9 Of The Most-Read Sex Life Compilations Of 2020

December 23, 2020

Every Wednesday, as part of the Sex Life category, we ask Nigerians of different ages, gender identities and sexual orientations to anonymously share stories about a specific sex-related topic.

It’s been one of our most popular segments, and now, we’ve compiled nine of the most-read articles. From stories about eating ass to opinions on wearing condoms, these were your favourite compilations.

1. 7 Nigerians Get Brutally Honest About Condoms

We’ve seen enough PSAs to know just how important condoms are, but humans rarely do what’s best for them. So, we asked seven Nigerians to share how often they really use condoms.

Read their stories here.

2. 7 Nigerians Talk About The Worst Sex They’ve Ever Had

Sex doesn’t always work out the way we hope it will. So, we asked seven Nigerians about the worst sex they’ve ever had, and the stories ranged from a smelly vagina to an avalanche of vomit.

Read their stories here.

3. 7 Nigerians Talk About The Best Sex They’ve Ever Had

Great sex is not the norm for a lot of people, but sometimes, everything just comes together perfectly. So, we asked seven Nigerians to talk about the best sex they’ve ever had.

Read their stories here.

4. 7 Nigerians Reveal Why ‘Friends With Benefits’ Works For Them

As the name implies, a ‘friends with benefits (FWB)’ relationship is a sexual relationship between friends. So, we asked seven Nigerians why this kind of relationship works for them.

Read their stories here.

5. 9 Nigerians Get Brutally Honest About Eating Ass

While the conversation around eating ass has become less judgemental, there are still a ton of people who think it’s completely disgusting. So, we asked nine Nigerians to share their thoughts about it.

Read their stories here.

6. 7 Nigerians Discuss Choking During Sex

Choking is a relatively risky form of sexual activity which is done with the intention of heightening sexual arousal. So, we asked seven Nigerians how they feel about choking and getting choked during sex.

Read their stories here.

7. 7 Nigerians Get Very Honest About Sexting

As the name implies, sexting involves the exchange of sexually explicit messages, photographs and/or videos. So, we asked seven Nigerians how they really feel about sexting.

Read their stories here.

8. 9 Nigerians Share The Pettiest Reasons They’ve Ended Sex

From sudden discomfort to general fatigue, there are many reasons people stop sex halfway through. So, we asked nine Nigerians to share some of their pettiest excuses.

Read their stories here.

9. 7 Nigerians Share Their Most Memorable Threesome Stories

Threesomes rank very high on the list of many people’s biggest sexual fantasies. So, we asked seven Nigerians to share their most memorable threesome stories.

Read their stories here.

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