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  • Benjamin* (25) didn’t set out to hurt his girlfriend. But between loneliness, temptation, and bad decisions, his relationship unravelled faster than he could fix it. 

    In this story, he opens up about his infidelity and the hard lessons it taught him. 

    Let’s start at the beginning. How did you meet your girlfriend?

    I met my girlfriend, Jane*, in 2023 after an acquaintance posted her birthday pictures on Snapchat. I thought she was stunning, so I added her. She added me back, and we started talking. I told her straight up that I liked her, and she said she liked me too.

    She was in her third year at uni, and since we lived in the same state, we saw each other often. We went on dates, hung out, and she had this calm, level-headed energy that made me want something serious—after my last toxic relationship, being with her felt refreshing.

    A month and a half after we started dating, we had sex. It was awkward because she didn’t tell me it was her first time, and that complicated things.

    In what way?

    We weren’t sexually compatible. I’m a very sexual person, and I told her that from the start, but she didn’t seem to care about sex the same way. 

    Jane preferred to hold back while I did most of the heavy lifting., I tried explaining that our sex life would be better if she showed more enthusiasm, but she never took it seriously. 

    With my ex, we experimented with toys, kinks, and even explored anal play on some occasions. But Jane shut down those conversations immediately. I respected her boundaries, but the lack of effort soon became frustrating. 

    She also started complaining about my lifestyle. I never hid the fact that I smoked and partied a lot, but she suddenly she didn’t like that. It felt like she was judging me for being myself.

    I can imagine. How did you handle that? 

    I ignored her complaints and stopped posting on social media so she wouldn’t be able to track my activities. One night, after telling her I was going to bed, I went clubbing with friends and ended up dancing with a girl. My friend recorded us, and because I was high, I posted the video on my Snapchat story.

    Jane saw it and went off. She kept asking if I slept with the girl, but I hadn’t. We’d only danced. Still, she didn’t believe me. Things got tense after that, and a few weeks later, she went home for her IT. Our communication got worse from there. I was the only one putting in effort to keep the relationship going.

    About two months later, I started spending more time with my neighbour, Lara*. We’d known each other for years but were just friends. She smoked too and once asked for my plug. A few days later, she invited me over for weed brownies to say thank you.

    That night, we got high together at her apartment. One thing led to another, and we had sex. It wasn’t planned. I felt guilty, but I also told myself that since Jane was away and already thought I was cheating, I might as well just let it happen. It became a habit. I promised myself I’d stop once Jane got back.

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    And did you?

    Not immediately. Lara was dominant, adventurous, and open to everything my girlfriend refused. It was easy to get addicted. I slipped back a few times, and Jane had no idea.

    When my birthday came around in November 2024, Jane completely spoiled me. I felt terrible. It was obvious she’d saved money and put in so much effort to pull off her surprise. I told Lara we had to stop, and she agreed. I promised myself I’d stay faithful.

    Right. Did you keep that promise?

    Yes. I was on the right path until February this year when Jane asked to use my phone and found an old Snapchat video of me and Lara high together. We were extra cuddly and it looked bad. She was furious and said that she could tell it wasn’t my room.

    I tried explaining that nothing had happened and we’d just hung out as friends, but she didn’t believe me. She asked for a break, and even though I begged, she insisted. Her decision to leave led me to make another mistake.

    I was heartbroken and beating myself up badly. To distract myself, I went drinking that weekend, got high again, and ended up having unprotected sex with a random girl at the club. The next morning, I barely remembered what had happened the previous night.

    Hmm. 

    Two weeks later, Jane reached out. She was willing to let go of the past and give us another chance. I thought the relationship was over, so I was happy. I swore I’d never mess up again, and we soon got our groove back.

    About a month later, Jane started complaining about pain when she peed. I thought it was just a UTI and told her to visit the hospital. But nothing could have prepared me for the wave of shock that hit me after she called, crying and screaming, that she’d tested positive for chlamydia.

    I immediately told her she couldn’t have gotten it from me. I didn’t have symptoms, and I’d not slept with anyone else since we reunited. But she insisted I was the only person she slept with and forced me to get tested. 

    And did that happen?

    It did, Jane was insistent. When I took the test, they found out it had been in my system longer than in hers. That was how she found out I’d cheated.

    I was embarrassed and ashamed. I confessed that I’d been so down after she asked for a break that I blacked out and ended up sleeping with a stranger. I begged her, paid for both our treatments, and apologised sincerely. But she was done with me. We broke up in April, and the separation was hard on me

    I stopped smoking and going out as much. I was celibate for months. The whole experience really made me take accountability for my actions and realise she was right to leave me. I needed to slow down. I even started attending church more and focused solely on my work.

    Did you hear from her again after that?

    Yes, she reached out in July. She said she’d been thinking about us and wanted us to become friends with benefits. She wanted to avoid multiple sexual partners and thought I was a good option since we had shared history.

    I obliged her request. That’s our present arrangement.

    I see. You don’t think someone is going to get hurt again?

    It’s unlikely. She’s clear on her stance and plans to cut me off once she leaves my city after school next year.

    I know I hurt her deeply, but I still love her. I just hope that with time, she’ll reconsider her stance on our future together.

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  • A quiet revolution is happening in Nigeria’s creative space, one that floats, shines, and speaks the language of joy. This season, the nation welcomes HIETEX, the country’s first premium balloon brand, born out of a vision to bring world-class quality to African celebrations.

    For years, decorators, stylists, and event planners across Nigeria have had to choose between unreliable imports and overpriced global brands. HIETEX changes that story, boldly and beautifully. The brand introduces a line of premium-quality balloons that combine strength, vibrancy, and style, built to meet global standards yet rooted in Nigerian creativity.

    Founded by Rebecca Alabeni, a leading event designer and creative entrepreneur, HIETEX was inspired by a simple but powerful question- why should world-class celebration products always come from elsewhere?

    “HIETEX was born from experience,” she says. “As a decorator, I knew the frustration of working with balloons that faded or burst too easily. I wanted to create something that represented us, our energy, our excellence, and our boldness. HIETEX is proof that we can curate quality here at home.”

    This amazing brand is born of colour, it is built from culture and it is made for the world. Every part of HIETEX tells a story of cultural pride and creative courage. From its vibrant colour palette to its beautiful aesthetic, the brand celebrates the spirit of joy, expressive, confident, and deeply rooted in community.

    Each balloon is designed to deliver consistent colour, durability, and visual impact, qualities that decorators and event stylists value most. Beyond being just another product, HIETEX represents a shift: the birth of a Made-for-Nigeria brand that truly understands how we celebrate.

    Beyond Balloons- A Movement Called “Blow Bold”

    At the heart of HIETEX lies its signature brand message: “Blow Bold.”
     It’s more than a slogan- it’s a call to dreamers, creators, and celebrators everywhere to express themselves without limits.

    Whether it’s a wedding in Lagos, a birthday in Abuja, or a naming ceremony in Enugu, or a brand launch in Accra, HIETEX invites everyone to celebrate in full colour, to make every moment bigger, brighter, and bolder.

    Through community-focused initiatives like the HIETEX Creator Circle, the brand is also building a network of decorators, stylists, and small business owners who shape the celebration industry. It’s not just about selling balloons, it’s about elevating the ecosystem of celebration itself.

    “We want every decorator and every celebrant to feel proud to say, ‘This was made here,’” says Rebecca Alabeni. “Because HIETEX isn’t just a product- it’s a statement of possibility.”

    A New Chapter for Made-for-Nigeria Excellence

    A new chapter for Made-for-Nigeria Excellence has arrived. HIETEX’s arrival signals something much bigger than balloons- it marks a new era for local manufacturing, one where creativity meets craftsmanship, and where Made for Nigeria stands proudly beside Made for the World.

    With its debut collection of premium latex and foil balloons, HIETEX has positioned itself as more than an affordable luxury balloon brand – it’s a story of innovation, ownership, and colour, crafted by Nigerians for the world to see. 

    About HIETEX

    HIETEX is Nigeria’s first premium balloon brand, designed to elevate the celebration industry with quality, creativity, and colour that meet international standards.

    Founded by the creative visionary behind Itura Events & Party Shop, HIETEX was created to close the gap between substandard imports and overpriced global brands, offering decorators, stylists, and celebrants a truly homegrown alternative they can trust.

    The brand embodies an amazing design philosophy, inspired by the vibrancy of Nigerian culture and the boldness of modern expression. Each balloon is carefully crafted for lasting quality, consistent colour, and flawless texture, built to withstand heat, humidity, and the high-energy environments of events.

    Beyond its products, HIETEX is a movement championing creativity, entrepreneurship, and cultural pride. Through its initiatives, the brand aims to empower local decorators, collaborate with event professionals, and celebrate the beauty of Nigerian craftsmanship on the global stage.

    Born of Colour, built from Culture, made for the World.

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  • Every week, Zikoko spotlights the unfiltered stories of women navigating life, love, identity and everything in between. 

    What She Said will give women the mic to speak freely, honestly and openly, without shame about sex, politics, family, survival, and everything else life throws our way.

    Gigi*, 24, from Nairobi, spent two years as the other woman. She watched him deceive his girlfriend with elaborate lies, fake locations and effortless manipulation. 

    She told herself the same thing wouldn’t happen to her. Now she can’t trust any man, because she knows exactly how easy it is to build a secret life.

    Other Woman

    How did you meet him?

    We met at a concert. I was actually with another man at the time, a friend who became my boyfriend. I saw him walk by and was immediately intrigued. He looked tall, handsome, and sure of himself. With a little bit of liquid courage, I approached him, told him I liked what I saw and asked for his number. It was an ego thing for me then, and that was as far as I was willing to take it. I called him so he could get mine, then deleted his number from my phone. If he was interested, he’d reach out.

    And did he?

    We didn’t talk for months, until one day he saw me on TikTok and sent me a DM telling me that I looked familiar. I had forgotten the whole ordeal at that point, so I thought it was just a corny line until he reminded me about the concert. He was single at the time.

    He asked for my number and called me immediately, and we got to talking. He was very straightforward and asked me what I wanted out of talking to him and if I was ready to be in a relationship. He must’ve liked my answers, because he asked me out. But it was to the club, so I knew he wasn’t going to take me seriously.

    Still, I went out with him and had a fun night out, then went back home. The next time we hung out was at another concert, and this time I went home with him and we spent the entire weekend together. 

    So when did the girlfriend enter the picture?

    That first weekend we spent together, he asked me if I liked him enough to date, and I said no. He told me he was also talking to another woman, and eventually, he decided to go with her. That was the first time I experienced someone choosing another person over me. It hurt, actually.

    But you stayed?

    I considered it my “grey moral area.”

    Grey moral area?

    I am a sucker for a gentleman. It’s very easy to win me over when I feel like you know what needs to be done and you do it without being asked. I found him emotionally intelligent. He would anticipate my needs and fulfil them without me having to ask. And it wasn’t just the big things. I would lie uncomfortably on his sofa, and he would immediately get me a pillow. If he saw that I wanted to drink some water and there was none left in my cup, he’d get it for me. I found him extremely considerate.

    And the conversations were great, because he was also book smart. I felt like I was in a judgment-free zone because there was nothing I could tell him that shocked him. That means I could be authentically myself and he’d just accept it. These qualities made it easy for me to justify being with him.

    So you fell in love with him?

    Hmmmm. There was a short period of time when I could have sworn I loved him, but looking back, I was just infatuated and maybe had a little crush on him. It became a manageable emotion, and as time progressed, it dissipated completely, and we became actual friends, so I genuinely enjoyed him as a person.

    How did you manage knowing he had a girlfriend the whole time?

    It was a struggle, but I learned to take it as it was: moments between two people who enjoyed each other, without expecting it to turn into anything substantive. It would, of course, suck when he would take me to places, then meet his girlfriend after, or talk to me about her, but the more he did those things, the more I detached and started viewing the affair as something of a side quest. Doing it for the plot type thing.

    Wait. He would talk to you about her?

    We spoke about her. I knew her name, what she did, where she stayed, and her life story. It was like I was secretly third-wheeling their relationship. I knew when they got into fights and made excuses for her, convinced him to forgive her in situations where he felt he couldn’t. It was like I was making up for the betrayal by consistently vouching for her, validating her feelings, and asking him to talk things out with her.

    Why would you do that?

    I don’t know. Maybe guilt? Maybe trying to balance the scales somehow? But the strangest part was when she would call while I was there.

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    What would happen when she called?

    I had never experienced that sort of thing, so at first I was heavily disturbed and a little heartbroken, but not for me. For her. I would go sit away from them as they were usually on video call, and she must not have trusted him much herself, because she would ask to see his room so she could confirm that he was alone.

    I swore to myself time and again that I wouldn’t allow it to happen to me, but I kept going back, and it kept happening, and I guess the human spirit really is resilient. I lost a bit of my soul every time it happened, and soon his asking me to leave just became part of the experience. I stopped being bothered. When that happened, I would sit in the living room and watch a comfort show until he came to tell me they were done talking.

    But you kept going back. Why?

    I did mention that I am a sucker for a gentleman. He opened all doors for me, cooked for me, was emotionally available (when we hung out), introduced me to his friends, got me flowers, gave me advice, and he was a great lay, of course. I didn’t think I wanted a relationship when I was seeing him, so all these things became a substitute, like getting relationship treatment without being in one.

    So how did it end?

    He wrote me a long paragraph in the middle of the night explaining that we could no longer see each other because he had decided to start being faithful, which I found ridiculous, because cheating taints you, and changes you, and once you start doing it you cannot stop. I read the paragraph, then blocked him: let him figure things out by himself.

    It didn’t really bother me, surprisingly. I found other things to do and moved on from the situation very quickly. That’s when the epiphany that I was not as in love as I had thought I was hit.

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    What would happen when she called?

    I had never experienced that sort of thing, so at first I was heavily disturbed and a little heartbroken, but not for me. For her. I would go sit away from them as they were usually on video call, and she must not have trusted him much herself, because she would ask to see his room so she could confirm that he was alone.

    I swore to myself time and again that I wouldn’t allow it to happen to me, but I kept going back, and it kept happening, and I guess the human spirit really is resilient. I lost a bit of my soul every time it happened, and soon his asking me to leave just became part of the experience. I stopped being bothered. When that happened, I would sit in the living room and watch a comfort show until he came to tell me they were done talking.

    But you kept going back. Why?

    I did mention that I am a sucker for a gentleman. He opened all doors for me, cooked for me, was emotionally available (when we hung out), introduced me to his friends, got me flowers, gave me advice, and he was a great lay, of course. I didn’t think I wanted a relationship when I was seeing him, so all these things became a substitute, like getting relationship treatment without being in one.

    So how did it end?

    He wrote me a long paragraph in the middle of the night explaining that we could no longer see each other because he had decided to start being faithful, which I found ridiculous, because cheating taints you, and changes you, and once you start doing it you cannot stop. I read the paragraph, then blocked him: let him figure things out by himself.

    It didn’t really bother me, surprisingly. I found other things to do and moved on from the situation very quickly. That’s when the epiphany that I was not as in love as I had thought I was hit.

    Would you have ended it yourself if he hadn’t?

    No, I would not have walked away. Our connection became something of a convenience, and it worked for me, so I would’ve stayed until it became inconvenient for me.

    That’s… intense. How do you feel about it now?

    The experience ruined the naïveté I had when approaching relationships. It brought to light the fact that nothing can tame a man who has decided to be wild. They would be on the phone all the time; she had his location on, but he would send me money, then leave his phone at home and then take me out on a date. I would then pay with the money he sent me.

    Nothing a man does will ever make me fully trust him, because I know that for as long as we’re not physically together, he really could be building a whole other life with someone else. I have sworn off dating since then.

    Sworn off dating completely?

    I have not tried dating after the experience, and at times, I feel like I sold my soul in exchange. I cannot form a connection with a man whom I already don’t trust, so I have stuck to casual flings that require no accountability. It’s a slippery slope, I admit, but that’s just what it is.

    Trust is off the table for me, and that applies to every single man I have met after the situation and will meet beyond. It is now an abstract word that means nothing to me.

    What do you think you were searching for in all of this?

    I think I entered it without thinking of the long-term emotional repercussions. I thought I was doing something “for the plot,” but it damaged me in ways committed relationships have not. I liked the attention, but it was very inconsistent because we would only talk exclusively when we were physically together.

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    How do you see yourself now after everything?

    I have had to make peace with the fact that I cannot call myself a good person, because I intentionally became intimate with a man I was fully aware was in a relationship with another woman. I also cannot call myself a bad person, because my intention was not to hurt her or cause her any pain. I’m just a human being.

    Sometimes I indulge in destructive tendencies for fun, or curiosity. I am not above many things I thought I was above, and most of the things I have judged about other people, I have ended up doing. That humbles you. It has taught me to give myself grace and extend it to others. All I can do is try to be better every day.

    If you could go back and tell your younger self something, what would it be?

    I would have told her that the temporary thrill she was after would cause lifelong consequences, and to think carefully before giving in. I would tell her to use that time to build herself, find hobbies, and find her person. I would tell her to protect the trust she had for other people, the benefit of the doubt she gave so easily. I would tell her to be more considerate of the other woman, and maybe to warn her about what was happening so she was aware.

    What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned?

    The biggest lesson I learned was that people will do what feels good to them without thinking of anybody else. They will lie to you, betray you, and all those other things, as long as it makes them feel good. This realisation has made me become selfish in my dealings with others.

    I have also learned that cheating can never be termed as a mistake. It requires a lot of scheming, and therefore, a lot of thought goes into its planning and actualisation. It also made me very scared of getting into a relationship, because imagine another woman knowing every detail of my life, and I’m just seated there, unaware.

    I have learned that love is a facade, and so is faithfulness. Do I think that there are men who don’t cheat on their partners? Possibly, but I am so far removed from the concept that I don’t think they exist. But maybe that’s also just me, condemning myself to eternal damnation as atonement.

    I have learned to focus on myself and to suppress the need to be loved because love and betrayal are served on the same platter, where I come from.

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  • Nollywood is renowned globally for its dramatic storytelling. Still, nothing elevates a film quite like a brilliant, jaw-dropping plot twist that leads viewers confidently down one path before suddenly ripping the rug out from under their feet.

    From family secrets and boardroom betrayals to supernatural reversals and hidden identities, these movies have major spoilers and plots designed to make you gasp, rewind, and question everything that shows on your screen.

    To avoid ruining it for you in case you still want to be surprised, we’ve tagged the plot twist so you can avoid it. 

    10. Men In Love (2010)

    Running time: 1h 15m

    Director: Moses Ebere

    Genre: Drama

    The marriage of Charles (John Dumelo) and Whitney (Tonto Dikeh) is under strain due to Charles’ persistent serial cheating. They attempt a vacation to save their relationship, but Charles’ distraction by other women continues. Complicating matters further, Charles’ old friend, Alex (Muna Obiekwe), arrives and begins making aggressive romantic advances toward him, unexpectedly inserting a subplot involving Alex’s homosexuality.

    Plot Twist: Here, the plot of an already bad movie veers into the absurd and ignorant territory of early 2000s filmmaking in Nollywood. After building up the drama around Alex’s same-sex attraction, the shocking twist follows: Alex is not, in fact, gay. Instead, Nollywood explains away his attraction as a “demonic curse” — a literal spell cast by a village witch — ridiculously establishing queerness as an infectious problem rather than a genuine identity.

    Watch Men In Love on YouTube.

    9. Captured (2025)

    Running time: 1h 50m

    Director: Jide ‘Blaze’ Oyegbile

    Genre: Thriller, Drama

    This is a drama about a missing child and the emotional turmoil of a broken family trying to find her. The search for the kidnapped child intensifies, focusing on who could possibly be holding her captive and why. The tension builds around a desperate, unknown threat trying to extort the family.

    Plot Twist: The whole mystery is turned upside down when it’s revealed that the kidnapping was staged by the child herself. She orchestrated the entire disappearance and ransom demand to get back at her dad for treating her mom badly and to secure enough money to get her and them out of the country.

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    8. Devil Is A Liar (2025)

    Running time: 1h 39m

    Director: Moses Inwang

    Genre: Drama, Thriller

    Adaora Phillips (Nse Ikpe-Etim) is a successful, career-driven woman who’s being harassed by society for being unmarried. She finally meets Jaiye, a younger man who seems too perfect to be true. They marry, but the perfection shatters when Jaiye begins to psychologically torment her, slowly isolating her and stripping her of her career and self-worth.

    Plot Twist: The entire narrative of Adaora as a victim who must claw her way back from ruin after Jaiye bankrupts her serves as a setup. The shocking reveal is that Adaora engineered the entire relationship, the marriage, and the subsequent “financial ruin” as a long game for revenge against Jaiye for something he did to her years ago. She faked her own breakdown and calculated every single step to bring him down.

    Watch Devil Is A Liar on Netflix.

    7. The Set Up (2019)

    Running time: 1h 44m

    Director: Niyi Akinmolayan

    Genre: Crime, Thriller

    Chike (Adesua Etomi-Wellington), a former drug trafficker, is rescued from the law and hired by Madam Enitan (Tina Mba) to work with Edem (Jim Iyke) to execute an elaborate, high-stakes con. They are going to defraud a seemingly naive heiress, Motunrayo (Dakore Egbuson-Akande) of her massive fortune. 

    Plot Twist: Chike thinks she’s the one running the game, expertly navigating fake identities, double-crosses, and dangerous associates. We soon realize that Chike is merely a pawn in Madam Enitan’s game, a tool she plans to hand over to law enforcement for her past involvement in the drug world. When Chike discovers her betrayal, she turns the tables on her madam.

    Watch The Set Up on Netflix.

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    6. Red Circle (2025)

    Running time: 1h 59m

    Director: Akay Ilozobhie

    Genre: Crime Thriller

    Fikayo Holloway (Folu Storm), a journalist from an elite Lagos family, goes rogue to investigate a highly dangerous, organised crime ring known as the “Red Circle.” Driven by her journalistic integrity and a desire to expose the darkness hidden beneath Lagos’s wealth, she closes in on the syndicate’s shadowy operations, facing threats that hit uncomfortably close to her wealthy home.

    Plot Twist: The betrayal is exposed in the final act as the matriarch of the Holloway family is revealed to be the leader of the Red Circle crime syndicate she is investigating.

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    5. The Black Book (2023)

    Running time: 2h 7m

    Director: Editi Effiong

    Genre: Crime, Action Thriller

    Paul Edima (Richard Mofe-Damijo), a devout church deacon, is forced to return to his dark past as an assassin when corrupt police officers, working for the nefarious General Issa (Alex Usifo), unjustly murder his innocent son. Edima embarks on a brutal, John Wick-style quest for revenge, assisted by Victoria Kalu (Ade Laoye), a journalist.

    Plot Twist: Shockingly, Edima was General Issa’s former top assassin, and one of the last jobs he carried out before leaving his dark life was killing the mother of Victoria Kalu, the investigative journalist helping him expose Issa. Edima’s path to justice for his son is inextricably linked to seeking atonement for the sin of murdering Victoria’s mother years ago. His revenge mission is a twisted form of penance.

    Watch The Black Book on Netflix.

    4. The Figurine (2009)

    Running time: 2h 2m

    Director: Kunle Afolayan

    Genre: Thriller

    Two friends, Sola (Kunle Afolayan) and Femi (Ramsey Nouah), find a mystical wooden figurine of the goddess Araromire in an abandoned shrine during their NYSC camp. According to the legend, the figurine grants seven years of unbelievable good luck, followed immediately by seven years of devastating bad luck.

    Sola takes the figurine, and both friends achieve wild success. Seven years later, the bad luck starts, and Femi begins to struggle, convinced the goddess is exacting her price.

    Plot Twist: However, the crushing twist is that Femi had been orchestrating the bad luck all along. Driven mad by his unrequited love for Mona (Omoni Oboli), Sola’s wife, Femi meticulously orchestrated all the “bad luck” events and even murdered people to make Sola appear cursed and unworthy of Mona.

    Watch The Figurine on YouTube.

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    3. A Weekend to Forget (2023)

    Running time: 1h 38m

    Director: Damola Ademola

    Genre: Thriller, Mystery

    A group of seven friends gather for a fancy weekend getaway. One of them ends up dead in the swimming pool, and their motives start coming to the fore: from old grudges, to unfaithful spouses, to just being rich and miserable. The detective on the case begins the gruelling process of exposing who among them is the murderer.

    Plot Twist: After countless hours of finger-pointing and dredging up old secrets, the intense whodunit finally delivers a shocking climax. The victim, Ndali (Erica Nlewedim), was not killed by any of the main suspects. Instead, the killer is revealed to be Bem (Neo Akpofure), the quiet, harmless-seeming boyfriend of one of the friends, who was barely an active part of the core group.

    Watch A Weekend to Forget on Prime Video.

    2. October 1 (2014)

    Running time: 2h 29m

    Director: Kunle Afolayan

    Genre: Thriller, Mystery

    It’s 1960, and Nigeria is about to gain Independence. A serial killer is murdering young, virgin women in the sleepy town of Akote. Inspector Danladi Waziri (Sadiq Baba) is tasked with solving the case quietly and identifying the culprit before October 1st arrives. When the inspector gets to the root of the mysterious killings, he realises that the killer is the town’s beloved crown prince Aderopo, who just returned from the U.K.

    Aderopo’s murders are revealed to be an act of revenge stemming from years of sexual abuse he suffered alongside his friend, Agbekoya (Kunle Afolayan), at the hands of the seemingly benevolent and the white colonial priest Reverend Dowling.

    Plot Twist: The colonial government orders Waziri to cover up the truth to avoid scandalising Independence Day.

    Watch October 1 on YouTube.

    1. A Green Fever (2023)

    Running time: 1h 51m

    Director: Taiwo Egunjobi

    Genre: Neo-Noir, Thriller

    Kunmi Braithwaite (Temilolu Fosudo), an architect, is travelling with his daughter when she suddenly falls ill with a rare, life-threatening green fever. In desperation, he seeks shelter at a secluded mansion owned by the secretive Colonel Bashiru (William Benson) and his girlfriend, Mathilda (Ruby Precious Okezie).

    Plot Twist: As we get deeper into the story, the plot twist slowly unravels. The story of the sick daughter is a lie. The green fever is also a lie. Kunmi is just an architect hired to steal classified documents from the Colonel.

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  • Money comes slowly: salary alerts, small profits, or transfers that take forever to land. But once in a while, there’s that one day when everything clicks. A deal lands, the hustle pays off, or life just surprises you. We asked five Nigerians to share the stories behind their biggest single-day earnings.

    “I got sprayed up to ₦1 Million on my wedding day” — Bisi, 33

    I earn a decent income. ₦500,000 a month. That’s about ₦25000 per day. So imagine my shock when, in one night, I counted almost ₦1 million.

    It was my wedding day in 2023. I wasn’t thinking about money at all. My mind was on the little details: ensuring our coverage went according to plan, that my husband and I looked perfect in pictures, and that my makeup wouldn’t melt before the reception.

    But once the party started, the entire hall turned into a rainstorm of naira and dollar notes. People sprayed from every direction — friends, aunties, uncles, even colleagues I hadn’t spoken to in months. My bridal train had one job: gather everything.

    They moved around with bags and trays, scooping up cash as I danced. I remember laughing between songs, my dress heavy from movement.

    Later that night, in the hotel room, my best friends and I sat cross-legged on the floor, counting the money. We found ₦700,000 in naira notes and $500 in dollar bills, mostly ones and fives. Altogether, it came to almost ₦1 million.

    The following week, I made the bank deposit and laughed. Weddings are expensive, yes, but at least some of the money found its way back to me.

    “I was in camp with no laptop, staring at a $350 opportunity. I took a leap of faith” — Ahmed, 25

    I was broke when I left for NYSC camp in 2022  — the kind where you calculate every naira you spend because you know there’s no backup.

    I was a designer on the Fiverr platform, but things had been slow for months. I hadn’t had an order in almost eight weeks. I still had a few returning clients, but they weren’t as consistent as I needed. When I checked my balance the week before camp, I had about ₦100,000 left — savings from my last few gigs.

    That money had to cover everything: travel up north to Kebbi, all my camp essentials, and whatever I needed to survive for three weeks. By the time I got to camp, I had about ₦40,000 left. I needed to stay lowkey, spend as little as possible, and hopefully have enough left for transport back home.

    The first week of camp went by in a blur of drills, lectures, and noise. Then, one Friday morning during Skills Acquisition and Entrepreneurship Development (SAED), I randomly opened my Fiverr account, and there it was: a new order.

    An American client had sent a request for a photo manipulation project — one of my specialities. I quickly replied, quoted $350, and after a bit of back-and-forth, we agreed on the price.

    I remember staring at the message for a full minute, my heart racing. But there was one big problem: I was in camp with no laptop.

    On Fiverr, clients pay upfront. The platform holds the money until you deliver, and the client marks it complete. If you cancel, it messes with your ratings and visibility. I didn’t want to lose the order, but I also didn’t have the tools to get it done.

    That night, I found a workaround. I switched from my seller account to the buyer side on Fiverr and found a designer in India with good reviews. I took a leap of faith, explained the concept, paid him $20 from my balance, and asked for a 24-hour delivery. He sent a clean and impressive output back the next day.

    I spent a few extra hours reviewing the work, suggesting minor edits to match my usual style, and sent it off on the third day. The client loved it. Five stars. No revision requests.

    When Fiverr released the money, I remember sitting on my bunk bed just grinning. $350 had landed while I was in camp. I hadn’t just made money; I’d learned something bigger: the power of delegation.

    For the first time, I understood that I didn’t have to do everything myself to earn more. If I could find good hands and manage them well, I could take on more work, deliver faster, and still make a profit.

    Related: The 10 Best Passive Income Ideas for Nigerians in 2025

    “I didn’t plan to start a business, but by the end of the first day, I’d made ₦40,000”— Titi, 22

    During the 2022 ASUU strike, my mum sent me to a tailoring shop to learn fashion design. 

    While I spent almost eight months there, I learned almost nothing. On most days, I ran errands, ironed finished clothes, or stoned dresses for customers. I barely touched a sewing machine. It felt like free labour disguised as training. My parents even bought me a sewing machine to encourage me, but after the strike, I knew I wasn’t going back. I couldn’t sew an attire from start to finish.

    When school resumed, everyone around me was launching businesses. Since I had nothing going on, I decided to start one, too.

    Tote bags were a popular trend on campus, featuring custom designs, quirky quotes, and aesthetically pleasing prints. Everyone had one, so I decided to launch a tote bag business.

    Thanks to the tailoring shop, I knew my way around fabric markets. I watched YouTube tutorials, picked out catchy designs from Pinterest, and bought about 7 yards of denim for ₦5,000. In one week, I had 12 tote bags ready. I found a good printer to bring the designs to life.

    I took bright photos and started posting everywhere: WhatsApp status, hostel groups, school chats, and WhatsApp TV ads. Each bag sold for ₦3,500. Friends, family, and coursemates showed up to support, and orders kept rolling in online. 

    By the end of the first day, I’d sold out all 12 and made ₦40,000. I remember staring at the total like, Wait, this is real?

    That weekend, I went home to make another batch. The following week, I sold out again. It became a rhythm throughout that semester: sew, print, sell, repeat.

    After that semester, I had to stop. Sales had dwindled— everyone on campus was suddenly selling tote bags, and the market got too crowded. That launch day ended up being my biggest cash-out before I finally closed shop.

    “I claimed a $2000 crypto airdrop in one day” — Basit, 24

    I spent most of 2024 grinding on Discord and Twitter, trying to stay visible in the Web3 communities. Every day, I joined project servers, dropped comments, completed testnets, basically trial versions of blockchain projects where users help test features, ran nodes, which means keeping a small part of the network active on my system, and posted updates. Most people said it was a waste of time, but I believed in one particular project.

    Many people jumped in when it launched. Then, after a few weeks, most lost interest and moved on. But  I didn’t. 

    I continued to test, provide feedback, and show up in the community. Some nights, I’d still be on Discord at 2 a.m., working on one on-chain task after another, telling myself , it’ll pay off.

    Six months later, in December, it finally did. I woke up to Twitter going crazy — the project’s airdrop had gone live. I rushed to connect my wallet, half-expecting to see nothing. Then it showed: I was eligible. I could claim 100,000 units of the token.

    That same day, I sold everything and made $2000. It felt surreal — this was my first crypto airdrop and the first time I’d made that much money from crypto in a single day.

    People like to call it luck, but I know it wasn’t. I earned it. I showed up long after everyone stopped caring.

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     “I ran a Christmas chicken hustle that paid me ₦75,000 in one day” — Gbenga, 35

    I didn’t plan to sell chickens that Christmas. But work had been slow all year, and I needed quick money before the holidays. Then, one random day in December 2024, an idea clicked.

    I approached a chicken vendor down my street and suggested a deal: he’d supply the birds, and I’d handle the marketing. I created a few simple flyers, designed some catchy posts, and started pushing them across Facebook and WhatsApp groups. The pitch was straightforward: “Order your Christmas chicken without leaving home.”

    At the time, a whole chicken cost ₦18,000 to ₦20,000. But because I was buying directly from him at ₦15,000, I earned between ₦3,000 and ₦5,000 on each sale.

    The first few days were slow. I sold maybe two or three birds a day. However, I continued posting, replying to every message, and sharing testimonials from satisfied customers to establish trust. Then, on Christmas Eve, everything changed.

    From morning till afternoon, my phone wouldn’t stop buzzing. Families, offices, churches — everyone wanted chickens. By the end of the day, I had sold 15 birds, bringing in almost ₦300,000 in revenue. My profit? ₦75,000 in one day.

    By Boxing Day, the rush was over, but I didn’t care. That Christmas showed me that with the right idea and good timing, even a last-minute hustle can pay off well.

    Read Next: 5 Nigerians Break Down the Side Hustles That Pay More Than Their Salaries

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  • Someone you know has left or is planning to leave. 1,000 Ways To Japa speaks to real people and explores the endless reasons and paths they take to japa.

    Steve spent five years preparing for a fully-funded scholarship that would change his life. In 2025, he received the Swedish Institute Scholarship, and his life changed forever. In this story, he shares how he did it. 

    Where do you currently live, and when did you leave Nigeria?

    I currently live in Sweden. I left Nigeria on August 19, 2025.

    Oh wow! Congratulations.

    Thank you!

    What was life like for you before leaving Nigeria?

    I was in Lagos, but most of my friends weren’t. I came to Lagos in 2023 to resume a job. Later, I took on the role of Social Media Manager for Tera Academy for the Arts, which is owned by Terra Kulture and Bolanle Austen-Peters Productions.

    Then, sometime in December 2024, I was promoted to Head of Communications and Marketing. That was the role I held until I left. Most of my social interactions were with the few friends I had in Lagos and through work-related activities. Terra Kulture is a cultural hub, so there were always opportunities to interact and socialise with people there.

    Sounds like you have a good life. What inspired you to apply for the Swedish Institute Scholarship, and how did you hear about it?

    Honestly, I was inspired to apply because I wanted to further my education in communications and marketing. Before applying for the Swedish Institute (SI)Scholarship, I had already started a course with the Chartered Institute of Marketing in the UK. While I was on that, I decided I wanted to pursue a full master’s degree in communication, with marketing attached to it.

    I first heard about the Swedish Institute Scholarship for Global Professionals on December 29th, 2019. From that moment, I started working towards it because I wanted to take one shot and make it count. So, I spent the next five years putting the pieces together to make sure I was ready. From October 2024 to February 2025, I made my application, and it was successful.

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    That’s amazing. What helped improve your chances?

    I got it on my first attempt, and the most important thing that helped me was research. There’s no substitute for that. Applying for the SI Scholarship requires a lot of personal work because it’s your story; no one can tell it for you.

    I spent years reading every page on their website, watching thousands of hours of YouTube videos, and gathering resources. It’s a very competitive scholarship; they receive over 9,000 applicants every year and only select 2–3%. So, I studied every cycle, looked at what successful applicants did differently, and refined my approach year after year until I was ready to apply.

    Can you walk me through the step-by-step process, especially for people who want to apply?

    The Swedish Institute Scholarship for Global Professionals is not like other scholarships; it’s targeted at professionals who have worked in their fields and made an impact aligned with the UN Sustainable Development Goals.

    The process starts with an application for admission to a Swedish university. You need to first gain admission before being considered for the scholarship. The entire process begins every October.

    I started my university application in October 2024. By November, the scholarship board (which is separate from the university) releases the application documents so you can start preparing.

    You select your courses by January 15th, which is the deadline. Then, in the first week of February, university admissions close. By the second week of February, the SI Scholarship application officially opens, and you only have two weeks to submit your application.

    By late March, university admission results are released. In my case, I got my first-choice admission at Lund University. Then, by late April, the scholarship results come out. That’s when you know if you’ve been awarded funding, and from there, you can start planning your travel to Sweden.

    What advice would you give to people applying this year? Any tips you wish you had known earlier?

    My biggest advice is: do the work yourself. I get people asking me to help them apply or even offering to pay, but I’m not an agent, and even if I were helping, I wouldn’t charge. My advice is always: go back and do the research.

    Be committed to it. I won’t tell anyone to put all their eggs in one basket, like I did; it worked for me, but it might not work for everyone. Another thing: read between the lines. English isn’t the first language for the Swedes, so some instructions might be worded in a way that could confuse you.

    Pay close attention to every single detail because I almost made a mistake with the work experience section, which is crucial. They’re very strict with instructions. There are no second chances or late submissions. If you miss something, you’ll have to wait till next year.

    You got the scholarship on your first try. What do you think you did exceptionally well that made them say yes?

    I put together a very strong application. I provided everything they asked for and more. I also had a supportive organisation behind me, Tera Academy for the Arts.

    For example, one of the requirements is to prove that you’ve worked for at least 3,000 hours — full-time, part-time, or freelance. Many people struggle with that because they don’t provide the proof in the format the Swedish Institute wants. People also make mistakes with document stamps, reference letters, or even the order of names.

    I ensured every detail was correct and every document followed instructions. Scholarship applications are competitions, so you must put your best foot forward. Read everything carefully and present your experiences — work, leadership, documents — exactly as instructed.

    You’ve mentioned a few times that English isn’t their first language. What’s it like living in a country where people speak a different language?

    They speak Swedish, but everyone I’ve met so far also speaks English. You can live comfortably in Sweden without speaking Swedish. 

    However, if you plan to integrate into society by volunteering, working part-time, or building relationships, learning Swedish helps. They even have a program called Swedish for Immigrants (SFI) that makes it easy to learn. So, you don’t need to speak Swedish to live here, but if you want to truly belong, it’s good to learn.

    What’s it like studying there, especially since most Nigerians go to the UK or the US?

    The education system here is excellent. They take honesty seriously. For example, if a website doesn’t have an updated picture of a building, they’d rather not post it than mislead people. That’s how serious they are about accuracy and integrity.

    The same values reflect in their schools. The resources, facilities, and lecturers are top-notch and very responsive. They’re also informal; you call professors by their first names, and they make sure you feel comfortable and included. There’s no discrimination in resource allocation, and they emphasise sustainable, progressive learning. Everything is world-class. The only thing they don’t joke with is plagiarism; it’s treated almost like a crime. So, everyone is careful about academic integrity.

    Could you share exactly what you’re studying and how you chose it?

    Sure. Selecting my course was a two-step process. First, I had to find a course that the Swedish Institute was willing to sponsor because not every course qualifies. Every year, they release a list of about 700 eligible courses.

    After finding the eligible courses, I had to check if I was qualified by asking myself questions like, do I have the background, the credits, and relevant experience? I wanted something heavy on communication but also covering marketing, PR, advertising, crisis communication, and brand strategy. I found all that in the Strategic Communication course at Lund University. 

    For anyone applying, don’t just pick any course. Make sure it’s one sponsored by the scholarship, or you might not be able to afford it.

    Do you see yourself staying in Sweden after your studies?

    Not necessarily, but all options are on the table. One of the main goals of the scholarship is for us to go back and contribute to our home countries. The future is still about 20 months away, but I definitely want to give back in whatever capacity I can.

    On a scale of one to ten, how happy are you in Sweden?

    I’d say ten. People talk about the “honeymoon phase” when you first arrive, but it’s been two months, and I’m still very happy. The system works for everyone.

    There are things I didn’t even realise should just work until I experienced them here. Everything is organised, people are cared for, and the environment makes life easier. There’s really a lot to be happy about.

     Want to share your japa story? Please reach out to me here. 

  • Scanfrost, one of Nigeria’s most trusted names in home and kitchen appliances, has announced Hilda Baci, the Guinness World Record–breaking chef and celebrated culinary entrepreneur, as its newest brand ambassador.

    Hilda’s inspiring story of passion, excellence, and perseverance perfectly aligns with Scanfrost’s values of reliability, innovation, and quality. From her record-breaking cookathon to her growing impact in the culinary and lifestyle space, Hilda continues to represent the strength and creativity of the modern Nigerian.

    Hilda Baci, Scanfrost Ambassador

    Speaking on the partnership, Ajit Nair, Group Managing Director, C.G.C.L, said, “We are delighted to welcome Hilda Baci to the Scanfrost family. Her authenticity, energy, and entrepreneurial drive reflect the values that have guided Scanfrost for over four decades. Together, we look forward to inspiring Nigerians to create memorable experiences at home and beyond.”

    Ashok Dimri, Business Head, C.G.C.L, added, “Hilda’s influence goes beyond the kitchen; she embodies resilience, creativity, and ambition. These are the same values we build into every Scanfrost product. We believe this partnership will deepen our connection with consumers who see home appliances as essential partners in their everyday lives.”

    (L-R) Bhupendra Bisht, VP Technical, AAVA Brands, Alfred Jarikre, Marketing Manager, Scanfrost, Chinenye Chukwunwenwa, Marketing Operations, Scanfrost, Ashok Dimri, Business Head, CGCL, Hilda Baci, Scanfrost Brand Ambassador, Ajit

    Hilda Baci, Scanfrost Ambassador added, “Scanfrost has been part of our homes for generations, and partnering with them feels like coming full circle. It’s a brand that represents hard work, trust, and real Nigerian living – everything I stand for.”

    Alfred Jarikre, Marketing Manager, Scanfrost Nigeria, noted, “Hilda brings a fresh, youthful, and dynamic energy to the Scanfrost brand. This collaboration is not just about endorsement but about storytelling, showing how everyday Nigerians can make more of their moments with Scanfrost.”

    As part of the partnership, Hilda will feature in Scanfrost’s advertising campaigns, digital content, and lifestyle projects across Nigeria, with a focus on food, family, and home innovation.

    About Scanfrost
    Scanfrost is a leading home and kitchen appliance brand in Nigeria, with a 40+ year heritage of quality, innovation, and trust. Its product lines span cooling, cooking, laundry, and small household appliances.

  • Money and responsibilities have a way of testing relationships beyond love and good intentions. From rent and groceries to fuel and date nights, someone always has to pay. But how do couples decide who handles what? We asked Nigerians how they share financial responsibilities and what balance looks like in their relationships.

    “Nobody is coming to save me” — Helen, 29 

    For Helen*, financial independence isn’t just a choice but a principle. 

    “I’ve worked hard to earn my place, and I take that seriously. I don’t believe anyone is coming to save me. Bills don’t have to be split 50-50 because that’s not always realistic. Whoever earns more should contribute more, but both partners should take responsibility in a way that reflects their respective incomes.

    I’m in a serious relationship, and we live together. I don’t expect him to handle all our bills alone. For groceries and household expenses, we split things fairly based on what makes sense at the time. For dates, whoever initiates pays, and it’s been working well for us.

    I don’t believe in the idea that I shouldn’t lift a finger. It’s nice when someone spoils you, but full dependence often comes at a cost — sometimes resentment, other times control. I value my autonomy, and I’d rather keep it than trade it for comfort.”

    “I don’t expect my wife to contribute” — Odogwu* 39

    In his case, being the provider is non-negotiable, even if it means carrying most of the weight alone.

    “I handle about 95% of the finances in my marriage because I believe that’s my primary responsibility. My wife works at a microfinance bank, and in the five years we’ve been married, I’ve never asked how much she earns. I cover all the bills and even give her extra money to buy things for herself.

    The only way she contributes is by adding to the money I give her for house upkeep. Every month, I give her about ₦60k, and I know she still tops it up with her own income. She also buys household items or décor when she wants, and I never question it.

    I don’t ever want to depend on my wife for money. If she supports, that’s fine, but I should still be able to handle my home.”

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    “I regret starting out with a joint account” — Lilian, 43

    Lilian* learnt the hard way that financial transparency in marriage should never come at the cost of personal freedom.

    “My husband and I run a joint account — something I wouldn’t recommend to anyone. It started as a good idea. We both earn about the same, so we decided to combine our salaries and split the bills. At first, I liked being involved and thought it would help us build a stable home. But over time, I realised it worked more in his favour.

    He’s the main signatory, so I go through him for every expense. After paying bills, whatever is left stays in an account I can’t access. It got so bad that I couldn’t even buy things for myself or my children without going through him. Even my fuel money came from him. Imagine working hard for your own salary but still needing permission to spend it.

    In December 2022, my mum fell critically ill. My siblings needed money for her treatment, and since I earned the most, they turned to me. I asked my husband to release part of my money, but he refused, insisting we should wait till Christmas when we travelled home.

    The next day, I borrowed money from a colleague and sent it to my mum without telling him. She passed away a few days later. He still doesn’t know I sent her the money, but I’m grateful I did. If I hadn’t, I’d never have forgiven myself.

    Since then, I’ve set aside a portion of my salary every month. After what happened, I think guilt stopped him from asking why I’ve stopped remitting my entire pay. He used to search my bags for hidden cash, but that’s stopped too.”

    “There’s no fixed rule in my marriage” — Amina*, 51

    For Amina*, marriage isn’t about rigid expectations. Years of partnership have taught her that financial balance comes from flexibility

    “At first, I believed my husband should handle most of the financial responsibilities while I supported where I could. But with the way the economy is, that’s not realistic. It really depends on what both partners earn.

    In our case, we both work. I handle most of the household expenses, and he takes care of the rent and car bills. For bigger bills like the children’s school fees, we split them. I must contribute, even if it’s not equally. 

    My husband gets irritated when you depend on him completely, so I’ve always made sure I have my own money. Thankfully, I come from a fairly comfortable family, so there have been times I’ve covered rent or emergencies without much stress.

    There’s no fixed rule in our marriage. We just do what works for us in a way that keeps things balanced.”

    “Having a joint account has helped us build trust” — Dele*, 56

    Dele* discovered that finances in his marriage work best through teamwork guided by clear boundaries.

    “My wife and I have tried different systems, but a joint account works best for us. We don’t put our entire income into it, only enough to cover monthly expenses. We calculate our total bills, then each contribute a set amount. For example, I might add ₦200k, and she adds ₦150k. That usually covers everything for the month.

    After that, whatever remains is personal money. I like to save, but my wife spends freely, and I’ve made peace with that. It’s her money, after all.

    For bigger expenses like our joint investments, we both contribute, but not always equally. It depends on who can handle more at the time. Having a joint account has helped us build trust. We don’t fight about money, and we respect each other’s financial choices.

    “Everyone should carry their cross” — Jesse*, 28 

    For Jesse*, financial balance means finding a system that makes sense for both partners’ realities 

    “In relationships, everyone should take care of their own bills. For shared things like dates or hangouts, just split it fairly.

    Marriage is a different ball game because it involves bigger responsibilities like rent, childcare, and long-term planning. A strict 50-50 split doesn’t always make sense. A 60-40 balance is more realistic, depending on who earns more or who’s taking on childbearing responsibilities.

    Of course, things could get complicated if one partner becomes unable to work, like in the case of a disability. I don’t have a perfect answer for that yet, but it’s something to think about.”

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  • From Lagos to Abuja, Nigerians are always on the move, chasing goals, beating deadlines, and navigating busy streets. But managing life shouldn’t be that hard. That’s why Yeex is here, the all-in-one super app created to make everyday living easier, faster, and far more enjoyable for Nigerians everywhere.

    In a world where time is precious and convenience is everything, Yeex is redefining how Nigerians handle their daily essentials. It brings together multiple services into one smooth digital experience, helping users avoid the constant stress of juggling several apps for simple tasks. With Yeex, everything you need is right at your fingertips.

    From Yeex Eats for ordering meals from top restaurants, to Yeex Mall for grocery shopping, Yeex Courier for quick parcel deliveries, Yeex Ride for fast transportation, and Yeex Pharmacy for easy access to trusted medications, the app puts convenience first. Its newest addition, Yeex Errand, goes even further by offering a call-based service where users can simply place an order for food, wine, or groceries, and Yeex handles everything else. The idea is simple, select, order, enjoy.

    Speaking about the brand’s vision, the Founder and CEO explained, “We built Yeex to simplify the chaos of modern living. Nigeria is fast-paced, and people need a smarter way to get things done without stress. Our mission is to make convenience accessible to everyone, every day.”

    Now in October 2025, more Nigerians are resonating deeply with Yeex because it reflects their lifestyle. The brand understands that Nigerians are hardworking, tech-savvy, and value speed and reliability. By combining multiple services into one app, Yeex saves time, reduces digital clutter, and fits seamlessly into the lives of its growing user base.

    Currently, Yeex is focused on Lagos State, where it is refining its services to meet the city’s unique demands before expanding nationwide. This strategic choice allows the brand to perfect its operations in Nigeria’s busiest city. “Lagos is our case study for innovation,” the Founder said. “If our system can handle the intensity of Lagos, it can handle anywhere. We’re learning, adapting, and building around real urban needs.”

    Beyond functionality, Yeex also knows how to keep things exciting. The platform’s virtual loyalty card allows users to earn rewards and win prizes weekly or monthly simply by using the app. It’s a perfect blend of convenience and engagement that keeps users coming back.

    “Technology should make life easier, not more complicated,” the Founder added. “That’s why Yeex merges the services people use every day into one dependable platform. We’re not just building an app, we’re building a lifestyle of simplicity.”

    Yeex is not just another tech brand; it is a lifestyle companion that is transforming urban life in Nigeria while generously rewarding its early adopters. Nigerians who want to make their daily living smoother, faster, and more rewarding can download the Yeex App today and experience true convenience.

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  • Some job titles instantly give women the ick before a single date can even happen. Not because the pay is bad or the work is unserious, but because dating Nigerian men in those industries has already given them premium headache. 

    From insane schedules to red-flag community behaviour, these careers have simply been blacklisted from romance. We asked Nigerian women to speak on the professions that instantly repel them from a potential lover, and they had interesting responses.

    “DJs and their unstable schedules are totally off limits” — Sarah*, 30

    After a brush with someone in nightlife, Sarah swore off anyone whose job involves late nights and endless parties.

    “If I hear you’re a DJ, I’m instantly friend-zoning you. I know what my eyes have seen. 

    In 2021, I dated a DJ who played at one of my favourite pregame spots. It was great at first: he had money and took me to fun places. But a few weeks in, I realised I’d bitten off more than I could chew.

    He was always outside. If he wasn’t playing a gig, someone was inviting him to chill at 2:00 am, and he’d expect me to come along. I work a 9-5, so it ruined my sleep schedule. Then there were the women who threw themselves at him, even in my presence. The worst part? He wouldn’t turn them down directly because he “didn’t want to be rude.” 

    One night, he left me at a smoke-filled house party with strangers to go pick up a friend.  He didn’t return for two hours. I was so tired the next day, I had to admit to myself it wasn’t sustainable, and I broke things off. I didn’t even have the energy to be sad. I first slept the entire weekend to recover my sanity.

    Now, I know I can’t handle it. I can be friends with a DJ, but I’ll definitely never date one again.”

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    “I can’t date anyone in the military” — Modupe*, 25

    For Modupe, one look at her uncle’s marriage was enough reason to blacklist men in uniform.

    “I’m not interested in dating any military personnel. In fact, the moment I hear you’re a paramilitary or have desires to join the army, I’m checking out.

    It’s mostly because of how I saw my uncle treat my aunt. He’d punish her like a child—, asking her to kneel and raise her hands like a baby. I can’t let anyone treat me like that. He also didn’t allow her to have any decision-making power in their relationship. 

    Another big issue was his constant absence. My aunt complained about wanting to grow their family, but couldn’t because he was always being deployed somewhere. Plus, imagine the constant worry of not knowing if your partner will come back home alive or in one piece.

    Abeg, it’s too much stress. Let the soldiers carry their wahala away from me.”

    “I have no desire to be ‘Mummy G.O.’” — Demilade*, 29

    After growing up as a pastor’s kid, Demilade has no intention of dating a man of God herself.

    “My dad pastors a small church in Ibadan, and let me tell you, I can never be with a spiritual leader. He wasn’t a bad father, but he was always emotionally drained. People came to him for prayers, advice, financial assistance, and deliverance. It never ended.

    It was a bit better when I was younger, before phones became more popular. But now? If it’s not a WhatsApp call asking to pray over a job interview link, it’s someone who has roped him into midnight prayers to fight against one spiritual battle or another. He takes it like a champ, but I’ve seen how it made him too tired to give the same attention to my mum or my siblings. It’s as if we support him to properly cater to his flock.

    I admire his work and dedication, but I knew for a long time that I’d never be happy partnering with someone like that. So when suitors talk to me, especially fellow Christians, one of my first questions is, “Do you plan to start your own ministry?” I need to know what I’m signing up for. I don’t want Mummy G.O wahala.”

    “I will never date a doctor again” — Faridah*, 30

    After dating a boyfriend she hardly ever saw, Faridah has sworn off doctors for life.

    “When I moved to Lagos in 2022, I met a handsome doctor at a bar, and soon after, we started seeing each other regularly. He was kind, sweet, and funny, but my main issue was that we hardly ever saw each other. 

    He was an OB-GYN, so most of his patients were pregnant women. That meant he could be called back to the hospital at any time— in the middle of the night, on a date, early in the morning; it didn’t matter. If the baby was coming, my man had to be there. 

    I admire his work, but I wasn’t having my emotional needs met. If he wasn’t at the hospital, he was sleeping. It was hard to say I felt neglected without sounding insensitive. It’s not like he was partying or slacking off; he was working.


    After we had to postpone our Valentine’s date in 2023, I knew I had to make the difficult decision to break up, which I did in April. I think you need to be very understanding to date someone like that, and I’m just not that person.”

    “I can’t take a hypeman seriously” — Sade*, 27

    Sade hasn’t dated one, but she’s convinced a hypeman’s job is too frivolous to be taken seriously.

    “I can never date a hypeman. I’ve met a few and they’re extroverted and fun, but I find their job too unserious to take them seriously as partners.

    Don’t get me wrong, I love a good hypeman at a party; they keep the vibe alive. But I can’t imagine my man shouting ‘dorime no be for civil servants’ and see him as the one taking charge in our relationship. My friends think I’m reaching, but it’s just too much for me. 

    I think it’s the  yelling that turns me off.”

    “I can’t date any man who has to be offshore” — Tola*, 34

    After an unplanned long-distance relationship that didn’t work out, Tola is done dating men whose jobs require them to be away for extended periods.

    “I didn’t use to think a person’s job would affect how I saw them romantically, but a relationship in 2019 showed me a new personal boundary. 

    I started dating my ex in my final year in 2014. He studied engineering, so he had one more year in school. I did my NYSC in the same city, so we still saw each other often.

    After he graduated, he got a job in Rivers state, working on an offshore rig. At first, I was happy. The pay was good, and he loved his job. But soon it started putting a strain on our relationship. We didn’t plan to be in a long-distance relationship, so the sudden switch was uncomfortable. 

    There was hardly network on the rig, so we couldn’t communicate as much as I would have liked. But my biggest issue was how long he stayed away. I complained a lot at first, but I soon realised that I either had to accept the nature of his job or leave the relationship. I tried to manage, but the lack of communication, combined with the long distance, was too much to handle.

    Now, I can’t date someone who works on a rig again. Even if you’re busy, at least let me be able to call or see you when I need to.”

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