1. When he uses style to abuse you while you are disagreeing about something.

2. When you are trying not to cry but it’s really peppering you.

3. When he tries to joke like everything is okay.

4. When you get home and he sends texts really expecting you to reply.

5. When you wake up in the morning and he hasn’t called to apologise again.

6. When you bump into your friend and they ask you how he is, you’re like:

7. When you hear any song about heartbreak and betrayal.

8. When you tell your friend what happened and she comes to the conclusion that you are in the wrong.

9. When you guys finally make up and all is well in the world again.

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