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    Nairalife #351 bio

    What’s your earliest memory of money?

    The money gifts I received from visiting relatives when I was younger. Then my mum would say, “Bring the money. I’ll keep it for you or use it to buy you something later.” I never saw the money again.

    Haha. Typical Nigerian parents. What was money like growing up?

    We were comfortable, but started to struggle when I entered secondary school. My accountant dad moved to a different state for work, and joining him meant my mum had to leave her previous teaching job to start looking for another. 

    Things weren’t bad, per se; we just had to make some adjustments. For instance, I attended a boarding school, and we had to reduce some of my provisions. When I’d usually get both cornflakes and Golden Morn, I now had to choose between them. It was a slight inconvenience.

    What was the first thing you did to earn money?

    Fresh out of secondary school in 2014, I got a job teaching at a school for the ridiculous salary of ₦5k/month. I worked there for a couple of months before leaving to work with my mum, who had now opened her own school.

    I feel like I already know the answer to this, but did she pay you?

    Haha. There wasn’t a solid payment structure. My younger sister also worked there at some point, and I don’t think we ever received an actual salary. 

    My mum was paying the other teachers, but, of course, as her children, she only gave us random pocket money. We never actually had the salary conversation. You know how it is, she was feeding us, so how do you ask for a salary?

    Right. How long did you work with her?

    I worked there for about two years before leaving for university in 2016. In uni, I received a ₦25k – ₦40k monthly allowance. It wasn’t specific, as I could just call home if I ran out of money. 

    In my second year, I began exploring ways to earn money part-time without solely relying on an allowance. I wanted something that wouldn’t require a lot of my time or interfere with my studies. My roommate was actively doing ushering jobs, so I got her to help me get started as well.

    What was the pay like?

    It was usually ₦5k per event. In rare cases, payment could be as high as ₦6k – ₦7k. I didn’t always get a lot of gigs, though. I’m not very tall, so my options were limited. That said, I secured at least one or two ushering gigs monthly. 

    I did this throughout my time in university, taking on these random gigs until 2022. I left uni in 2020, but we officially graduated in 2022.


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    What did you do between that time?

    I was home when COVID happened. The pandemic led to my dad getting laid off at work, which affected our finances. I needed to find a way to support myself and my siblings, so I started actively seeking opportunities.

    I found a boot camp for young professionals on Twitter, which came with a scholarship to attend for free. Towards the end of the boot camp, one of the partners said they needed a virtual assistant to manage social media and customer service for their fitness brand. 

    I applied and got the job even though I didn’t have virtual assistance experience. I did have some social media management experience from the time I helped a coursemate with their brand. I’d also taken a handful of courses on design and content creation, so I believe those helped.

    My salary was ₦35k/month. I did that for a few months and realised I couldn’t survive on that amount. 

    I’m the firstborn, and I had two younger siblings in uni. By the time I bought data and shared money with my siblings, I was back to zero. I needed another source of income. While I held onto my job, I continued to seek out new opportunities.

    How did that go?

    In a matter of weeks, I saw an opening for a social media assistant on a Telegram career board, applied, and was hired at ₦25k/month. 

    Someone at church who knew I was into social media also offered me a role, and I collected that too, juggling all three jobs together. The pay was also ₦25k, which wasn’t great, but at least I was gathering all the salaries together to make a reasonable income. 

    I held onto two of those jobs for a year, until one laid me off and the other closed down. This was around 2021. I still had the virtual assistant job, and they even increased my salary to ₦45k/month. I worked there for two more years before eventually leaving in 2023. 

    My uni’s convocation delay contributed to my staying that long. Also, my employer travelled, and I kept waiting for her to return, only to learn she actually relocated.

    I’m screaming

    I should also mention that I began my journey into video editing while working as a virtual assistant. Actually, I picked up the skill while working with the church member who employed me. 

    I was supposed to manage their social media, but somehow my job also involved editing videos. I realised I enjoyed it, so I kept at it even after losing the job. I was in the social media department of my church, so I’d shoot content, edit and post on the church’s social media pages. 

    In 2023, just before I left my VA job, I applied to work as a creative assistant for someone who needed one during her time in Nigeria. She lives abroad and needed someone to help with shooting, editing, and creating behind-the-scenes clips while she was in the country. 

    It was a 10-day visit, and in my application, I even said she didn’t have to pay me. I just wanted the experience. She picked me up, and although there was no pay, she covered my transportation. I actually learnt a lot from her, and she must have liked my work, because she gave me a shoutout on her Instagram story after the project. 

    The shoutout helped me land a booking to cover a baby shower, marking the beginning of my foray into mobile videography. I began taking on small jobs here and there. When the first lady I worked with got married a few months later, I was the mobile videographer for the event, which brought me visibility and more bookings.

    Love it. How much were you making from these bookings?

    See, I might have a problem with knowing how to charge for my services. When I got my first baby shower gig, the client asked for my rates, and I didn’t know what to say. 

    Mobile videography was still relatively new, and I didn’t have anyone doing something similar whom I could ask. I ended up charging the client ₦25k. 

    Ah

    I learnt after that incident sha. I think the next fee I charged was ₦40k. Then I started considering transportation costs and the value of my time in my rates, and gradually increased them to ₦60k, then ₦80k, and later ₦100k.

    Fast forward to 2024, and I was finally called up for NYSC. I served at a government agency that paid me ₦25k/month — too many people have paid me ₦25k in this life — in addition to the ₦33k stipend from NYSC. 

    I didn’t do much at the agency, so I still actively took on mobile videography gigs during this period. I did everything from proposals and birthday dinners to weddings and corporate events. By now, my pay was a standardised ₦100k – ₦150k. 

    How often were these gigs coming?

    I averaged five to seven gigs monthly, but my main problem was that I didn’t keep track of my income. I’m not proud of it, but I was terrible with my finances and spent money anyhow. 

    Suddenly, I no longer understood the concept of public transportation. I took cabs everywhere, bought junk food and skincare and regularly sent money to my siblings. I didn’t have many expenses, but I just couldn’t track how my money was disappearing.

    It was only two months ago that I sat myself down and decided to try to be intentional about my finances. 

    What’s your income like these days?

    I’m a full-time freelance video editor, so my income isn’t very stable. I make an average of ₦250k – ₦300k monthly. In really good months, I can make up to ₦500k or ₦600k. In very bad months, I make nothing. 

    Remember the lady who hired me as a creative assistant? We currently have a monthly retainer arrangement, and she pays me ₦150k/month to edit videos and develop content ideas and strategy. Our work relationship is now more personal than strictly employer-employee. So, I’m sure of at least ₦150k even if I don’t get any video editing gigs.

    I’m also in film school. I started in September, and I applied because I felt stuck at some point in the year. I wanted something concrete, more knowledge than what I already knew. Thankfully, the film school is sponsored by the state government, so it’s free. My long-term goal is to become a film editor. I realised I loved the editing part of my job more than shooting, so I’m currently studying visual post-production. 

    I noticed you didn’t mention virtual assistance or social media management anymore

    Yeah. I made a decision at the end of 2024 to stop them. I just felt like I didn’t know what I was doing, and that I wasn’t good at it. I think it was just a step on the journey of figuring out what I want to do in life. 

    It’s interesting because I earned dollars for the first time last year through virtual assistance and social media, but I just didn’t see myself doing that anymore. It was time to move on.

    Wait. Tell me more about that dollars part

    Around March 2024, just after NYSC orientation camp, my boss (the one I work with as a creative assistant) linked me up with a talent recruitment agency that connects talents with clients in the UK, Canada and the US. 

    The talent doesn’t discuss payment with the client; the agency just tells you XYZ person needs you and is willing to pay a certain amount. I’m sure they get their percentage or a commission. I got two clients through them; one paid $175/month and the other paid $195. 

    The contract for both gigs lasted about six to seven months. I finished the last one in December. Then I informed the agency that I was pivoting to video editing and was open to roles in that field. Maybe they don’t have many clients who need video editors, as I haven’t received a client from them since then.

    What kind of lifestyle does your income afford you?

    I live paycheck to paycheck, and I know my terrible financial habits contribute to that. At least, I can afford my basic needs. I live with my siblings in a family house, so thankfully I don’t pay rent. That’s my saving grace.

    How would you describe your relationship with money?

    It’s very touchy. Before 2024, I liked the idea of hoarding money, but then I started to convince myself to let money go. I believed I should be a channel through which money flowed, rather than just keeping it somewhere. 

    So, I started to get comfortable spending money. Unfortunately, I took it to the extreme. I’d use my last money to order food online and be doing, “If I perish, I perish.” I’m just now trying to find a balance and taking financial literacy seriously. 

    How are you doing that?

    For one, I’m trying to reduce the amount of food I order, which is difficult, especially since I’m almost always in school. I also use an Excel sheet to track my income and expenses. I haven’t seen much active change yet, but it’s a gradual process. 

    Another thing I recently did was to register my business (which cost me ₦13k) and open a business account. The idea is that I can separate business expenses from my personal expenses. I haven’t figured out how to do that yet, but my younger sister, who is an accountant, suggests paying myself a salary so I can use that to fund my expenses and have money specifically set aside for scaling my work. 

    Speaking of my work, I want to get better at my pricing. I think I don’t have the greatest appetite when it comes to charging my worth. I need to work on my mindset to accept that I deserve to be paid more. I also need to build systems to make my business solid and reputable.

    All in all, I think I’m making progress. I used to call myself a spendthrift, but now I see myself as someone taking intentional steps to improve my finances and do better.

    I’m curious. What informs how you currently charge for your services?

    I charge by the hour, as I mostly work with events. My lowest offering is three hours for ₦120k, and the price increases with the number of hours I spend. My highest rate is about ₦300k for 12 hours. 

    I believe I should be charging more, maybe at least ₦350k – ₦400k. However, I’m also self-aware. I’ll probably need to change my phone or get a new gadget so I can produce higher-quality videos if I hope to increase my rates. 

    Let’s break down your typical monthly expenses

    Nairalife expenses #351

    Since I decided to take my finances seriously, I’ve been doing a thing where I try to save ₦10k or ₦20k from every new gig. I currently have about ₦60k in my savings, and another ₦120k in a locked account. 

    What’s an ideal amount you think you should be earning now?

    I should be able to average ₦2.5m/month if I take my life seriously, upskill and put in the work. I suspect I hit ₦1m or ₦1.5m a couple of times last year, but I didn’t exactly track my money, so I can’t say for sure. 

    That said, ₦2.5m feels possible. I mentioned my business earlier. I’m trying to put together a video editing agency. I already have video editors who work with me, and I pay them per video. With an agency, I can put more structures in place and expand my income sources to include hosting video editing classes. This all depends on me putting in the work. Film school will end in a couple of weeks, so I need to get my act together.

    Rooting for you. What’s one thing you want but can’t afford right now?

    An iPhone 17 for my business, but that’s almost ₦3m.

    How about the last thing you bought that made you happy?

    It was my brother’s birthday a few weeks ago, and I bought him a ₦35k Kaftan two-piece. I loved being able to do that for him.

    How would you rate your financial happiness on a scale of 1-10?

    2. My financial habits got me to where I am right now. I should’ve done better with my finances, but there’s room for improvement.


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    Nairalife #340 bio

    What’s your earliest memory of money?

    My dad’s a pastor, and from when I was 5 or 6, I’d join the ushers to put the offering baskets together and arrange everything. The church was my earliest memory of seeing so much cash in one place. 

    Are the rumours of pastors’ kids growing up poor true?

    We weren’t rich, but we were okay. I didn’t miss out on anything. My mum was a teacher, and I attended good schools. I’d say we were a pretty average family.

    When was the first time you did something to earn money?

    2015. I was in 100 level, and my roommate said he knew a shipping platform where we could import shoes to Nigeria. There were about four students in our room, and he convinced us to put money together to buy a batch, sell it, and split the profit. 

    I contributed about ₦10k or ₦20k, but didn’t see any profit. We had about 8-10 shoes in our first (and only) batch, and managed to sell only one. We eventually shared the shoes among ourselves. Unfortunately, we didn’t buy my size, so I didn’t even get anything. 

    TBH, that would pain me more than not making a profit

    Right? That part was painful. The money, not so much. I just attributed it to loose cash. To be fair, I regularly got pocket money from home, so I always had something in my account. 

    I could get ₦30k today, another ₦20k in the middle of the month, and then ₦30k again in a few weeks. I never even had to ask for money in 100 level. Pocket money in subsequent years wasn’t so random, but I was still comfortable.

    Must be nice. Did you try another business after the shoe fail?

    I tried to run one or two showbiz events in school and make money from ticketing, but most of them didn’t pass the idea stage. The one I managed to host ended up in a loss because students preferred free events or wouldn’t come at all. After this happened, I just left the events idea alone.

    I also played the keyboard and occasionally made some money playing it in church. The pastor could just say, “Oh. You’ve done well today. Take this envelope,” and I’d find ₦10k or ₦15k inside. But this money only came once in a while, so I lived on pocket money throughout my time in school. 

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    What did you do after school?

    So, my set finished in 2021, but I had an extra year, which meant I had some business in school until I officially left in 2023.

    During the wait, I paid ₦30k for a three-month community management and paid advertising course, which came with a post-training internship. I did the three-month internship at a digital marketing/advisory startup and got paid ₦15k/month. 

    They retained me after the internship ended and increased my salary to ₦40k. At this point, I lived with a family friend because the job had taken me to a different state. I didn’t have a lot of expenses, but my salary was barely enough. However, I feel like the job gave my career a solid foundation. The skills I acquired helped me land my next job and still help me today.

    Tell me about that next job

    I was hired as a sales development representative at a health tech company in 2023 for ₦120k/month. 

    The job was like a career pivot; I previously worked in community management and paid ads. However, my previous role had also introduced me to sales — mainly because of the paid ads — so I wasn’t exactly a newbie. 

    I worked there from 2023 to mid-2025. In that time, I switched to sales operations and received a few salary bumps. By the time I left the job in May 2025, my salary had grown to ₦224k/month. 

    I moved on to my current job —  sales development rep at a tech company, where I earn ₦700k/month. 

    That’s a nice jump. How did that feel?

    It felt good initially, but I now want more. I think it’s a case of me now realising the value of the work I do. Also, I had to relocate to Lagos because of the job and now live alone, so my expenses have increased as I’m now financially responsible for myself.

    That said, the income growth has given me some leverage. I wouldn’t say I’m comfortable, but at least I can plan towards the things I want and get them for myself. 

    Speaking of relocation, what were the moving costs like?

    Fortunately, I had savings from a three-month cold-calling gig I did earlier in the year for a foreign company, which paid €250/month (around ₦450k after conversion). 

    So, when it was time to move, I had over ₦1m and used it to get my ₦800k/year self-contained apartment. Of course, I still had to pay about ₦500k more for the agent and all the other extra fees. 

    Also, I had to make some heavy purchases in the months following the move because I made the foolish decision of moving to Lagos with only my clothes. I wanted to come and start a “new life” in Lagos, forgetting I needed things like curtains and a mattress. Omo.

    Let me guess, you discovered they were expensive?

    Very expensive. I must’ve spent ₦2m – ₦3m on basic furniture, cooking utensils and a workstation. I don’t even want to calculate each of them because the figures will just annoy me. I still need things like an inverter, sound bar and air conditioner, but those will come later. They aren’t really pressing needs right now.

    How has your income growth impacted your lifestyle?

    There hasn’t been much change. I’m a very calm person. I don’t do too much, and I’m careful about spending my money. 

    Once my salary comes in, I remove my tithe and internet cost, then divide the rest into three parts of ₦200k each: The first ₦200k goes to my savings, the second ₦200k is what I spend as living expenses, and I keep the rest as a cushion in case an emergency need comes up within the month. 

    I often spend out of this emergency fund before my next salary comes in, but I try to keep it as much as possible. 

    Let’s break that down for a typical month

    Nairalife #340 expenses

    I save on a savings app, and whenever I get my monthly interest, I use it to buy dollars on the app. I’m not sure if it’s a good strategy; I just do it. I currently have about ₦1.5m in my savings portfolio.

    I’m curious. Do you have a goal for your savings?

    I’m beginning to shift towards japa. I forgot to mention I spent about ₦1.2m on a postgraduate diploma (PGD) program I started at the beginning of the year. I should be done with that in a few months, and the current plan is to finish and try to go abroad for a full-blown MBA. 

    I’m not entirely sure how I’ll go about that yet, so there’s not a lot of clarity right now. I don’t want to think too much about it until I finish the PGD. I actually got admitted into a program abroad before I started the PGD, but I didn’t have enough money to provide proof of funds to get a visa, and it didn’t work out. So, I’ll just pray and figure out the steps one at a time. Who knows? Maybe God will shock me. 

    Maybe He will. How would you describe your relationship with money?

    I live within my means, which is probably tied to my personality because I have colleagues in the same income bracket who are like social butterflies. They’re always out spending money.

    In their defence, they’ve been in Lagos longer. I’m still very wary of the city. I feel like one wrong move can wreck me.

    How so?

    The city is crazy, and it’s a new location for me. If I lose my job or something happens to me, I don’t have enough funds to keep me for the next three months. I have limited support here, so I don’t have much cushion for me to do stupid things or spend anyhow.

    Hmm. Makes sense. What’s an ideal amount you think you should be earning right now?

    ₦5m/month won’t be bad, and I think I’ll get there soon. A senior colleague at work just left the company, so a potential promotion might be in the works. Also, my friend wants to start a company and we’re working together on it. It’s still bootstrapped now, but things will look up soon.

    What was the last thing you bought that made you happy?

    My 32-inch TV. I like watching shows after a long day of work, and now I can do that without killing my eyes trying to watch on my laptop. I got the TV for ₦120k last month. It’s that cheap because someone linked me up with a factory.  

    Is there anything you’d like to be better at financially?

    I need to earn more to explore stock investments and get to the point where money begins to work for me.

    How would you rate your financial happiness on a scale of 1-10?

    5. I don’t feel so bad about my finances, but I don’t feel so good either. It’s just there.


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  • The topic of how young Nigerians navigate romantic relationships with their earnings is a minefield of hot takes. In Love Currency, we get into what relationships across income brackets look like in different cities.


    How long have you been with your partner?

    I’ve been with my boyfriend, David, for a little over a year. We met in November 2023. 

    Tell me more about how you met

    A mutual friend, who worked with David, set us up on a blind date. They were like, “Oh, I have a friend you should meet.” I had nothing to lose, so I accepted the invitation. David and I exchanged Instagram handles, had conversations for about a week, and met up for an ice cream date.

    Interestingly, I didn’t even know what he looked like. He’d seen my pictures on my Instagram, but his profile was empty. So, I saw him for the first time during our date. 

    Ermm. Weren’t you scared?

    The thing is, I don’t like asking men for their photos — they are often terrible and don’t do them justice, so it’s better to see them in person. When I saw David, I thought, “Thank God. He’s not ugly.” 

    It was a good first date, even though I arrived an hour late because I had the wrong directions. We had a good conversation, and I let my guard down. I didn’t want to get my hopes up before I met him. But after our conversation, I decided to be more open.

    We went on a second date the following week, then he asked me to be his girlfriend. I liked him, but I told him to calm down. I thought it was too early to take that step because we’d only been talking for three weeks. To be fair, we’d discussed some important topics even before our second date. But I wanted us to know each other for at least a month before starting an official relationship.

    I’m curious about the kind of topics you discussed

    One was our finances. David said, “Let’s just be honest and tell each other how much we earn.” This was new to me because I didn’t discuss my earnings with previous partners. I also didn’t ask them. But I saw he really wanted to be open in that aspect, so I told him exactly how much I earned, and he did the same.

    At the time, I earned ₦150k – ₦200k as a freelance social media manager. He’s a tech bro and made about ₦400k/month. We started dating a month later. This was in December 2023. 

    How has the relationship been so far?

    It’s been really good. I’ve never been in a relationship with this kind of openness before. David and I share everything. 

    When we argue, it’s mostly due to our different approaches to things. I want to address an issue immediately and get it over with, but he prefers to bring things up later. When he does that, I often feel blindsided. Like, you were pretending everything was alright while you had this thing on your mind? 

    This was a source of friction. I thought I was a chill person until we started dating. So, it surprised me how intense I could get in arguments. I’d have to physically stop myself to ask, “Why am I so angry?” But we’re adjusting better now. Sometimes, we just laugh at each other during arguments. Like, why are we acting like this?

    Our different spending habits have also been subjects of these arguments. 

    How so?

    I’m always like, “You shouldn’t be spending money this way.”

    I’m the saver in the relationship. I grew up with a “need to save” mindset, and it worried me that David had zero savings even though he earned so much money. Who does that? 

    So, I raised that with him a few times, and he’s seen the light. Now, he saves 40% of his monthly income with me and thinks twice about his spending. 

    At the moment, David works for a foreign company and earns £3k/month (about ₦6m), and 40% of that is about ₦2m. There’s another £300 he sends to me monthly.

    I know people might think it’s crazy that he keeps his money with me, but no one should worry. I won’t run away with his money. 

    I’m screaming. Is the £300 a girlfriend allowance?

    Something like that. This is how it started: During my NYSC in February 2024, I found a Place of Primary Assignment (PPA) that would pay me ₦60k/month. When I told David about it, he thought I didn’t need it. My remote freelance job guaranteed up to ₦200k/month. The ₦60k job was on Lagos Island, but I live on the mainland, and commuting was going to be stressful and expensive. 

    I reasoned I should just try the 9-5 life, but David insisted that he didn’t think I should do it because of the stress. So, I joked that I’d quit if he paid me ₦500k/month. Two months later, he got his current role and brought up the joke. 

    I didn’t quit, though. I didn’t want a situation where someone controlled my decisions because of money. I stuck with the job for another three months before I decided the 9-5 life wasn’t for me. After I left, he started sending me £300 every month. This has happened for six months now.

    You mentioned he saves his money with you. Is it toward a particular goal?

    A safety net. We just want to have something saved for when we need it. For example, he used his savings to buy a ₦5m car and move into a ₦1.9m apartment in 2024. Then, some more money to furnish and set up the place. All these were possible because of the safety net.

    I have my own savings, too. Sometimes, I use it for our dates or joint expenses. My housewarming gift to him was most of the equipment in his kitchen, and the whole set cost me almost ₦400k.

    What’s your financial situation like right now?

    On average, I make around ₦450k – ₦500k/month, depending on how many gigs I get. From this, I save at least ₦100k. 

    I haven’t touched the £300 allowance David sends me monthly and haven’t even converted it. I’m keeping it as rent money. I currently live with family members, but I’ll probably get my own place in March, so it will come in handy. 

    I’m sure that if I had been saving for rent from my income, I wouldn’t have the same level of financial freedom I enjoy now. Because I have this safety net, I can comfortably shop and eat what I want without overthinking expenses. I’m grateful for that.

    Do you both have a monthly budget for romance stuff and dates?

    We spend about ₦100k on dates and do this at least once a month. Other times, we stay indoors and order food, which costs anything between ₦20k and ₦30k.

    David pays for these dates. From his salary, we decided that ₦1m is for him to spend on whatever he wants, and the money for dates comes from there. On the rare occasion that he finishes the ₦1m, I send him like ₦100k. That said, I also ask him for money if I’ve spent more than I planned for and only have my savings left. We try not to dip into our savings at all. If we do, we always return what we take.

    How about gifts?

    We often exchange random gifts, and don’t wait till special occasions. I get him jerseys and clothes. Sometimes, I just send him money. The most expensive gift he’s bought for me was my iPhone 14 Pro last year. It cost ₦1.5m, so that was massive. 

    How are you both thinking about future plans for your relationship?

    I’m definitely team japa, but David doesn’t want to leave unless he has solid options abroad. I understand him — £3k can’t do much outside Nigeria. Even in Nigeria, £3k should make him super comfortable, but it doesn’t. In the long term, we’ll definitely leave because this country won’t get better.

    For now, we’re just focusing on our relationship and trying not to let the pressures of adulting and work affect us. We also plan to go on vacation by the end of the year.

    What’s your ideal financial future as a couple?

    I want to earn millions so I can match his energy, and we won’t have to think deeply when we want to go on vacation. Let it be that we both worked hard for our money and can afford to rest. I’d also like a future where we can afford to live in nicer places, and we don’t spend all the money we make just living day to day.

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