4 Advantages And Disadvantages Of Keeping Your Relationship Off Social Media

August 28, 2020

When you have a following on social media, your life somehow becomes content for your followers. Some people like to keep some parts of their lives private, especially their relationships. Here are 4 prime advantages and disadvantages of keeping your relationship off social media;

1. Nobody knows your boo so nobody can drag you or your boo but on the other hand, your boo could have another boo on the same timeline.

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And you will both be gbamming and retweeting each other’s posts.

2. People can’t make your relationship their business but at the same time, people will think your boo is a hallucination that only exists in your head.

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The can’t stay in your business if they don’t know the address fam.

3. The mystery might be sexy but the mystery is also fishy.

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People like to know what/who exactly they are chanting “awwwww’ and “God when” for.

4. You can see your boo flirting but you will have to waka pass.

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But on the flip side, you can also stay busy flirting and collecting gifts from anon.

You should read this too; 5 Most Ridiculous Relationship Tests Nigerian Women Have To Pass

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