• In primary school, Tolulope Itegboje was usually top of his class. It was a small school with pupils from similar backgrounds, so it was easy to stand out. Everything changed in secondary school. 

    It doesn’t matter how you start

    In a class of about 30 students, he would come anywhere between 20th and 27th.

    It was a new environment, and it was tough in many ways. The students came from very different backgrounds. Some were middle-class, others were from the top percentile.

    He was going through all of this while becoming an adolescent, dealing with changes in his body, a face newly minted with pimples and attraction to ladies.

    His dream was to become the Senate President because he had seen Chuba Okadigbo, the Senate president in 1999, wearing a red Igbo chief cap that made him majestic, and he wanted it for himself, too. Later, he thought he would become a petroleum engineer, but he didn’t go through with it.

    You can study anything at university

    At this time, he decided he wanted to pursue a career in something that was either important, the office looked good, or would help him make money.

    So he studied Economics at Baylor University in the US. Even that was tough for him; he had to switch to Marketing.


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    Find a film you love to inspire you

    It was at the time that he first watched City of God, a Brazilian film about drug life in Rio de Janeiro, that he loved. To him, the directors Fernando Meirelles and Kátia Lund were so permissionless in their storytelling. The cast was mostly black, at the time rare for a Hollywood film. 

    But after he watched The Lord of the Rings, the deal was sealed. He was going to become a filmmaker. The themes and characters resonated, so he took electives in filmmaking at university. He learnt the basics of production editing, directing, and script writing. When he graduated, he got a job at an advertising agency, where he worked on commercials, applying his filmmaking courses to marketing.

    But even that was not enough. 

    Get filmmaking experience

    He returned to Nigeria for NYSC and was lucky to work at DVWorx Studios under veteran director Femi Odugbemi (The Man Died: 2024). He went on shoots, worked on films and documentaries and later worked with another veteran, Tunde Kelani (Saworoide: 1999).

    A friend, Bolaji Kekere-Ekun, commissioned him to make a documentary, Lady In The Water, to accompany Kekere-Ekun’s film Nkiru about Mami Wata.

    A film school can be good

    Kekere-Ekun had gone to film school before making the film, so Itegboje started considering film school. After applying to a bunch of MFA (Master’s in Fine Arts) in Filmmaking programs but didn’t get in. Kelani, whom he had worked with, had gone to the London Film School, which offered an MA (Master’s of Arts), so Itegboje tried his luck and got into the film school.

    He wanted to become a writer and director, but the course structure didn’t allow students to specialise in their first year. By the end, he also wanted to produce. 

    He used part of his fees to make his graduation film, which the school refunded. He returned to Lagos, full of creativity and new ideas.

    Funding would be tough, but keep creating

    But he soon realised that finding funding for those kinds of films in Nigeria was tough. Itegboje took freelance work, and eventually, Steve Babaeko sought someone to lead production at Zero Degrees, the production arm for X3M Ideas, his advertising agency. Itegboje reached out and got the job. The role sharpened his skills and left room for his side projects.

    Make the film you want

    One of those side projects became Bam Bam, a short film he wrote and directed that screened at the Toronto International Film Festival (TIFF) this year. TIFF receives thousands of submissions worldwide, but only a tiny fraction are selected.

    Bam Bam’s selection immediately cements his place among a new coterie of Nigerian filmmakers, including Akinola Davies, whose My Father’s Shadow was an official selection at the Cannes International Film Festival this year, and CJ Obasi, whose black-and-white feature film Mami Wata has been heralded as one of the best movies of this era of Nigerian cinema.

    Your film should be fresh

    Bam Bam is a coming-of-age sci-fi that follows Babatunde (Ambrose Nwoga), a young secondary school student who strikes up a friendship with an AI, Bam Bam (Kelechi Udegbe), who then dispenses tips to Babatunde to woo the female student he has a crush on.

    The storyline is familiar if you have been following the news around AI. There have been reports of people falling in love with AI, using ChatGPT as therapists. Most recently, the family of a young boy in the US says he committed suicide after an AI he had developed a bond with told him to. But Bam Bam is not one of these horror stories. Itegboje doesn’t even see Babatunde’s relationship with Bam Bam as the residue of a mental illness he might have.

    Instead, the commentary Bam Bam makes is about how AI is filling the voids that have been left in the human psyche with the rise of remote work and online dating. The argument of the film is that ChatGPT and other large language models we spend time chatting away with are more likely to know us better than our neighbours, colleagues at work or even lovers.

    The festival would be transformational

    Screening Bam Bam at TIFF was transformative for Itegboje. He didn’t understand the scale of the festival until he was there in person. This year, TIFF started on September 4th and ran until the 14th. Bam Bam screened on the 7th. 

    In the days preceding it, not having the huge marketing budget that allows big studios to fly cast and crew into the city, dripping in head-to-toe high-end designer goods, he had to do word-of-mouth marketing for the film at the festival. On the screening day, his colourist, Speedy, was in Toronto and so came to see the film. It was just them who worked on Bam Bam in the hall. He didn’t know most of the other people who came to see the film.

    Later, he learnt that a lady whom he didn’t know and had not marketed the film to but came to see it worked at Paramount Canada. That is the kind of opportunity that a film festival like TIFF provides.

    Being in TIFF underscores how far Nigerian filmmakers have come as global players in cinema. But it could also affect the cadence and storytelling of Nigerian films. Some of these film festivals have themes. Some others have moods.

    Keep making films that answer questions you have

    At times, the kinds of films accepted can be similar depending on the dominating mood of the festival. There are times when it wants female directors. There are times when it wants queer stories. Sometimes it wants foreign language films. These days, the mood is foreign films, preoccupied with local themes. Bam Bam and My Father’s Shadow fall under this mould. It could mean that more filmmakers would want to make films that fit that mould.

    Itegboje is more interested in movies that try to answer his questions. With that as his lodestar, he is safe from what some might call a “Western gaze.”

    It remains to be seen what this interest in this mould of foreign content would bode for Nigerian filmmakers who are accepted to these prestigious film festivals. Would they create fair partnerships with Nigerian filmmakers to make films that answer the questions that they have?

    It has never really been Hollywood’s style, especially with African filmmakers, to cede that amount of control to Nigerians. The kind of cross-collaboration we saw with Namaste Wahala between Bollywood and Nollywood has never happened between Nollywood and Hollywood. The closest we have had is My Father’s Shadow, which was funded by the British Film Institute, which is categorically not Hollywood. My Father’s Shadow just went to the cinema in Lagos last weekend, and accurate data on how it is performing is only just being collated. 

    So we don’t know how local audiences would react to this new Nollywood mould. But for what it’s worth the critics have been very generous with their praise of the movie.

    What happens after you screen at an international film festival?

    However, Itegboje and his short Bam Bam still have a long way to go before they hit cinemas in Lagos. He is considering multiple options, including a series, a feature film, or a graphic novel. But he first wants to take it to more film festivals. He hopes it is acquired, and he finds a distributor.


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  • What does it mean to be a man? Surely, it’s not one thing. It’s a series of little moments that add up.

    “Man Like” is a weekly Zikoko series documenting these moments to see how it adds up. It’s a series for men by men, talking about men’s issues. We try to understand what it means to ‘be a man’ from the perspective of the subject of the week.


    The subject for today is Ozzy Agu, an actor, MC and all-round entertainment legend. His definition of being a man revolves around family, brotherhood, and the occasional tears after losing a game of FIFA.

    When did you get your first “you’re a man now” moment?

    I remember being a struggling artist and one of my side jobs was tutoring high school students. It was an after school program called Tutors on Wheels where tutors travelled to the homes of student’s to teach them in the comfort of their homes. I’d just gotten paid one weekend and was out celebrating with my artist friends and after food and drinks, I paid for everyone. My friend Vallen who was seated next to me just muttered: “Damn Ozzy…that’s a man move.”

    Even when we all were walking home, she’d just stop, look at me and say: “That was a man move”, and I couldn’t help but smile. It was a compliment. The gesture had made an impression because it was unexpected. Truth is I’d been working double shifts that month, so I could afford a stunt like that but it was a one-time thing. The moment just took over me.

    Interesting. I think every man has a version of this story.

    It’s funny how masculinity is tied to money and sacrifice. I also remember when I was 22 and working as a bank teller to help raise my university fees. At some point, something was off at home, so I gave my dad the money to cover for it. You know that moment when your father gives you a double-take? I didn’t want my action to be perceived as an insult but I also wanted to show that I could contribute now that I was working a bit. My father took notice.

    There’s something about manliness that is external, that is, it has to be conferred on you by other men. In ancient tribes, young boys had to go through initiation rituals. For example, young men have to prove manliness through acts of bravery like vine bungee jumping in Pentecost Island.

    In other cases, you had to do something that affected the life of the community – a sort of graduation from the community taking care of you to you taking care of the community. That’s one aspect of manhood I like.

    Hmmm. One aspect I’m interested in is dealing with heartbreak: What do you remember about your first?

    In my teenage years, I experienced one heartbreak I thought was the worst because I didn’t know sharper pain was to come. I was leaving the country and our lives were going in two different separations. However, the most devastating heartbreak was in my 20s. I was involved with an older woman and this one hit me gboa!

    I got hives all over my chest; My immune system went completely haywire. I remember walking around aimlessly like a mad man and just moping. One day, I was doing my laundry at the laundromat and I just zoned out. I was sad from thinking about the person and the situation. A stranger had to ask if I was okay to snap me back to my senses. But the height was when I ran 22 laps for no reason.

    For context, I used to run laps for exercise every morning or evening. On a regular run, I would go 4 laps for the day. On this particular day, the heartbreak hit me so much while running that I kept on telling myself to do one more lap. Then, I’d do it. A voice would tell me – “Do one more lap” – I’d do it. It was like something was chasing me until I ran around a circle 22 times.

    What?!

    E shock me. That’s when I realised the power of emotions. Only my closest friends knew about it; When it comes to pain for me, I retreat and heal in private. I try to make sense of what’s happening and regulate my emotions. Some people will say “Boys don’t cry” or “Men don’t cry.” I’m like “yeah, yeah, we do cry, just not in your presence. Don’t worry.”

    We know who we cry to. A man in pain goes to a safe space he trusts.

    True. Does this affect how you approach relationships – What are your red flags?

    Well, for one when I make a mistake, I make it three more times to be sure. I had that phase where red flags were intriguing because I’d wonder what’s behind the behaviour. But those days are gone. These days, one of my deal breakers would have to be someone that I can’t negotiate with. If something happens and you guys are in a tough spot or something is on the line and she demands absoluteness from you — that is, they have to have their way all the time — ọmọ, run oh.

    One funny one was one night like that, I was out at a live-music show with my then-girlfriend and her best friend. There had been tension between them for a while and it bubbled over that night with an argument. Since we were all friends and I knew how long their friendship was, I tried to play peacemaker by appealing to both parties. Omo, later that night, my babe was not happy with me. At all. She was upset I did not take her side. She wanted me to ride or die regardless of whether she was right or wrong.

    It would have been a no brainer if we were dealing with an outsider, but this was her best friend; Who was also my friend. Complication upon complication. 

    I’m for the negotiation that challenges you to be a better person. Not the type where you cover up for each other by turning a blind eye. If someone deftly brings up aspects of your character that are lacking and genuinely wants you to improve, I like that.

    You sound stress averse, how do you relax after a long day?

    I first lie down for a good 30 mins to decompress. The next thing is a glass of wine or a cup of tea. Then Netflix and chill. Basically, it’s TV, wine and sleep. Maybe read a few pages of a book and play background music.

    What’s the perfect drink?

    The perfect drink depends on the mood. If you’re with a girl on a beach with the sun and sand, something with coconut rum might do the trick. But, the drink that made an impression on me and I mean hit me gboa is called Old Fashioned.

    It was in a lowball glass and it had a perfectly circular ice cube; Liquid gold with a sliver of an orange peel. I took a sip and was like damn – what is this I am drinking? This is a man’s drink.[laughs]

    Dead. What gives you joy?

    Joy is scarce these days but when I connect with an audience as an artist – with their humanity – it brings a level of joy.

    Also, the family brings me joy. My mum is retired so we take morning walks together. We have a lot of talks during our walks and it makes me happy.  I had been travelling and moving around a lot and now that everything is grounded we talk more. I’m getting to see a deeper side to her. I’m learning about her childhood in Enugu so that bonding time brings me joy. Zoom calls with the siblings also excite me – We try to keep in touch.

    Does anything scare you?

    A lot of things scare me. Top of the list is unfulfilled potential. That pressure is why I sometimes have to break myself out of the negative self-talk. It ties again to pressure in this modern world because there are things you want to do but there are obstacles. Sometimes, you’re your own obstacle because you are distracted. Not reaching my full potential scares me.

    Me too. How do you get through a bad day?

    I have used this hack all my life and it hardly fails me. When I’m having a bad day, as it’s happening, I pull back and take deep breaths: like 10 -15 deep breaths where you can pull away from the stressors.

    In addition to this, I also do positive self-talk. You don’t realize how much that voice playing and replaying in your head is doing to you. I only realized its power after a traumatic event. It’s like a broken record that just keeps repeating itself so you need to break the cycle in your head. 

    Sometimes I can’t do it by myself and I need a friend or family member to remind me that some of these things are not true and I’m just going through a tough time. I use positive self-talk to call myself to order and to remind myself to pay attention to the situation. An isolated incident doesn’t mean I’m a bad person completely or I am screwed up or I’m an idiot. There’s a difference between saying “This is the first time and I am a novice” and “I can’t do this.” One is giving up, the other is being patient with yourself and giving yourself time. I also add physical exertion like going for a run to clear my head; I just don’t run 22 laps anymore[laughs].

    LMAO. What’s something people expect you to like but you don’t like?

    Back in the 53 extra days, I used to go out a lot covering cool events in Lagos for Television. I’m highly extroverted and I love meeting people but I LOVE being a homebody. Maybe it’s because I’m in my 30s, but I like my bed and blanket and doing my little routines around the house. Somehow, people will be surprised that I can stay at home alone and be perfectly happy.

    What do you think of the concept of the bro code?

    The bro code gets a lot of bad rep and in certain instances, it’s well deserved. Sometimes, guys misbehave and they should be called out on their bad behaviour or called to order. Those are the negative aspects of the bro code. However, there are some positive aspects of the bro code that don’t harm other people.

    That unshakeable sense of camaraderie between bros that confirms that these are your goons to the end is enough ginger to feel less alone in a cruel world. Especially when faced with complex difficulties that surprise you on a Tuesday morning.

    You have to be able to call on your bros. Hopefully, you’ve surrounded yourself with a brotherhood of wise warriors that have your best interest. Brothers that will tell you this is where you were wrong, this is how you can remedy it, and we still got you. It’s a support system.

    Bro code is not smashing all the girls, staying drunk, cheating this person, bullying that person. That’s not bro code; That’s debauchery. We don’t cover that kind of behaviour.

    When was the last time you cried?

    I lost 5 – 0 in FIFA.[laughs]


    Editor’s note: Ozzy recently starred in the movie Lost Okoroshi which is streaming on Netflix. You should absolutely watch it! 

    Check back every Sunday by 12 pm for new stories in the “Man Like” series. If you’d like to be featured or you know anyone that would be perfect for this, kindly send an email.

  • The 2016 edition of the Toronto Film Festival is gradually coming to an end but not without Nigerians being incredibly proud of our very own Nollywood.

    For one, the Nigerian industry made its way to the City to City programme of the festival. Also, some Nigerian celebrities dished out an unbelievable dose of slayage that made us totally love-struck.

    1. When Zainab Balogun, gave us just the right amount of slay.

    2. Adesua Etomi’s fierce look in her stunning yellow dress.

    3. Banky W just keeps it dapper all the time!

    4. Mummy Genevieve being her usual fashionably classy self.

    5. That time Somkele Idhlama, served legs in this pretty black dress.

    6. When RMD showed us he is the definition of fine wine.

    7. Beverly Naya totally killed it with her red dress.

    8. That time Zainab Balogun proved she was born to slay.

    9. When Chidi Mokeme showed he is still a hottie.

    10. Somkele Idhlama looked even better in this two piece set.

  • For the first time in the history of the prestigious Toronto International Film Festival (TIFF), 8 Nollywood movies were showcased in the festival’s City to City programme.

    This impressive feat not only proved that Nollywood is definitely on the way to greatness, also, international actors of African descent including Lupita N’yongo and David Oyelowo showed their support.

    Speaking to an audience at the City to City: Lagos opening, an excited David Oyelowo was too happy to be in the midst of people who could properly pronounce his name without adding extra ‘phone’.

    His speech was not only inspiring but the funniest we’ve seen in a while as he perfectly mimicked the typical Nigerian parent’s reaction to their child going into acting.

    We hope to see a Nollywood on the Academy Award playing field soon, but in the meantime, you can watch David Oyelowo’s speech below: