy. What was your first sexual experience? The memory is pretty vague, but when I was younger, someone who […]

The subject of today’s sex life is a bisexual woman in her early 30’s who almost gave up on sex after being blackmailed with a sex tape.

The subject of today’s Sex Life is a 27-year-old heterosexual woman living with vaginismus, a condition that makes it impossible for her to have penetrative sex, undergo a gynaecological exam or even insert a tampon. What was your first sexual experience? I remember being molested when I was 5 years old. My parents weren’t living […]