• The early years of life of a child represent a critical window for brain development. During this time, toddlers absorb information like little sponges, building neural connections that will serve as the foundation for future learning. But fostering this development doesn’t require expensive toys or elaborate setups!

    Sensory exploration stands at the heart of early childhood learning. Creating simple sensory experiences with everyday materials engages multiple parts of the developing brain simultaneously. You might have seen this website with the game Gates of Olympus and other resources highlighting how multisensory play creates stronger neural pathways than single-sense activities. When toddlers engage their senses, they’re not just having fun—they’re building their brains.

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    Nature Scavenger Hunts: Outdoor Learning Adventures

    Benefits:

    • Builds observational skills
    • Expands vocabulary
    • Develops classification abilities
    • Encourages physical movement

    Quick Tip: Keep scavenger hunts simple with just 3-4 items for younger toddlers. For older toddlers, consider using picture cards of items to find.

    Take a small bag and help your little explorer collect natural treasures. Each discovery becomes an opportunity for conversation: “Look at this smooth rock! Can you find another one?”

    DIY Musical Instruments: Symphony at Home

    Nothing delights toddlers quite like making noise with purpose! Creating homemade instruments transforms ordinary household items into tools for rhythmic exploration.

    Materials you might already have:

    • Empty containers with lids (for shakers)
    • Cardboard boxes (for drums)
    • Rubber bands (for string instruments)
    • Metal pot lids (for cymbals)

    Research shows that musical play strengthens auditory processing pathways and builds the neural framework for later mathematical thinking. Plus, the cooperative nature of making music together helps develop social skills and emotional regulation.

    Cooking Together: Tasty Learning

    Involving toddlers in simple kitchen tasks creates natural learning opportunities while building life skills. Even very young children can:

    1. Pour pre-measured ingredients
    1. Stir batters
    1. Wash fruits and vegetables
    1. Help arrange items on a plate

    During these activities, narrate what’s happening: “We’re adding flour to make our dough sticky. See how it’s changing?” This running commentary builds vocabulary and helps toddlers understand processes and transformations.

    Storytelling with Props: Bringing Books to Life

    Did you know? Acting out stories helps toddlers understand narrative structure, which becomes the foundation for reading comprehension later on.

    Transform story time from passive listening to active engagement by:

    • Using stuffed animals as characters
    • Creating simple stick puppets
    • Acting out familiar scenes together
    • Recording your toddler’s own stories

    This interactive approach bridges the gap between concrete experiences and abstract concepts—a crucial step in cognitive development.

    Open-Ended Art Exploration: Creative Expression

    During these activities, narrate what’s happening: “We’re adding flour to make our dough sticky. See how it’s changing?” This running commentary builds vocabulary and helps toddlers understand processes and transformations.

    Storytelling with Props: Bringing Books to Life

    Did you know? Acting out stories helps toddlers understand narrative structure, which becomes the foundation for reading comprehension later on.

    Transform story time from passive listening to active engagement by:

    • Using stuffed animals as characters
    • Creating simple stick puppets
    • Acting out familiar scenes together
    • Recording your toddler’s own stories

    This interactive approach bridges the gap between concrete experiences and abstract concepts—a crucial step in cognitive development.

    Open-Ended Art Exploration: Creative Expression

    Traditional colouring books have their place, but open-ended art materials offer richer developmental benefits. When toddlers create without prescribed outcomes, they develop:

    Developmental AreaHow Art Helps
    Fine Motor SkillsManipulating materials strengthens hand muscles
    Decision MakingChoosing colors and materials builds executive function
    Emotional RegulationExpressing feelings through art provides healthy outlets
    Mathematical ThinkingExploring patterns, shapes, and spatial relationships

    Simple art station ideas:

    • Play dough with natural materials
    • Large paper with washable paint
    • Collage materials with child-safe glue sticks
    • Chalk on sidewalks or dark paper

    The Most Important Thing to Remember

    The quality of your interaction matters more than the activity itself. Being present and responsive, and following your child’s lead turns ordinary moments into powerful learning experiences.

    Every child develops at their own pace, so focus on the joy of exploration rather than specific milestones. By providing varied, sensory-rich opportunities for play, you’re giving your toddler exactly what they need to flourish.

    What’s your toddler’s favourite activity? Consider starting with that interest and building upon it with one of these development-boosting approaches!

    Conclusion: Small Moments, Big Impact

    These five simple activities demonstrate an important truth about early childhood development: the most powerful learning opportunities often hide in ordinary moments. While the latest educational toys and structured programs have their place, nothing replaces the developmental benefits of hands-on exploration guided by an attentive caregiver.

    Remember these key takeaways as you incorporate these activities into your routine:

    • Consistency trumps complexity — Brief, regular play sessions yield greater benefits than occasional elaborate activities.
    • Process matters more than product — The value lies in the exploration itself, not what gets created or accomplished.
    • Follow their lead — Your child’s natural curiosity will guide you to the most meaningful learning opportunities.

    By weaving these developmental activities into your daily life, you’re not just occupying your toddler’s time—you’re building the foundation for lifelong learning, creativity, and confidence. The investment is minimal, but the impact on your child’s development is immeasurable.

    What will you try first? Start with just one activity this week, observe what engages your child the most, and expand from there. Your toddler’s growing brain will thank you!

  • A Week in the Life” is a weekly Zikoko series that explores the working-class struggles of Nigerians. It captures the very spirit of what it means to hustle in Nigeria and puts you in the shoes of the subject for a week.


    The subject of today’s “A Week In The Life” is a stay-at-home mum looking after a toddler. She talks about having to resign from her job while pregnant, the many ways toddlers try to off themselves and why she has no regrets even though some parts of her life are currently strenuous.

    MONDAY:

    Midnight:

    My day starts at this time for two reasons: either because my son took a late afternoon nap and he hasn’t slept yet, or he’s asleep and I’m boiling hot water and packing his food for when he wakes up around 3 a.m. to eat. 

    Thankfully, today is the latter. 

    The past couple of days have been intense: My son, his royal highness, has been refusing to sleep early, so my husband and I have had to take turns to beg him to sleep, sing for him, give him a night shower, and rock him to sleep under the AC. But, we didn’t do all that before he slept off today. 

    The day started with the voice of my baby waking me up around 10 a.m. In the previous days, my son would probably still be asleep by that time. And that’s why when I looked at the time after waking up, I started his day with a bath, a meal and general grooming activities. By the time I was done at 11 a.m., he was fully prepared to make my day a circus. 

    At one point, I was washing his plates from the morning meal, using my side-eye to monitor him, picking up after his mess and at the same time, considering running away from everything. 

    Before I blinked, it was 1 p.m. and I found myself changing diapers because he had pooed. Afterwards, I fed him again. Then I spent the next few hours fighting him for my phone to prevent him from smashing the phone or downloading weird apps and videos. 

    One minute I was hiding my phone, the next, it was 3 p.m. and I was setting the mood for nap time. Down went the blinds, up went the A.C, out went the diapers, into his tummy went water and then baby was gently rocked.  

    The moment I heard his first snore, I put him gently into his cot, tiptoed away quietly, and crammed all of the day’s chores into his sleep time. By the time I heard his first cry two hours later, I had already successfully washed, dried and ironed his clothes from the previous week. 

    Luckily, I didn’t have to hold him for long because his dad got back home a few hours after he woke up. From the front door, before he even had any time to catch his breath, I handed his child to him alongside baby food to feed to him. 

    After his meal and small rough play, he safely tucked himself into the arms of his dad. From then on, it was a waiting game for him to fall asleep. By 9:30 p.m., he was in dreamland. Then, my own day began and I could finally press my phone and catch up with the world. 

    Now, I’m up at midnight making plans for when he wakes up to eat in the middle of the night. Nothing serious. Just another week keeping up with a one year and eight months old baby. 

    TUESDAY:

    The first thought in my head when I hear the voice of my baby this morning is, “how do mothers who work while raising kids do it?” Because watching an active toddler for 30 minutes is enough to drive anyone insane. Not to add the stress of a 9-5 on top. 

    I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve screamed “no, no, no” today. In fact, one of the first things my baby learned to say was “no, no, no” because of how frequently I say it to him. If I’m not chasing him, he’s chasing me. Yet, I’ll still be the one who needs a foot massage from my husband at the end of a workday. Children are terrorists and I don’t know where they get their energy from. 

    When I talk to more experienced mothers, I hear that this is still the “good stage.” Apparently, my baby is still going to pass through terrible twos and threes, which means he’ll still show me more pepper. The thought of this alone is enough to make me not want another child. 

    For this child, my life literally stopped when I got pregnant. I went from being the best salesperson for a particular product at an FMCG to being asked to resign at work the next year due to pregnancy complications. Nothing hurt as much as watching 6 years and 4 months of my life slip through the cracks because I couldn’t show up at work like I used to. What made it more painful was seeing my company not caring for my well-being as much as I did for theirs. 

    Outside of work, don’t even get me started on the weird pregnancy cravings: coke in a glass bottle and not plastic coke. Vanilla ice cream from Chicken Republic. Garri water. Cold Nutri C or Ribena. 

    Not to talk of pregnancy complications such as always wanting to vomit, spitting every day — and my husband having to regularly empty and wash my spit cup — and losing almost 7 kg of weight under two months. 

    I can’t imagine going through this again, especially now that this time I’ll have to look after two kids. Although, occasionally, when I think about how much I love my son, the love of my life, aka the terrorist of my life, I find myself reconsidering my decision. 

    WEDNESDAY:

    We’re up early this morning. By we, I mean my son, his dad and me. Today is for spending time with grandma so mummy can have time off to run a few errands. Top of the list is to crochet a few beanies and scarves for sale as a supplementary source of income. 

    Since I left my job, I’ve been asking myself how women live and raise kids without jobs. While I recognise that this is a privileged stance, I still can’t help but wonder. The only reason I haven’t lost my mind is that I saved up a lot of money while I was still working a proper 9-5. It was just in late 2020 that I converted my crochet hobby into a side business for extra income and a sense of control in a chaotic routine. Even though the crocheting business is decent, I’m making plans to return to the corporate world in 2022 when my baby turns two. I’ve already started putting out feelers for a sales role in FMCG or a customer success specialist in a tech company. 

    However, nothing has come out for now. I know it’s just a matter of time before I hit my dreams. 

    But that one is in the future. Today, the only thing on my mind is how many scarves and hats I can make between when I drop off my son and when I have to pick him. 

    THURSDAY:

    To the untrained observer, toddlers are adorable balls of goodness that can do no harm. To us, the initiated, these toddlers are tiny balls of energy bent on harming themselves.

    This afternoon, I looked away for just one second and my child had scaled his cot. One minute he was inside and safe, the next, I heard gbim, watched him land on his arm and saw him run to me while crying. Thank God the arm is still working fine. 

    After that episode, he went climbing the glass table. As I was running towards him, he kept shouting “no, no, no.” In my head, I was like if you’re shouting that word, then you know what you’re doing is bad, so why are you still doing it? 

    During a diaper change, while I was disposing of the used napkins, this boy went to touch live socket. I was too shocked to react until after I had removed him from danger. Then, I had to explain to him why electricity is not child’s play. 

    As if that warning was not enough, this boy entered the kitchen and was playing with the gas cylinder. 

    The last thing I remember from today is calling my husband on the phone to come and carry his child before he kills me. 

    FRIDAY:

    My mother-in-law is around, so today is a good day already. Whenever she’s around, I’m rest assured to get the necessary time off to breathe. After yesterday’s episode, I’m glad she’s around. I’m confident that between her shift in the morning and my husband’s shift at night, they can look after my son. I’m rooting for them. 

    Me, I’m focusing on catching my breath for as long as I can. Transitioning from wife to mother has been one hell of a journey. Sometimes I just sit down and say that this tiny grain of rice that was once in my tummy is now breathing, living, terrorising and I’ love it. This person came out of my stomach. That is, na me born am. Small me of yesterday is now a mother. Wow. 

    As much as I complain, cry, and fuss about the stress of raising a child, I don’t think I’d change anything if I could go back in time. For me, regardless of the stress, there has been no greater joy than seeing someone who is half of me and half of the person I love. 

    In fact, if you asked me to absolutely change anything today, the one thing I’d probably change is the TV channel. My mother-in-law put the television on Zee World but, I want to watch good-old Law and Order SVU to kickoff my relaxation. 

    I too am someone’s child. 


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