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    NairaLife #335 bio

    What’s your earliest memory of money?

    When I was 8, my dad gave my brother and me our first allowance. I can’t remember how much, but it was enough for each of us to buy a carton of biscuits. My brother came up with the idea of spending the full amount on biscuits, and I was down. 

    We had snacks at home, but we had limited access to them. My mum only gave us one at a time to take to school, but the biscuits were ours to do whatever we wanted. My mum didn’t even care that we spent all the money on biscuits. It was like, “It’s your money. You have the freedom to do as you please.”

    Speaking of, what did your parents do for money?

    My dad was a big-shot executive at an FMCG company, and my mum ran a large-scale poultry farm. Growing up, things were super smooth. We had big cars, and I attended nice private schools. The only reason we didn’t travel for vacations was that my parents didn’t like air travel. 

    Our financial situation changed around 2011/2012 though. The classic story: My dad lost his job, which forced us to move to a new city and a new neighbourhood. While it wasn’t exactly a slum, the people were unexposed. I honestly believe moving to that area set us back and impacted our growth. We just couldn’t grow.

    How do you mean?

    So, my mum moved her poultry farm there and also started a school. But she had to reduce school fees to ₦10k because the parents in the area couldn’t fathom paying more than that. It was either ₦10k or they wouldn’t send their kids to school. 

    There was this general nonchalance about education. I was around 10, and I couldn’t play with the other kids because they didn’t speak English. My parents couldn’t even interact with the neighbours because everyone just had a mediocre sense of thinking. I don’t even know how to explain it. The rot in that area was deep, and I genuinely believe it affected our momentum.

    Also, my dad never got his spark back after he lost his job. I don’t remember him having a stable job after that. He still provided, but it was usually through income made from selling his properties. My dad had multiple properties when he was wealthy, so he could sell one today, use the money for a year or two, then sell another if he needed money again. That’s how he sent me and my siblings to school. 

    When was the first time you worked for money?

    After secondary school in 2018, but there’s a funny context to how I started thinking about making money. My older brother and I entered secondary school at the same time, and when we were in SS 3, my dad put forth a challenge: He’d send whoever had the best scores in JAMB and WAEC abroad to school.

    I was so excited and studied so hard that I broke all the academic records in my school. My brother, on the other hand, failed so badly that his results couldn’t have gotten him into a Nigerian university. So, my dad sent him abroad instead.

    Ah

    I’m sure part of the reason was that he’s the first son. You know, standard misogyny. I was devastated. On top of that, I didn’t get an admission offer for my desired course, so I stayed home for an extra year. I decided I’d make enough money to send myself to school abroad if my dad couldn’t afford to send two children. 

    So, I scoured the internet for ways to make money online. I watched YouTube videos and started learning web development, creating websites and blogs. Writing was the first option that paid me, though. I got a writing gig that paid me ₦2k per article. I didn’t have a bank account, so they paid me in airtime. 

    I also started teaching at my mum’s school. She paid me ₦10k/month to teach junior secondary students. I mostly spent the money on lunch and data. I worked there until I got into uni in 2019.

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    Did you keep trying to make money in uni?

    Oh yes. I got a ₦8k weekly allowance from home, but it never felt enough. Between transport costs and little purchases, the money always finished. I remember being so shocked when I saw ₦18k in someone’s account. It was like, how can someone have this kind of money in their account at once?

    So, I was always thinking about ways to make money. Also, my plan to send myself abroad still fueled my money-making intentions. I once gave a friend ₦6k to gamble for me, but he lost it all. I even tried the Racksterli “double your money in two weeks “ scheme. I made some money from it, but I ended up getting scammed.

    Omo. Sorry about that

    Thanks. Besides trying different things for money, I also applied for international scholarships everywhere. I even applied to a school in China. I just wanted to achieve my goal.

    Then 2020 came. The lockdown was a really transformative period for me. It was when I first got into crypto. The first one I tried was a platform called Electroneum. Their coin was called ETN, and you could rack up points by completing tasks on the app and cash out ETN as airtime. I was steadily cashing out airtime that period.

    I also did a bit of crypto buying and selling for small profits here and there. One day, someone from my school posted on a group chat, asking people who had international passports and bank accounts to DM him for a gig that could pay as much as ₦200k. I had an international passport because of all my efforts to travel abroad, so I reached out to him. 

    What was the gig?

    He wanted me to register on an app, purchase crypto (he gave me the money), and send it to him, then I’d keep the profit. I was confused, but I did it. We tried a couple of times, but it didn’t work because my debit card didn’t work for international transactions. 

    However, I eventually figured out what he wanted to do. It was crypto arbitrage. Here’s how it was supposed to work: There was a significant difference in dollar price at the bank rate and on the black market. If I could get dollars at the bank rate and sell on the black market, I could make money just appear. Crypto was one way to get dollars at the bank rate. I just needed to make the purchase as an international transaction with my Nigerian bank. 

    When I figured out the plan, I went to my friend and we did some calculations. If we bought $500 crypto, we could make ₦200k after selling it on Nigerian crypto exchange platforms. So, we decided to try it. But we had two problems.

    What were these problems?

    We didn’t have $500 capital, and we didn’t have a working card for international transactions. 

    Initially, we considered starting small with $50, but eventually, we convinced ourselves to raise money. I told an older friend about the idea, and he decided to invest in it. He gave me some bitcoin, which was worth about ₦800k at the time, and I was supposed to return it with a 30% interest after a few months. Unfortunately, we lost the money. 

    Yikes. How?

    My friend and I were looking for a cheap place to buy crypto, and the regular platforms had a limit on how much we could buy per day. In our search for more options, we found a coursemate who promised to get us $1k worth of bitcoin for ₦400k. We gave him the money, and he disappeared. 

    It was funny because we were in the same class and would see each other after the lockdown. We eventually tracked him down to his state and discovered he’d spent the money on an iPhone and other things. We seized the phone, but only got ₦190k from selling it.

    Long story short, I couldn’t repay my friend the full ₦800k. We told him the business crashed and returned 50% of his investment. He wasn’t happy, but he forgave me.

    So, the business didn’t last a month?

    We only told him it crashed; it didn’t actually crash. We had a setback because of the money we lost, and had to re-strategise. We agreed it had been foolish to borrow money to start large-scale, so we returned to the original plan of starting small. 

    At the same time, banks had started limiting international transactions, so we built something like a conglomerate of cards. We got friends and coursemates who had cards that could do international transactions to allow us to use their cards, and we gave them a share of the profit. 

    In the first month, we made about ₦100k in profit. In subsequent months, we made between ₦500k – ₦1m/month and my friend and I split the money 50-50. We continued even after school resumed, but towards 2022, more people started to get in on arbitrage, and we stopped making as much. 

    Plus, the government suspended international transactions on naira cards, which affected our business model. Despite the challenges, my friend still kept at it, but I wasn’t too keen anymore. I just contributed passively and made the odd ₦100k – ₦150k most months.

    Why the change of heart?

    I’d taken web development more seriously and started making money from it. The first major earning was from a 2022 hackathon I participated in and won $2k. It was crazy money.

    At this point, I should mention I was terrible at handling money. While we were making arbitrage money, my friend was saving, but I was buying everything fancy that crossed my mind. When I won the $2k from the hackathon, I bought a MacBook for $700, a ₦19k fridge, gave my mum ₦50k and another ₦50k to my siblings. I also bought my parents’ phones, which cost me ₦140k. Then I bought myself an iPhone 11 Pro for ₦300k, a camera and an iPad. In conclusion, I spent all the $2k.

    Wild

    After the hackathon, I worked with the organisers for a few months and earned an extra $2k. When that contract ended, I decided to work with foreign companies instead of Nigerians since they were more likely to pay well for my skills.

    So, I focused on upskilling. I was coding up to 12 hours every day, to the point that I felt school and exams were stopping me from coding as much as I wanted. I was also constantly applying for jobs and started learning cybersecurity on the side.

    In 2023, I attended an event held by the organiser of a cybersecurity course I was taking. I participated in a CTF competition there and won the $200 prize. Beyond the money, it was validation that I really knew this tech thing. Also, I got a cybersecurity internship. I had actually flown to a different state for that event, and accepting the internship meant I’d need to leave school for six weeks to work. 

    I accepted the offer and reasoned I could decide whether to return to school after the internship ended.

    Was it a paid internship?

    It was unpaid, but I was doing it for the experience. Plus, I still had money. I was also working as a technical writer with a company in Europe, and they paid me $150 – $300 per article. I lived in a student hostel for the duration of the internship, and my pay covered the ₦600k rent, and I still had enough left to ball. 

    After the internship ended, the company offered to retain me, but I couldn’t take the offer. First, I didn’t have an NYSC certificate and didn’t plan to finish school. Second, they were offering ₦150k, which was bullshit. 

    Wait. You mentioned not planning to finish school. You had decided already?

    Yeah, after the internship, I decided that I wasn’t returning to school. My parents weren’t thrilled, but it was nothing dramatic. At this point, I wasn’t collecting any money from them or disturbing for allowance. I was independent and able to make my own decisions. 

    I got a job from someone who wanted me to teach cybersecurity at his training school. He was a terrible boss, but he didn’t delay my ₦450k/month salary. I worked there for about three months before returning home to determine what I wanted to do next.

    I was still applying to jobs and getting offers, but I was determined not to work for a Nigerian enterprise again. Two months of job-hunting later, I landed a super sweet position as a security consultant for a US company at $1300/month. They paid weekly, so it was about $300 weekly. This was in 2024.

    Three months into the job, I realised I was being underpaid.

    How so?

    I got the job through a friend, and payment came through him. The pay was actually $900 weekly, but he was sending me $300-ish. We went back and forth on the matter, and later agreed he’d send me $500 weekly, bringing my income to $2k/month. I still work with the company, and that’s still my salary today.

    Early this year, I took on a side job that pays $1200/month, so currently my fixed monthly income is $3200, which is about ₦4.9m. I still do freelance projects and other side gigs that often push my income to over ₦5m. It can be up to ₦6m or ₦7m in really good months. I still want to push more to ₦10m/month. To be honest, I’d be making that now if I didn’t reject so many offers for one reason or another.

    What kind of life does your income afford you?

    A super comfortable one. Right now, I’m looking at my super high-end laptop, which I got for about ₦3m. I spend my money on gadgets the most. I have the entire Apple suite: watch, laptop, phone, everything. I also travel sometimes.

    The biggest thing money has given me is that I no longer think the same way. I think that money is unlimited, and I don’t relate to struggle or hardship. I smile when I hear the price of things because I can afford everything I want. 

    I’m super comfortable, and I’m still super young. In a year or two, I should most likely double my current earnings. If I were in the US, with my experience level, I could easily earn $150k/year. So, yeah, I’m very happy with where I’m at. I’m in the top percentage of Nigerians, and it feels good. 

    Have your spending and saving habits changed since you started earning more?

    I’m somewhat better at saving. I’m not as aggressive as I should be, but it’s not too bad. I try to save $500 monthly and do a ₦550k ajo contribution monthly to pack ₦5.5m. I also have $5k in a real estate portfolio with my friend’s company that’s supposed to give me 20% returns yearly. I have $8k in my portfolio: $3k in savings and the rest in real estate. Nothing too serious.

    How would you describe your relationship with money?

    It’s sweet, but also bad. I say sweet because I don’t deny myself of anything. I work hard to reward myself. But it’s bad because I never have enough money after spending on what I want. It’s usually like ₦1m-ish left in my account. I want to get to a point where I have like ₦10m – ₦20m in my account. 

    Let’s break down your typical monthly expenses

    NairaLife #335 expenses

    My expenses typically vary from month to month. For instance, I don’t give my family money regularly, so they’re not dependent on me. But last month, I gave them about ₦200k. I also travel often to see my partner and friends, but it’s not every month. I last travelled in June, and flights cost me ₦600k. I might not travel again until September. 

    I’m most likely forgetting some expenses because tracking them is difficult for me. I get paid weekly, so putting all those expenses together is hard. But it’s something I’m working on.

    I’m curious. How does it feel to have this much success at 22?

    I feel like I’m kind of cheating the system. If I’d stayed in school and graduated, maybe I’d feel like I need to be responsible. But my classmates are still in school, so I feel like a child. Like what I’m making now is just extra, and I’m waiting for my life to finally start. 

    I feel like I can still afford to squander my money for a few more years. Or maybe until next year at least. I can start being responsible then. I sometimes feel like I’d be super comfortable going to zero and starting afresh again. I don’t know why I think that or where I got it from. 

    How has making money so early impacted how you think about money?

    I feel like the world is at my feet and I can do whatever I want. I feel like I’ll always have money. You know that saying, “I’ll never be poor”? That’s how I feel. It’s such a strong conviction in my mind.

    I sometimes get anxious, though. What if I lose my job or no one wants to hear from me again? I think the anxiety comes with the money. I didn’t use to get anxious like this when I was broke, but now the stakes are higher. I’m constantly thinking about how to make more money. 

    Interesting. Is there anything you want right now but can’t afford?

    I want a car so bad. Actually, I’m just manifesting it; I want someone to dash me. The car I want would probably cost me around $10k – $15k.

    Do you have any financial regrets?

    I loan people money a lot, and sometimes, I regret it. I have almost $3k of my money in people’s hands, and I’m not sure I’ll get it back.

    Is there anything you’d like to be better at financially?

    My savings and investments are pretty slim, and I want to improve. I want to invest in stocks, but haven’t had time to study the market. Once I do, I’ll probably get into stocks. 

    How would you rate your financial happiness on a scale of 1 -10?

    6. There’s not a lot of structure around my money now, and I know I can do better. 


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    Nairalife #327 bio

    What’s your earliest memory of money?

    When I was 8, I participated in a dance competition at my dad’s association party. The prize money was ₦1m, so I danced my heart out. Unfortunately, another child won.

    And they actually gave the winner ₦1m?

    They gave the winner a ₦1m cheque. This was when it dawned on me that I could do something for people or provide value for money. In this case, the value was dancing, or at least the people who paid for it thought it was valuable enough to drop money.

    Phew. I’m still stuck on the kind of association that could afford to give a child that much to dance

    My memory is hazy now, but I think it was an office association. My dad’s an architect, and we were financially comfortable. My mum stopped working after she had me and my siblings, and my dad provided all we needed. 

    When was the first time you earned money yourself?

    I started writing on Facebook in 2016, mostly short stories. I didn’t get into uni immediately after secondary school, so it was like a gap year, which I spent fooling around on Facebook. The stories helped me connect with other writers on the platform. 

    I continued writing after I got into uni in 2017. One day, a writer friend told me he had taken too many jobs and asked if I could take one off him. The job was to write a novel. I can’t remember how many words, but it was really long. I wanted to try it out, so I accepted it. He paid me ₦10k. It was the first time I made money outside of my parents. I was pretty excited.

    After that job, I joined some writing groups and got a few other gigs. They were mostly ₦1 per word gigs, and I often made up to ₦35k in a good month. That was minus my ₦10k/month pocket money.

    In other words, you were a big girl

    Exactly. But I used money to do rubbish. On one hand, I was such a saver who never spent any money on myself. I kept money as if something would come and take it away.

    On the other hand, I readily spent my money on friends. I was literally doing giveaways on top of ₦40k. I’d call my friends and take them out to restaurants or the cinema, or just go outside to have fun.

    In 2019, I got a consistent gig to write celebrity and entertainment articles for a magazine. It paid ₦2500 per article, and I wrote about 40 articles monthly. The money was great — my salary was often in the ₦100k range — but the job affected my mental health. 

    My boss couldn’t give feedback without belittling me, which was exhausting. I stuck around for the money, but after an opportunity with a literary magazine came up during COVID, I jumped at it.

    What opportunity?

    The magazine put out a call for contributor pitches. I sent one about how I was adjusting to COVID-19 as an extroverted person who couldn’t hang out with her friends. The magazine reached out and offered me $100 per article to write stories about COVID-19. 

    I initially thought the email was a scam, so I ignored it. It wasn’t until they sent me a reminder before I started to take them seriously. I even got my lawyer aunt to review the contract because I was so scared. Eventually, I accepted it was real. 

    I wrote 18 articles for the magazine over six months. During this time, I lost the ₦100k gig because my employer said she was tired of my errors. I still had the magazine gig, so I didn’t mind losing that job. However, the COVID series stopped in June 2021, and my income returned to zero. I didn’t get another gig for the rest of the year, so I focused on school.


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    Speaking of, how were you juggling writing and school work?

    It was a lot of juggling. I was in my third year of medical school and had to do a lot of late nights. I’d stay up at night to write and read and then go to the hospital in the morning. 

    My schedule eased slightly in 2021 because I got fewer gigs. I just coasted through with my savings and pocket money. In August 2022, I did a one-year stint with someone who needed real estate articles for ₦210k/month. I also periodically got ₦10 – ₦15 per word writing gigs from a friend I met on social media. 

    By 2023, I was tired of writing and wanted to do something else. My ex-boyfriend was always talking about cybersecurity, and I began to take an interest in the field. It sounded like a career I could also merge with medicine. If I decided not to practice, I could venture into securing Electronic Health Records (EHR) or something in that line. 

    So, I started reading about cybersecurity and finding learning resources. I also joined a one-year fellowship for cybersecurity training.

    Did you have to pay for this training?

    No, it was free, and I also got a certificate. In 2024, I started looking for internships to get practical experience. Learning cybersecurity is better within a job context than just relying on modules and theories. So, I began cold-emailing people, asking for internships. 

    By August, someone decided to give me a chance and gave me an internship with their consulting firm. The salary was ₦50k/month, which honestly felt like a downgrade from where I came from, but I needed the experience. 

    How long did the internship last?

    I worked there until March 2025, when I got my current job. I saw a job post on LinkedIn about a company looking for a security consultant, and I applied even though I didn’t have all the certifications. 

    Three interviews later, I got the offer and saw ₦700k+. Actually, it’s a Nigerian-UK company, so my salary is £350. I had to create a UK bank account, and after the payment clears and I transfer to my naira account, it’s around the ₦700k mark. 

    I left my first salary in my account for weeks because it didn’t really click that I was earning that much. I couldn’t believe it. It took a while to get used to my new “status”.

    I’m curious. What does a security consultant do?

    My company audits other organisations for standards, such as ISO and NDPA audits. Companies must have the necessary documentation and certification to avoid trouble with their regulators. 

    Fintechs, for instance, need to show certification that they’re upholding certain standards and safeguarding people’s money so the central bank doesn’t come for them. This certification comes after implementation and IT audits from companies like my employer, and I help with the audits.  

    And you’re doing all this while still in medical school?

    See, it’s very stressful. I’m currently in my final year, and it’s a lot to juggle. My employer knows I’m a student, but I still work full-time, so I can’t give excuses. My job is my first priority.

    I also write on the weekends. I still take writing gigs occasionally, so those keep me busy too. I have this huge, maybe irrational, fear of going broke. I’m in an “anything can happen” phase, so I feel like I need to work and save as much as possible. I’m not exactly sure why.

    I save 50% – 60% of my salary from my 9-5 and live on the rest, plus what I make from the occasional writing gig. It’d be tough for anyone to guess how much I earn by looking at me because I rarely spend on myself. As a student, I also have limited expenses, so it’s easy to give in to my default setting to keep money.

    Are you saving towards a particular goal?

    I’m saving for rainy days. In case something ever happens, I have something to fall back on. I currently have about ₦2m in a savings app.

    I’m also considering a birthday trip later in the year, so I have a separate savings account for that. I want to travel to Ghana or Togo, and I expect it to cost me around ₦700k. At the moment, I only have $190 saved for that purpose, but I expect to reach that figure in a couple of months. 

    What do your typical monthly expenses look like?

    Nairalife #327 expenses

    My living expenses change depending on the month. For instance, I’ll spend far more in the next couple of months because of final year activities. I’m paying ₦200k for my dress and hair for a final year dinner. I also need to buy the dinner tickets and accessories, so I’ll probably move some of my typical monthly expenses around to pay for them.

    You’re in final year. Is the plan to practice medicine or stick to cybersecurity?

    I might dump medicine, but nothing is set in stone yet. I’m just glad I have alternatives. Practising medicine would depend on whether I leave Nigeria. 

    I really don’t want to do medicine here because it’s terrible. I earn more than my consultants, and they’re at the highest level of the medical field. I don’t want to be married with kids and suffering with ₦300k or ₦400k. I also don’t fancy the idea of relocating and starting all over again in another person’s land. 

    The one thing that might push me abroad is if the person I marry wants to leave or has already left. If that happens, I’ll practice medicine abroad. But for now, there’s no push for me to relocate. 

    So, it’s looking like I’ll just complete house job and NYSC when it’s time and say “fuck this shit” to medicine if remuneration doesn’t get better. At least, with cybersecurity, I know I won’t stay at ₦700k for the next five years. I’ll get a raise at some point. 

    My dad doesn’t think it’s a real job — he just knows I sit in front of computers — but I’m financially comfortable, and it’ll only get better. 

    How would you describe your relationship with money?

    I’m trying to break free from the spirit of stinginess to self, because why am I making money but not spending it? But if someone comes to me with a need now, I’m opening my wallet. 

    So, I’m working on improving two aspects of my money: saving too much and doing unnecessary giveaways for people. Also, I want to get more comfortable with the idea of multiplying my money. So, rather than just savings, I’m actually investing. 

    I recently started with Nigerian stocks, just small ₦10k here and ₦20k there. I’m still learning the ropes, so I’m not doing anything heavy. I don’t want to cry if I lose money. 

    Besides investments, is there anything else you’d like to be better at?

    I feel like I can earn more. I talk to people in my industry and know earning up to ₦5m/month is possible. ₦2m – ₦3m would even be great for me right now. I just need to level up and connect with people and organisations who need my services and can afford to pay more. 

    ₦700k isn’t bad for my level, but it’s not great in the cybersecurity industry. I even shot myself in the foot during the interview because when they asked for salary expectations, I said between ₦600k and ₦800k. If I’d shot higher, I’d have probably gotten it. But that’s the price of being a greenhorn in the field. 

    Is there anything you want right now but can’t afford?

    Nothing. I think I can pretty much afford whatever I want. Well, maybe a house in Banana Island or a car. But I think about things in terms of utility at the moment. I don’t really need a car right now; I can’t even drive. So, I wouldn’t classify it as something I want but can’t afford. 

    How would you rate your financial happiness on a scale of 1-10?

    7. I’m grateful I’m no longer panicky about making money. I sometimes worry about losing my job and not having money anymore, but I’m good at what I do, so I remind myself there’s nothing to worry about. 

    I’m also financially comfortable, but I’m still not close to financial independence, which is something I want. 


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    Nairalife #325 bio

    What’s your earliest memory of money?

    I remember receiving the usual gifts of money from relatives when they visited. Also, at some point in junior secondary school, my dad gave me a weekly ₦250 – ₦300 allowance, and I spent it on sweets, ice cream, and Gala. It was good money because I only needed to spend ₦20 per day. That was in the early 2000s, when ₦5 could still buy sweets. 

    The good ol’ days. What was your family’s financial situation like?

    We were quite comfortable. My family is mixed-faith, and we always had rams during Sallah and chicken during Christmas. My dad was an engineer with the government, and we lived in the staff quarters. 

    My mum made money by doing several things. In primary school, she was a caterer and delivered food to my school. Later, she started travelling to Dubai thrice a year to buy men’s clothes, lace and safari suits. This was at a time when travelling to Dubai wasn’t as common as it is now. 

    My parents separated after I left secondary school, and things changed. I lived with my mum, and I’m not sure why, but our finances became tighter. It’s not like my mum wasn’t providing; there was just no extra money to spend anyhow. I wanted money to do my own thing, which led me to the first thing I did to earn money.

    What was that?

    I carried blocks on a construction site. The site was close to my house, so I worked there for a few hours when my mum went out in the morning. Of course, I couldn’t tell her because she’d have killed me. 

    My pay was about ₦50 per block, and I made around ₦600 – ₦1k each day. I only lasted four days, though. As a part ajebutter, the work started telling on me, and I decided the money wasn’t worth my life. 

    I’m screaming. Did you try another money-making venture?

    Nah. That was it for me. I got into uni in 2013 and relied on pocket money from my parents until I graduated in 2017. I didn’t have a specific monthly allowance. I could call either of my parents separately for money without the other knowing. 

    NYSC was much tougher. This was between 2018 and 2019, and allawee was still ₦19,800. I served in a secondary school that paid ₦5k/month. So, I relied on loan apps to meet my living expenses and ₦12k biannual rent during the service year. I always paid my debts, though; they never put my face on a banner or threatened my family members to make sure I paid back.

    So, no disgrace

    No disgrace o. I got my first job three months after NYSC in October 2019, and my financial situation improved a bit. It was an IT role at a bank for ₦80k/month. When I resumed the job, I commuted from my dad’s place to the office in Marina. 

    But my dad retired and moved a few months later, so I had to rent an apartment close to work. I took a ₦300k loan from work and used it to rent a tiny self-contained apartment in a good location. Rent was still reasonable in Lagos.

    I used another loan arrangement from an electronics store to buy a TV, fridge and sound system. I think I paid them off over three months. One thing about me, I believe in taking loans to buy things I need — emphasis on things I need, not what I want. 

    If I can get an interest-free loan, I think it’s better to use it to get the value of what I need immediately and pay it back over time. I prefer that to holding on for months to save up for what I can get now. 

    I hear you. How long were you in this role?

    Two years, and my salary increased to ₦200k/month before I left. 

    In 2021, I got a job at another bank, but the new job wasn’t much of an upgrade; I was just tired of my old job. I was still an IT officer at the new bank, and while my salary increased to ₦320k/month, so did my cost of living.

    The new bank was on Victoria Island, and my transport and feeding costs increased. At Marina, I could get breakfast from local restaurants for ₦250 and lunch for ₦400. ₦700 was enough to feed me well for a full work day. But VI didn’t have that. I had to buy food from the office cafeteria, which set me back ₦1200 each time. If I wanted to eat breakfast and lunch, I had to hold ₦3k. 

    So, even though my earning power increased, I still had to cut back on things like food to maintain a barely average lifestyle. 

    I can imagine

    I stayed at this bank for close to three years. There were no pay increases during this time, only a biannual ₦500k bonus. I felt stagnant, both career-wise and financially. 

    To top it all off, Tinubu came on board in 2023, and you know how that affected the economy. It felt like my cost of living tripled, but my salary still didn’t change. My take-home salary stopped taking me home, and I was constantly in debt.


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    Did you return to the loan apps?

    Oh no. At this point, I’d made friends with professional colleagues from other banks. Rather than go to loan apps with their crazy interest rates, I reached out to my friends for quick interest-free loans, and they always came through. I made sure to always repay my debts, so they were willing to lend me money. I just know I was always owing one person or repaying someone else. 

    Fortunately, I depended less on loans after I left for another bank in 2024. This time, I moved to the cybersecurity team rather than IT, and my salary jumped to ₦600k. Early this year, I got confirmed, and the bank reviewed salaries generally. So, I now earn ₦1m/month.

    That’s quite a leap. How did the move to cybersecurity happen?

    I was just lucky. I saw the job application online through a recruitment agency, applied for the position, and got an interview. 

    I didn’t even have in-depth cybersecurity knowledge. I worked in information technology, and while both fields have similarities, they’re also very different. Cybersecurity involves protecting information technology assets, while IT is more like the general application of technologies. 

    While I knew a bit about it, I wouldn’t have called myself a cybersecurity person until I got this job. It was pure luck. 

    You’ve gone from ₦80k at your first job to ₦1m at just your third job. That must have caused a few lifestyle changes

    I haven’t earned the ₦1m for a long time, but I definitely find it easier to make expensive purchases and decisions these days. For instance, I spent ₦120k on a dog last year, and I’m finally taking savings seriously. 

    Before, I couldn’t manage to build my savings to ₦500k because I’d always spend it. But since this year, I’ve saved ₦350k religiously every month. To be fair, I have a savings goal I’m planning towards, and that’s a huge source of motivation.

    What’s the savings goal?

    I plan to save ₦4m – ₦5m by December, which will be equity for car financing. Here’s how it works: The current market price for the car I want to buy is ₦15m. Before anyone reads this and asks why I’m not going for something cheaper, I want a foreign-used car that won’t give me any issues. 

    That said, when I have the ₦5m, my workplace will finance the remaining ₦10m, and I’ll pay them back over a stretch of four years. The interest rate is below 10% per annum, so I’ll be paying around ₦200k – ₦250k monthly for four years. 

    Interesting. What happens after you get the car?

    I’d need to reduce my savings as I’ll be paying for the car. I’ll probably cut it down to ₦150k/month and put it in my mutual funds account. I opened the account in January and just put ₦200k there. After the car is sorted, I can start investing regularly.

    I’m curious. Why mutual funds?

    I restrict my savings to safe investments. Mutual funds are quite safe, even though the interest rates might not be mind-blowing. It works for someone like me who’s just beginning to explore savings and investments. Plus, I have access to my money anytime.

    Let’s break down your typical monthly expenses

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    I’ve already collected my share of the ajo contribution to pay my rent. I left that ₦300k apartment years ago, around 2020, and my current rent is ₦1.3m/year. Typical Lagos rent hike.

    How would you describe your relationship with money?

    I’m still a learner in savings and investments and want to improve at them. I used to struggle with keeping money away for more than a month, but saving for my car has been a learning curve for me. It’s teaching me how to curb my expenses and enforce self-discipline so as not to touch my savings. It’s not like I’m a big spender, though. I mostly live within my means, but sometimes, I go overboard. 

    That usually happens when any of my friends are getting married and I spend far more than planned on their wedding. Other times, it’s just the cost of food. Prices are insane these days. The economy is just all-round terrible, and it makes keeping to budgets much more difficult. 

    Would you say your income gives you a comfortable life?

    It doesn’t. A comfortable life means I can eat well, have a well-furnished apartment, and a car I can conveniently fuel. Besides that, my income should also allow me to easily save and invest. 

    I don’t have all that yet, so I can’t say I’m comfortable. As a single man, I need to earn around ₦2m – ₦2.5m monthly to feel comfortable. However, the good thing about my current income is that I haven’t had to turn to a friend for a loan in five months. That’s something. 

    Is there anything you want right now but can’t afford?

    It’s still my car. I really wish I could just go to a car shop and pay the ₦15m outright without worrying about financing, but unfortunately, I can’t. 

    What about the last thing you bought that made you happy?

    I bought a refrigerator in November. You might wonder, “Why’s a fridge making you happy?”

    Haha. I’m an adult, so I can understand your excitement

    Thank you o. I’ve realised that, as I get older, buying electronics and household stuff makes me happier than even buying clothes. The fridge cost me ₦310k, including delivery, and I was so happy because it has a big freezer space. I can now buy meat in bulk and just throw it in the freezer.

    What do you imagine the next few years should look like?

    I should earn between ₦2.5m – ₦3m within the next five years. I’d also like to get married soon. I don’t want a big ceremony, so I expect a ₦4m – ₦5m budget should be enough. I keep seeing people on Instagram and TikTok say you can’t plan a wedding with less than ₦10m, and I’ve just chosen to believe they’re jokers. 

    Screaming. How would you rate your financial happiness on a scale of 1-10?

    5. I still can’t get the things I need easily, and I still get broke before the next salary cycle. I also don’t like how I’m dependent on just one source of income. I’m not sure what side hustle I can do right now, but I hope to get answers within the next five years. I just want something to augment my income so I don’t feel limited. 


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