200+ Thoughtful Condolence Messages for Friends, Family, and Loved Ones

Finding the right words to say after someone passes away is never easy. It’s normal to feel unsure, awkward, or even afraid of saying the wrong thing. That’s why we’ve put together a list, where each condolence message will help you express sympathy with care, sincerity, and respect.

King, 26, tells Zikoko, “When I lost my mother, all I wanted to hear was ‘I’m here for you’. It didn’t have to be deep. I just needed something honest.”

From simple messages to religious, professional, and touching messages for specific kinds of loss — a parent, partner, friend, child, or even a pet — you’ll find comforting words to support someone who’s grieving, in this list of over 200 condolence messages.

Simple and Short Condolence Message

When you’re not sure what to say, a simple and short condolence message can still go a long way. These simple phrases are perfect for texts, notes, or moments when you just want to say something kind and meaningful without overthinking it.

• Your loss breaks my heart. I hope you know there’s no wrong way to grieve.

• Sending you positive thoughts and lots of prayers.

• Thinking of you and your family during this time.

• I wish you peace and comfort as you grieve.

• Deepest sympathies. I am so sorry for your loss.

• My heart goes out to you. I’m sending you strength and love.

• Please accept my sincere condolences. Holding you close in my heart.

• I’m so sorry for your loss. Please remember I’m here for you, always.

• There are no words to convey how terrible this is. You are in my prayers.

• In this difficult period, I’m sending you all the good vibes I can.

• Celebrating the life of a good person and mourning their passing with you.

• May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you.

• We hope you know we are by your side during this time of sorrow.

• Sending you strength today and peace in all the days ahead.

• May their memory bring you comfort.

• My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

• You’re in my thoughts. Let me know if I can help with anything.

• Wishing you peace and comfort in these difficult days.

• I’m so sad for your loss. Thinking of you.

• With love and remembrance, we share in your sorrow.

• During this tough period, I hope you remember— grief is love with nowhere to go.

Condolence Message for Loss of a Parent

Losing a parent is one of life’s deepest heartbreaks. Whether it’s a mother or a father, it’s one of the most profound sorrows. Here, you’ll find the right condolence message for the loss of a parent, offering support, compassion, and warmth for someone mourning the people who raised them.

• I’m so sorry that you’ve lost someone whom you and your family loved so much.

• I’m sure you made your parent so proud; I’m sorry their light is gone from your life.

• I’m so sorry for the loss of your beloved parent.

• Your parent was a truly special person. I know their love will continue to guide you every day.

• Sending love as you grieve the loss of your parent. May you find strength in your memories.

• You’ve experienced such a huge loss in saying goodbye to your parent. When you’re ready, I’d love to hear more about what your times together were like. You can call on me if you’d like to share memories.

• I didn’t have the pleasure of knowing your parent, but they raised an amazing human being: you. Wishing you peace and comfort during this unimaginable time.

• Your parent’s amazing personality lives on through you. Sending you love during this difficult time.

• Their love and wisdom will never be forgotten. May time bring healing and memories bring comfort.

• What an amazing person and what a remarkable life. I feel so lucky that I got to know them.

• Your parent was loved so deeply, and so we will grieve deeply too.

• Your parent touched many people’s lives — mine included. I’m grateful I got the chance to know them.

• There is no one in this world like your parent. They were special and will always be with you.

• Your parent will forever remain in our hearts and memories.

• Your parent was such an inspiration in my life — I’ll never forget the valuable lessons they taught me.

• Nothing I can say will take away the pain you’re experiencing. Just want you to know that I care about you, and I share in your sadness.

• May you look back on the precious memories and find peace in knowing that your parent raised an amazing person.

• I know you feel unmoored and so sad right now; if there’s anything I can do to help you, or your family, please let me know.

• I can’t believe they’re gone, and I know the shock is even greater for you. I hope memories of the happy times you had together can be of some comfort during this incredibly difficult time.

• Your parent will be greatly missed; may you be comforted by your many memories together.

Condolence Message for Loss of a Spouse or Partner

The loss of a husband, wife, or life partner leaves an irreplaceable void. You can’t heal them, but these condolence messages for someone grieving their spouse will offer quiet support and comfort during one of life’s most painful transitions.

• Your partner was such a wonderful person. They were an outstanding, and will live in our hearts and memories forever.

• As you grieve, I hope you know that love never dies. Your spouse’s love for you is everlasting.

• No words can express how sorry I am for the loss of your partner. I didn’t know them personally, but I know how much you loved them, and I am here for you.

• I’ll always admire the love shared between you and your partner. You shared a one-of-a-kind bond that can never be broken.

• I’m deeply sorry for the loss of your beloved partner. You complemented each other like no other couple I know. May your precious memories bring you comfort.

• No words can ease your pain, but I’m holding space for you.

• Love like yours is never truly lost. May the bond you shared always comfort you.

• I’m so sorry for the loss of your beloved partner. Their love for you was always so evident.

• Thinking of you as you mourn the love of your life. I hope the memories you shared bring you peace.

• I know your heart is broken and your life has turned inside out. I love you and am praying for you.

• I have so many happy memories of the two of you; if you ever want to reminisce about the happy times, I’ll come over. 

• I cannot imagine how much you are hurting right now; I know the road ahead of you is long, and I will walk with you along it as much as I can.

• You’ve lost your other half, and you feel incomplete and lost. I hate that you have to suffer through this; I love you and will be here for you whenever you need me.

• Watching you two together heightened my understanding of love, and watching you grieve has deepened my understanding of love as well.

• I can only imagine your pain, and I’m so sorry. I’ll be here to support you in whatever way you need.

• Please know you are not alone in your grief. I’m holding your heart in mine.

• My heart goes out to you and your beautiful family. No words can ease your pain, but I’m holding space for you.

• Thinking of you as you mourn the love of your life. I hope the memories you shared bring you peace.

• No words can truly express my sorrow for your loss. I hope you find solace and comfort in the months ahead.

• Your union was one to admire. You two were the perfect fit and I’m sorry for the loss of your best friend. You have my support during this difficult time.

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Condolence Message for Loss of a Sibling

Siblings share memories, secrets, and years of growing up together. Losing one can feel like losing a part of yourself. These condolence messages for the loss of a sibling are written to gently acknowledge that pain and offer support.

• I love you, and I know they loved you, too. I’m so sorry that the world has lost such a bright light.

• I cannot imagine the depth of this loss for you; your family is broken and will never be the same. Please know that I’m thinking of you and hoping for healing wherever it is possible.

• Your sibling will always be remembered for the amazing person they were. May their memory bring you comfort and peace.

• Your sibling’s spirit will live on through all the lives they touched. They will be greatly missed.

• I’m truly sorry for the loss of your sibling. They will always be your forever friend.

• I hope you find strength in the memories you shared. I’m so sorry you have to go through this.

• They were such a sweet soul. May your sibling’s spirit stay with you always.

• Thinking of you as you grieve your sibling. They were taken too soon, and my heart aches for you.

• They meant so much to all of us, but I know that they meant the most to you. Please let me know if there’s anything I can do for you and your family during this dark time.

• Your sibling’s memory will always live on through the love they shared with others. May their light continue to shine on through you.

• I was both shocked and saddened to hear about the loss of your sibling. They were an incredible friend and I know the best sibling anyone could ask for. Please accept my sincerest condolences for your loss.

• I wish I had the right words, but I just don’t. Just know that I care, and I want to help in any way I can.

• May the love and cherished memories of your sibling bring you comfort during this difficult time.

• I don’t know how you feel, and I won’t pretend to. But I do love you, and if there’s anything I can do for you right now, I’m happy to do it.

• I can only imagine the depth of your sorrow, but I want you to know that I’m here for you, always. Your sibling’s kindness, love, and generosity will never be forgotten, and their legacy will live on in your heart.

• Losing a sibling is a pain like no other. May the cherished memories of your sibling bring you comfort and strength during these difficult days ahead. May their spirit continue to guide and inspire you.

• I can’t imagine the sadness you must be feeling from losing your sibling. Remember that you’re loved and not alone.

• Your sibling was one of a kind. I will miss them more than words can say.

• Please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your sibling. They will forever be in our hearts and memories.

• Your sibling was loved by many, and I feel privileged to have known them. Their memory will never fade.

Condolence Message for Loss of a Child

There are no words strong enough for the pain of losing a child. These tender condolence messages for loss of a child are written with deep compassion for parents experiencing an unimaginable kind of grief — and with the hope that they feel seen, loved, and supported.

• I have no words that could ever ease your pain, but I want you to know I’m here — grieving with you, holding you in my heart, and sending you love.

• Your child was a beautiful light in this world. I hope you find peace in knowing their love and spirit will always live on.

• Your child brought joy and love to so many in such a short time. That legacy will never be forgotten.

• There’s no pain like this, and there’s no timeline for healing. Be gentle with yourself. I’m here for you.

• Your grief is a reflection of a deep, endless love. I’m thinking of you and praying for comfort in your heart.

• No parent should ever have to go through this. My heart aches for you and your family.

• I know words will never be enough, but I hope you feel the support and love surrounding you now that your baby has angel wings.

• Your child was a light. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to fall apart. It’s okay to not be okay. Your loss is real, and you’re allowed to grieve in your own way.

• Life seems incredibly cruel and arbitrary right now; I cannot find meaning in what has happened. I love you and will be thinking of you and praying for you. If I can do anything more, please let me know how I can help.

• I cannot imagine how awful and bleak your world looks right now. I’m praying that hope and comfort flood your life during this dark time.

• I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that my heart aches for you and your family during this unimaginable time of grief.

• During this time of grief, may you find solace in the love and memories you shared with your child. Their spirit lives on in the lives they touched.

• Deep sorrow can feel like drowning. Please know I’m here to be your life raft.

• No one can prepare for this type of loss. Sending you strength at this time.

• There are no good words. In your grief, I hope you will be able to reach out to me for help and support. I love you.

• I can’t express the depth of sorrow I feel for your loss. Your child’s memory will forever remain in our hearts.

• During this time of profound grief, please know that you are not alone. Your child’s spirit will forever remain in the hearts of all who knew and loved them.

• I can’t find words to convey how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Your child’s memory will forever be a reminder of the joy they brought to those around.

Condolence Message for Loss of a Friend

Friends are the family we choose — losing one can leave a silence that’s hard to fill. These condolence messages for the loss of a friend honour that unique bond and offer comfort to those grieving someone close.

• I know you loved them very much, and it’s hard to imagine life without them. You must be feeling everything from numbness to anger, from sadness to frustration, and everything in between.

• A hug from me to you to let you know that today and every day, you are in my heart and thoughts. I’m so sorry for your loss.

• Grief is such a complex part of life, and everything you’re feeling right now is normal, even though it seems strange and is so difficult to navigate.

• Losing someone so close is so hard. I will be here to support you at any time and any hour. Sending you so much love.

• During this tough time in your life, may my friendship, sympathy, and heartfelt condolences bring you comfort.

• We’ve shared many good times with [Name].  their memory will always live on with us.

• I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your dear friend. May you find the strength you need to navigate this moment.

• Although [Name] is no longer with us, the memories and laughter you shared will always be with you. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.

• I’m deeply sorry to hear about the loss of [Name]. May you find strength in the days ahead and cherish the good times you shared with your friend.

• Wishing you peace, comfort, and courage as you navigate this difficult time without your dear friend.

• I’m so deeply sorry for the loss of your friend. True friendship leaves behind memories that never fade.

• They may be gone, but their laughter, kindness, and light will stay with you forever.

• I know how much your friend meant to you, and I’m here for you in this time of sorrow.

• Losing someone who truly understood you is never easy. I’m sending you all my love as you grieve.

• May your memories bring you comfort, and your grief be met with compassion.

• They were a beautiful soul, full of warmth and love. Their impact will live on in everyone they touched.

• I know no one can fill the space they left behind, but I hope you feel surrounded by love and support.

• I hope you find strength in knowing how many people admired and loved your friend.

• The bond you shared with your friend was rare and special. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

• You gave them a loyal and beautiful friendship. That will never be forgotten.

Condolence Message for Loss of a Pet

Pets become family. They give unconditional love, comfort, and joy. These condolence messages for the loss of a pet are written for anyone mourning their animal companion and in need of gentle words of sympathy.

• I’m so sorry for the loss of your furry friend. They brought so much joy into your life.

• Your pet was lucky to be so loved, and you were lucky to be loved so fully in return.

• I know how much your pet  meant to you. Their absence must be so hard.

• Pets never leave us — they stay in the spaces of our hearts they once filled.

• I hope you can feel how much love surrounds you as you mourn your companion.

• The way [pet’s name] lit up your life will never be forgotten.

• Their tail wags, cuddles, and presence were a gift. I’m holding you in my thoughts.

• Your grief is valid. The love between a human and their pet is incredibly real.

• They were part of your daily joy, and it’s okay to feel lost without them.

• May you find peace in the memories you created and the love you shared.

• Losing a pet is losing a friend. I’m so sorry for this heartbreak.

• I know nothing can replace [pet’s name], but I hope your memories give you comfort.

• You gave them a life full of love, and they gave it back every day.

• I’m here for you as you grieve — their paw prints are forever on your heart.

• Rest in peace, [pet’s name]. You were deeply loved and will be dearly missed.

• I know how much they meant to you. Know that you’re in my thoughts.

• I can imagine how much it hurts, and I’m wishing you comfort.

• I’m so sorry you lost your best friend. What a special and gentle soul your pet was.

• There will be days you won’t be able to catch your breath, but please remember that you gave them the most amazing gift of what it means to be loved.

• You loved them with everything you had; that’s what all pets want the most.

Religious Condolence Message

Faith can be a source of strength in times of loss. These religious condolence messages — including both Christian and Muslim expressions — offer spiritual comfort and prayerful words for those leaning on belief as they grieve.

• May the God of all comfort surround you with peace that passes understanding during this time of loss.

• I’m praying that God gives you strength and hope in the days to come.

• May the Lord hold you in His arms and carry you through this sorrow.

• Take comfort in knowing that your loved one is now resting in the arms of Jesus.

• Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un — Surely we belong to Allah and to Him we shall return. May Allah grant your loved one Jannah.

• May Allah (SWT) ease your sorrow, forgive their sins, and grant them peace in the hereafter.

• I pray that your heart finds healing in God’s promise of eternal life.

• May God’s love and grace sustain you through your grief.

• The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. – Psalm 34:18

• I pray that Allah surrounds your family with patience and mercy during this difficult time.

• May the Almighty forgive the departed, bless their soul, and grant you and your family sabr.

• Your loved one may be gone from this earth, but their soul is safe with the Lord.

• I pray God gives you peace, strength, and hope in the midst of your pain.

• May the light of Christ be your guide and comfort as you mourn.

• May Allah (SWT) elevate their ranks in Jannah and bring comfort to your heart.

• You are in my heart and prayers during this time of sorrow. May the Lord provide you with peace and healing.

•  May the love of Jesus surround you and bring comfort for your loss.

• May Allah give you patience and ease your pain during this difficult time.

• May Allah envelop you in His infinite mercy and give you the strength to endure this loss.

Professional or Formal Condolence Message

In the workplace or formal settings, it’s important to offer sympathy with grace and professionalism. These condolence messages are appropriate for colleagues, clients, or acquaintances — respectful while still being from the heart.

• Please accept my heartfelt sympathies for the loss that you and your family are experiencing. You are in my thoughts.

• I was saddened to learn of your loss, and I extend to you my deepest condolences.

• We are saddened to learn of your loss. Please know that we’re thinking of you and are here for anything you may need.

• My sincere sympathy to you and your family. May you find solace and tranquillity in the days ahead.

• On behalf of our entire team, please accept our deepest sympathies. Please, take as much time needed to mourn your loss

• Please know we are thinking of you during this painful time. As your work family, we are here for you.

• I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. The office won’t be the same without [Name]. Their memory will not be forgotten.

• If there wasn’t so much love, it wouldn’t be this hard to say goodbye. Our thoughts are with you.

• May your happy memories give you peace and comfort during this challenging time.

• I am sharing in your sadness as you remember your loved one.

• Praying for you during this difficult time. If you ever want to talk, I’m here.

• Deepest condolences to you and your family for your loss.

• Words cannot express how saddened we are to learn of your loss. Please take your time. We are all here for you.

• We want to let you know that our thoughts are with you and your family.

• We’re wishing you and your family courage and peace during this time of mourning.

• It’s never easy, and it’s never fair when we lose someone important to us. Extend my sympathies to your whole family.

• The loss of [Name] is felt by many. May the memories of their wonderful personality and many contributions be celebrated by all.

Condolence Message for Social Media

When grief is shared online, a few kind words can go a long way. These short condolence messages are suited for social media posts, public tributes, or replies — simple, thoughtful, and sensitive enough for any timeline.

• Sending love and prayers to you and your family during this time.

• So sorry for your loss. Wishing you strength and healing.

• Thinking of you. May their memory always be a blessing.

• Deepest condolences. Holding you close in thought.

• Rest in peace, [Name]. You will be deeply missed.

• Praying for peace and comfort for you and your family.

• Wishing you light during this dark time.

• May your heart find comfort in the love that surrounds you.

• Sending my love and condolences — I’m so sorry.

• May [Name] rest well. Thinking of your family today.

• A life well-lived and a soul dearly missed.

• My heart goes out to you. May you find strength in this time.

• Rest easy, [Name]. We will never forget you.

• Condolences to you and your family. You are not alone.

• Holding you in my thoughts and hoping you find peace.

• May your grief be met with compassion and your memories with peace.

• Sending heartfelt condolences your way.

• Wishing you healing and strength in the days to come.

• This news is so shocking and tragic. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

• Sending you love and support as you navigate this sudden, heartbreaking loss.

How To Write A Condolence Message

If you’re struggling to find the right words, you’re not alone. Writing a condolence message doesn’t have to be complicated — it just needs to come from the heart. Here’s a simple guide to help you write something sincere and comforting.

1. Start simple

You don’t need a grand opening. A gentle “I’m so sorry for your loss” or “Please, accept my condolences” is more than enough.

2. Say something kind or personal

If you knew the person who passed, mention a memory or something you admired about them. If you didn’t, just acknowledge how much they meant to the person grieving.

3. Offer comfort, not clichés

Avoid phrases like they’re in a better place unless you’re sure it will resonate. Instead, try “I’m thinking of you” or “I can’t imagine how hard this is, but I’m here.”

4. Let them know they’re not alone

If it’s someone close to you, say, “I’m here if you want to talk”, or “You don’t have to go through this alone.”

5. End with warmth

Wrap it up with something kind and soft like: “Sending love”, “With sympathy”, or “Wishing you peace and healing.”

5 Questions about Condolence Messages

Many people aren’t sure what to say when someone passes away. Whether it’s about timing, tone, or wording, these quick answers to common questions can help you feel more confident when offering sympathy to someone who’s grieving.

1. When should I send a condolence message?

As soon as you hear the news. Don’t worry about waiting for the perfect time. A timely message, even if brief, is always appreciated.

2. Is it okay to send a condolence via text or social media?

Yes, especially if that’s your usual way of communicating with the person. It can also feel less overwhelming for someone grieving.

3. What if I didn’t know the person who died well?

That’s okay. Focus on supporting the person who’s grieving. You can say something like, “I’m so sorry for your loss” or “I’m thinking of you.”

4. Should I mention the cause of death?

Only if the person grieving has spoken openly about it. Otherwise, it’s better to avoid bringing up sensitive details.

5. Is it okay to include religious phrases?

Yes, but only if you’re sure the person shares those beliefs. If not, keep your message respectful and neutral.

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